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svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

Msg: 16 (view)

Is looks that important to woman, or am i imagining things. Posted: 11/18/2009 1:49:38 PM
I do not lower my standards. I know what I am attracted to and what I am not. Like I have said many times before, if I cannot imagine my ankles wrapped around a mans neck, it goes no where. Making fake profiles is so fkn stupid. Like we do not have enough fake ass people on here as it is (I think I have met most of them..old photos, MUCH heavier than the posted pictures they have posted, and more). I will admit it; I am a visual person. I think like a man, act like a woman. Sue me. LOOKS MATTER. No need to settle, ever. But I know people do it.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Drama King. Posted: 11/18/2009 10:00:47 AM
One who has no control over his life; moves around a lot. Blames things on others when in fact the shit he landed in is his own doing. Always whining about people telling him the truth. One who cannot keep a damn job and blames it on everything else around him. Stalking. Calling the gym to ask for private information on a person as he decides to drive out of state like a &^%%Y. yeah, I know one. Or two. lmfao.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Where is your personality from? tv land? Posted: 11/18/2009 3:17:06 AM
"Karen Walker" from Will & Grace; smart ass, say it how it is, all the attitude, loves short skirts, getting my nails done and my best friend is a Gay man. That is who I have been compared to by people I know. As far as where do I get my personality from? Been this way my whole life; like Wine it just gets better with time. I may come off as a handful sometimes; however I will say I am consistant, I do not lie, and I will do anything for anyone I love.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Mooching off Posted: 11/18/2009 3:07:01 AM
I have met a couple of those. Never seem to have their own shit together; meet me and all of a sudden they think they hit the local ATM. However, I am not dating them and BOTH of these men were pretty much told to leave my life. I do not do well when people try to use me. Just because I support myself does NOT mean I am able to support anyone else. And it did not take a few times. Just be firm and say "get The Eff Out". Life is much easier when you just terminate the bullshit. I had the same thing happen to a degre that GQ had happen; these MoFo's all of a sudden come back into your life; they NEED something. Had to kick one to the curb last night. It is very easy now to see when people think they are going to try and take from ya!! Gawd. Idiots I tell ya!

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Keeping the profile open after you've become serious Posted: 11/18/2009 3:03:50 AM
Ask him. It does not mean he is on here really doing anything wrong. If I start seeing someone, I will be "not single/not looking" but still come here for the forums and the friends I have made here. And let me tell you, I have made some really neat connections off here. From all over the place!!! I am not here flirting, meeting, screwing or any of that crap. People are making comments because you are here doing the same thing. Some form of "communication" is missing from you two. Ask HIM.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Body for Life Posted: 11/17/2009 7:41:03 PM
I agree on this. Hell, I pre cook and take food with me all the time or for holiday parties if I know there is not going to be anything for me to eat on my diet. I simply has to become a lifestyle. A lot of people start things, lose a few then they are right back to the weight they were before or more. So many excuses out there. I do not get it; but it also boils down to dicipline.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Body for Life Posted: 11/17/2009 7:20:08 PM
Carbs do make some of us fat. I simply, no matter what people believe, have a system that does not like them. I live on very few, 20 to 30 grams per day from green veggies and I do just fine. I know people who can have them and function. I have ten times more energy without them and am leaning out more and more. So...yes, for some people they suck. lol I still am healty and have a 4.0 in college. Proof right there, you do not "need" them. (however some people do).

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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What do you make of this? Posted: 11/17/2009 7:14:09 PM
Who knows. I have been single 7. By choice. I am more concerned with other issues than this in conversation.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Would you ever juice? Posted: 11/17/2009 6:53:39 PM
I agree. People **** about steroids, yet they go out and drink alocohol or use nasty street drugs. Gotta love it. I do not see anything wrong with it as long as people educate themselves and perhaps get some help, and not just do things without research.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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what am i doing wrong? Posted: 11/17/2009 12:59:43 PM
For a guy who makes so much money (laffin) ....define a lot. Maybe it is the spelling and the attitiude? When I meet men who claim to make "a lot of money" and I hear what they consider "a lot" I laugh. And it is not about what you make; it is how you present yourself. Take all that money you have and invest in an education. Re write this whole thing in a couple years and we can talk. I do not care how much money a man makes; if he comes off as : thinking he is hot shit, thinking he is better than anyone and not so intelligent, he will not win my attention. Well, not "nice" attention.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Are the cards stacked against me? Posted: 11/17/2009 5:35:23 AM
KJACKS you are wrong again. And you should eat a few burgers; hint hint. You have no idea what I ahve been through on here, so before you start flapping your lame font; ask. People need to be careful on here, BOTTOM LINE. And I am all that. I take pride in how I live, eat and play. Can you say the same? Doubt it. I love how it is such a crime to be happy with myself. Must suck to be miserable. A troll; a skinny, hungry, angry person who lives under a bridge. Go look in the mirror before you shout "troll". As far as the OP goes? I do hope she finds happiness. I hope most people do. But people need to be careful on here more than ever.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Well you chose them Posted: 11/17/2009 5:31:18 AM
Some people may change; my experience is MOST do not. All we do is get older and maybe our actions or opinions fluxuate. I do not have children (by choice) and have met a lot of men who do. And let me tell you, when they sit and tell me all the BS with the mother/mothers of their children, it makes me wonder. I simply think people need to get to know people better, stop having UNPROTECTED sex all the time. It is very easy to prevent pregnancy but most people are too fkn lazy to use birth control. I have had very few relations with men; however, what few I ahve had, I ahve always been on BIRTH CONTROL and WAY BEFORE we decided to have sex. It is a pain in the ass meeting people with a bunch of kids because it means a lot of crap for the ones who do not have their lives in control. I can handle some situations, but the majority are just bullshit excuses as to why they did not use protection; and did not leanr their lesson a few times. I will not date a man with this kind of life. Chances are, he is not a very responisble person in many areas. And I do not want to take on anyone and all their "babies".

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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A friend sugested I ask out her friend Posted: 11/17/2009 5:19:39 AM
Bypass all the bullshit and either ask her out or do not. Never assume, stop relying on what people tell you and just ask her out. You may not even like one another. Why is this so difficult? All the energy spent worrying about what your man friends said, or on a public site....boils down to attraction and your ability to just do it. Me personally; I need a man who does not need a three ring fkn circus to ask me out. And be careful with all these so called "freindships"; you may end up with none of them as a friend in the end. Sounds like too much drama to me already; and that is one main reasons I do not do the "friend of a friend" thing. A million people in the world and all this freind of a friend bullshit. Unreal. Good way to screw things up, and it sounds like they sorta already are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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cooking meal at home on a first date. Posted: 11/17/2009 5:13:26 AM
I am a great cook too. It does not mean I need to ask people I do not know into my home to show off my cooking skills. That can be done later, when I know I want that person in my home. It is weird, period. No, I would not do it. Few conversations or not, you still do not really KNOW the person. To me it is asking for trouble. Big time.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Emails with EX Posted: 11/17/2009 4:28:16 AM
Tough call; however I will say for myself; when I DO start seeing someone again on a relationship level this would come to a stop. For me personally, it is weird. And we all know they are never just "hey how ya durin" kind of things. I have recently heard from someone I dated and trust me; as much as the e mails consist of how have you been and filling me in on his life; they also consist of what we HAD. And to me, a new lover should not have to be exposed to that. And when I am in a relationship, I do not want to be hearing those kinds of things from a past person. Just how I roll. Some people are fine with it. To me, X's are X's for a reason. How do you deal with it? Talk to her before it gets out of control.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Any girls here that don't kiss on the first date? Posted: 11/17/2009 4:20:23 AM
If I am not totally into someone, I cannot go there. I am funny about ANY type of intimacy. Best advice is maybe to ask her IN PERSON. Maybe she does not ko what you really want either. People need to communicate more then we won't have so many messed up relationships down the line.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Question about women and alpha-males Posted: 11/17/2009 3:57:47 AM
Define alpha males. Ask these girls, who cares really? Gawd.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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anyone tried turbo jam Posted: 11/16/2009 5:03:11 PM
Even better with Testosterone. :)

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Is dating a 22 year old virgin male OK? Posted: 11/16/2009 4:40:56 PM
I think you are trolling and full of crap. Yeah, you are sooooooooo hawt and they all want you (laffin). Sheesh. Virgin to what; sex with women maybe. NEXT.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Tell me if I'm correct... Posted: 11/16/2009 4:38:50 PM
Here we go. Another "woman" thinking lame ass thoughts for "other women". Men are not just after sex. (eyeroll). About players; men are for hunting huh? Wow, so am I. Show me a field full of Buck or Pheasant and I am on it like a whore in a Catholic Church. Weakest prey is not always female; last Buck I nailed was pretty slow and weak. A damn, it was good going down the hatch. If you thinl women get too involved too deeply or too fast; I suggest you slow it down sister. This is lame. Why did this not get deleted??? Drama. party of 1, dinner is served. And men/women can post in any section. So lets not go there cupcake.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Are the cards stacked against me? Posted: 11/16/2009 3:33:40 PM
LMFAO Central....she got that from me (my profile). She is the one with the kids...NOT ME...lmao Love ya. Mean it. She had a meltdown over my profile. Laffin.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean? Posted: 11/16/2009 2:34:03 PM
JKS, it is not to much to ask. However, it is sad what has happend to some of on here. I used to have a cool, neat , friendly profile; and guess what? I met nothing but men with poor, bad intentions. And I put a lot of time into getting to know these people before even meeting them; or so I thought. One I even dated long distance and moved for; that is a whole new thread. So...just send a few e mails. See how it goes. Meet ASAP and never be shocked when people are not who they are in photos or what they have told you. Good luck. And that is for everyone. I know there are still a lot of good people on here. I am just done with the whole on line approach. It wears people out who are busy and have their lives together.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Are the cards stacked against me? Posted: 11/16/2009 2:28:36 PM
My profile (that she posted PART of)simply says it how it is. And I am sure, once you meet a crap load of people who lied to you, you will reach a point where you make it clear and avoid all the bullshit. By putting what I have, it has eliminated people of no interest to me. And still attracts people who MAY be of interest. She left off part of my profile. Quotes or not, she left a few things out. I am NOT on here to meet ANYONE. NONE. Here for the Forums. So what if I have a Bikini on? Does it really, make me less of a person? I am not here to meet, have sex with, fondle, rape or feed the animals. I can count on ONE HAND how many partners I have had, and I do not have a litter of kids that I am looking for support for. I am simply, me. Athletic, single, full time college student, employed and was at one point, seeking the same. Do I come off aggressive? yep. Because I say how I feel So what. Good luck people. And those of you with children, be careful.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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What exactly does no Games and no Drama mean? Posted: 11/16/2009 1:16:09 PM
Ask them. It could mean a number of things. I do not have it on mine; I have what I do not want on here but people have still lied. So, I got really blunt about it. It works too. Finally, people who lie stopped e mailing me. Ask them what it means. Not that difficult. To me games and drama means people who tell stories and lies to try to make you want to meet them. Drama means tons of issues with the X, tragic behaved kids, etc. It is an issue that is WIDE open. All you can do is ask.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Are the cards stacked against me? Posted: 11/16/2009 8:12:45 AM
BROWN... a lot have I am sure. I have heard some stories about men meeting the same types. I cannot imagine living off of anyone period. It is why I work hard, pay my own bills and am back in College. I am not collecting Alimony; believe me. for what? My dogs??? lol I wish. And CARMIA next time you post a profile post the whole thing Cupcake. You left off the intro...where I clearly state I am here for the forums only. Holding a grudge? Next day "being over things" line in your profile is not working. Back from the gym. Time to make some Chicken. Care for a bite? It is skinless. Toodles.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Are the cards stacked against me? Posted: 11/16/2009 3:43:24 AM
SWEETNESS...they (men I have met)were men on here with OLDER photos, 4 of the men used photos of their friends (they admitted it). I am/was not attracted to them at all....met my share, now I am done with it. Hence, the reason; I am not here looking for a man. On line dating and meeting is tricky. A lot of fakes/ liars on here. And yes, I wear a skinpy bikini. When people do what I do 6 days a week, they can. I am proud to say at age 39, I can do the things I do. People can say what they want. I think some of the women (Marticka or whatever the name is...are just irritated about it). Yeah...that girl with the Bikini. Okay...lol Rather be sitting here in my bikini holding a protein shake then on a dating site holding an infant. So who is more tragic? The girl in the bikini going to the gym? Or the one holding an infant looking for a new baby daddy? I rest my case. I only pick apart when there is a request as to why things are going wrong. If the OP is happy with herself? More power to her. She simply needs to be careful; especially with YOUNG children involved. And when she posted my profile on here, she "conviently" left off the first paragraph where I state I am not here for meeting. I am here for the forums only.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Are the cards stacked against me? Posted: 11/16/2009 3:36:41 AM
I am not here to meet men. I am here for simply on line and the forums.And I show skin because I CAN. Why not? If you did what I did 6 days a week, you would too. Yes I did give you advice. Clean up a little. Your hair. Your body. So what??? You asked for it; by even asking what you did. I love how women especially get mad (not all but a lot), when another women show skin. Say what you want. I know when I leave to the gym right now at 7 am, you are probably home eating creme puffs with your kids. Yeah, lets trade positions. No thanks. My profile speaks the truth. I have met over 30 men here in TWO years; simple coffee meetings, nothing major. And they have all lied. Something you need to watch out for as well; especially having children. So what if I say it how it is. More people should; including yourself. Call me a blow up doll. I would rather be called that, that the fat girl with bad hair. I work hard on myself. Just because I do not have tons of body fat and show some skin is not a crime. ESPECIALLY sine I am here for forums only, and e mail. Do not hate; just fix the problem. Well...off to do some back and shoulders at the gym. I will think of you. Laffin.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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How much doees it take. Posted: 11/15/2009 5:56:21 PM
Hell, at this rate I would be happy to meet a man who just has a damn job. LMFAO No there is no minimum salary however he better be able to minimally support himself. I am not looking to babysit ANY man.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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What should you say when a girl tells you she's fat? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:54:33 PM
Tell her to STFU and do something about it. And that you do not buy into the attention seeking whining crap.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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'Make me laugh' seems to be a pretty big deal... Posted: 11/15/2009 3:59:43 PM
I have been made to laugh on this site and I never had to put it on my profile ever. All I had to do was think people were being honest, met them and felt like I was at a damn Manatee rescue half the time. No, it is not on my profile. There are no comedians on here. Trust me.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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are having kids a must Posted: 11/15/2009 3:56:48 PM
3 kids is already a lot ....like a small litter. So...I do not blame her. Why not meet women who do not have any or as many if it is that important to you??? For me, I do not want ANY children, so I sure as hell am not hunting down men who have them. Simple solution. And she sounds like maybe she was finally getting smart. All these kids with a different baby daddy. How tragic.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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What does it mean when............... Posted: 11/15/2009 3:53:49 PM
Um....if someone does not say it back...what do you think it means????? lmao Gawd.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Do you consider your equal? Posted: 11/15/2009 12:48:50 PM
In person, yes. On this site? No. I have yet to really meet anyone honest that I would dare compare myself too. Laffin. It should be 50/50 however, it will probably not happen here. Just meet ASAP is all I can say.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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? for the ladies, when should I call Posted: 11/15/2009 12:30:17 PM
Why not this evening? Do not let too much time go by, or she will think you are not interested. If you think you want to pursue something with her. If not then do not call. I am all about laying it down right away. When time passes, so do feelings and thoughts. Good luck. At least you saw here in person and not on a dating site. So you know who she is.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Want To Meet Him Posted: 11/15/2009 12:20:07 PM
Gotta love people who flirt, text and discuss sexual shit and talk for months ask how to meet and see if their is chemistry. Gawd. Yeah hi, I wanna dew you but I have never seen you. Unreal.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Are the cards stacked against me? Posted: 11/15/2009 11:52:28 AM
Your profile screams "Needy party of 1, dinner is ready". End of discussion. And Gawd, fix that hair.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Some Diet Tips For You People Posted: 11/15/2009 7:51:56 AM
It is how people should think Mystie however people do not cut out the right foods. They think "alittle here a little there" is okay; when in fact it is not okay WHEN trying to lose fat. People give me shit about how I eat; especially on here; however it is pretty amazing when I am doing nothing BUT losing fat and not muscle. My weight stays roughly the same give or take but the inches that go down are amazing. Everyone functions differently; however it is also appearent to tell when people are in fact "losing" and it should not take YEARS. It is time consuming however it is also about lifestyle and dicipline. Yeah, for the ones who give me hell or make fun of me for eating 20 to 30 carbs a day, at least I am CLOSE to where I need to be and have now done it within about 4 months (Damn horse accidents..lol). I simply just do not cheat and I know what to eat and buy each week. Meat, green veggies and cheese. I do not even count calories, but my meals are small over 6 throughout the day. The best part about how I live is it really is non complicated. Healthy. And works. I feel good on it too. So...do what works people and stick to it. Yanno?

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Cantrell mushrooms Posted: 11/15/2009 6:14:45 AM
Lucky you Ocean...I LOVE those things!! Nice pic of you and your dog too. I eat them a lot...saute in white wine, tiny bit of heavy cream and the list is endless. I wish they were easier to find here in Florida without getting raped in the store...about 12.99 a pound...so.....wanna mail me some???? :)

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Some Diet Tips For You People Posted: 11/15/2009 6:01:36 AM
We won't Buns. Nothing like a good Pharmacist. Laffin :) Not everyone "big" uses steroids however I will comment' with supervision and working hard in the gym, they are not as "unhealthy" as one may think. However, diet is still the MAIN key here.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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opinions, honesty is best? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:51:10 AM
First off..nice deer/buck. I want some of that to eat. And cool German Shorthair Pointer. Too bad you do not live in Florida. :) However, hunting sucks here' for Venison AND men. Second...men do this shit too. However, I look at it this way; if it happens EARLY into the meeting, good. Saves me the drama and nonsense of trying to really figure someone out. And I am learning as I get into my older age; A LOT of people have issues communicating period. 1 out of every 20 if I had to "guess" are able to say it how it is, and be real about thoughts and feelings. You probably did not do anything wrong. From this scenario; I am guessing maybe SHE did something wrong.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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traveling through town Posted: 11/14/2009 6:48:29 PM
Most people, I cannot speak for all; but I will for me; I am not looking to entertain total strangers who visit Florida. They have hotels and tour guides for that stuff ....like I tell men "This is not Fantasy Island, Mr. Rork does NOT work here". It is weird; who wants to hang out with some random person they may never see again and do not even know?? I do not. To me personally it is creepy; not saying it as a put down, I just do not want anything to do with that. I have friends; not here for people visiting my home state for a few days. lmfao

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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is it time to walk away Posted: 11/14/2009 2:12:16 PM
I thought you were going to be like 18 years old. Gawd. WTF? It takes two. Say no. It is not all "her" fault. I am think you both have issues. Walk away. Get help. Move on.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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IS IT OVER! Posted: 11/14/2009 2:09:14 PM
I detect more issues here than Reader's Digest. Get help. Gawd.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Want to ask her but can't Posted: 11/14/2009 10:31:45 AM
Gawd. Why risk a career over someone? What part of "have a job lined up" so you not get? I have known people who did what you are considering and let me tell you; not only did they LOSE their jobs; they are miserable now.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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When to tell a new prospect about the female best friend? Posted: 11/14/2009 9:55:41 AM
My 3 best friends are all men. And guess what? They were here before any lover, and will probably be here after any lover. I tell people right away. If they cannot handle it, they can keep going. And no, I have not had sex with my friends either. If someone is NOT going to accept you and your best friend being female, then you probably do not want to entertain a relationship with them. Period.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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MATCH.com V p.o.f Posted: 11/14/2009 5:54:21 AM
Match. com = You pay to meet *holes POF= You don't pay to meet *holes. That is my insight.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Female Tool of the Trade Posted: 11/14/2009 5:53:11 AM
I do not have any of this stuff. Do not need it. I am already a super sensitve person, and prefer the real deal. I laugh when men are shocked I do not have toys. But I don't.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Guys in their 40s, never married and no kids Posted: 11/14/2009 5:50:07 AM
I have no problem with it at all. I have no kids; however I was married a long time. it does not mean there is anything wrong with you; hell if anything it is a plus. It means there are a lot of things I do NOT need to worry about. I am not a fan of children myself. I also know MOST people my age may have them and as long as they have their lives in control including the children I will CONSIDER it; but in most cases the people I know who have kids they just do not seem to know the difference between who is the child and who is the adult. Meaning; the kids run daddy's decision making and well...personally I am not looking for that. Or they fight with their X or X In~laws all the time. Marriage is important to me though and I would re marry. I just know what to look out for this time. So...I may be single the rest of my life...:)

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Where do you draw the line between a date and a hang out Posted: 11/14/2009 5:45:45 AM
The first one, is technically a meeting. See if there is chemistry; see if it is something you even want to take farther. I am somewhat done meeting men on here (for a shit load of reasons) however I will not and have not really accepted anything more than a meet. The first few times, they were dinners, etc and to be honest; I was not on here to get free meals. And I can tell in about 2 minutes if I am even attracted physically to the person; and to sit through a whole meal, which is NOT cheap; I do not find it fair to either person. It goes beyond a meet when two people decide to "date" and at that point, is where people can discuss (hopefully) being "exclusive" or not. If you are simply here for friends and hang out people, then they need to know that up front. Good luck. Be safe. And no, it does not mean they dated you. I have had a few men on here think because they offered dinner that we are a couple. NOT. That is why I do not do it any more. Drama city.

svetlana blue

Joined: 6/23/2009

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Would you rather lie, or tell the truth? Posted: 11/14/2009 5:26:35 AM
Always tell the truth. Even if it hurts. Why waste time, especially when sex is supposed to be enjoyable??? Not to be mean but if a man is not pulling his share of the good stuff, I will speak up. :)

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