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sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 136 (view)

how come women initiate the breakup 80% of the time? Posted: 11/1/2009 8:59:34 AM
I think the above poster is basically right,especially with #1 that has has listed.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 118 (view)

How to build chemistry with the nice guy after always going for the bad boy? Posted: 11/1/2009 8:55:26 AM
You can be a nice guy on the surface,but when you're alone with your woman, become completely different once the lights go out. Nice guy in public,slutty,wild guy(bad boy) at night. I've been told this by other women in the past and always kind of liked it!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 158 (view)

COWARD ! - The Ignoring Game Posted: 11/1/2009 8:37:52 AM
All men are **stards,plain and simple!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 466 (view)

Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 10/31/2009 7:22:25 AM
I prefer redheads,but they're too crazy,so after that,hair color really doesn't matter to me! Although blonds I.Q's are twenty points lower than brunetts,I read that in a medical journal sometime ago.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Successful Coffee Dates? Posted: 10/31/2009 7:18:15 AM
When the coffee is tasty and not too hot when you sip it! Also if you don't spill any of it on you .

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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do average women with numerous emails even try to get to know a man on pof? Posted: 10/31/2009 6:58:25 AM
It's kind of obvious that women are going to get alot more e-mails than you're average guy on here. So the women have alot of choices they can sift through. As men we have to make ourselevs stand out from the competition, otherwise,stay home my mast******!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 73 (view)

looks or profile, what attracks you first? Posted: 10/31/2009 6:53:29 AM
Looking at the picture(s) on the profile to be honest is the first consideration,then looking for common interest listed,if she says she's the prettiest girl in the trailer park,then of course I'm interested!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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What is it about men? Posted: 10/31/2009 6:36:37 AM
What about short hair and riding lawn mowers?

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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How many times ? Posted: 10/31/2009 6:33:30 AM
You should talk at least four times with the minium lenght of conversion lasting at least twenty minutes. Unless you wish to talk at least forty minutes,then two conversations. Also if you don't talk more then ten minutes at a time,then at least eight conversions before that magic first meeting.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Why Do Men Write in Their Profile..FRIENDS FIRST and Then WANT SEX so QUICKLY? Posted: 10/31/2009 6:25:56 AM
After four or five dates,having sex with someone you're attracted to is usually going to at least be attempted in one way or another. I don't see waiting for let's say ten dates before we touch each other's naughty parts. Man have needs and this doesn't mean a guy just wants to get laid,it's just part of a normal relationship. If you try to wait too long(four or more dates,you'll probably have guy's start to lose interest rapidly! Just an opinion from personal experience,

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 33 (view)

Is this a date or a job interview? Posted: 10/27/2009 2:43:22 PM
No it's not like a job interview, just gave me the names of the last three people you've been involved with within the last five years for reference purposes. Thanks,and have a nice day!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 119 (view)

When should the woman offer to pay? Posted: 10/27/2009 2:38:30 PM
I won't let a woman pay if we're out somewhere,but it's nice to here an offer once in a while.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 235 (view)

No sex before marriage Posted: 10/25/2009 4:15:18 PM
Oh was that suppose to be no sex before marriage,I thought it was no tupperware!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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would you date a stripper? Posted: 10/24/2009 2:29:53 PM
I have dated two in the past. Strippers are people just like the rest of us,I could care less how someone chooses to survive. But one problem with alot of strippers is drug use,alot of the girls use drugs,but so do people in all walks of life!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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do we REALLY want a relationship? Posted: 10/24/2009 2:24:12 PM
I've listed myself as "long term",although I wish to never be married again or even live with someone. Sounds odd,but that's sort of what I'm looking for. I'm not a person who gets lonely,and I really do enjoy living by myself,but I don't like doing things by myself,so I'm looking for someone do these things with. As one woman put it,"you want women,but you don't need women"! Which is correct!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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why are MEN over 40 so desperate to get married?? Posted: 10/24/2009 1:49:55 PM
I know for myself that marriage (married once already),is so far away in my mind that the hubble telescope couldn't even find it. But I do know some men that are this way,poor **stards!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Forum personality impact on dating life Posted: 10/24/2009 1:17:17 PM
I suppose whatever you post in the forums could work for or against you as far as what someones opinion is of you after they read some of your recent post. Sometimes I'm in a strange mood and I'll just be sarcastic or alittle warped with what I write,but if that ends up turning someone off,well that's just a version of me that comes out somtimes,sorry in advance,but I don't get nasty or mean though.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Did I miss something??? Posted: 10/24/2009 1:01:31 PM
She's a nut case! I got some weird stories about situations simaliar to yours that I won't even get into,but by all accounts,you had the green light to you're move. Let's watch the movie on my bed. I'm good at giving messages. Boy it sure is getting warm in here. No,you weren't wrong to try,stay away from her,it'll only worst,trust me on this!!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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online dating advice Posted: 10/24/2009 11:25:37 AM
I kind of agree with the meet as soon as possible,saves time,but be prepared for it to usually be a "no-go",most first meet and greets are like this!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Initiating contact Posted: 10/24/2009 10:55:02 AM
Men are usually flattered by this,just say hi to let them know you are interested. Talk about their profile,what interested you about it,it's easy and will get easier the more you do this,good luck and have fun!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Phone Sex and Faking It Posted: 10/20/2009 7:00:13 AM
It would seem that phone sex would hurt,especially the old rotary dial type.

sglwhtmale

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Msg: 154 (view)

Guys, what do you think of the girls? Posted: 10/17/2009 1:46:36 PM
I've met up with two women from this web site,both times weren't very good experiences. The first was with no pictures of her,a mistake I learned very quickly because she was at least eighty pounds over weight when she decribed herself as "average". The second,I won't get into except she was in need of more therapy than she had already received up to the point that I had met her. Anyway,I met someone through a friend and it's good so far. I'm not certain if meeting women in a bar is any worse then meeting through the internet,just my opinion!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 90 (view)

Is it possible for men to flirt Posted: 10/12/2009 4:17:24 PM
Of course we can flirt! It can be how we give you that certain look from across a room. How our eyebrows lift ever so slight as we look into your eyes. Giving you alittle smile as we approach you and let out a "hello" to you. How we turn red when we make our attempt at "small" talk with you. Or the old stand by,"If you show me yours;I will you show you mine! !

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 168 (view)

Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what? Posted: 10/12/2009 3:56:25 PM
Don't worry so much about it, another thirty or forty years from now,It'll all be over with!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Show some intelligence when writing someone. Posted: 10/12/2009 3:44:43 PM
You ser gota perty mouth!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 145 (view)

How far would you travel for a love affair? Posted: 10/12/2009 3:26:51 PM
If it's someone who is intelligent,sincere,down to earth,nice,pretty I'll drive 25 miles, if she's horny and piggish,500 miles!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 73 (view)

Broken Up With For The Strangest Reasons Posted: 10/12/2009 2:56:56 PM
We weren't actually dating,but once I met someone in a bar,and was invited back to her place. She had a cat,and was holding it. I reached over to pet it(the cat that is),and she said,"my cat doesn't like you,so you have to go"! So I did,taking with me,yet another strange run in with a odd woman!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after. Posted: 10/12/2009 2:52:24 PM
She sounds like a nice"hole-some"girl!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 74 (view)

I like to push her head down until she gags. They seem to like that a lot. Try it fellas. Posted: 10/12/2009 2:16:44 PM
Only the "love handles"(ears) or hair,depends on the mood at that time!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 293 (view)

Have you ever been caught Masturbating? Posted: 10/11/2009 8:11:12 PM
Sure,but as my mother once said, "It's perfectly natural to experiment with you're body,but not at the dinner table"!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Girls welcome on this...When Men write on their profile.. I am an attractive Man.. Posted: 10/9/2009 8:57:50 PM
I have very nice ankles!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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War of the Sexes: Could this exist without women's participation? Posted: 10/9/2009 2:59:54 PM
Men can be just friends with women. I've always had women friends that were just that,"friends"! My ex had lots of problems with this,one of the reasons she's an"ex". I have and always valued my "girlfriends" and don't ever see that changing.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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How do I politely tell a guy that I'm not interested Posted: 10/8/2009 3:23:22 PM
Just be direct and tell him you're not into him,short & sweet!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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I was stood up for a date Posted: 10/8/2009 3:21:20 PM
Sorry this happened to you,it's not all guy's doing this,but once is enough to make someone bitter I'm certain. It's probably better that you found out early about this piece of sh** before too much time was invested in dating him!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Men & woman of a certain size??? Posted: 10/8/2009 3:07:55 PM
The reality of this is,people are mostly attracted to people who aren't over weight. I feel the same way,I have to be physically attracted to someone to start any type of a relationship.It isn't the most important thing to me,but it starts from there. I'm bald and there's plenty of women who don't care for that,okay,no problem. I understand this and that's just one group of women that aren't in my world. But with being over weight,that can be and should be controlled for health reasons more than anything else. And yes,I would lie to someone if cornered about the question,"is it because I'm fat",they usually know the answer to this anyway!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 87 (view)

Are men that cook better for a relationship? Posted: 9/28/2009 5:59:28 PM
I think they could be better for a relationship. I enjoy cooking very much,and women always seem quite pleased when you invite them over for a great meal. Plus if both of you like to cook,it can be alot of fun working on meals together,somewhat erotic really. Living alone most of my life,it was either cook or eat take out,so I'd rather make something tasty and healthy to eat. "Meats meat,and a man's got to eat",Farmer Vic said this in the movie,"Motel Hell",a terrible,but funny horror movie.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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How to tell a guy what you like in the sack Posted: 9/28/2009 1:10:05 PM
Just tell him what you like,it shouldn't be a problem,plus it's ususally more fun for the both of you,to enjoy each other without the normal quessing that happens in new relationships. He can let you know what he's into as well!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 72 (view)

Loners vs. lonely Posted: 9/28/2009 12:45:32 PM
I'm more of the loner type. I'm an only child who was raised by my mother who worked while I grew up,so I got used to being by myself. Plus I have some trust issues,it takes me some time to really start to trust someone,so that comtributes to that as well. I don't ever get lonely,although I don't like to go anywhere by myself. So I date mostly for this reason,to get out and have a life,otherwise I'm in my house by myself too often.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 153 (view)

She threw my car into park... Posted: 9/25/2009 11:35:21 AM
"Effort",dame I can't spell woth a S***!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 151 (view)

She threw my car into park... Posted: 9/25/2009 10:44:58 AM
True story or not,it's tough to be single,especially once you're just south of fifty. Lots of folks with lots of issues,somtimes I wonder if it's even worth the effert!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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The type of people you attract here? Posted: 9/18/2009 12:03:38 PM
Larger then life women(women who not slender) seem to want to get to know me. At least 90%!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Why do you do this???? Posted: 9/18/2009 11:13:36 AM
They sent you those pictures so you can tell them apart from a crowd! Sometimes I think walking around with these things is a corse!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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Women who try to come back after shutting you out Posted: 9/18/2009 10:52:04 AM
Ignor her,she's not worth giving too much thought to. I've known women like this,kind of went throught what you're going through a a few years back. Stay away from that train station,use air travel from now on,rates are good right now. Stay in touch with your gay friend through phone calls.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 416 (view)

do you look like your pictures? Posted: 9/18/2009 10:35:04 AM
I don't think there's ever been a picture of me I actually liked. I went pictureless for about a month when I first got on this web site,mostly to keep it private. Well I found out fairly quick that no pic means no responses,so I did some pictures for a while. Now I'm dating someone(not from here),so now the pictures are off again. I know I'm not a troll,but I'm never really happy with my pics.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 542 (view)

Guys asking to meet with you immediately Posted: 9/18/2009 10:25:37 AM
I would say that it saves alot of time. Alot of times when people see each other for the first time,it'll be a "go or a no go",so yeah,it does save time if you meet right away. I mean,this is about finding someone who can tolerate your crap,right?

sglwhtmale

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what is your greatest dating fears? Posted: 9/18/2009 10:20:40 AM
Having my penis sheared off then thrown out of a moving vehicle!

sglwhtmale

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intercourse but not oral sex Posted: 9/18/2009 9:54:27 AM
What I've learned is that 90% of the men I've met are all gung-ho to get a blow job, but they're not willing to return the favor ... cuz after they cum, they're done Really 90%,kind of hard to believe,but I'm not a woman either. I'll have to ask some women that question over the weekend.

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

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What do Men really think? Posted: 9/17/2009 1:05:50 PM
Don't listen to what you're friends are telling you,not that they aren't trying to give you decent advice. Do what you feel is right.Sometimes it seems people(mostly women),are just trying to be what they're friends want them to be. Be your own person,you'll know if it feels right or not. Sometimes that waiting game backfires,and the guy starts fishing into another part of the pond,not that you should rush into having sex with someone,but not everyone is going to wait around,it's a natural human urge,nothing wrong with it(to want to have sex),at all!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 213 (view)

Men living with their parents: A social taboo? Posted: 9/17/2009 12:42:50 PM
So this is a deal breaker for some women,go figure!

sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009

Msg: 95 (view)

Dating cliches Posted: 9/17/2009 12:40:13 PM
I like to have fun! no drama please! I'm laid back(please don't look at my profile)! I love to laugh! I try to live life to the fullest! No players! I'm tired of games! Oh,by the way,did I mention that I have a penis?(okay,so I added that one,it's probably on someone's profile somewhere)!

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