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For Women Only ! Is there sex after hysterectomy ? Posted: 3/31/2006 9:41:04 PM
Find men that understand and willing to work it out. lol that's almost a joke, How many men do you know personally that want to deal with this problem, hell I don't even want to deal with it.

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For Women Only ! Is there sex after hysterectomy ? Posted: 3/21/2006 3:58:18 PM
My hysterectomy was a total, nothing left. Not even my womanhood, gone, it's not in my head and there's nohing else wrong , I am in the process of getting another doctor. Thank you all for your suggestions and input. I know this is a very personal subject for alot of us. Boy - Men sure got off easy in life didn't they ?

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For Women Only ! Is there sex after hysterectomy ? Posted: 3/21/2006 3:58:11 PM
My hysterectomy was a total, nothing left. Not even my womanhood, gone, it's not in my head and there's nohing else wrong , I am in the process of getting another doctor. Thank you all for your suggestions and input. I know this is a very personal subject for alot of us. Boy - Men sure got off easy in life didn't they ?

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SHOULD I BE ASHAMED ? Posted: 3/20/2006 3:32:55 PM
Don't get me wrong, I talk to each and every one of them , I just don't get why it's the older men that continuously email me even when I put the age preference on there. Can't they reador are they hopeful just like I am

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Was he for real or just playing me? Posted: 3/20/2006 3:27:39 PM
To set the record straight, I didn't call to ream him out, I simply told him that he hurt my feelings,he even told me he wasn't going to look any further on this dating site since he met me. What I didn't say on here was the lenghty conversations we had and how we were going to go out and do all sorts of activities together,and develpoe a relationship was what we both wanted and talked about, and we got along great. the fact that he didn't get sex I can deal with, It's not a problem for me , what is a problem is that if we were going to be friends and still go out then why haven't I heard from him. That is why I left the message. I'm not gonna cry over any man , not in this short of time, However I do deserve more respect and I demand it. By the way I met him off of Plenty of fish.

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Is there sex after hysterectomy ?[subject edited] Posted: 3/19/2006 10:00:52 PM
Hysterectomy victims, yes I say victims, How do you handle the effects of a hysterectomy that totally destroys your sex drive. When you go from having a healthy sex drive to zilch, nada, nothing. My Gyn took me off of HRT, and now have no desire, it's not affected my attraction toward men but has absolutely destroyed any physical or mental desire. Going on 3 years now I am pretty aggrivated at the situation. And how do you get a man that will understand and help you to work through the problem. I know I'm not the only one going through this. Anyone have some advise. Do I tell the guy about it or keep it to myself and fake it. What are my choices ? Stay alone or ? [Forum Rules/Specific Posting: A) No Thread may exist designated exclusively for Response from a specific Gender, Ethnicity, Orientation, Religion, Public, etc. Such a Thread will be deleted. The entire Concept of a Forum is for anyone to post their Opinions and Thoughts, providing they are On-Topic, on any Threads he or she sees fit. /Dog]

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SHOULD I BE ASHAMED ? Posted: 3/19/2006 8:25:31 PM
I have posted many profiles on several dating sites , they always ask what age group your interested in, aka age criteria. I have always been more attracted to men younger than myself. It's not my fault it's just who I am attracted to and not always attracted to them either. I can't help if I feel the way I feel, the problem is men my age look so much older than they really are and I'm just not attracted to them. Does that make me all bad. I've thought maybe I sgould just try an older man but just can bring myself to do it. I would be lying to them and myself and that's not fair to anyone. I don't look my age and am young at heart . I don't want to just settle. The problem is men don't seem to look at the age criteria and swamp me with mail anyway. What's a girl to do ?

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He's just not that into you Posted: 3/19/2006 8:06:17 PM
There is a book out there now that will answer all your questions, it is titled HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. I don't remember the Authors name , but that is the title.He's been seen on oprah and talks about this very subject. Try getting the bok and then maybe you can spot the problems before they occur and prepar yourself. Good Luck

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He's just not that into you Posted: 3/19/2006 8:05:57 PM
There is a book out there now that will answer all your questions, it is titled HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. I don't remember the Authors name , but that is the title.He's been seen on oprah and talks about this very subject. Try getting the bok and then maybe you can spot the problems before they occur and prepar yourself. Good Luck

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How do you tell them ? Posted: 3/19/2006 7:34:16 PM
How do you tell the man your interested in that you have a few disabilities , such as back problems and other problems that are hereditary such as severe Arthritis and so on. Things you can't help or control. And why do they run from this. Everyone has problems and it's best to be honest and upfront isn't it. Otherwise it will come out eventually. People with these problems are all over the place, aren't we deserving of love and compassion also. We are also capable of loving someone too. What do you think ?

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Was he for real or just playing me? Posted: 3/19/2006 7:09:25 PM
I met this guy, and we started talking. He came over the first night and we talked ( just talked ) for a couple of hours, then we went out to dinner. We both talked about how we wanted a long term relationship and neither of us really drank or went to the clubs any more. He told me how he found Jesus and that was his life now, to follow God's word. We really did have a connction, he called everyday and came over a few more times. On the 3rd night he came over he wanted to have sex, I told him it was too soon , since we only knew each other three days. I felt that if he was all that into me and Jesus, he would feel the same. Take things slower about the sex anyway. The next day I called him and he said he felt like we should just be friends and talk now and then and thanked me for stopping him . He is in the chior at church and also a musician , since then he has filled everyday with chior practice and band , pretty much filling his entire week full of other things , and not a thought as to me or even calling.I haven't heard from him since. I did call and leave a message on his cell phone teling him how he hurt me and a few more things and wished him well. Question is, Is he using his new found faith and all his activities to forget me now. And would Jesus agree with his behavior. He was so into me , or was he ? I welcome your comments

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