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Joined: 6/28/2009

Msg: 30 (view)

Friends, more than friends, what? Posted: 7/6/2009 7:51:15 AM
you have gone over the, "let's be friends" time limit. you think just because you two have such good chemistry, it could work romantically? i don't think so. leave it at friendship, stop pushing the issue. he won't be ready until he's ready. remember, if you spend more time ignoring the romantic side, the more he will be attracted. your one of the guys to him, in fact, your probably the type of woman he wants but without the romance. to him, your a safe investment relationship with the opposite sex. learn to watch, instead of do.

Joined: 6/28/2009

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How to Deal? Posted: 7/6/2009 7:29:12 AM
well, i guess you had better step up your game. if your living in a big city, there are more fish in the sea than usual. you need to change your standards and just jump out there in the water of life. if you feel your not good enough to catch the big fish, you probably won't. if you feel your good enough to catch any fish, you probably will. how do you feel?

Joined: 6/28/2009

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What now? What next? What do you think? Posted: 7/6/2009 7:21:27 AM
do you seriously think that you need advice about what to do? you have a Master Degree right? i don't understand the problem.

Joined: 6/28/2009

Msg: 12 (view)

what do I do? Posted: 7/3/2009 10:43:18 AM
ok AGENT 6977 here is your mission: put the past with the past. do not venture outside the past under any circumstances! contact your female operative and let her know that you are there to be her contact for life. if she feels that she can comply with this directive, proceed with the mission. if she feels that she cannot comply with this directive, ABORT the mission. you have your orders. take care and good luck. this message will self destruct in 10 seconds. 10-9-8-7-6-5-4....

Joined: 6/28/2009

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I want companionship and love, but it's not happening Posted: 7/3/2009 10:21:46 AM
hmm... where do i begin? your 18 you don't have a girlfriend your feeling like it's only you your friends are doing it you feel it's never going to happen (stop me when i'm wrong) look stuck, you act like 18 is close to death. add 18 years to that and your now 36. you are as they see you are. change your style, change your clothes, heck even change your nose (kidding). nomatter what you try your still 18, and the sooner you understand that your just starting to experience life the faster it comes. you can hope and wish for a girlfriend day and night, but that won't get it. you have to apply yourself. if you shine within yourself, others will see that light and will be drawn to it like "moths to a flame". so get over the, " i'm never gonna", and make your light as BRIGHT as the sun! forget about the time line you put yourself in and reach for the stars. time stands still for no one person! whoever she is out there for you needs to see your light SHINING, not flickering with self doubt. MAN UP!!!

Joined: 6/28/2009

Msg: 146 (view)

Justifying Cheating? Posted: 7/3/2009 9:59:45 AM
CHEATING. there is no justification of the act. it is what it is no matter the reason. if you think that by going outside the circle of trust and love it somehow makes it easier or better for the relationship, it doesn't. we all have our excuses for it, but, the fact still remains, CHEATING IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE WRONG!

Joined: 6/28/2009

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Unnecessarily mean rejection? Posted: 7/3/2009 9:50:17 AM
she opened the door and you walked through it. not to say your entrance was the best, it was somewhat expected. your not really mean, it's just that you are afraid of relationships and have a problem conversing with people. what you think is a joke, others see as a lame attempt at humor.

Joined: 6/28/2009

Msg: 12 (view)

I would like some advice... Posted: 7/2/2009 9:32:22 AM
finding a meeting place isn't gonna assure you a hook up. if you wanna find singles' go to where the fun is. surely you have a place there that deals with fun? singles' like to enjoy themselves, "they have noone to enjoy it with". fun brings more fun people out in the open. if you really want to meet singles', try doing something you enjoy, and i assure you, fun will come to you.

Joined: 6/28/2009

Msg: 28 (view)

Should i take this guy serious Posted: 7/2/2009 9:08:01 AM
taking this guy serious is not the best thing to do. he is distant from you, so you become his talk buddy. he can talk to you for hours, then, out of the blue he disappears. you are a comfortable zone relationship for him. when things don't go right on his end, he falls back on you to be that comfortable converstaion. if he accuses you of talking to someone else, he more than likely has a friend on the side. be friends but nothing more, he already shows you how it will be with the two of you together, right?

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