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Joined: 7/2/2009

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When arranging A Meet- why don't people turn up? Posted: 7/18/2009 12:30:36 PM
Ir probably is just nerves for those who don't show up. It's not easy for someone who is nervous to just say he is nervous too. Some are probably just losers. Some probably just like playing around online. Nothing wrong with that, but if they go so far as to arrange an actual meet and then no show, that's messed up on their part. If I lived in the UK I know that I wouldn't no-show you :)

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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men? Posted: 7/18/2009 12:27:22 PM
I would be turned on thinking about it. I wouldn't feel good that she was embarassed and said it was a mistake. I like when a girl likes to be wild and isn't ashamed of it.

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Women Don't Always Cum Posted: 7/16/2009 9:47:14 PM
Well actually if my guy didn't cum I would feel I didnt do my job but........ a woman is different than a man. Doesn't take much for a man to cum at all. For a woman her mind, her emotions, along with the perfect combination of stimuli all have to work perfectly together for her to achieve an "O". It's not like it's THAT easy to make a guy cum. If a guy is in a terrible emotional state it's a lot harder.

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Very long term threesome - Mine was wonderful. Yours? Posted: 7/13/2009 5:20:37 PM
I've never had one. My GF really wants to have one but I highly doubt we will ever find a girl compatible with both of us.

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Actual meetings with women Posted: 7/12/2009 8:23:03 AM
I have to think this is just a fake post. Seriously, 10 women and no response? Message a hundred with no response and then you can worry about where else to look. I get like 1 out of 10 replies, and I'm only 24, tall, educated, all that nice stuff. If you're 74 looking for people in a very specific range and you email only 10 and think you're going to get anywhere, then you're crazy and no amount of advice will help.

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Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys Posted: 7/11/2009 7:36:44 PM
And, I'm sorry, but I still don't see why the b j is so freaking important to guys, unless they are such control freaks or spoiled children that they have to have their own way all the time. Thats why we think you are a frigid feminazi ****. There are plenty of posts in this thread explaining just that. You respond by saying you don't understand and you call people to whom bjs are important a bunch of angry names. You are trying to be angry. People here are trying to answer your question, and most of them are doing so in a legitimately friendly way. Instead of taking their answers, you insult people, stereotype men, and ignore what people write. You want to be angry at men in general and this is just a venue you're using. You don't actually care about the question you asked.

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A question for Men Regarding Online Porn/Sex Chat & Monogomous Relationship Posted: 7/11/2009 9:46:27 AM
Even if he doesn't meet these women, he is emotionally cheating on her. It is to fulfill an emotional need from some other person. If he is lacking that badly in his esteem, that he has to be an attention whore, and get letters from women to perk up his esteem, then he doesn't need a gf, he needs some sort of counseling to find out why he needs to have so much attention from the opposite sex. It's all a matter of degree. If he is turning down his girlfriend to spend time with women online then it is more of an issue. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be accepted or popular or whatever you want to call it. That doesn't mean you need counseling, it's a normal human impulse. People want to be liked. If you're taking it to an extreme, letting online dating sites consume your life when you have a girlfriend, that is different. Maybe you have never spent large periods of time alone without getting any attention from the opposite sex, feeling completely undesired. People who feel highly undesired by the opposite sex are going to want to feel more desired, and it is hard for one woman to completely fulfill that desire, even if she is completely into the guy. It doesn't make the guy a bad person.

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A question for Men Regarding Online Porn/Sex Chat & Monogomous Relationship Posted: 7/10/2009 11:05:02 PM
I wouldn't say that it necessarily means he does not really want to marry you and have your child. Obviously, those kind of experiences (meeting people online and chatting) are experiences he enjoys. He enjoyed them when he met you, and he's not going to stop enjoying that feeling now that he's with you. People like to feel attractive. Especially for guys who didn't get a lot of attention from girls in real life, going online to these sorts of sites can be addictive. I'm that kind of guy. It's a nice feeling to get that email coming from some girl you messaged online. I met my girlfriend online and we've been together a year and a half and things are great between us, but I still like to chat with other people online. A difference is that I won't lie to her about it, and she's ok with it and does it herself too, and I don't portray myself as single. But his behavior hiding these actions is excusable if he didn't think you would understand even though its innocent. If he's really trying to meet people in person, that is one thing. If he's just fulfilling internet fantasies that he cannot really fulfill with you, it's not really a big deal.

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I thought I had heard it all but someone else's is always worse Posted: 7/10/2009 5:55:58 PM
Maybe there was something important he wanted to watch? Maybe she wasn't very good in bed? Maybe he's just addicted to multitasking? Yeah, none of those are really good reasons. That is pretty funny :)

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Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys Posted: 7/10/2009 5:36:26 PM
You're just looking to be angry. I would be turned off by a woman who wouldn't want to "give" me head. Why? Because I enjoy getting head. I don't like when women look at any sexual acts as something they're "giving" the other, not something the two people are doing together. People should find people they are compatible with. It's fine for you to not want to give head, swallow cum, put out in any way, do anything, but it's also fine for a guy to not want to be with you for those reasons. If some woman had a sexual desire and I came out and told her there was no way I was going to do it, it would be fine for her to be turned off and want to have a relationship with a different guy. Same as if I like watching movies, and I start dating a woman, and the says NO WAY AM I EVER GOING TO THE MOVIES WITH YOU. I would find a woman who would go to the movies with me, and that seems pretty normal.

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Imagine this...one day we were to wake up and.... Posted: 7/10/2009 12:56:23 PM
I wouldn't change anything, but then again I'm not very cautious as it is.

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no sex for 15 months Posted: 7/7/2009 2:37:32 PM
I only had sex for the first time a year and a half ago, but since then, almost 6 days.

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sexually shy? Posted: 7/7/2009 11:02:34 AM
Where is the line drawn? Who cares. Seriously. Be yourself, if the guy likes it he likes it, if he doesn't find a guy who does.

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