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nangelsheart

Joined: 2/26/2006

Msg: 529 (view)

Long hair on older women Posted: 8/11/2007 3:12:10 PM
You go girl! I am 57 and I do what I WANT not what someone else tells me especially someone younger with hardly any 'life experience.' I LOVE my hair long and will DIE with my hair long. I look better with it long and it makes me feel much more femine and comforable. In other words....it's ME and if others don't like...oh well. I am F I N E and enjoying being me and REFUSE to get old! I am told all the time I don't look my age and that is BECAUSE I have learned to LOVE ME and TAKE CARE OF ME and that means eating right (not a fantatic though) and exercising (not enough to kill myself though) and being spiritually in touch with my soul. And I don't worship the sun so that cuts down on wrinkles and I use a very good skin care routine. So, if you want to look good at ANY age.....you need to be willing to do what it takes and STOP thinking old. If you THINK you are old you will LOOK it and ACT it and FEEL like it. It's a fact, that your body responds to what you THINK. So think those POSITIVE thoughts and life will be alot happier for you and those around you. BLESSINGS and PEACE

nangelsheart

Joined: 2/26/2006

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Dating at this age seems challenging (48 years old) Posted: 3/6/2006 3:08:24 PM
I have a web cam on another free dating site and if anyone 'questions' my pictures I just say .."Okay click on my web cam and SEE for yourself!" I have always been thanked for being HONEST. When you lie you have to remember each one you tell to cover the previous one. My advice? GET A WEBCAM and if the other person just CAN'T seem to find a way to get one so you can SEE them.......chances are pretty good their picture is one from YEARS ago or they posted FAKE ones. IF a person is being HONEST with you...they don't find excuses.. ~BLESSINGS and PEACE~ ^i^Angel^i^

nangelsheart

Joined: 2/26/2006

Msg: 146 (view)

How Come There Are So Many Married People on a Dating Site? Posted: 3/6/2006 2:46:53 PM
Well well well...............THANK GOD I found someone in the SAME mess as I am in! Are you my double??? Your have worded your post EXACTLY according to MY situation. AMAZING! As for ME.....I have NEVER met anyone from online. I am LEARNING about people in general by reading posts such as these and seeing what is "out there".... When you live with someone who you know deep down has WASTED your life but you stayed for the "sake of the kids"....and who REFUSES to give you a divorce but has HIS profile on yahoo and aol as marital status - DIVORCED and doesn't post his REAL age....well... hell WHY can't "I" do the same BUT ........"I DON'T LIE".....if I wanted to lie I wouldn't be posting this right now! And I AM a LADY with morals and values (believe it or not)....I am NOT looking for sex or silly games....I keep "hoping" by the Grace of GOD that "maybe" I will find someone on this site to at least be my FRIEND as that is ALL I want right now. After being married for 36 years.......it is NOT easy to just "change" and have a different mind set. Plus there is the financial issue. YES I work FULL TIME in a Pre-School and do NOT make alot of money. So right now......it is a matter of financial convenience. I have MY room and he has his. He is into spanking and S & M...We went to Christian counseling and it didn't work. Soooooooooooooooooo...........I prayed about it...and here I am!! Now...you can be judgemental - that is your perogative. But I know that GOD understands my situation and HE is the one I deal with. We ALL have our stories and NO I am NOT interested in some pathetic "affair"... I am praying for TRUE RESPECTFUL FAITHFUL LOVE to find me. Hmmmmm does that REALLY happen? I am human...I make mistakes just like everyone else. ~BLESSINGS and PEACE~ ^i^Angel^i^

nangelsheart

Joined: 2/26/2006

Msg: 53 (view)

Ladies, please explain what this means.. Posted: 3/5/2006 3:54:29 PM
I have read all the posts and the common denominater is that we ALL need to realize that as we "mature" we NEED to be aware of our HEALTH. If you are in GOOD health you will FEEL better physichally and mentally. The Mind Body and Spirit all in ONE. It all works together. DON'T sit around and DWELL on NEGATIVITY in your life. Wake UP with a POSITIVE mind set and go forth and ENJOY your day and tell yourself you WILL have a GOOD day!! 98% of this IS mind set you know. The media plays an important part by DWELLING on LOOKS and this YOUTH "obsession" that is rampant in this country. Plus - people have become self-centered. It's All about Me syndrome. They can say what they want about the 50's era but back then ... things were simpler and dating was done with RESPECT. This 3rd date rule I read about on this forum is pathetic. (Go read about it) Breast implants were unheard of! We seemed to be happy with our looks back then. And the music was HAPPY! Nothing sexually explicit. Ahhhhhhh the 50's...remember when. For ME those were GREAT times....and I wish it could be like that again. Sometimes I do wonder if progress really is good. Ya know? Anyway.........take care of yourself and everything else will just fall into place. Works for me! ~BLESSINGS and PEACE~ ^i^Angel^i^

nangelsheart

Joined: 2/26/2006

Msg: 52 (view)

Help me I'm almost 50..... Posted: 2/26/2006 1:24:45 PM
Well...........I sat here and read all the posts on this particular topic and with your kind permission wish to post my opinion. I am 55 going to be 56 in May of this year. And words of wisdom are what I am offering to ALL eyes reading this post. FIRST of all.........the big SECRET to staying "young" (which is an obsession) is to learn to "Love Yourself". When you love "yourself" (not being egotisical now) your body and mind and spirit 'respond'. You feel BETTER about yourself and what other people think just doesn't matter because you KNOW that you are just F I N E. You will automatically adopt a more POSITIVE outlook on life. I am not saying life will be all roses because common sense should tell you that is next to impossible. But it WILL "empower" you to handle life's lessons on a more positive level and to continue on and cherish the moments in your life; as I have learned to do...(SMILE) Sing....if you can't sing...who cares!! Sing anyway! Can't dance? Dance anyway? Each of these exercises are good for the soul and keeping yourself young and fit! Singing is great exercise for the lungs and dancing for the heart as well. KNOW what health issues are and what you REALLY need to change. Smoking doesn't help you to be your healthiest now does it? Do your best to stop. THINK of what you WANT to "feel" like after all age is REALLY a "feeling" issue and not just a chronological state. And last but not least LOVE with all your heart and soul and FORGIVE. Not forgiving causes you so much heartache and STRESS. By not forgiving "you only hurt yourself" and give the person who wronged you the control over your life that YOU should have! Oh and use sunblock ;) ~BLESSINGS and PEACE~ ^i^Angel^i^

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