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 Author Thread: How to be just friends???
 AngelQ
Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
How to be just friends???
Posted: 2/25/2006 9:34:57 PM
I totally agree. You have to decide whether or not you're ready to accept him as a friend only; otherwise, you're setting yourself up for heartbreak. I dated a guy who now wants to be friends, and I'm finally coming to realization that he doesn't get to make that decision because he broke it off with me. I'm not ready to hear about his dates with other women just because I'm easy to talk to and he needs a friend. You have to put yourself first. It may help to spend some time a part to give yourself some time to sort your feelings out.
 AngelQ
Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Thirty and not married
Posted: 2/25/2006 9:17:28 PM
It is becoming more common to find people marrying after the age of 30 or not marrying at all. Mainly because people are staying in school longer and then establishing careers. Also, back in the day people got married because they wanted to have families. Now, career oriented women are adopting or choosing other alternatives to start families without husbands. A new craze is catching on.
 AngelQ
Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Frustrated with the whole dating after turning 30?
Posted: 2/25/2006 8:54:40 PM
I definitely think dating has gotten more frustrating for me after 30. Mainly because I think by the time I turned 30, I had a better idea of what I was looking for in a person. Dating for me in my 20's was just for fun, but now that I'm looking for something a little more serious, everytime I meet the wrong guy I feel like I've wasted time. Also, not that turning 30 is over the hill, but heartbreak before 30 left a different taste in your mouth than after 30. I think the older you get the more bitter you get with every failed relationship. The funny thing about dating, is that timing is everything. Have you ever met a guy/girl that liked you, but you just weren't interested at the time, and then months later you decide to give it a shot and they have moved on? It happens all the time.
 
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