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hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Please Review Me Posted: 1/10/2008 8:20:07 PM
I think it's fine also. I sometimes wonder how pro-active women on this (and other) sites are. Have you emailed any men? If you aren't getting emails from the men you would like to meet, maybe you should try to break the ice. r

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Hey ! Posted: 1/10/2008 8:11:33 PM
Hey kid, I think your profile makes you look a little high maintenance... a lot of the things you say you like seem to revolve around getting presents. Your pics are nice, but I think I would try to write a profile that describes what you want and what type of personality you have.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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please let me know what you think Posted: 10/19/2007 9:15:00 PM
Well, just from reading your profile I take away the following... You read a lot, and tell me who you like and don't like. You like music, and tell me what you don't like. You like violent movies. You like your bikes. If I was a woman searching and read your profile, I wouldn't know what you liked in a woman or what you were looking for. I would shorten all the lists of what you like, and talk about what you look for in a woman. And I think I would post a pic of yourself on one of your bikes. Cheers

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Hmmm and men wonder why ? Posted: 7/28/2007 9:15:25 PM
Scorpiodude, I was just thinking the same thing! He has a good point SexxxyAzz.. maybe if you only put one "x" in your name instead of three guys would take you seriously... lol

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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What's wrong with the occasional pot smoker? Posted: 6/2/2007 9:42:03 PM
A few weeks ago my friends 16 year old daughter got expelled from high school for just having a joint on her. They have no tolerance for drugs in this township. Her mom was pissed because "in her day" she used to get high every day before class and never had a problem. I wonder if she told her kid that there was nothing wrong with occasional use... BTW, now the kid also has another problem being caught stealing things from work .. to pay for her drugs maybe? At any rate she got fired from the part time job too.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Age range narrow???? Posted: 5/26/2007 10:43:25 PM
Yo Mustride, She is only 18. How wide of a range do you think she should have?? If she was my kid, I would bring that 25 down to 21 for her lol

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Body type? Posted: 5/26/2007 10:39:13 PM
Always an interesting question. A lot of folks that are athletic in ability, like to think they are athletic in build. One can be fat and fit. :) If you are honest with yourself and feel you would like to lose a few pounds, you might not be really describing you body type. I guess what I am saying is you can be of average build and still feel like you want to lose a few. For you, I would go with average. I consider average to be not overweight and not skinny.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Profile Help needed Please Posted: 4/14/2007 6:24:26 PM
Well Stich, as someone who actually read your profile and knows you're a woman :) I would say that you should at least offer to send a pic if things go good in the conversation. I have seen profiles where the woman would say that she has pics available. But profile aside, you might just want to get proactive and search for what YOU want. Not good to have people that hate you..

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Misunderstood Lyrics Posted: 3/15/2007 3:16:00 PM
Today while listening to the Big Band channel of Yahoo Music I heard the Andrew Sisters singing "Bei mir bist du schoen". I remember as a kid (okay, up until today lol) thinking they were singing "Come here Mr. Shane". I always wondered who Mr. Shane was. I checked the title of the song to make sure I spelled it right, supposed to mean "You're Grand".

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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which would you lie about, your age or your weight? Posted: 3/2/2007 7:59:57 PM
I read somewhere that most men lie about their height and most wormen lie about their age. I have met plenty of women who lied about their age, and I know some men who have lied about their height too. I have a friend who is 5'5" tall and says he is 5'7" tall so he can get included in more searches. I have also seen lots of women that describe themselves as athletic in build (which to me means fit), when they really mean they ARE athletic and in no way actually look athletic. Not sure why people do it.. I asked my friend if he thought that the women he meets will notice that he is not 5' 7".. haha On one profile, I used the pull down menu to say my hair was brown, since I only had a few grey hairs at that time, and at a glance I looked mostly brown. But in my profile I wrote that I had a few greys. Tried to be as honest as I could. But I still had a few women tell me that I lied about my hair color! I think folks feel like they have to really sell themselves instead of just working with what they have. That is one of the problems with sites like this.. lots of folks lie.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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What's wrong with the occasional pot smoker? Posted: 1/21/2007 3:24:05 PM
Good post Arugula.. Blah, blah, republicans… blah, blah, government… blah, blah, stick it to the man… you folks crack me up! To me, whether or not you think there is anything wrong with it doesn’t change the fact that it is illegal. And don’t use the “medicinal help” it gives to some as an excuse for why you should be allowed to smoke it for fun. As long as it is illegal, so if you smoke it, you are showing bad judgment. And that is what is wrong with the occasional pot smoker. Plain and simple. I have personally seen it affect members of my family, from my brother, to my sister, to most recently my nephew and niece, all in a negative way. Bad judgment leading to a f'd up life. I get tired of bailing them out all the time, but as an old friend of mine used to say, every family has one responsible person that has to take care of the rest of the idiots that have bad judgment. I think that as of February 1st., the "Bank of Ron" is going to shut down for good.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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A Gift from Texas to Philadelphia Posted: 1/7/2007 6:16:43 PM
Ah, the gift that keeps on giving!!! What a crazy game Dallas played last night! Probably deserved to win. I have heartburn all night watching my Eagles. They probably deserved to win also.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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A Gift from Texas to Philadelphia Posted: 1/6/2007 8:33:53 AM
Any thoughts on the games this weekend? I think they Eagles should be able to beat the Giants. Don't know much about Seattle, but Dallas has been playing pretty bad lately.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Support 1st U.S. Army Officer to Speak Out Against Iraq War Posted: 1/4/2007 8:38:54 PM
Dude, You still haven't gotten over that Kerry lost to Bush? You gotta move on... And wow, quotes from CNN, or as we call them at work, the Commie News Network. I flipped on CNN 5 minutes after Saddam was hung to see what kind of liberal, anti-American spin they would put on it. As soon as he was hung they started questioning wether or not he got a fair trial! That was followed by another commentator wondering why they couldn't wait till he was tried for all the other crimes "and then see what happens". I wonder what that reporter wanted to happen? Meanwhile, back at the forum... I would have thought that this soldier understood he signed a contract to follow orders and not question authority, The Army is not the place to question your boss. USMA and Spuds, thanks for defending my country.

hockeyr

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A Gift from Texas to Philadelphia Posted: 12/27/2006 12:31:46 PM
Tticker, you have an easier game than we do this week. Phila. is on a roll, but Dallas is playing a 2-13 team. You can guarantee a win for Dallas, but I think we have to work for it here. BTW, can you imagine how insane it will be on New Years Eve at the Linc after everyone has been tailgating all day!!! Ron

hockeyr

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A Gift from Texas to Philadelphia Posted: 12/27/2006 7:28:42 AM
... what a difference a month makes! Thanks Dallas, for giving us one of the nicest Christmas presents in years!

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Has this ever happened to you? Posted: 12/23/2006 9:52:08 PM
Good thing you found out the guy was a jerk early on. I was having dinner with a friend and an another dude I knew, but never went out drinking with before. My friend felt sick so he wanted to leave early. He is a big tipper, so for his $10 tab, he left a $60 tip. The other guy kept bugging me to use that money to pay for our tab. I really had a hard time explaining to him that it was not our money. What an a-hole. I never invited him to drink with us again.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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If you could hook up with a celebrity... Posted: 11/11/2006 1:40:18 PM
I'd have to go back in time and find Audrey Hepburn from her "Sabrina" days. She was stunning in that movie, and I am a long neck fan.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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what s wrong with me Posted: 11/8/2006 7:30:26 PM
I think I came up with around 10 different rips for you, but reconsidered since everyone is being pretty harsh. If your english was better, I think your profile would be pretty simple and to the point. Just curious, if you are not American, and have a different first language, maybe try writing your profile in your own language, starting with your title. You could attract someone here that understands you better. BTW, I prefer women to be honest on their profile and say they are separated when they are. Don't give me that single BS. You're either married or single.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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A Gift from Texas to Philadelphia Posted: 11/8/2006 7:08:57 PM
You guys gave that game away to Washington last week. The Eagles should be able to beat them on Sunday. Redskins stats look pretty bad.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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any other true romantics out there? Posted: 10/28/2006 8:28:09 PM
Only two tonight. The state troopers are out in full force for their end-of-month fund raiser. I got pulled over, but only had two so they let me go! Phew!!!

hockeyr

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any other true romantics out there? Posted: 10/28/2006 8:25:36 PM
I always laugh when I hear the "opening a door" cliche. Does opening a door make you a true romantic? Are there men out there that slam doors in womens faces? I tend to lump romantics and fantasy together. When I was younger I think I was more romantic, but now I am just practical. :) I have a friend who is a doctor. His old girlfriend used to complain all the time because he had to work or be on call. Her other friends used to have boyfriends who would wisk them away at the spur of the moment to exotic weekend vacations. She was mad that he couldn't do that.. said he didn't have a romantic bone in his body. So they broke up and he found a more supportive woman (BTW, they are on their honneymoon in Hawaii right now). To answer Bob's question (what to do to show a woman you are not an a-hole).. which I believe was addressed to men. Look the woman in the eye when she talks.. and actually listen. :) Watch your language, careful not to drop too many f-bombs. Pay attention. I have gotten more points for noticing when a girlfriend has changed her hairstlye or bought a new outfit, then when I paid for the $100 dinner and bought her flowers. Seems like a lot of those actions are rooted in respect. Yes, when I do these things I can make myself appear to be even more dashing than I really am! :)

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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A Gift from Texas to Philadelphia Posted: 10/8/2006 6:28:10 PM
What a great ending to a great game! I saw the press conferences after the game and TO wouldn't take the bait when someone asked him if his QB let him down. He's learning. It's just a matter of time before he destroys Dallas. E - A - G - L - E - S... EAGLES!!!!!!

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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What's wrong with the occasional pot smoker? Posted: 10/6/2006 8:25:01 PM
There are people in this world that think there is nothing wrong with smoking pot.. there are others who are offended by those people. If you do drugs, put it in your profile. I have had to break up with a few women because they lied in their profile about it. One gal in particular was really pissed and couldn't believe that I wouldn't go out any more just because she smoked pot every day. What's wrong with being honest?

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Malcomn's profile Posted: 10/1/2006 8:33:51 PM
Profile is too long! I think you need to add more pictures too! Just kidding.. but what do you want folks to review? Theres nothing to review except your pics.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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WOW! Posted: 9/19/2006 2:46:17 PM
To the OP and MichelleRenee, If you both regularly smoke pot, why do you put on your profile that you don't do drugs? I spent some time in my life dealing with women that were always high, and won't do it again. I think it shows poor judgement. And if you haven't outgrown it, maybe you have a more serious problem that needs attention. You know you are doing something illegal, you also lie about it, so I would wonder what else you lie about. Doing drugs is a offense that would get you fired at my job and I guess many others. If you got fired from your job and couldn't support your kids, would you like them to know why you got fired? Not worth it.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Have you ever been dumped on your birthday? Posted: 9/13/2006 4:40:54 PM
My birthday is today, so there is still time! :) Once, I kind of dumped a girl on my birthday. I told her it was over for weeks and she kept calling and coming by the house. Finally she came by on my birthday to give me a present, and I wouldn't accept it. That is when she understood it was over.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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When you least expect it? Does it really happen? Posted: 9/11/2006 7:57:09 PM
I really didn't mean who is more romantic, men or women... I meant who would be more likely to romanticize the notion of the "least expect it" cliche working. But I guess there are skeptical folks of both sexes, yup.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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When you least expect it? Does it really happen? Posted: 9/11/2006 6:30:30 PM
It think that more women take the romantic view of that cliche. My view is that nothing is written in stone (okay, that was a bad pun made to play on the "bad cliche" line). Seriously, you never know when you will meet someone. I gave up on dating for a while and never met anyone. But that was my experience. I think you meet your "match" when you are in the same stage of life as them. The challenge is how to find someone in the same stage? Well, these sites are meant to help narrow it down, aren't they?

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Cell Phones..... Posted: 9/6/2006 4:39:49 PM
There is an old saying.. When you are in your 20s, you worry what people think about you... When you are in your 40s, you don't care about what people think about you... When you are in your 60s, you'll realize that noone was ever thinking about you! When did everyone get so important that they need to make sure everyone they know is fine every day? As the "other" guy left in the world that doesn't have a cell phone, I don't agree with the one poster that said "get used to them". How about having some brains and being practical about using it? I have a family member that lives on her phone. There hasn't been a family get-together in the last 10 years where she hasn't checked it 10 times, or gotten/made 5 calls in the middle of dinner. The poor minority kids we are forced to hire at work all have cell phones that play loud obnoxious ringtones. Even though they have a phone on their desk, they spend all day on the cell when they should be working... and they are usually talking to someone in the next room! And I was trying to get to know a young lady I met online. She always called me on her cell while she was doing a chore like picking up her laundry or buying groceries. F that. If that woman gave me the same attention in a relationship, I'd move on.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Why Is It That BBW's Never Get Spoiled?....Do you think bigger women have the same rights?... Posted: 9/4/2006 6:50:41 PM
Microchip, my bad, here is what you said: "It just so happens that extra pounds are simply not attractive. This is a natural thing. It's only natural that a person is more attracted to a person who does not have a lot of extra weight than to a person who does. That is simply a fact of nature, an dthere is nothing that you or anyone else can do about it." I guess I didn't read between the lines. At first I thought you were just making a statement of facts, I didn't realize that this was your opinion and sound advice, it's so clear now. I'm such a dope!

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Why Is It That BBW's Never Get Spoiled?....Do you think bigger women have the same rights?... Posted: 9/4/2006 10:21:59 AM
Microchip, you did a crappy job of putting your two cents in. Enough men on this thread have said that they liked BBWs. His opinion should just be his own. Just as his opinion is that he thinks that he is athletic looking. I always laugh at that one (be it men or women).. being athletic does not always mean you have an athletic body type. Personally I like women that are fit. I am not attracted to women that are out of shape, but I treat all women with the same respect. Spoiling is another issue. Define spoilied? I don't want a woman that wants to be spoiled.. unless spoiling her means showering her with affection! lol Serioulsy, I am by no means cheap, I simply have had more experiences where the woman was only interested in me for my money, and that turns me off. Some of the women I have dated in the past were more interested in how much money I spent on them than how much I loved them.

hockeyr

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When is flirting cheating? Posted: 8/30/2006 3:38:40 PM
When does flirting count as cheating? When the nipple appears.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Ok...made some changes...anyone care to review? Posted: 8/26/2006 9:05:09 PM
If you are only looking for friends to hang out with, I would put "N/A" in the first date box. Why in the world would you describe a passionate kiss that ain't gonna happen? Guys that are also looking for hang out friends might not want to hear you go on about how much in love you are with your boyfriend.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Fiercely Independent? Posted: 8/21/2006 8:11:40 PM
Actually Run, The flower story was just something that happened to me a long time ago and another post made me remember. The FI thing was just a trend I noticed with the women that couldn't wait to meet me, but would never make the time.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Fiercely Independent? Posted: 8/21/2006 4:31:18 PM
“Sounds like you better not buy her any flowers and if so they better be the ones she would pick out for herself” Years ago I remember buying a girl flowers and having her remark “I buy myself flowers all the time”! What an dope. Now, I am not the type of guy that feels the need to define my relationships, so if I start dating someone and we go out regularly, I generally consider that dating. I never ask the woman “Are we dating”? I once dated a young lady that always touted her independence. After around 6 months of going out 2-3 times a week, she commented “You know, we go out 2-3 times a week, this is just like dating. I don't want to date anyone while I am trying to get my career going”. Well, my comeback to her was “If you don’t want it to seem like dating, why don’t you offer to pay for something every once in a while”:) She never lifted a finger to pay for anything in the entire 6 months! Can’t have it both ways…

hockeyr

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Fiercely Independent? Posted: 8/20/2006 6:05:03 PM
Woah, denied!! Teen Choice Awards?! No Family Guy? FOX, what are you doing to me!?

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Fiercely Independent? Posted: 8/20/2006 5:57:32 PM
Finally, a good answer. Thanks Jaclynn. You didn't need to talk about money or being clingy or not being needy. Just in time too.. 9:00.. can't miss Family Guy!

hockeyr

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Fiercely Independent? Posted: 8/20/2006 11:29:20 AM
"Doesn't want a man who cramps her style or imposes burdens on her like perhaps a regimented schedule of wanting to see her so many times a week, or "traditional roles" like cooking meals for him regularly, etc. " Wow! There is no way I would have ever figured on fiercely independent meaning that!

hockeyr

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Fiercely Independent? Posted: 8/20/2006 10:49:30 AM
I have noticed that many women will describe themselves as being “fiercely independent”. I am not really sure what that means. Exactly what are you fiercely independent of? My experience has been that those women have been hardest to make a date with. You can trade emails/phone calls for months and never get any further. Sometimes the phrase is followed by “I am a workaholic, don’t have a lot of free time… etc.). That is another turn-off.. most people are busy, and if you want to be in a relationship, you have to make the time. I sometimes joke with my other guy friends (that do internet personals) that “fiercely independent” loosely translates to “I don’t really need a man” or “I may try to fit one into my life someday”. When I read a profile in which a woman claims to be fiercely independent, I'll move on to the next one, figuring I can save myself from the months of emails/phone calls that don’t lead to actually meeting. Hopefully that didn’t sound like too much of a rant. I did say that was my experience. I want to understand what it means to others, figuring it may mean something different to everyone. So what does being “fiercely independent” mean to you?? Ron

hockeyr

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Guys, do you ACTUALLY care what the girl wears on the date? Posted: 8/18/2006 7:53:53 PM
A woman once asked me "What should I wear" on a date. I told her to be herself. She showed up wearing a very low neck sweater, a black leather mini skirt, and black fish-net stockings. I couldn't complain! On the other hand, I had a friend who on a first date wore a Ren and Stimpy t-shirt and got ripped a new one! She told him to never wear a t-shirt on a date again. Obviously, a lot depends on where you are going, but I think the more laid back you each are, the less you will care about what the other is wearing.

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Yo Mamma........ Posted: 7/31/2006 7:51:03 PM
.. so stupid you have to dig for her IQ. .. so stupid the recipe called for 6 egg whites and 6 egg yolks and she used 12 eggs. .. is so old her social security number is 1. BTW Skribbles, "her shadow quit" is my favorite so far! Remind me of A Bronx Tale... "His shadow once killed a dog". lol

hockeyr

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Please Tell me what you think? Posted: 7/30/2006 8:00:14 PM
BTW, regarding the pics, I meant that the first and last are great with you making eye contact, real cute, but I am not a big fan of those "looking off into the distance" ones.

hockeyr

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Please Tell me what you think? Posted: 7/30/2006 7:57:15 PM
Hey, I'll take a crack at it. Overall I think it is a good profile. I like short and to the point profiles. You give a good example of what you are looking for and what you like to do. A couple things though.. Well, the first thing I noticed is that you call yourself "Pleasure Island", but further in your profile make comments on not wanting guy that are just looking for sex to write to you. What are you trying to tell me with you username? Yeah, confusing. I also don't think you need so many pics. You have the same pose in a few of them. My two cents, Ron

hockeyr

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hanging in there Posted: 7/26/2006 4:39:56 PM
I read these threads and as expected, nearly everyone who responded re-affirmed their personal choice to not have kids. I don't remember reading too many emails from men or women who regret it. I guess if you always wanted kids but don't have them, at some point you need to accept the fact that you didn't have them and aren't going to. But I know there women out there who always had a burning desire to have kids and are crushed because they didn't. I seem to meet them at places like my gym and at work. Well my brother is older than me and has two little ones, and I have a hockey bud that has two littles ones and is in his mid 50s. I am still hoping it might happen for me.. we'll see. I was brought up in a large Italian family. Having kids seems to be a good way to have support when you get older.. I see it all the time in my family. And I always liked having a huge family around during the holidays. Saying that my neices and nephews are my kids never cut it for me. Two more thoughts.. those who made comments about having kids that are grown and out of the house should not have responded to this topic. I don't think they can objectively comment on never having kids. Secondly, I sometimes get emails from the older ladies blasting me for still wanting them.. one even called me "sick".. never could understand it. I guess she was mad because I was not interested in her. Cheers

hockeyr

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PITTSBURGH STEELERS Posted: 7/23/2006 6:28:17 AM
Never could stand the Steelers since they have been under pouty Cower (what a cry-baby).. always looks like he is on the verge of tears. Can't understand how he kept his job all these years.. maybe now that his team won a Super Bowl, it's safe to fire him. Not a Seahawk fan either but the refs stole the Superbowl from them! And as far as my Eagles go... well the Super Bowl for me is going to be the first Dallas game when someone close-lines TO!

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Tension in the Middle East kind of worries me, what about you??? Posted: 7/16/2006 7:47:39 PM
We get it.. you don't like Bush. "the root of it all is greed" The root of what.. high oil prices? Duh :) I thought you were talking about tension in the Middle East. The root of the war is a country that doesn't want to accept that another country exist. And they have outright said that they would like to wipe Israel off the map. They have been fighting over boundries for thousands of years. They are all nuts over there. I'm staying right here. :) All the world leaders have to take a side now. Judging from how anti-semitic the UN is, it doesn't surprise me that they are all telling Israel to take it up the butt. They have been telling Israel to turn the other cheek for years. I wonder why the other countries don't feel that Israel has a right to defend itself, hmmm... (personally, I think they should, but I think they overdid it). Duck and cover!

hockeyr

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tell me what you think Posted: 7/15/2006 10:14:33 PM
Stang, I think you would come off as a more intelligent man if you could string some words together and make a complete sentence. Having your entire profile written to look like a check-list might put women off. And dude, what's with all the typos? You should read your profile before you post it.. don't you "egree"?

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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What is it with people?????????? Posted: 7/6/2006 8:15:41 PM
I gotta agree.. when I see all caps, I just think "Stop yelling at me"!

hockeyr

Joined: 3/3/2006

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What is it with people?????????? Posted: 7/6/2006 7:53:06 PM
What it is with people.. there are going to be good people and bad in every corner of the world. I joined another site and keep getting emails from Russian girls that want to come to America, and African girls that just want your money. They all give the same sob story about being stuck in a hotel with no money. I just tell them to sell their computer and then delete the email. :) If you join a online dating site like this you have to learn how to deal with it. That means you need to be cautious, and spend a lot of time getting to know someone. Usually, if I rush into something, that's when I make a mistake. Nobody is going out of their way to play with you emotions.. they are just doing their thing, and don't even know/wouldn't care anyway that they are hurting you. If a man looks you straight in the eye and "you know he just lied to you", dump him and move on. Keep trying to find someone that treats you the way you like to be treated. I really don't think it pays to be too emotional on a site like this.. hope that doesn't offend anyone. So chin up, and please don't make generalizations that "most on this site are players" (does that go for women too?). Good luck to all!

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