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2squishy

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Halloween B & B Oct 25/08 Posted: 10/23/2008 6:29:40 PM
brneyedvixen...I'd like to say, if I see you there, I'll say hi...but, don't know ya...SOOO... have a blast...as I will...and your right... BOOOO to all you doubters....

2squishy

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oct 31 Posted: 10/18/2008 10:00:54 AM
What is PAL? I've been out of the loop for a while... I am going out, but I will be in Rivers this year....

2squishy

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How long is too long on POF ? When do you get tired of the same ole, same ole ? Posted: 10/18/2008 10:00:08 AM
For me...I hate it when I am judged for how long I have been on this site... So what! Sometimes I take time off, and sometimes I just socialize with my friends... Being on here a long time doesn't mean anything.... so, like everything else...don't judge. As for luck on here...well, it's all how you take it...and give it... Attitude has a lot to do with it. I have met some jerks on here, but that didn't stop me from trying...

2squishy

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Halloween B & B Oct 25/08 Posted: 10/18/2008 9:56:29 AM
Why do they call it the Black and Blue Ball, perhaps it is because that is the Club that's putting it on!.... I agree with Simple...single... You've never been to a social until you've been to the B&B one!!

2squishy

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Halloween B & B Oct 25/08 Posted: 10/17/2008 11:24:54 AM
What I meant was there is a dungeon area for those interested in flogging. I am very aware bottom genitalia have to be covered, but nothing about boobs showing! Until you've experienced walking in there, you really haven't been to a halloween social! jmho....

2squishy

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Halloween B & B Oct 25/08 Posted: 10/16/2008 8:37:35 PM
I'm going... but honestly, it isn't all about "spanking!".... It's about people coming together to be themselves, no matter who they are.... No different than a regular social, except you may see some bare breasts... (so, if you scared, then not a place for you, or it your close minded either, or judgemental, or enjoy mocking other people) Halloween is usually the busiest one!! Lots of things to see and a new world to explore. (spanking or not).... See you there! I'll be bringing a few newbies with me, because they want to experience the famous Winnipeg Black and Blue Ball!!!! No it isn't for just pervs, or beaters... Yes, there is a spot for that if your into it...but hey, if your not, then stay near the dance floor! I can't believe how people are judging without even going...sad....

2squishy

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Brandon Halloween Events... Posted: 10/6/2008 9:14:29 AM
Just wondering if anyone knows what's happening in Bdn for Halloween... Wanting to dress up and go out, but where.... Perhaps the daring can meet up from POF.... I just hope Elvis doesn't win AGAIN... come on, I've seen some amazing costumes, and Elvis needs to rest this year!!!

2squishy

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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 10/6/2008 7:40:31 AM
Same goes with some men who hate it when a woman squirts in their mouth too... Not everyone is into swallowing cum...either sexes... I am sure they don't stop using their hands so you at least finish.... A lot different if they quit stimulation all together... (in regards to your example)

2squishy

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BRANDON Posted: 9/19/2008 6:37:57 PM
Sign me up!! Nice idea...

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Ever had a Friend with Benefits and was it a good thing for you? Posted: 9/3/2008 6:30:39 PM
Of course I have... however you both have to be emotionally strong enough to handle all the interesting situations you may be in!!! Plus, you have to trust each other and respect each other too....

2squishy

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Psychics in Winnipeg Posted: 8/27/2008 1:34:20 PM
Your right, anyone can post, but I believe the original poster was asking for info about seeing/finding one... Not about smashing her thoughts, and taking over the thread about negative aspects to psychics.... She's looking and I hope she was able to get some advice and her questions answered....

2squishy

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Single parents that prefer to date other single parents really baffles me Posted: 8/24/2008 8:32:48 PM
Well, I'm not nieve enough to think the man I meet won't have kids... Why should I expect any different? I don't think it's fair when a man won't consider me because I have children.... So, why would I treat him the same way? Chances are at my age, men will have children and possibly grandchildren... So what. Blended families DO work...not always, but that goes with marriage too...

2squishy

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10 Things You Should Never Say to a Woman Posted: 8/24/2008 8:10:10 PM
How about: Your mother was better.

2squishy

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Psychics in Winnipeg Posted: 8/21/2008 8:01:09 PM
Well susan_cd... I think we got your point... If you don't believe then don't read this post! It isn't fair and it is extremely rude... I've been to some amazing psychics and even have one on tape. Over 10 yrs later I can listen to it, and how accurate she was... and how LITTLE I talked... Anyhow...I'm watching thread too... Hopefully, no more ignorant people will jump in with their snide comments...

2squishy

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swingers? Posted: 8/21/2008 7:55:12 PM
Well, actually there are several groups out there... I found them easily... Been there and done that... Had a blast... Good luck!

2squishy

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Divorce Lawyers Posted: 11/6/2007 7:03:04 PM
What a petty letter from one lawyer to another. Chances are your X, demanded it be sent??? My stbxh doesn't even have a lawyer and after 2.5 yrs is doing pretty darn well!!! It's my legal aid lawyer(s).....first one left, new one, she recently left, and now they are having a hard time finding a replacement?! sigh... Oh, well. Just gives my X more time to hide income... Considering I have only had 1 pre-trial, (June 2006) but my stbxh didn't follow anything agreed upon. I have only had 1 actually court date, and that was in Jan.2007. So, at this rate, I am thinking 2008ish? From what I understand, legal aid lawyers get a lump sum for each case, no matter how long it takes.... That's my vent...

2squishy

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Kids and Christmas, what's best for them Posted: 11/6/2007 6:41:13 PM
Honestly, my opinion is remembering the excitement when the child opens gifts up, only to be whisked away and not being able to play with them!! What I imagine will happen with us for the childrens sake, is I will have the children from the 24th (afternoon) to the 28th or so...THEN, next year my stbxh will have the children for the main Xmas day/evening/holiday... JMHO After all, it in the best interest of the child. I'm an adult and can deal with it...at least next year!

2squishy

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I HATED that movie! Posted: 10/23/2007 4:33:43 PM
Vampire Assassins:

2squishy

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What to do about the dead-beat dad eppidemic! Posted: 10/9/2007 6:38:04 PM
50/50 is difficult unless you live close together. In Canada, "women" mainly get joint custody with them having "primary care and control". It is very difficult to prove that one parent should be "above" another. In my case, I know my STBXH would NOT want the kids any more than every other weekend.... you can't exactly enforce them to parent either.

2squishy

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What to do about the dead-beat dad eppidemic! Posted: 10/9/2007 11:21:42 AM
I agree men and women should be treated equally when it comes to paying child support and collecting it! if the Policitans cared they would have done something about it. What would you like to see different?

2squishy

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Single Dad's trying to Collect Child support Posted: 10/9/2007 11:09:04 AM
Equality...go after child support for your son! Just because she choose to have another baby doesn't mean her financial obligations to her first born are gone! Just a very sad situation for your son. Good luck!!

2squishy

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Maintenance Enforcement Program (MEP) Posted: 10/9/2007 10:58:34 AM
I know what site to read on in regards to MEP... I know what the courts offer for assisting families going through divorce. Just because it is written down, doesn't mean it is followed. Just like MEP and all the ways they can collect child support. Doesn't mean they do it... "For Sake of the Children" is voluntary. I have taken it 2x. "Mediation" is voluntary. I asked and my X refused to partake in it. As for MEP, well, my friend was $18 short one month and was going to loss his license. Meanwhile my X is $4,000 behind and nothing! (Once we get into court about 2005/2006 he will be behind almost $18,000) I was told directly from MEP in Winnipeg, each case is handled independantly and it doesn't matter what the payer owes!!! I do NOT agree with that! (Just like my example above) It depends on the case worker as to how the file is being dealt with? I can completely understand if it took a long time to collect if MEP had a difficult time locating the person. However, in my situation, not only did I give them his mailing address, SIN number, drivers' license number, vehicle plate numbers, work information, including cell numbers, etc.etc.etc. There is no logical reason why it take so long to collect. I do realize MEP workers have many files to deal with. It is THEIR job to collect on behalf of our children. There are men (in general, women too) that pay support but voluntarily never see their children. That is a whole different story. There are men that pay support and see their children as often as possible but rarely co-parent "nicely". Then there are men that not only pay support but help out any way they can, and the have a great co-parenting relationship. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ If you dealt with MEP, what steps did they take to collect child support? How long did it take? Did you feel it was fair? If your a payor, what steps did they do to collect? Did you think it was fair?

2squishy

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what is in the best intrest of the child?? Posted: 10/4/2007 10:48:32 AM
the best interest of the child is to ensure their parent(s) put the child's needs and emotional well-bring ahead of their own, make rational and mature decisions on their behalf, do not make accusations against the other parent that are unfounded, work with the various resources available to be a better parent Exactly...

2squishy

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Maintenance Enforcement Program (MEP) Posted: 10/4/2007 10:46:12 AM
ooless, sorry, I don't quite understand you. MEP officers are not exactly going to comment their system has flaws in it... I'm trying to find out what flaws us parents notice.

2squishy

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Single Parents: Do you believe your ex's total household income should reflect Child Support? Posted: 10/3/2007 12:45:08 PM
BillTheCard: Just because there is a program, doesn't mean it works... (I posted my issues of this on the Manitoba site)

2squishy

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Canadian Dollar Now at Par with U.S Dollar! Posted: 10/3/2007 12:01:12 PM
You know what was strange, I went and got some US money orders, and there STILL was a price difference! I asked, isn't the dollar Par? (My account has free money order) I still don't know why...but it wasn't par when I did it! lol... Perhaps she was just a new teller...

2squishy

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Maintenance Enforcement Program (MEP) Posted: 10/3/2007 11:57:44 AM
Well, my main goal was to find out from single parents if they had a hard time collecting child support and used the maintenance enforcement program implimented in Manitoba. Failure to pay child support effects everyone. First of all the children get hurt. Second, some end up on social assistance...etc. I also know men who are faithful at paying support sometimes get the raw end of the deal. It's hard to change laws when nobody steps up. I've gone as far as communicating with an MLA and he agrees, change is needed. I don't expect to change anyone either...just don't judge me.

2squishy

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%&$@**! carriages on buses Posted: 10/1/2007 7:29:15 PM
Well, for big families it isn't that easy just to fold up and hold. When my children were babies, 1 & 2 yrs old, I had to have a stroller... Yes, some strollers are WAY to big to be hauling on a bus...the smaller ones work well. However, who's to say how far they are walking once they get there? What about the diaper bag, purse, groceries, etc.etc. Large strollers either take up a handicap area, or block the hall... Perhaps during peek time a rule of some kind.

2squishy

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Maintenance Enforcement Program (MEP) Posted: 10/1/2007 7:18:06 PM
How can MEP do things differently? 1. They can treat everyone who is not paying child support the same. 2. They actually enforce the court order instead of constantly negiotating with the pity party parent that "can't afford to pay" 3. Maybe give a bonus of some kind to parents that pay the correct amount and on time. 4. etc.etc.etc. It all depends on what a person has gone through, and what experiences they have... That is why I asked.

2squishy

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Single Parents: Do you believe your ex's total household income should reflect Child Support? Posted: 10/1/2007 7:10:56 PM
Do I believe the your X's spouse should add to CS? NO. In either party... What really bugs me is my STBXH hasn't paid for CS in over 2 yrs...his SO works 2 full time jobs and he has a good job, but can't pay support? That pisses me off. Knowing he hasn't paid support, I would even ask him to pick up a $12 prescription and he wouldn't...or buy his 1 yr old a pair of winter boots, etc.etc. child support is just another name for spousal support and we all no it No buddy.... we all don't feel the same as you! However, as a former Stepmom, when my STBXH was going through school I helped pay his child support to his first wife... I also made sure my SS had items he needed. More than once bought him shoes, school supplies etc...because I wanted to. If my STBXH partner was any kind of a stepmom she would make sure his children were taken care of...and that my STBXH paid his child support!

2squishy

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Maintenance Enforcement Program (MEP) Posted: 10/1/2007 12:44:21 PM
In regards to Manitoba Child Support, I was wondering if you dealt with MEP (Maintenance Enforcement Program), and how it affected you. Did you feel it was fair? What changes would you like to see different? Did you disagree with how they handled things? If you were the debtor, how did MEP treat you? If you would like a more private area to discuss this, I have a group site on facebook, MEP Manitoba Complaints, common interest and families. It is a closed group. You can also write me at mepcomplaints@hotmail.com. I look forward to discussing issues with you and seeing what could be done differently! Thanks!

2squishy

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oops...pregnant!! And only 1 month into dating... Posted: 9/26/2007 9:33:42 AM
stupid.... ever hear of protection?

2squishy

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2007 B&B Halloween Ball!! Its that time again!! Posted: 9/26/2007 9:29:00 AM
I love going...it's a great time to experience a whole new variety of life styles... Everyone is equal and your treated perfectly. I do highly recommend reading the Rules of the Ball on their website. I am looking forward to the Halloween bash too, and if anyone is wanting to car pool from Brandon, lets work something out!

2squishy

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absolutely idiotic commercials Posted: 9/6/2007 7:40:15 PM
Yes, there are some commercials that are soo stupid... You watch it wondering what it is trying to sell...and it makes no sense at all. Who really gets to vote on what gets aired or not! As for the The IKEA commercial with the "it's just a lamp" theme , I was pregnant when I first saw this, and I CRIED my eyes out...for that lonely lamp tossed in the garbage can... To this day, my teens haven't let me live it down... In fact, during some commercials they will say, "don't worry mom, it isn't a lamp"....

2squishy

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Would You Date Someone Who Posted: 9/6/2007 7:35:33 PM
This is a huge issue with me... A male friend of mine has nothing to do with his 9 yr old son. I have heard all the excuses from him. I have over heard his excuses with everyone. I am not even dating him, and even as a friend it really bothers me. Especially when I vent to him about my STBXH, and he agrees... He has absolutely no right to complain about my STBXH's parenting, visitation, etc... The only different is my friend pays child support! Could I date a guy? NO... Esp. if he choose not to have anything to do with his child....

2squishy

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Hot Asses...No, Really Posted: 9/6/2007 7:32:17 PM
Go to the doctor and have them removed.

2squishy

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MOM OF 6~WHeRe ARe THe Men?!?! Posted: 9/6/2007 7:30:49 PM
Teresa, As a widow with 2 babies ages 1 and 2 yrs old, I didn't start dating again, until they were almost 10 years old! Sure I use to go out and socialize, go to mom's play groups for the kids, etc... Then for me 5 yrs into it, I am going to be divorced, with 2 more babies, and 2 teens. I agree with healing yourself first, then stepping into the dating/world. I would also be heading to get my tubes tied too, if I were you. Heck, that's on my list of to do's! I am 36 yrs old now...

2squishy

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Things That Are Just Sooooo Wrong ......... Posted: 8/23/2007 10:00:05 AM
~ children on leashes! (4sure) ~ anyone spitting, gross ~ wearing clothes that are wayyy to small ~ bad breath ~ constant swearing ~ cell phones going off in movie theatres ~ people that get away with hiding income to avoid child support ~ price of gas

2squishy

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Sex while pregnant Posted: 8/15/2007 7:57:22 PM
I also loved sex when pregnant, however, my X at the time hated it! Talk about 18 months of sexual anger... LOL... Yes... I use to joke, it only take once, and for me it was 2 nights of fun, in 2 years then I was celebit!

2squishy

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Married vs Seperated???? Posted: 8/15/2007 7:48:09 PM
I am separated...in fact almost 2 yrs. The court system takes forever, by the time everything is hashed out, and dealt with... SO, for me, I would be offended if someone turned me away because I was just separated. Unless of course, it was only days/weeks/months... Then again, I am in Canada...

2squishy

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How do I tell my 7 year old her dad's a jerk? Posted: 8/15/2007 3:15:51 PM
You don't.... That isn't fair to her for you to talk about her blood like that. After all, no matter what he is like, it is her father, and HE is a part of her too. "In a childs mind you would be calling her a "jerk", because of the bloodlines too...." She's just a child...

2squishy

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i have a question on raising boys Posted: 8/15/2007 3:13:01 PM
I guess, having raised 3 boys, I would say it's normal. Bathing him 4-5 times a day? That's wayy to much in my eyes. You'll give him a complex about "dirtyness".... For me, what's more important, a spotless house or a happy, well adjusted boy.... allowing my sons to be boys...in fact, my daughter (youngest) is following in their footsteps. He's only 1???? I'm sorry... He's just a child...if you worry about it now, wait until he is 2, 3, 4 etc.etc.etc. Relax... JMHO

2squishy

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pennies in childsupport Posted: 8/15/2007 3:05:41 PM
a gift.... something he should of done anyways! Just like child support on a regular basis too!

2squishy

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Why do so many people seem to hate cops? Posted: 8/7/2007 7:45:57 PM
I would absolutely LOVE to date a cop!!! So, any single cops in Manitoba, Canada? Come my way!

2squishy

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explaning divorce to kids, especially a toddler Posted: 8/7/2007 7:29:19 PM
Quite frankly, I think she is too young for any details... She won't understand. She will understand that both mommy and daddy have different homes. That's all she really needs to know.

2squishy

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quick questions about ex's Posted: 8/7/2007 8:38:34 AM
Well, at least your willing to take the children extra time. I offered my X more times/days and he doesn't want them. I guess it interfers with his quality time with the g/f. My X even agreed on a weekend, but didn't show up. The kids and I sat at a parking lot for an hour waiting. I once had to cancel a visitation weekend, and my X didn't even want to "make up" the weekend. I wish my X wanted to spend more time with them, like you...

2squishy

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how many people communicate openly w/the childs other parent Posted: 8/7/2007 8:32:19 AM
i just think it would make everything better if my child is dealing w/parents who are working together and not just going back and forth seperately. does anyone else believe this or is it just ur way because u are the cp or do u just not respect the cp's routine and beliefs and do your own thing w/the child/children As a cp, I have done everything possible to co-parent with my X and his mistress. However, they absolutely refuse to co-operate when it come to parenting the children. They won't even discuss medical issues, toilet training, allergies, etc. It would be great if my X wanted to work as a team, instead of treating the children like sheep. IMHO, my X thinks of his needs before his children... If the tables were turned and I refused to speak to him about the children he would be livid. However, since he doesn't care to know, or talk, then there is nothing I can do. Court ordered or not. Obviously how to talk and discuss is very important so the other parent doesn't get defensive. Yet there are people out there that are just unwilling to work as a team.

2squishy

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To single mom, please find a father for children Posted: 7/30/2007 8:19:07 PM
I am looking for someone for me, who is a good role model for my children too. My teens are 16 and 17. Their father passed away when they were 1 and 2 years old!! SO, they have been raised without a father too...and darn good if I do say so myself. However, I married 8 years ago, and for a while everything went well, until we divorced! (2 yrs ago) SOO, my kids lose a "father figure, male role model, etc." again. NOT fair for them, again, to be tossed away. I'd rather raise them without a dad, who is a terrible role model, and treats me bad, then stay just because they have HIM around... JMHO

2squishy

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Touchy subject...single fathers in family court!!! Posted: 7/30/2007 8:12:32 PM
My guy friend got a letter stating his license will be taken since he is behind in support. SO, I took him down to the court house and found out through MEP, he was indeed behind... A total of $18.00 Yep, that's right! Threatening to take his license on that amount! So, I asked for my account, as I knew he was behind. My Xh is behind almost $3,000. That's also only THIS year. Doesn't account for 2006, 2005... (because we haven't gone to court for the "arrears" yet) Doesn't make sense does it!!!!!!! THERE HAS TO BE SOMEONE TO HELP GREAT DAD'S!!!!

2squishy

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thoughts of a single father with two boys Posted: 7/30/2007 8:06:10 PM
I disagree... I think single dads raising their children are totally amazing!!! Now, trying to find them...!!! I know as a single mom how hard it is to get out of the house, between finding a babysitter, etc... SOOOOOO.... I understand that part. However, I would gladly accept a single dad. I love children, if I met the right man, I would of had lots... Single dads ROCK!

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