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Joined: 6/28/2009

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Lower Standards For Free Dating Sites? Posted: 7/17/2009 3:23:12 PM
That makes more sense than anything I have heard. I have done both and find free sites seem to be more casual and not as pressured. When you are paying it becomes a matter of money and that shouldn't be a part of finding romance...right???

Joined: 6/28/2009

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Would you ever consider? Posted: 7/4/2009 1:21:53 PM
Several posters hit the nail on the head, I think. Consideration of the "role" the person has assumed, is the most telling. I mean are they striving to be independent? If so, then is their personality and their outlook on life positive and outgoing, or negative and self-pitying? It would be the same to me as every other guy. If they have heart and are genuine, that's all that matters in the end, to me. I agree with [simbaline64]'s post completely.

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Is my profile really that bad? Posted: 7/3/2009 6:28:40 PM
I think it's just great. Don't fret...

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Who is bored.... Posted: 7/3/2009 1:57:37 PM
Someone once told me that if you are bored you are simply "lacking inner creativity". I have carried that with me all my life, and pulled it out and remembered it whenever I got antsy or thought I was bored. Look inside for the part of you that is entertaining and you will attract entertaining men to you, I bet. You appear pretty and nice, so you will do well if you can up your own potential. Maybe. Seems to me some of the men's comments have been spot on. Good luck.

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Brutal and unrestricted honesty required Posted: 7/1/2009 5:53:55 PM
heh...too funny.

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First Line, Last Line (Part Deux) Posted: 7/1/2009 5:43:18 PM
and we are told it never fails but love fails and life fails and falls to the side But we must not dwell on the fallen for the night is but a whisper and the day will come soon,

Joined: 6/28/2009

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Asking for your honesty...... Posted: 7/1/2009 5:17:44 PM
I think your pictures are great. They show a wide variety of personality. But hey, I'm a girl. I don't know what guys think. AT ALL EVER.

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Yay, I can post Posted: 7/1/2009 11:42:02 AM
Why thank you. How very kind.

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Yay, I can post Posted: 7/1/2009 11:11:30 AM
Very helpful, thanks. (Gosh this is hard work. I actually have to think about this more carefully than I did.)

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Yay, I can post Posted: 7/1/2009 11:02:00 AM
Points taken. I did say work in progress, not perfection, I hope. The inner work is the hardest I've ever done and the most difficult to judge progress on. At least for me. Thank you for the comments. I appreciate your ability to critique with a velvet glove.

Joined: 6/28/2009

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Yay, I can post Posted: 7/1/2009 10:46:37 AM
Now be gentle. What should I change? Is it too pushy? Too healthy? I will try not to take it personally, but when it's your profile, that's kind of hard to do. Especially if you are being honest.

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