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Wierdest things Dates have done! Posted: 3/6/2011 1:14:52 PM
I had met this one woman a few times for lunch and coffee. She was very involved in activities in her church - choir, fellowship dinners and such. One Saturday, she calls me and says she's nearby, and would like to stop by my place. Very religious, church lady, right? Remember that. She arrives, rings the doorbell, comes in through the door, and pretty much attacks me. She's still just inside the door wearing only her panties when I manage to lead her to the bedroom. Then, in the middle of sex, the woman starts speaking in tongues! I did see her one more time just to see if it was a fluke, and it wasn't. We were, shall we say, "busy," when, yep, all sorts of gibberish starts coming out of her mouth - "speaking in tongues."

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porno movie theater Posted: 7/22/2006 3:45:29 PM
There are still a few of them around. I know there's one in Atlanta, but I haven't gone to it. From what I've read here, I don't think I would want to go. The last time I went, my date and I went because the place was showing Behind The Green Door. The theater's sound system stopped working, and I ended up in the projection booth helping fix it. My date was understanding, but I can't believe now that I left her alone for even a few minutes there.

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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me? Posted: 6/17/2006 6:08:49 PM
jaya4cd wrote "Doing things to make your boyfriend want to spank you out of anger is liable to get you abused...trust me, you don't want to go there. If you are fantasizing about being spanked by someone angry, then I'd suggest you get counseling. Starting to venture into abuse in relation to sex is a slippery slope and eventually you'll be wanting more and more and it gets dangerous and very dysfunctional. My ex dated this woman who was in her thirties, and she had to be beaten by her ex-husband to get aroused...she said it started with some light wrestling around and spanking and over a few years escalated to beatings where she was black and blue on her body and face. I suggest not going there, but seeking counseling for your unresolved issues. Spanking for fun during sex is one thing, but wanting someone to get angry enough to spank you is just dysfunctional. " [\quote] I agree with most of what jaya4cd wrote in terms of actual abuse or having to be beaten to get aroused, but I've also known some people who were emotionally healthy but were more than a little kinky and would get a bruise now and again.

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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me? Posted: 6/17/2006 5:58:48 PM
SexyEyes, Do an internet search on the phrase, "domestic discipline." I don't know if what you'll find there will be interesting to you, but it couldn't hurt to look. And just for the record in case anyone reads this post later, this is not something that interests me personally, but I've talked with people who were very interested in it.

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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me? Posted: 6/17/2006 5:36:58 PM
when i thought about it ... i would get turned on and fantasize [about] him actually doing it. ... i actually provoked it ... but he didnt take the bait and never ended up spanking me :( Yep, you've gotta talk to him about this. And, HAVE FUN!!!

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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me? Posted: 6/17/2006 4:31:19 PM
SexyEyes, I agree with the people who are saying ask him, and I'd also suggest that you think more about what you want from him and your relationship. Do you only want a spanking, or is there more (or less)? Is it just for fun, or does it really work for you? Be prepared to talk with him by knowing what you want and why you want it. Then, HAVE FUN!!

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Classy if a girl offers to pay half? Posted: 3/25/2006 6:30:01 PM
I dated one woman who had a good job, and she suggested that we always split the bill because it meant we could go to nicer places to eat. It was nice to be able to go to some of the really good restaurants as a matter of routine. She was right. We were both going to places that cost twice as much as either of us could have afforded if either of us had been taking care of the whole tab.

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best brand of condom Posted: 3/25/2006 6:13:00 PM
Trojan. I learned something that's probably worth sharing about condoms in general. And, I promise, I'm not trolling, I'm not fronting, and I'm not trying to represent myself as anything but an average Joe. For many years, I hadn't needed them because of being in a monogamous relationship. Then, when I did need to buy some, I read the packages and bought some that were "specially shaped for maximum sensitivity." They're not "specially shaped for maximum sensitivity"; that's code for small.

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How old were you when you saw your first porn? Posted: 3/21/2006 3:43:41 PM
16 for me. I went to the drive-in. The funny thing about it was that I asked a friend of mine to go with me in case I needed an adult with me to get in. There's no penthouse letter here and no abuse story, but she was 21 or 22. I remember that she was bored. I on the other hand was not. The funniest thing about the evening was that the car windows started steaming up starting with the driver's side window and spreading across the front windshield until I had to start the car and run the defroster. That was embarassing.

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Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends? Posted: 3/6/2006 3:41:24 PM
I had a relationship in my past that included "benefits" that lasted years. She and I would suspend the "benefit" part of our friendship if either of us started dating anyone, and if the dating relationship ended, then we'd start up the "benefits" again when neither of us was seeing anyone. I suspect that a part of the reason that we were able to do it successfully is that neither of us viewed the other as an appropriate choice as a romantic partner - We were only good friends.

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OK, I'll Bite (But only if you ask nice); review me! Posted: 3/1/2006 4:45:37 PM
I tried to communicate that I was intelligent, well rounded, and wanted to start a family. Do I come across that way? For that matter, how do I come across?

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rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 1:42:32 PM
Omega X, there are some women who like really rough sex. You'd be doing what she wants if that's the case. Relax, be a nice guy, and give her what she wants (but ONLY if that IS what she wants!!!) You might find you like it if you try it.

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rough sex? Posted: 2/26/2006 1:38:15 PM
I think it's a continuum. There are some who want no roughness at all and others who really enjoy it often. As long as it's consensual, do what you enjoy!

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A Threesome Relationship????? Posted: 2/26/2006 1:15:03 PM
I've never been in what I would consider a "threesome relationship", but there was a time many years ago when I was involved in two intimate relationships with two different people at the same time. By the way, both of the women knew one another and knew I was seeing both of them, and they were both OK with the situation. I wouldn't have done it otherwise. I wouldn't do it again. I didn't have enough time to do justice to either relationship, and even though both said they were OK with the situation, I felt that both held back in the relationships. The funny thing is that I broke up with one of them because on the nights I was with the other, she was cheating on me with a guy named Carry.

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Sexual Etiquette Posted: 2/26/2006 12:53:48 PM
Just for the record, a "queef" is the sound made when air leaves a vagina or the act of the air escaping. I honestly thought this was common knowledge.

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