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Joined: 6/27/2009

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Do I owe an explanation? Posted: 11/8/2009 6:01:14 PM
You are courteous. Harden your heart and don't respond. See their MO and delete without reading.

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Big Labia Lips On Women Posted: 11/5/2009 6:04:32 PM
It's genetics, dude. What should she think about little penises? They atrophied due to lack of sex? She might be questioning you! Poor girl. I hope she finds a loving guy.

Joined: 6/27/2009

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It separates players from seriously looking Posted: 11/1/2009 1:53:33 PM
I think it's good. I'm seriously looking and have seen many problems with what people hope to find. It's good!

Joined: 6/27/2009

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He's a Loser Posted: 10/30/2009 7:43:53 PM
He's a waste of your time. He's a bore and a user. You were a supportive gal from your writing. Time for you to find someone deserving of you.

Joined: 6/27/2009

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You hit it on the head, Army Mom Posted: 10/29/2009 9:17:14 PM
We'll meet more men and potentially have more dates. All I've encountered were players, liars. One slept next to me on the couch after a drink and during a movie. He talks in his sleep I noticed. Mumbled the brand name of a herpes drug. Guess what I gathered? LOL. I let him go within the hour.

Joined: 6/27/2009

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Did I do the right thing in telling... Posted: 10/29/2009 9:11:58 PM
For sitesucks000. Read it again. He lied. That's the point, dude.

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Msg: 58 (view)

You felt disappointment Posted: 10/29/2009 7:51:42 PM
I don't think you're being narrow minded. You're realizing the deception when you were asking something in a straightforward manner. I don't think you were wrong in what you did. You were feeling things out and she was being deceived, too. A point, I recently received a few calls and the first time it was from a woman after I heard her voice. I have "gathered" one of these lousy guys had "someone" and she found my number. I blocked the private calls figuring it was her, no one else. This wasn't the first time in online dating. Many of these guys are players. Many.

Joined: 6/27/2009

Msg: 46 (view)

I see it occasionally and it's for money Posted: 10/29/2009 6:29:19 PM
And what money will provide! Material goods? Trips? An older man approached me more than once in my youth with promises of what could be shown to me financially. No thanks.

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Myth Posted: 10/29/2009 6:07:17 PM
Unless there's a deep seated psych issue, myth.

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Unwanted Comments Posted: 10/29/2009 5:49:25 PM
Change your picture and show your pretty, modest self.

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Dating and Depression Posted: 10/25/2009 8:18:03 AM
Hi, can you see just what a good person you are? You were very honest and wrote so beautifully. Regardless of this this situation, you have had it for a long time and have understood it and taken as much control as you can. Bravo to you. Knowing what you have to deal with, dating is difficult enough. Very difficult, as I've found. You deal with all these issues and your own. It's the ability to get the relationship off the ground and letting her know slowly what you deal with every day. As much as you can, don't tell the other person too much in the beginning unless it's absolutely necessary. Many of us have issues, myself included, that if you can hold it privately until it's right, the better for you.

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STD's Posted: 10/25/2009 7:33:41 AM
True, unfortunately. I've counseled and reviewed lab work and have gotten calls from doctors for some of those I've counseled. You can't twist someone's arm to take their medication for it, either! You can only advise. For our sake, safe sex and testing.

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STD's Posted: 10/25/2009 7:30:53 AM
May I ask where you received this knowledge? I'm curious as I didn't read M.D. on your profile. I assume you did some reading for your knowledge. HIV testing is done right away and six months later. It has to produce detectable antigen in the body. Chlamydia and others require far less time. The gal I read here gets tested regularly during her gyn check ups. Smart gal!

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The apartment next door was a bordello, lol! Posted: 10/24/2009 8:18:04 PM
I think the guy next door did favors for "someone" and had the payment of prostitutes. The same one used to come over twice a week and other assorted ones at other times. I would see him going into his apartment with throw rugs and he and another guy would scent the place with potpourri. He "got" the woman in another apt. Another neighbor heard him talk of what he did during the night before... I would hear the bed slamming against the wall and one night, the bed broke and it fell on the floor, lol!

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What I experienced Posted: 10/24/2009 7:59:32 PM
Everyone is different, that's a given however I've know of two bachelors, one of 51 and another that's an older guy who is more a poor exception to every rule. The former is a confirmed bachelor who is very set in his ways and doesn't have a place for a female partner for the long haul. He even has a problem with a different choice of foods from his own. There are exceptions with people but I have met confirmed bachelors and have met them on single sites (no named ones mentioned).

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I've been told and feel Posted: 8/13/2009 5:13:56 PM
Confident which also comes from an independant person. I keep quiet at times after it has been misconstrued for things that isn't me.

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I've gotten high school pics! Posted: 7/12/2009 7:36:56 PM
Ugh. That's the first comment. A guy posted a pic that I knew was several years ago and I gave him credit for aging well. We got along over the phone just fine. He showed up and his hair was indescribable. His teeth were pointed. The whole picture with the dirty car was enough. Yes, he wanted to go out again.. I'm not going to get into the guy who had gas...

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Older men for the younger women Posted: 7/7/2009 6:34:27 PM
I personally never liked older men. I don't find the visual appealing. Yes, the age gap has shrunk the older I've gotten! I've usually gone for men a few years younger than me.

Joined: 6/27/2009

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Marriage vs LTR Posted: 7/5/2009 6:17:11 AM
I side with landra2 and feel the same way. LTR doesn't have the level of commitment. It's also easier to walk away.

Joined: 6/27/2009

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One hint is the length of your email here Posted: 7/3/2009 9:23:47 AM
Hi there, this is overly long and it tells me that you 1. Cannot condense your thoughts 2. I perused this long email and you texted him much too much. I would head for the hills if I was questionable about someone 3. I understand and we all do that you are inquisitive about his actions. He didn't contact you after one text or one email. LET IT GO. When someone isn't interested, let it go and ON TO THE NEXT ONE. Lesson: Don't sleep with someone for a good, looooong time.

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