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Divorce: I Need Help!!!
Posted: 5/15/2006 8:35:23 PM | | Than God you don't have kids in the middle of this, However if you would like good advive, I think I have it as I have been thru hell. Since your a deputy sheriff then I'm sure you've seen how the holidays are during a divorce with children. After all that you have invested I would seek couseling. But, I would make sure they have the best credentils. This is a marriage, Don't use a shade tree mechanic to work on a farrari. I would suggest that before you go to counceling you white down a checklist of what you want to address. I wouldn' go in with the expectation that things will be majicaly fixed. It took time for things to get screwed up, I't takes time to fix them. Negotiation and comprimise is the key. Take baby steps, Small agreements first. This will give both of you an oportunity to show that your serios about trying to fix things and not just blowing smoke. If your like me you want to "GET UR DONE" take your time. If you go to fast it'll seem like your putting on pressure or being controling. It's like holding sand in your hands If you squeeze to tight, the sand runs out. Oh by the way If you go to counceling and nothing makes sense then your in the right place cause if It makes sense then your not learning.Best of wishes to the both of you. | | | |
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