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BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Can a leopard change his spots? Posted: 7/11/2009 4:50:03 PM
We all evolve as we travel through various life experiences. Some evolved to become better people. Some become beaten down and stagnate. No one remains the same. Isn't that maturity?

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Can a leopard change his spots? Posted: 7/11/2009 3:30:03 PM
All people change as we grow and what life throws at us...it's called evolution. Evolution? I think maturity.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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How do u know when your a couple Posted: 7/11/2009 2:45:12 PM
This anwer has my vote! The only way to know for sure is if you can pass gas in each others presence and you think its cute your a couple

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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The Shack by William P. Young Posted: 7/9/2009 6:28:01 PM
I hope the two of you enjoy the book, in the mean time I wonder if anyone has read it and has some input for me. Otherwise I'll have to wait for you

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Strong and Logical Argument FOR The existence of Divine Beings Posted: 7/9/2009 8:32:21 AM
Um, which "laws" are you talking about specifically The second law of thermal dynamics

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Strong and Logical Argument FOR The existence of Divine Beings Posted: 7/9/2009 8:21:29 AM
then theres the theory of evolution.........might work on paper...but in real life......just the opposite happens.....science has proven that it cant possibly work......... The second law of thermal dynamics

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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The Shack by William P. Young Posted: 7/9/2009 8:17:54 AM
I just got finished reading The Shack, it was my book club selection. Although not a great literary work, it was theologically interesting. I have heard a lot of the controversy surrounding this book but cannot find any evidence to support the claim that the book is not biblical. I am looking to hear from you about this subject. Most particularly I would like evidence that some "piece of text" is in opposition to some bible passage. What do you all think?

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Please read and review my Profile Posted: 7/7/2009 3:27:15 PM
Hi country gal, I noticed that your profile says you have black hair and all of your photos are blonde. do you have black hair pictures or are you currently blond (if so change the profile)?

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Many views but hardly any replies. Posted: 7/4/2009 7:38:53 AM
OP, By Jove I think you've got it!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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I can't be that Ugly Posted: 7/4/2009 7:31:15 AM
BTW, My son and daughter-in-law are both THE Ohoi State University grads. Go Buckeyes!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Brutal and unrestricted honesty required Posted: 7/3/2009 9:53:15 AM
MisterTee, How did you get so angry? I noticed your profile says LATEST: Not getting much action here. Oh well, I'll just say I'm ONLY HERE FOR THE FORUMS! rotflmao!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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I can't be that Ugly Posted: 7/2/2009 8:58:33 AM
jmcnengnr, You are not ugly at all! So stop that mess, you know it isn't true! Here is what I noticed while looking over your profile: Nice main photo but one with a smile may work out better for you. By looking at all the rest of your pics I'd figure you were a bar fly, then I read in you profile that God is important to you. What kind of girl are you trying to attract? A bar fly or a spiritual soul? Speaking of the girl you are looking for, you don't let me know anything about her, how will she know she is the right girl for you. My suggestion is to really think about these questions and then focus your profile accordingly.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Im just looking for some tips, constructive criticism welcome! Posted: 7/2/2009 8:49:53 AM
MSUdawgfan79, One of things that I have learned here on POF, is that a clear smiling portrait type photo makes the best impression. The photo of you in the green shirt matches your write up (like to make people laugh) where the current photo makes you look pensive. If you are not fond that photo, find one that you do like that shows the personality you want to portray.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Is this stink bait??? Posted: 7/2/2009 8:35:00 AM
Bill, My impression was that you tend to be negative. That could be a result of what you are going through with your divorce and all, you may be trying to remain friendly but the stress shows in your viewpoint. Positive, upbeat, active profiles appeal to me. Wait until you are having a great day and then try to rewrite your profile according to your mood. Most of use have baggage of our own that we try to suppress, in my case I don't want to take on someone else's.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Im new to this.....So what do you think do i need to change something? Posted: 7/1/2009 6:36:47 PM
Sean, Use your second pic until you find one you are happy with. It is much clearer and has personality.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Getting all the wrong attention is it something I said? Posted: 7/1/2009 6:32:05 PM
First off, to Damon0068: Thank you for your intelligent contribution to the string. I do however have to agree with the statement about the second picture. There is nothing wrong with it (I'm BBW) but try to be as truthful as you can with yourself and the right guy will see your beauty. Please take the advice offered to make your profile more pleasing to the eye by breaking it up into paragraphs and lower case i when you mean I makes you appear to be careless and uneducated. Now that isn't true so don't give your fisherman that impression. Good luck

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Asking for your honesty...... Posted: 7/1/2009 6:18:48 PM
I like the picture with you wearing a white sweater best...that is the one I'd use for main. Totally a preference thing. I thought you might get blasted for being so exclusive, it is clear what is important to you and you state your case well. Patience, in His time.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Brutal and unrestricted honesty required Posted: 7/1/2009 6:02:04 PM
I agree...I adore your profile...intelligent and witty. It sounds like you know yourself and some fish is going to very happy to get to know you!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Dog Learns To Moonwalk Posted: 7/1/2009 2:28:17 PM
jon moro, Cute at best. But no LOL!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Need some Advise Posted: 7/1/2009 2:23:50 PM
I have to agree with baldy. He's giving you a man's point of view, don't bash him because we (women) don't like the truth.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Need some Advise Posted: 7/1/2009 12:41:56 PM
Ndn Angle, I really think you are in the best position to figure that out. You know what you are looking for and hopefully you and he have talked about what he wants. You cannot, and should not interfer with his relationship with his ex, It his his business not yours (unless of course the two of you have some kind of a commitment). If you enjoy his company, go with the flow. If you know in your heart you could be happier somewhere else, move on. Good Luck

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Feedback please Posted: 7/1/2009 8:47:30 AM
someones heaven, I like it! I'd like to reiterate what was already said...Patience, he will show up! good luck!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Is it me, my profile or this site? Posted: 7/1/2009 8:41:00 AM
Enigmatically, Perhaps you could add a little bit of information about the type of woman you are looking for. What types of things do you picture you two will do together? You are a writer...write!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Please tell me what's wrong Posted: 7/1/2009 8:35:55 AM
Hi truedenise, I love the picture by the window! My suggestion to you is to tell more about yourself, you need to give an insight into who you are. If you only state that you know how to treat a man, all you will get are men who want to be "treated" if you get my drift. If you want a man to share your life, what things do you see the two of you doing? Personally, I think you should get rid of the negative stuff. You know what you don't want, and that is OK, but your profile should attract, not repel. I posted yesterday and received comments that I took on board and met a gentleman last night for a Jumba Juice. Good luck!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Please critique my profile Posted: 6/30/2009 2:03:13 PM
OK main photo changed. Spoke more about who I am. Left my dream date 'cause unfrozen caveman approved! Am I good yet?

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Please critique my profile Posted: 6/30/2009 1:23:20 PM
You are my kinda caveman!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Please critique my profile Posted: 6/30/2009 12:02:19 PM
Thanks ronssister! I'll look for another main profile picture...I might have to take one since I hardly ever take photos alone. I appreciate your comment.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Please critique my profile Posted: 6/30/2009 11:49:31 AM
opticalnoise, Thank you for reading and commenting on my profile. I am not taking action on your suggestions yet, I am still mulling them over. Your comment "Lastly, for your ideal date section, you wrote "Surprise me with something exciting, fun, or unique." All this does is tell the man, "I'm finicky, jaded, and hard to please. Take me sky diving or buzz off." blew me away! I can't believe that is the impression I give, wow! How do I say that I have no "Ideal" date, that I am game for whatever is suggested?

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Please critique my profile Posted: 6/30/2009 11:10:47 AM
Thank you Lala Girl, I made the changes that you suggested, if you check on me again let me know what you think. I appreciate your kind words as well and will try not to get discouraged. I wish you the biggest and best fish of them all!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Effectiveness of my profile? Posted: 6/30/2009 10:04:25 AM
Hi Bry, I know you said you wanted everything in your profile to remain, but seriously, I don't want to wade through all the words to get to to the meat. So I guess you are on your own!

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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could someone please review my profile? Posted: 6/30/2009 9:44:36 AM
Bluenoser70, In your post you state "I tend to get women that are a little older than I am and they tend not to want a family." I noticed that your profile does not state that you are looking for a family. Are you? Then I suggest you state it.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Please critique my profile Posted: 6/30/2009 9:31:33 AM
Hi there, I have been getting discouraged. I send many introduction letters but received very few response. I've tried to be as honest as possible about both my physical and emotional attributes. Please help.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Many views but hardly any replies. Posted: 6/29/2009 7:55:26 PM
I think you could leave all that stuff out (The quote I stated earlier). You may feel that way and that is your right, but keep it to yourself. Just keep it focused on who you are, what you like and what you are looking for. Leave the preaching to the preachers:-)

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Is this the one... Please help Posted: 6/29/2009 7:43:02 PM
I like it, it is sincere and to the point

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Many views but hardly any replies. Posted: 6/29/2009 7:34:12 PM
This quote gives off the wrong impression " I will give it until I start recieving disrespect. After that, all bets are off. Many people will read this and immediatly click off my profile but I don't really care. Those are the ones I can do without to begin with. Some will read it and say to themselves, "The nerve of this guy." or something to that effect. Again, I don't care. You want the truth and here it is. If you do manage to stick around and wonder if what I say is true then shoot me a email. I will answer any questions you have. Just make damn sure you really want to know the answer because I will tell you. I have no reason to hide anything and have no intentions to. If you are looking for that perfect gentleman then you can keep looking past me. I can be a gentleman but just like any other man, I can be a prick. Women are the same. They can either be a lady or they can be a b*tch." I interpret it to mean you are an angry man.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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my profile what do you think of it ladys guys Posted: 6/29/2009 7:22:05 PM
My comment is also about your grammer, punctuation and capitalization. Remember that your profile is a first impression, let us (women) know you are an intelligent guy.

BostongirlinCA

Joined: 6/17/2009

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Review my profile Posted: 6/29/2009 7:11:13 PM
I'm not sure why I first posted a profile on this web site, but now that I have I'm hurt because very few men seem to be interested. Is it my profile? Or is everyone looking for a younger, model type woman?

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