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nickOO7

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My boyfriend had adultfriendfinder in his search tab on computer? Posted: 7/15/2009 3:11:24 AM
Are you sure he went to the site? cuz I get pop-up adds for that & other sites a lot & I clear out my cookies & run spy-ware scans regularly. You could always try asking him about it instead of pretending not to notice it & see how he reacts. Does anyone else use his computer sometimes?

nickOO7

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150 sex partners in six months! Posted: 7/14/2009 10:26:49 PM
Lots of dating sites have cheaters on em & I get spam for a few sites that claim to help people cheat. Those people must be extremely stupid to feel the need to go on Jerry Springer or what ever trash TV show it was to promote it. Those tapes can be used in divorce court to rule against the cheaters.

nickOO7

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He's from the sperm bank honey!.... Posted: 7/14/2009 10:03:57 PM
does one not have to pay to go to a sperm bank??? if so how can a woman on welfare afford to even do that to get a bigger check? All I know is the one in the media was on welfare when she had it done & the gov is/was paying for her medical care plus a house for her & the kids. I actually saw an add on TV earlier talking about how women around here can drop-off kids that are less than 30days old at hospitals with no questions asked. I think the lesson is that people can do whatever they want without thinking of the consequences & they never have to take responsibility for there actions.

nickOO7

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I am getting tired of meeting women with low self-esteem!!! Posted: 7/14/2009 9:29:22 PM
I am getting tired of meeting women with low self-esteem!!! And I'm getting tired of meeting women with high self-esteem They all think their too good for me I want to know where the OP finds em

nickOO7

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Homophobia - the Bruno white elephant in the room? Posted: 7/14/2009 9:21:10 PM
I haven't seen it yet (I probably will) but I've seen lots of commercials for it & I think I can see why some consider it offensive & wrong but at the same time I could say straight people like me wer offended by those "American Pie" movies (I still lathed my butt off for em). I think humor is supposed to challenge stereotypes & make people think. I'm more worried about the fact I saw an add for Bruno on Nickelodeon while switching channels around 3pm.

nickOO7

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How important is money? Posted: 7/14/2009 5:35:00 PM
The Ayn Rand quote reminds me of some song lyrics Motorhead~ No Voices In The Sky "Nobody gives a damn about anybody else Think everyone should feel the way they feel themselves Rich men think that happiness is a million dollar bills So how come half of them O.D. on sleeping pills?" I also think Good Charlotte~ Lifestyles Of The Rich & Famous describes my opinion as well. I think some of the rich people got rich because they came from wealthy families. They got into expensive schools because there families could afford for em to go. I have some relatives who are always obsessed with money. There always asking for people to do & buy things for them because they cant afford it, yet those same people are always bragging about about how they eat out at expensive restaurants or about how much money they won from playing slot-machines. They never talk about how much they lose thou. I'd much ratehr live a simple-life & have values & treat people with resepct instead of "living large"

nickOO7

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He's from the sperm bank honey!.... Posted: 7/14/2009 5:04:25 PM
In reality I am pretty sure that getting pregnant in this manner is quite expensive, and not accessible to low income people. People cant collect welfare if they have lots of money so i don't know how she could afford it

nickOO7

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He's from the sperm bank honey!.... Posted: 7/14/2009 4:21:11 PM
A while back there was a woman whoring herself to the media cuz she got pregnant from a sperm-doctor & other medical means that she chose to have done. Her mom was helping her raise her kids. I fail to comprehend how her choosing to have kids was a good thing when she's incapable of supporting & raising the ones she already had with out gov & charity's help

nickOO7

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He's from the sperm bank honey!.... Posted: 7/14/2009 3:34:16 PM
I think those women do that so they can get bigger welfare checks & free housing funded by the government. They cant meet the child-adoption requirements so they decide to go that rout instead. Very sad

nickOO7

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Phone help for a guy Posted: 7/13/2009 10:01:32 PM
I have a few suggestions here. You could try making subtle comments about how you don't like talking on the phone, you could try suggesting alternatives to talking on the phone with her or you could be a bit more direct & have a talk in person with her about phone talking

nickOO7

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I am getting tired of meeting women with low self-esteem!!! Posted: 7/13/2009 4:09:32 AM
So I was just chatting with this girl on aol aim, we're both not doing anything tonight, she seems very interested in me, as I do in her....but then she has to kill it by saying "truthfully i don't usually put myself down and all, but i don't think im your type". she was asking all these questions about my ex, like how old was she, how tall, etc etc, so i showed her some pics of my ex, who is a very petite girl. so now this chic is thinking she is not my type just because she is not petite. i wouldnt ask to hangout with her if i didnt find her attractive...so why do girls always have to ruin things with their low self esteem?? I don't see that as things being ruined at all. You could try telling her that she doesn't have to be petite to still be very attractive. I think you could meet her 1st before you form an opinion as to weather or not she has low self-esteem.

nickOO7

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sex and how it relates to base ball Posted: 7/13/2009 3:45:04 AM
What I wanna know and nobuddy has 'esplained yet is HOW the hell do you crack a one liner with THREE damn words Maybe cuz the " :P " thing is in it?? I really butchered what I said/typed earlier here. No wonder Jeff Foxworthy wanted me to dictate the RedNeck dictionary to him

nickOO7

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Is no sex dating so terrible? Posted: 7/13/2009 2:41:54 AM
would you be happy if your girlfriend (or boyfriend) said they wanted to wait? YES seriously, I'm NOT really interested in that aspect of relationships

nickOO7

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sex and how it relates to base ball Posted: 7/13/2009 2:29:21 AM
You guys are forgetting the other base-ball terms in sex~ Bunt~ But I didn't mean to put it your azz SortStop~ It's short because you stopped licking it

nickOO7

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Do we really need film critics? Posted: 7/12/2009 5:44:06 PM
I don't understand the point of critics either. They use a scientific method of analyzing that involve lots of polls & research studies. Instead of simply asking people if they liked or enjoyed the movie, they ask a bunch of specific questions & over analyze everything instead of actually telling people if it's enjoyable or not. I like lots of movies that get horrible reviews from the critics & I sometimes dislike the movies that get lots of good reviews from em. Has anyone here seen the cartoon series "The Critic"? Jay, the film critic keeps getting in trouble with his boss cuz he keeps giving out his honest opinion on bad movies by saying "it stinks". In one ep his boss tells him to rate movies on a scale from good to excellent & Jay ask but what if I don't like them & his boss tells him, that's what good is for. Jay's boss kept doing things to push the show's ratings higher & being to involved in the politics of it instead of letting Jay do his job. I keep thinking that lots of the critics are being to involved in the politics of the industry & giving out reviews based on that instead of focusing on the movies. I think they've lost there way.

nickOO7

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Drugs?! Posted: 7/12/2009 3:20:15 PM
It's all about the money here in the US. Our government get's kick-backs from the pharmacy companies & doctors to keep other treatment options illegal. The rezone pot is illegal is cuz it's something people can grow themselves instead of seeing a doctor & getting a prescription for it. I have a tremor disorder & there's surgery options in other countries that have a very high success rate but very few people are allowed access to em here in the US. I've been on medication for it that had side-effects so severe, I thought I was having a stroke. Interestingly enough, I hear medical-marijuana is an approved treatment in other countries for it & the side-effects are much less severe than what I was having on those meds. I've seen a Montel Williams ep on YouTube about medical-marijuana & the the federal government actually grows it in (think Mississippi) & gives it out to a handful of people, very eye opening. I've had appointments with docs 1st thing in the morning & I would a see young woman come in with a brief-case full of "samples" so the doctors could give em out. The woman was wearing very high-heals & looked way to young to have the necessary training to be able to wright out prescriptions for the meds she was transferring. My dad's in construction & right now he's working on a house for some pain-doctor & the cost vaule for the house rite now is about 4million dollars. My dad also knows a guy who's cousin was in a car wreck & saw that doctor & he charges a couple thousand dollars for one shot of pain meds. I hear lots of ex crack-addicts go to him for there legal high. I believe a lot of the medical field is corrupt & if we would invest that time & energy into finding cures for problems instead of prescription drugs, medical-marijuana wouldn't even be an issue. That was kind of a long rant. I do think having an Other wright in option would be a better idea than just the selections.

nickOO7

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file name too long but cant rename Posted: 7/12/2009 1:10:10 PM
Thanx Don I don't quite understand hat happened but I got it to work. Unlocker wasn't showing up on the list when I right-clicked the file so instead I selected the "Open With" & selected Unlocker from the program list & the folder it was in showed up instead of the file. So I shortened the folder name & then I was able to access the file fine like the rest of em so I shortened the file name a bit, then I renamed the folder back to it's original name & I can access everything now. I don't quite understand why shorting the folder name helped when it was the file name that was to long but I'll have to remember that next time it happens again. Thanx again

nickOO7

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file name too long but cant rename Posted: 7/12/2009 3:03:45 AM
I downloaded a couple audio files that I want to move but cant because Windows says the name is too long. When I right-click on it, my usual options are extremely limited & rename isn't one of them. I looked up this problem a bit on Google & there's lots of post & solutions on it but a lot of em involve DOS commands but I'm not conformable with DOS at all. A few sites talked about programs that will delete the files but I do NOT want to delete em because the songs play fine. I was wondering if anyone knows any simple to use programs or techniques that will allow me to rename those files to something shorter.

nickOO7

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Drugs?! Posted: 7/11/2009 10:05:19 PM
I think I understand why some people aren't being open about there use in there profile selections now. I just checked the profile options & it mite would help if there wer more than three selections (No, Socially & Often) for drug use as well as drinking. Those choices don't accurately cover lots of people. It mite be a good idea if someone made a post about it in the Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help section if there's no post already there. In the meantime I do feel that people who drink or use drugs & select "No" in there profiles for drinking or drugs should explain there situation in there profiles & defienalty should NOT lie about it or cover it up when there trying to meet someone in person that they've been chatting with on here. Trying to start a relationship under false pretenses is plain wrong. On a side-note~ even thou I'm straight-edge, I fully support legalization of drugs. I have some Libertarian political views & I believe that people getting high from "special-brownies" are no less natural than guys in there 90s taking Viagra

nickOO7

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Is she serious/settling/confused or what? Is it me? Posted: 7/11/2009 12:57:39 AM
Glad I could help & like I've said, I can kind of relate to over-analyzing & sometimes it helps to hear/see it in a different angle. Also it mite be a good idea to focus on other things in the relationship instead of words sometimes too like a hug or kiss can go along way if your both savoring the moment.

nickOO7

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What is real love...and have you ever had it? Posted: 7/11/2009 12:50:19 AM
Love happened to me 1ce. It 1st started as like best friendship & latter the giddiness/romantic stuff but I also felt some kind of weird connection kind of like we wer related or something. I'm an only child but with her I felt some weird family connection that I cant quite explain but if I had a sibling, I think I would of felt something like that. When things started going hay-wire, I was doing what I could & thought was the best for her even when that meant sacrificing my own wants/needs. Sure I did care but the next time a problem arose, I would volunteer again. Now that it's over, I feel like the missing relative (or what-ever term I want to use for the person) I found is dead/gone for good. That was a walk down memory lane years ago. Hopefully that made some sense & is somewhat relevent to someone

nickOO7

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Is she serious/settling/confused or what? Is it me? Posted: 7/11/2009 12:19:59 AM
OP It sounds like you've really been analyzing it a lot lately. I can somewhat relate to that. I get the impression that when you & her are joking around, you tend to sometimes take it to seriously &/or get confused by it. Also when you try to communicate from your heart with her & all she says is "I Love You", maybe that is all she is capable of telling you rite now. What I mean by that is maybe she's not that good at communicating her feelings in the method that you do/want. I'm defiantly not saying it's bad or anything but it could just be slightly different that's all. I also have a theory that maybe you could be to worried about lossing her so much that you are reading waaay to much into certain things. I have an idea (mite be crazy) but you could maybe try talking to her about setting a wedding date, it does NOT have to be anytime soon but having more things planned may help. It would be best if you bring that up very subtly if at all.

nickOO7

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Just waisted a month persuing someone... Posted: 7/10/2009 10:05:46 PM
OP it sounds like she was just playing head-games with you. She probably had some kind of alterier motive & you wer her fall-back guy or she wasn't sure what she wanted at all. Either way your much better off without her. If she wants to keep her options open, that's fine for her but you should look for someone else

nickOO7

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What is your opinion Worth? Posted: 7/10/2009 2:51:05 AM
I post my opinion for a few rezones. If a person is asking for advice on a situation, I'm trying to help weather that is by offering support by letting em know they aren't alone or by giving them ideas or asking questions to make em think. If it's something like a poll, I'm posting because I may have analyzed things in a way that others weren't & someone else may agree & relate to what I said witch in theory could be a big help. Also by posting an opinion, I can sometimes better understand what's going on witch may help me or someone else now or latter. Sure it would be nice if people like or relate to what I said & we become friends & maybe more cuz of it but I took lots of heat on other sites/boards in the past for expressing very unpopular opinions so trying to make friends certainly isn't my only motivation for doing it. Besides why do people ask questions if they seriously don't care??

nickOO7

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Survivor's guilt Posted: 7/10/2009 1:27:38 AM
I heard of the phrase "survivor's guilt" before but don't know much about it. I do however know abit about Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) thou. I've known some people who have it & I may have some characteristics/traits of it as well. I just got a quick definition of survivor's guilt from Wiki & think those two things can be very closely related. It can be an extremely difficult situation for both of you OP but the best thing you can do is try to be there for her. Try to make sure she knows she can talk to you when she wants to about it but don't push her to talk. Try to make sure she knows that you are available for emotional or other support but let her have her space when she needs it. Also try to be sympathetic & understanding with her but NEVER claim to know what she's going true. Another thing I want to mention is that if you feel she is getting worse, it mite would be a good idea to get some outside help like concealing cuz sometimes severe mental/emotional disorders can develop from those things so it's a good idea to be open to the idea but try not to push her, just suggest it.

nickOO7

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anyone else find it harder as ya get older Posted: 7/8/2009 3:22:18 PM
OutMind~ Why am I thinking about an android kind of like the girl on the Terminator series or something. as I get older I find that it's usually softer, and only gets a little bit harder - for a little bit of time. :sigh: Isn't there medication for that. This was to funny to resist Seriously thou~ I think as people age some of em become wiser & learn more about what they truly want/don't want in a partner & they learn how to be more appealing to one that meets those needs (like they learn how to act, where to look ect) or they get more desperate. I think as we age we should be more concerned with growing as people instead of worrying about how to fill the void but I'm not sure if I'm making any sense at all

nickOO7

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Settling for somebody your own age? Posted: 7/8/2009 12:52:02 PM
I think the age difference would depend on the relationship. I see older people with younger people lots of times cuz they want someone who's very young & naive that they can manipulate. But I also see lots of younger people chasing older people cuz they think it's "cool" to be with someone older or they want someone who will support em. I personally don't really care much about what others say or think & I do have a hard time connecting with people my age cuz they mainly seem to care about getting drunk, stoned or laid but unfortunately it seems that the main people who don't are much much older than me or way to young

nickOO7

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never been in a relationship? Posted: 7/8/2009 10:12:34 AM
I have a couple ideas. It mite be good for the OP to concentrate of friendships in "real-life" & talk to friends about wanting relationships & play things out. A friend mite make her feel more comfortable & my actually want a relationship or know someone who mite a good match for her. It's also a good idea to keep trying dating sites out. It can be easier for some people (like myself) to talk about things on them. Either way it can be very rough thou expecally for shyer people.

nickOO7

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a blast from the past!...any similar experiences? Posted: 7/7/2009 9:10:58 PM
OP~ I had similar experience from a couple girls who bullied me from like 6th to 8th grade. I think they found my on MySpace & they started sending some weird messages to me about how they wanted to F me. I think they wer drunk or stoned when they typed em so I reported em & that was the end of it.

nickOO7

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Older men for the younger women Posted: 7/7/2009 9:00:37 PM
I see lots of 19/20 year-old women in my area with guys who are in there 40s but most of those guys do NOT treat the women like princesses at all. Some of those guys are unemployed druggies & have lots of young kids each with different women, the guys may be abusive, or they may still be living with other women. And guys - would you date a women and is significantly younger than you. I mite would be willing to if we really connected & we wanted the same kind of lifestyle but I would be concerned about manipulating her & I would be worried about feeling like a parent or something with her.

nickOO7

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Left me sitting at the table, until the waitress said, he left.. Posted: 7/7/2009 12:35:41 AM
{{{{{If a broad on a first date vanished into the crapper for 20+ minutes, I'd consider splitting too - but not before I paid for the meal.}}}}} Maybe I misread something but I didn't see anything about how long the OP was in there for. I think if she told the guy "I'll brb" & she was in there that long, she would have some idea of why the guy left.

nickOO7

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Left me sitting at the table, until the waitress said, he left.. Posted: 7/6/2009 10:26:59 PM
My mother taught me you always take home your date. It was to your house right?? Giggity Giggity Goo I cant believe no one said anything yet. I couldn't resist. Seriously that guy should NEVER of done that to the OP. Even if he thought she left, he could of asked someone to check the restroom & if something actually did come up, he should of left a F~ing explanation.

nickOO7

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When are you most happiest? Posted: 7/6/2009 12:41:03 PM
I would say when I'm in a good relationship & my partner's happy but sense I'm alone; the time I feel happiest is usually late at nite/very early morning with my head-phones on full blasting some extremely cheesy music like Miley Cyrus, 'Weird Al' Yankovic or show-tunes but I love most types of music. (scratches head & says to self "maybe that's why I'm alone!!" shrugs-shoulders then says "oh-well")

nickOO7

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Left me sitting at the table, until the waitress said, he left.. Posted: 7/6/2009 12:32:01 AM
A former work buddy of mine did that 1ce. He only dated this women cuz he was hoping to "get-laid" after but during the meal, he started to feel bad about it so he just bailed instead. Odd thing is I think he started having feelings for her & I think he wanted something more but the jerk didn't realize it all till it was to late to fix his screw-up.

nickOO7

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Is Intercourse or Oral more Intimate? Posted: 7/6/2009 12:15:04 AM
I think it depends on how people define intimacy. I think oral would requires more amounts of trust on both parties but intercourse could also involve things like eye contact, kissing ect

nickOO7

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Confidence attracts.................. Posted: 7/5/2009 10:28:01 PM
I believe that a confident person can go a long ways in today's dating world. Some physical attraction is essential, but definately is not the key to a successful relationship. There is nothing more backwards on a blind date than to meet up with someone who lacks confidence in themselves, as well as who they are. What are your thoughts?? Some people think I do not have much confidence but I'm not sure I agree. I'd rather take time to get to know people in one on one settings instead of large crowds. I'm attracted to women that are the same way as me so I guess confidence can be attractive if you have it & lack of confidence can also be just as attractive if you don't have much confidence. I think the key to a successful relationship is compatibility, willingness to communicate & compromise.

nickOO7

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Drugs?! Posted: 7/5/2009 10:07:21 PM
I never did any drugs (other than the medically prescribed kind that you can buy at the pharmacy) but I've known a few drug users in my life so I have some ideas why they would lie about it on sites like this. Some may only do drugs in private & sense they have NO intention of sharing a high with there partner, they see it as nobody's business. Another idea is they may be very infrequent users who would be willing to quit for the rite person. They could also be somewhat embarrassed & think it will hurt there chances of finding someone or they may extemly manipulative & are hoping they can find someone to corrupt.

nickOO7

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How important is money? Posted: 7/5/2009 1:47:51 PM
It's not about having what you want. It's about being happy with what you have

nickOO7

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How important is money? Posted: 7/5/2009 1:46:42 PM
Everything we do in life revolves around money or the lack of it...... Some people live there lives without money being involved at all like the Amish for example & they seem happy with there lives. Rite now I'm thinking of that song by Mike & The Mechanics ~ " I'm a Beggar on Beach of Gold". With my family all around me Ive all the riches I can hold Im a beggar Sitting on a beach of gold

nickOO7

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How important is money? Posted: 7/5/2009 9:44:28 AM
LOL, some people romantized love with out money, ohhh, how sweet they'd fall for a lovely wench living in a van, a broke and in debt as long as she is not shallow,blah,blah ... I bet they won't stay for long. I think lots of people did that in the 60s & lots of em claimed to be happy. I think that the more you have, the more afraid you become of losing it. The less you have, the less you have to worry about losing. I think when the Great Depression stared, the highest suicide rate wer the people who wer rich who thought they lost everything. The poor people who wer used to being poor survived in the best

nickOO7

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Needy People Posted: 7/5/2009 1:34:13 AM
OP your friend sounds a lot like on of my aunts (my mom's older sister) except she's still married & all three of her kids (my cousins) are moved out. I think my aunt has Historic Personality Disorder or something cuz she calls everyday to talk for hours about how busy she is. My mom tried telling her that if she would spend less time on the phone, she'd have more time to get her work done but my aunt keeps volunteering to babysit for one of her kids & then wanting my mom to help her. My mom eventually started ignoring my aunts phone calls & when my aunt tries to invite herself somewhere with my mom, my mom tells her she's busy or mite be out of town. My aunt still keeps calling my mom multiple times a day but she never leaves a message on the answering machine so my mom doesn't worry about calling her back. It seems to work somewhat cuz my mom does her thing & only answers my aunts calls when she feels like it. I also had a few friends like that in the past as well but things wer never that bad & after being ignored a while, they found other people to leech support & sympathy from.

nickOO7

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How important is money? Posted: 7/4/2009 11:54:41 PM
meant~ NOT having lots of money

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How important is money? Posted: 7/4/2009 11:54:09 PM
I never had a lot of money & having lots of money doesn't bother me at all. I'd rathere date someone who's completely broke or even in debt instead of being with someone who's shallow

nickOO7

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What would you compromise? Posted: 7/4/2009 10:14:35 PM
There are a few things I want & don't want in a relationship but 1ce I was in one, I mite would end up compromising everything (even sanity) to keep it.

nickOO7

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Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX? Posted: 7/4/2009 10:02:17 PM
Meant~ she believed in me

nickOO7

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Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX? Posted: 7/4/2009 10:00:45 PM
I think I can save some good things about my ex~ She was kind of funny, friendly & very caring at times. She belied in me & gave me a chance when I wouldn't even do that for myself. She taught me to how to feel & express my emotions.

nickOO7

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anyone else find it harder as ya get older Posted: 7/4/2009 9:42:59 PM
In response to the title of this topic, I think dating gets harder for women as they get older but dating is easier for older guys. I see lots guys in there 40s with women that are about 19/20 & I known lots of women who go after guys much older than them. I don't u8nderstand it.

nickOO7

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im not sure whats going on but somthing is up? Posted: 7/3/2009 11:34:22 PM
I couldn't understand this post OP due to the grammar in it.

nickOO7

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How long before you say/said I love you? Posted: 7/3/2009 10:20:37 PM
She told me 1st but I told her I wasn't going to say "I Love You" till I truly meant it. A few days latter I realized I actually did love her so I told her. I never said that to anyone else & don't plan to until I feel it again.

nickOO7

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Why is there such a difference between men and women? Posted: 7/3/2009 10:07:34 PM
I don't think all guys have trouble talking to women on dating sites. I think the guys who lie or talk out there rear-ends, get plenty of responses. I think the problem is that in most dating situations (except for the Amazonian women tribes) the men have to do the "hunting" for the women so women get to sit back & analyze the guys. I think lots of guys (like myself) would prefer if women approached us because we can get very nervous & we feel like wer being judged in some kind of reality TV contest so we make lots of mistakes.

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