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eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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What are your messaging ratio's? Posted: 7/8/2009 10:51:14 AM
hmm for me I dont really keep a record but its more like 1,000/100 lol its not that bad the ppl I do chat with on here seem pretty kool, but I do have to say there are some not soo friendly ppl on here.

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 38 (view)

Phone number/texting on the first or second message? Posted: 7/8/2009 10:49:00 AM
Well normally I dont give my number that fast...usually I like to chat with the person for awhile...and a while for me is a couple of messages. Then if im still intrested in the person then the next step mite be my cell for textin purposes..lol if that goes good then a phone call will come after that. Before I meet anyone I like to text them to see if we can chat about anyting, then a phone call to see what the person sounds like, an to see if we can have a good conversation. Then after that and only after a couple of phone convo's maybe I will try and set up a meeting...alot of times for me it doesnt get past the textin part!

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 44 (view)

Do you really decide within 15 seconds? Posted: 7/8/2009 10:44:01 AM
I know within the first 10 seconds if there is any attraction, or any possibility of somthing happenin. It starts before the fist meeting for me...usually when we start textin, or chatting/ talking I can tell if there is any feeling on my side...and if there is then there comes the first meeting.

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 257 (view)

What is your biggest obstacle to committing to a relationship? Posted: 7/8/2009 10:28:38 AM
for me the BIGGEST obstacle is gettin a man to commit to me, and onlly me! gettin him to give me his attention, the same way I will do for him.

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 274 (view)

Friendship First Posted: 7/8/2009 10:26:49 AM
I agree!! alot of times its just better to start off being friends with someone before you try and start anything else. The bad thing about that too is that you can sometimes just end up being friends with the person. If im intrested in someone, then I want to get to know them as much as possible...And I will try to not let the guy think that all I want from him is friendship. As I get older im starting to see that sometimes you have to be upfront with a guy and tell him what you want...They dont pay attention to the lil signals that women give them, sometimes they are clueless lol

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 443 (view)

Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 7/6/2009 11:44:15 AM
I love men with tatts on their arms..well actually men with tatts all over!! lol men with glasses, deep voice, and some guys with braces aww how cute!!

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 1727 (view)

so, why are you still single? Posted: 7/6/2009 11:41:29 AM
I hear it alot to..and I always answer it the same way, I havent found the rite man yet! Ive dated guys who say "your diffrent then other women, you dont play games, and your loyal" im starting to think that guys dont want this anymore. they want women who are cheaters, liers, and could care less about them. I would think a woman who has goals, and is doing somthing with her life is a catch, I guess im wrong lol...Maybe lol

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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How important is money? Posted: 7/6/2009 11:36:32 AM
Money is not everything to me! but I do have to say this...Its nice to have a man who can take you out too. I want a man who is on the same level as me, and what I mean by that is..I want a man who can and does take care of himself. I dont have alot of money..so its not that importante to me, but it does matter that he can take me out. and NO i dont mean spoil me wiht things, thats not me..I just mean someone who can treat me that same way i would him

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 105 (view)

I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me. Posted: 7/6/2009 11:33:16 AM
I feel the same way! Ive been single for awhile now..and alot of times I like it. I like havin my space, an not havin to worry about sumone else. There is also a bad side too..I do miss havin someone by my side to. I seem to run into alot of guys that just want that hook up and thats it. thats not what im lookin for, so for rite now I enjoy my single status, untill I find that 1 person who shows me he is diffrent.

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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Long distance relationship? Posted: 7/2/2009 10:53:02 AM
it depends on how much you like this person..if your into them, and they are into you then you should try an see what happens. Long distance can work if you want it to work, if you dont then it wont work!

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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Is being nervous on a 1st date really a turn off? Posted: 7/2/2009 10:26:39 AM
I think when a person is nervous its a good thing...for me it shows they feel the same way i do. When a guy is soo confident..they come in an put their arms on the couch, that makes me want to run out of my own place!! When im really into someone I am nervous, and you can tell...I will hardly make eye contact, its weird but I would think a guy mite find this as a compliment...I mite be wrong thou lol

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 7/2/2009 10:23:07 AM
I am starting to think the same thing!! most guys I have ran into are either gay, dogs, just lookn to get laid, or they just want a babrie doll..a skinny girl that dresses in short shorts, and small dresses! Its hard to find a good guy out there...for me thats scary for my girls, im worried will they be able to find a good man, or are they goin to run into the problems im runnin into

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 28 (view)

is it ok to continue a relationship when i know i don't love? Posted: 7/1/2009 1:25:53 PM
Umm Yes its wrong!! if you dont have feelings for her then you need to tell her. some females just dont get the lil hints..your a grown man, you need to be an adult an tell her. put it this way, what if you had a daughter..and she came up to you and told you she was in that situation..what would you do?? would you want someone to play with her feelings? this is a no brainer!!!!

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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DAILY QUOTES Posted: 7/1/2009 12:50:20 PM
Never be someones slogan, because you are poetry!!

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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Adults living at home with Mom and Dad Posted: 7/1/2009 12:43:43 PM
it depends there are always reasons....if their reason is cause they like living at home..then yes its a turn off!! I love my moms house, but I LOVE my own place more!

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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Texting before talking on the phone. Posted: 7/1/2009 12:30:59 PM
I use to have a friend like that...we would watch a movie together and talk on the phone!! love it...i want somthing like that again.

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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Texting before talking on the phone. Posted: 7/1/2009 12:22:21 PM
after numerous exchanges of messages on here i will somtimes give my number for textin (textin only) im affraid that if i give my number and talk to the person we wont have anyting to talk about..then i have to figure out a nice way to get off of the phone. Im starting to see that maybe this isnt such a good idea anymore lol

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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Texting before talking on the phone. Posted: 7/1/2009 12:02:26 PM
I want to know how some of you feel about this...How do you feel about texting someone before you talk to them on the phone? I like to get to know someone before we talk on the phone..so i figured textn them is a good way..what do you think?

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 152 (view)

Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting? Posted: 7/1/2009 11:51:26 AM
I dont think i have made love, or had someone make love to me all nite...but I have had a couple times where we did it off and on all nite. For me I like both...I like when the sex can last for a lil while, but I also like the quickies...its not about getin satisified for me, its just havin a lil until we can have some more time.

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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Dating /Sex Talk and IM Posted: 7/1/2009 11:41:45 AM
YES it does!! some guys cant seem to just have a nice conversation anymore...they want to start talking about sex, an what they want to do. I dont mind havin convos about that stuff, but I perfer to have had alot of conversations before that happens...not just when we stated textin

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 259 (view)

Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT Posted: 7/1/2009 11:38:17 AM
I dont think there is anything wrong with havin sexy pics up...the problem is when guys expect all woman to have pics like that up. Its not enough to just have a nice pic up, guys now want to see what everything else looks like...for me its a turn off when a guy starts to ask to see more, or when they say they want to see sexier pics. for me flirting...always goes wrong for me...guys always seem to take it further then just flirting, they start to want to talk dirty...an thats not what im tryin to do!

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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Piercings Posted: 7/1/2009 11:31:36 AM
I dont think a woman should get any thing pierced because she wants to better satisfy a man! thats the wrong reason to get a piercing...I have 3 piercings and i got them because I wanted to. I got my tounge pierced because I wanted it, and i thought that it would look nice on me. Woman shouldnt get their tounge pierced because they want to give better oral...it starts to give all men the idea that all woman who have that piercing did it just for that reason.

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 59 (view)

Which is HARDER for you.. to give away your body or your heart First Posted: 7/1/2009 11:26:37 AM
at this point...my Heart is harder to give away because when I have given it to someone, they cheated on me! my body isnt because sex doesnt mean anything any more...its just sex!!

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 148 (view)

first date sex Posted: 7/1/2009 11:23:19 AM
I dont get that either...now im affraid to have sex with a guy that im into, cause then there is the possibility If i sleep with him the first time...I wont hear from him after that

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 73 (view)

casual sex or friends with benefits Posted: 7/1/2009 11:20:25 AM
guys seem to have it easy somtimes...they can have as many sexual partners at they want, but a woman cant cause then she is a slut! Women should be able to have casual sex, or friends with benefits...whats good for guys is good for woman.

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 363 (view)

What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 7/1/2009 11:16:30 AM
the thing I miss most about being in a relationship is...being held, having someone to hug all the time. I miss that last phone call of the day..you know that 1 special person who you have to hear their voice at nite before you go to bed...I MISS THAT! an well of course the intimate contact, the kissing...ohhh im depressed now lol

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 7/1/2009 11:07:47 AM
HII im angie..single mommy, full time student..lookin for kool ppl to chat with...check out my pro and hit me up if you like what you see!

eyez-ofa-angel

Joined: 6/24/2009

Msg: 86 (view)

What do women on this site prefer, men who ride motorcycles or men who drive Luxury cars? Posted: 7/1/2009 11:06:18 AM
I think some men look real hott on a motorcycle!

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