I don't want a man who has so little self-control he has to "get his sexual needs met elsewhere" if we're building a relationship.
I wouldn't have sex until we'd dated long enough to decide to become exclusive, monogamous and committed AND the STD tests had come back clean.
That would be at least 6 months. If a man can't deal with that, he's free to go find a woman with lower standards and relief himself.

Absolutely agree. I prefer to wait a lil while, three months is about what I feel comfortable with. But once its on its on lol

Reading comprehension? Newberrys responded reasonably to the insufficient information YOU provided.

What would be nice, is if older women (my age) would stop griping so much about just this issue: all the "older" guys are dating much younger women. Gee, I wonder why?

You made your bed, ladies . . . now you get to lie in it!

How much can it grow, really?

This could apply to both sexes I suppose, but since I am a woman I guess I am wondering if other women dating men 40+ have had experiences with men who have behaved like this?

So ladies just my personal view, if your soo busy and have to actually announce to the fishy's that you are that busy, for me its not worth the effort cuz you are busy.... lol ....... i gotta go i'm busy

then why are you on here then? If you are so busy maybe you should date the thing your so busy with?

What's even more fun, is that there ARE a few men, albeit...most of them 10 yrs younger than me....who don't have a cow over the fact that I have a retirement income from working 30+ years rather than having extorted it from an ex husband through alimony.

LOL! go figure....why do these guys find it perfectly ok to accept a woman's income if it comes from her ex...but can't handle the thought that she worked for it herself?

A couple people here have referred to liking big women as a fetish. Is liking skinny women a fetish? Big breasts? Bis butts? Large nipples? Small nipples? Long hair? Short hair? Tall/short men/women? Thick thighs? Thing thighs? Do fetishes change as societal norms change? Did the Renaissance painters have a fetish? What makes liking big women a fetish as opposed to all those other things?

I been getting good and bad emails.

For the one or two women reading this saying, " BS. I can cum a dozen times in 10 minutes JUST from clit play. " I salute you. You've probably fried your clit with a vibrator but if it can happen for you like that then good for you. You are as rare as croc feathers!!!

SO when women say their clitoral orgasm (note the singular there) is better than a G-GASM (again note the singular) one wonders if they even know. If they DO and they still prefer A clitoral orgasm then fine. Enjoy. WALLOW in it. REFAWKINGJOICE!!! When they keep using the singular for orgasm I always wonder though .... A GOOD clitoral orgasm is a wunnerful thing but compared to a dozen or more O's of the same intensity ... but one right after another and again .... just sayin ....

Gawd, there are a lot of people who have trouble comprehending what is being written here.

Yes, there is a difference
Yes, G Spot orgasms are better

ANY pleasure IS an individual thing. I'm NOT and never have claimed that this is the only way. I'm simply OFFERING a variation for those who haven't experienced it yet.

I might even take some perverse pleasure in knowing that your attitude has ensured you never reach that level of pleasure and intimacy with a lover

Yes, there is a difference
Yes, G Spot orgasms are better

That's because you forgot to give him a peniis!

Passion is a GIVEN.

A woman should pay everything for her own

otherwise guys expect something in return.

But if she does so, guys would leave her thinking she doesn't want anything to do with them.

so far... there have only been 2 female posters (post 11 and post 6) and they don't make any sweeping statements about anyone ... ?

Valid point, but some times it is best to ignore. Not feed the trolls and negativity.

Let's have a forum about Men only wanting women with a hot body...even if they are dumb as a brick.

Is kissing cheating... My girl friend who recent took me back confessed to me she kissed another guy

Alberta or North.

However no one ( man or woman ) has the right to expect sex from another no matter what the cost of dinner is

Where I live, if a person has acted in the role of a parent for a significant portion of the child's life, then he is culpable for child support.

Should guys be concentrating on getting inside their woman's mind and enhancing her feelings, rather than learning a slew of physical techniques (which a woman can do on her own anyway)?

she told me that she meets guys at the "Y"'s gym. I said first off, these guys can't afford to date you.

How dumb is he to say that to his current girlfriend? Is he stupid?

I find it odd that some women cannot accept that they are in control or have the upper hand on POF?

Whats the big deal? Of course you do, you call the shots.

Enjoy it!

I think anyone, male or female, who becomes so inebriated that they pass out and are taken advantage of sexually by someone should not be allowed to claim rape. It's immoral for someone to force sex on you in any condition, but there is no reason to get that hammered in the first place. It shows incredibly bad judgment and lack of self-restraint.

But there are a lot of cougars that chase the navy boys around every summer along with their search for the university boys in the bars.

To me it appears that the only thing remarkably different here is that the pig is the man whereas it was the woman in the other thread.

i do have mail... and some are around my age....

Still, I think that part of what is at issue here is an ethical question... perhaps something like: "Is it morally permissible to have sex with someone you don't care about as a person?". If one attempts to answer this question based on deontological ethics, then the answer is likely no, because we have a moral duty to others to treat them with care and respect. And this sort of ethical principle is not limited to sex. It applies universally to all interactions with others.

favor*
typo sorry

Nah, my take is he is saying being warm sweet and kind TRUMPS all of the other attributes.

That's right Margo. Trumps but not mutually exclusive. The one I am with now is quite accomplished, educated and intelligent. When we met she didn't say any of that. She said she was a one man woman, loyal, playful and very down to earth. I could see how pleasant and kind she was. Her core identity rests upon her being a pleasant woman not on being an academic professional. There is a huge difference.

Most obesity researchers now agree that metabolic differences, not willpower, are the driving forces behind weight and appetite control. Studies suggest that an imbalance of brain chemicals and hormones, including cortisol, ghrelin, leptin and serotonin, can increase cravings and make certain foods difficult to resist.

he also may not realize what we offer when we are rejected simply by the number rather than the sum.

Multi-lingual, multi-cultural, well read, articulate, talented, attractive, knowledgeable about world affairs and politics, gourmet cook and fine wines, travelled, well respected in our careers, social outlets, loving

our only sins-----------------we aren't 25

If a man does not appreciate us.............he does not deserve us.

In my opinion, the only comments with any validity here, are the ones from those who are 60+.

I am more interested in people that started dating, say, at 23, and they're still together at 35-40, both physically and emotionally excited with each other.