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SweetNSassy14u

Joined: 7/1/2009

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Womens likes in profiles Posted: 7/13/2009 6:14:10 PM
I didnt putting nuttin in my profile of the sort. But I do like friends, beer and bonfires... does that count?

SweetNSassy14u

Joined: 7/1/2009

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Can Anyone Relate to Dating a Woman who is Bi-Polar? Posted: 7/11/2009 12:18:48 PM
Just realized from the last post that the guy I had dated probably has some kind of disorder himself. He had the worse case of road rage i ever saw. When he was happy he was fun and spontaneous but when he got mad he made me feel like it was all my fault... no accountability whatsoever. So there is a mix... Depression (me) and BPD (him). I still miss him like crazy cuz when it was good it was really good but I think in the long run he would have destroyed me in some way with his anger.

SweetNSassy14u

Joined: 7/1/2009

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Can Anyone Relate to Dating a Woman who is Bi-Polar? Posted: 7/7/2009 6:34:01 PM
So i've been told guilt has a lot to do with bi-polar Bi-Polar and Depression is a chemical imbalance. Kept in check by medication. And if you would take the time to read other ppls comments who know about these conditions that you would also know that there are different levels of these conditions. Guilt has nothing to do with this other than to feel bad about having an episode. Or from your significant other making you feel bad about your condition. You should maybe think about getting some anger management councelling.

SweetNSassy14u

Joined: 7/1/2009

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Bad boys and drama queens Posted: 7/4/2009 3:37:12 PM
This whole online dating things is sooooooooooo weird to me. Like a giant smorg...lol. I have many facets to me that I cannot describe my personality wholly in just a few paragraphs....and it anyone is like me I dont want to read a book on here either... so which facet so you present in order to land the big fish? What do ppl want dammit?

SweetNSassy14u

Joined: 7/1/2009

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Bad boys and drama queens Posted: 7/4/2009 3:00:54 PM
I dont think all men want what you just described. i think there are some guys out there who have an edge to them but are also responsible and look for the same in a partner. Its all in the packaging I guess.

SweetNSassy14u

Joined: 7/1/2009

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Bad boys and drama queens Posted: 7/4/2009 2:02:10 PM
Good answer. I created this profile to see what kinds of responses I would receive. Was very interesting to note that none of the so called "bad boys" made any effort to contact me, rather, it was the normal. "successful" and normal types who did. I think everyone wants spice in their life. But saying that standards play an important role here too. Why cant we have both?

SweetNSassy14u

Joined: 7/1/2009

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Can Anyone Relate to Dating a Woman who is Bi-Polar? Posted: 7/4/2009 1:31:43 PM
I really liked how you responded to the Bi-polar thing. I have never been diagnosed as being Bi-polar but I have been treated for depression on and off over the past 15 years. (4-5 times). Always ended up going off the meds after several months. I have had a different often difficult life. Married young, divorced after 10 years, lived with an abusive partner for 5 years with whom I also had a child, returned to school as an adult student (single parent) for 6 years, got a degree, moved constantly (across the country) some decent jobs as a result, but the depression seemed to follow me nonetheless. Crappy relationships thru out the whole time. Difficulty with family relations as well. Lost a very good job a year ago but have since bounced back. After an extremely bad depression after the job loss I realized that maybe I needed to stay on the anti-depressants on a continual basis as they seem to keep me level. I also take anti-anxiety meds to help me sleep. After 6 months or so I was able to land another great job which I love doing. Lots of responsibility and it pays very well. I also met a guy on POF who was so much fun, extremely handsome and sexy as hell. I fell head over heels but he made it so easy for me to do. I was having so much fun that I had forgotten to take my meds for 3 days. Then he flipped out on me. Over something so miniscule that I dont even recall what it was. But he made me feel really bad about myself and I went home. I started drinking and eventually had a bad episode. I realize that it was a mixture of not taking the anti-depressants, the drinking and of course having been made to feel really bad about myself from a guy I adored. He pulled the same shit on me the next weekend and I decided to back off. He did have a temper on him and he didnt fight fair. Cheap shots and all that. I began to think that it was him who had the problem (anger issues definitely). He accused me of being dependant on drugs (anti-stupid pills he called them), and even tho I explained to him that this was a chemical imbalance in the brain I could still lead a normal life as long as I kept taking my meds. What he said hurt me, I dont think depression is a fair term as it makes us who suffer from seem to other ppl as being psychos. I at least can admit that I have a condition but I am responsible enough to take my meds (which are expensive too). Its stupid but I do miss him like crazy and I wish he didnt have such a terrible temper, but I know that I need to be with someone who also can understand this condition and not make me feel bad about having it. Am I Bi-polar? I dont really know. I just know that I want to find a guy who keeps me smiling and looking forward to seeing him every day.

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