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mmanardin

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has this ever happened to anyone? Posted: 7/5/2007 7:20:28 AM
When I first started looking online, about 4 years ago.....I had those feelings, but after many disappointments, I have become a lot more sceptical since then. k? You have to take your time and get to know your "victim" face to face.

mmanardin

Joined: 3/3/2006

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men.. your honest opinion please Posted: 7/4/2007 1:55:51 PM
My honest opinion......k? So I have a question for u first.....were u content with a relationship where u only met 2 or 3 times a week?????? Because in "my books", that isn't enuf.....enuf for an "I love u" type of relationship!! Not for me, anyways.....k? So unless u 2 r willing to expand the amount of time u spend together.....I think that it is time u moved on!! U are a very attactive woman.....get out there and get someone who really will/may fall in love with!!!

mmanardin

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Hey.... Posted: 5/10/2007 5:02:32 AM
.....now I am offended with the title of this Post. I am NOWHERE near what a "Stanley Roper" was.....k? Sheeeesh!!!!

mmanardin

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Hmmmm.... Posted: 5/9/2007 1:28:19 PM
....well, once on our anniversary, my ex had a boquet of flowers delivered to me at work. sigh I was SOOO embarrassed!!! All the guys at work were teasing me.....even tho I was the Controller of the firm!! Anyway, yes I did get over it and yes, I had also sent my ex some flowers to her work.....but when I got home, I tackfully requested that she not do that again.

mmanardin

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Flicked in the head Part III CLOSURE Posted: 5/7/2007 5:54:39 AM
Ok...just to get him "off your back", u have to either send him a text, or an email, explain how u feel, and that u don't wish to speak with him, EVER, again....k? Otherwise, he will continue to badger u, and then he may even take on the trait of becoming a "stalker",......and u do NOT want that. So from my perspective, u have 2 choices, either send him an email/text, or let him continue to badger u.

mmanardin

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Every night I dream of her Posted: 3/22/2007 12:23:53 PM
Hey.....maybe u r "phsyic" in your sleep, and she cannot get to sleep because she still thinks about u at the same time!!!! Wouldn't that be neat!!!! Anyway, to settle the matter, give her a call, Dude......FOR SURE!!!! Good Luck!

mmanardin

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Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!! Posted: 3/15/2007 8:53:26 AM
Really IceQueen???? Naaaaaa, that cannot be true!!! Hey.....I have only "had" 8 women......so that figure divided by 10, means that I am less than ONE year old. By the way.....I read your profile.....and ur attitude SUCKS big time!!

mmanardin

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Advice....Please Posted: 3/12/2007 1:40:22 PM
I also agree with semper vera!!!! Way to go, girl!!

mmanardin

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I agree with.... Posted: 3/12/2007 1:32:38 PM
....blastkissed!!! Forget it, Sunshin!!!! Thats a BIG "NFW"......(means "no frigging way!!!" In fact, i would certainly consider taking a step back, and u go after some other guys.......k?

mmanardin

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Hi.... ... Posted: 3/12/2007 1:27:46 PM
Sorry to hear about this.....u aren't the first one that I have heard that has been exposed to this sh**head!!!! U said that what "goes around, comes around", well I sure hope that he does get his when he isn't expecting it!!! Keep your "chin up" Pretty Girl.......I do wish u the best of luck!!!!

mmanardin

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How Do You Let Go of Someone When You're Both Still In Love? Posted: 3/5/2007 6:11:07 AM
Hey Op....I was in a similar situation as u. We had been married for over 25 years, then we both changed, so both agreed to separate, then get a divorce. In my mind....she was always there!! I spent a lot of time thinking about the good times we had together, and believe me girl, there were MANY!!!! Then after 3 years of dating, and 2 relationships, I am content with us being apart!! Yes, it took that long for me too accept it, and not get upset over loosing her......or her loosing me however u wish to thnk of it. Yes, it will get better over time, how long tho?, everyone is different so, just keep crying on your friends shoulder, k? After all, thats what they r there for.

mmanardin

Joined: 3/3/2006

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How to do this? I'm really in need of advice. Posted: 2/28/2007 9:15:23 AM
Hey Angle.....no sweat!! K...I read on your other post how your previous bf shafted u by lieing all the time. What a "doink"!!!! But this sort of thing comes with the "dating territory"...k? U must be Strong!!! U must step outside "the box" and get a new perspective on your love life!! U must be patient!!! U must be have to take the good with the bad...and stilll survive!!! U must change your profile to "Dating", go out,meet some guys, don't get too serious!! Ok, now, I only wish I was about30 years younger, cause I would be able to give u the love that u r looking for....that u must have...that u need!!!! sigh Good Luck, Sunshine!!!!!

mmanardin

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Canadian men--would you move to the US to be with a woman? Posted: 2/12/2007 8:34:30 AM
Hey StarGateGirl....if I was in love, I would probably move anywhere. But.....wouldn't bring my kids with me cause of all the violence, guns, etc in the USA. Anyway, my kids r all out on there own, and they all have their 'men' up here in the "Great White North" In answer to your other question.....every relationshipe goes thru HELL at one time or another, some of us can take, and others cannot. So we break up, and start our search for a new 'babe' or 'dude'. No, there is not a shorage of women up here....but the Internet has enabled us to expand the search territory....right?

mmanardin

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help!!! i need some good advice Posted: 2/5/2007 11:13:41 AM
Yes, I agree, tell him the truth.....k? Once a month!!!! Goodness, I would have been putting pressure on him if it was only twice a week that we saw each other!!!!

mmanardin

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Do women enjoyed anal sex? Posted: 1/30/2007 7:31:47 AM
U r wrong "sadeyesakatracy"......I had a woman who had multiples from me doing her "butt". I figure that u don't believe me, but I don't care. Yes, when i was doing her Pus sy, my 'manhood' was nice and moist from her juices, so I then withdrew, and inserted it into her 'butt'....she loved it...and she didn't do anything else either. She expecially liked it when she went to work, and sat down at her desk, she could still feel a slight pain, and this made her smile and it reminded her of what we had done.

mmanardin

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can anybody help me? Posted: 1/25/2007 5:44:18 AM
Hey "lipkisez1"...I just read your posting.....which is really COOL!!!! I mean, that it really makes u think, doesn't it. Thx a LOT!!!!!!!!

mmanardin

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breaking up Posted: 1/18/2007 5:39:08 AM
Hey "bananabutt"....face it babe...it is OVER!!! Now...looking at it from a male perspective, your man has what most men dream of....2 women to "bed" whenever he wants too!!! So I suggest that u give him the ultimatum, of dumping his new chick, and being a good boy....or only call u if it is an emergency with one of your kids. Other than that, get a lawyer, and move one....k? Do it Babe.....get your own life!!!! Good Luck.....

mmanardin

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Bi girls contacting hetro girls Posted: 1/7/2007 9:10:39 AM
Too Melodic Euphoria.....I have heard that the women in Ottawa, outnumber the men by a long-shot. So my suggestion to u is to make an adjustment on your profile.....u have that u want to "hang out"....why don't u try something like an "intimate encounter" and start off your profile that u are a "lessie", looking for a woman, or a "bi curious" woman. U r a VERY attractive woman.....k? Go for it, girl!

mmanardin

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and you thought guys were dogs Posted: 1/5/2007 7:12:45 AM
Now thats a "Ruff, Ruff" coment, "Atouchoftink"!!!!!!

mmanardin

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I had FUN......how about you? Posted: 1/5/2007 6:04:20 AM
Yes 'notapricess'......everybody is different.....take your time...explore....learn what each of us has to offer then, if necessary, move on to the next person.

mmanardin

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Should I Give Him My Number? Posted: 1/5/2007 5:56:53 AM
Yaaaaaa, me 2!!!! I also wish that more women would develope an 'aggresive' stance, and ask guys out...!!! Thx for the tip, 6bunny9!!

mmanardin

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Can we become too spoiled from being single too long? Posted: 1/5/2007 5:53:36 AM
Hey.....that sounds logical!!!! Nice post.....thx!!!

mmanardin

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Can we become too spoiled from being single too long? Posted: 1/5/2007 5:49:42 AM
5 years eh?....me....4 years!! :o( Poops, huh? But hey, I still feel good about myself...still going out with women....(find them to be fasinating creatures!!) Soooooo, keep your chin up...k? A girl as cute as u r, will find someone.....especially if u do a little flirting....thats the ticket....try it, u will enjoy it 'smoochiegal'!

mmanardin

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want him back Posted: 1/5/2007 5:39:52 AM
"Snail Mail"......u know! You write the note on a piece of paper....put it in an evelope.....address the envelope....put a stamp on it....and put it in the mail box....k? lol

mmanardin

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I had FUN......how about you? Posted: 11/27/2006 2:19:25 PM
Hey 'Apple Jelly"......I LOVED reading this.....but, we all are not like this...k?

mmanardin

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i'm starting to lose hope... Posted: 11/20/2006 5:37:54 PM
Hey njterii, 7 years.....goodness!!! k, I went 3 years.....dated over 50 women, and then, suddenly, she found me!!! sigh Yes, right out of the blue!!! So don't give up hope, and like njterii said, have fun, and enjoy yourself....k?

mmanardin

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He loves me... he loves me not...yeah he does! Posted: 11/17/2006 1:32:16 PM
Hey Babe.....All is fair in Love and WAR!!! k?? Go for it!!!! and.....u will never be able to be friends....so he wants u more than he wants his fiancee, right??? So what is the problem!!!!

mmanardin

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want him back Posted: 11/15/2006 5:45:12 AM
Hey sxc-gal.....u broke up, so u "gotta go and fix it"...k? Just a little side note, I glanced at your profile, and u r 6'2" tall, therefore limiting the # of "newbies" that u stand a chance of getting together with.....so, how about writing him a nice, cute, little letter, and mailing it to him via "snail mail". Then u don't have to face him.....and the "ball is in his court"....k?

mmanardin

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Why do people find it so disgusting... Posted: 11/15/2006 5:29:54 AM
....yes, thats true.....I believe that they have the belief that u r "honing in on their territory"....thats why.

mmanardin

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Is it odd to be 19 and never of had a boyfriend? Posted: 11/7/2006 1:57:59 PM
Hey MetalQueen.....we ALL don't wish to control women. A lot of us 'guys' just want to have fun....and then, some of us want to spend our lives waking up with the same woman at our sides each morning. k? To each, his/her own.....

mmanardin

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 11/2/2006 4:03:31 PM
NO WAY!!!! Sorry, but I believe that I should live with someone, for a year or two prior to marriage, and I just wouldn't survive without sex!!

mmanardin

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Have you ever been dumped on your birthday? Posted: 10/21/2006 8:24:32 AM
sweetcurves.....all the way to Texas, then left in your hotel room. Sheeeesh!!! I hope that he paid for this....what an ***hole!!! I heard of a guy that took a plane, from California to Toronto....to meet a girl for the first time....and when he got there, he expected to have sex that weekend. When she resisted, he hoped on a plane the next morning without telling her that he was leaving. Some guys!!!! Only thinking of the pecker''.....sheeesh!!!

mmanardin

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Have you ever been dumped on your birthday? Posted: 10/21/2006 8:21:18 AM
Hey bluejia.....I find that very hard to believe that u have been dumper EVERY DAY!! You are petit, very attractive, and I like what u said in your profile. C'mon girl....give me the truth, k?

mmanardin

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yes or no? Friends with benefits! Posted: 10/21/2006 8:06:40 AM
Right ravenstar.....it all depends on the person....and might I add, the particular situation they were in at the time. Shortly after my separation.....i have horny as hell, but I was not in the ''mind'' of looking for a permanent relationship....didn't want that "rebound" effect. So I searched on the internet, and found a nice woman who was looking for the same. We were "together" whenever one of us wanted "it", for over 2 years. Then we broke it up, and I started looking for "the one". IT was great...relieved the stress....and gave us both a TON of enjoyment.

mmanardin

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Ever get an email like this....??? Posted: 10/16/2006 2:11:38 PM
Noooooooo, u have "I am a real cutie" posted to your forehead. Congrats on the B/C anenigma.....I am very happy for u!! If I were, u, I would respond to his email, in kinda a 'neutral' vien.....then just see what happens....k? In the meantime, keep dating, and I wish u the best of luck out there.

mmanardin

Joined: 3/3/2006

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Lying in profiles and men with delusions of themselves Posted: 10/13/2006 6:38:52 AM
Yaa, i met a woman from POF, who said that she had an 'average' body, but she was close to 300 pounds.....I was shocked to say the least. I am a small guy really, and I could imagine if we did "it", and she was on top of me, that I would be dead!!! Not a pleasant thought I know.....but us guys do think about these things....sorry girls!

mmanardin

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so u want a second chance version 2 Posted: 10/12/2006 3:39:09 PM
Look guy.....she just has a constant case of the "horny warnies"....k? With this comes a # of personality traits. Such as, maybe u have been "doing her" enuf....but she NEEDS variety....so she goes out hunting!! Hey, maybe she goes out "fishing"....maybe she is on this site. Have a look.....k? Anyway, she won't change so, u r dreaming....k? So either u "do" her whenever u want, as long as u can "protect your heart".....or just break it off.

mmanardin

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brothers suicide note help me please Posted: 10/12/2006 11:50:13 AM
Good Advise, Psssst, get Professional help......k?

mmanardin

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I feel Stupid, I was scamed Posted: 10/6/2006 6:01:34 AM
Hey Pretty Girl.......I got scammed too.....but for $1,500!!!! I just considered it to be a valuable lesson....and got on with my life. Poops, eh??? Yaa, they r out there for sure!!!

mmanardin

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What is Cottage Life? Posted: 10/5/2006 5:57:46 AM
Oh yaa....there is also a really Cooooool magazine published here in Canada.....called "Cottage Life"....neat eh? I rented a cottage for a week last August....one day I am gonna own one of my own tho.

mmanardin

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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... * Posted: 9/29/2006 3:32:11 PM
op...yaa, but it is MEN and WOMEN who GENERALLY, fall apart after age 35. My 'ex' and I tho, r both in our early 50's, have energy to burn, and I go to the gym 3 to 5 times per week. Maybe u should move to Ontario, Sunshine!!!!!!!!!!

mmanardin

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Hi...... Posted: 9/29/2006 8:42:38 AM
.....i found out why u haven't gotten any emails lately....u have to make a small change to your profile....even if it is just one word being changed.....then u will appear on the "New Users" page....then u will get some emails....k?

mmanardin

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Help. I feel like a dirty old woman. Posted: 5/18/2006 1:30:07 PM
Well Girl.....GO FOR IT !!!!!!!!!!!! Wanna know why??? Seven years is 'peanuts', so don't worry about it....k? As an example....I am 54 yo, (Yaa, Yaa, so I am an a real 'oldie', but a 'goodie'!) Then I was approched by a 36yo woman, who wanted to meet me. Now, at first I was a little 'spooked' to say the least....but we met, had coffee, and we kept in touch for about a month. Then I found that I was 'falling' for her....and she was 'falling' for me too. We openly discussed our age difference, then cast this 'problem' aside....and have been dating ever since. We r sooooo frigging compatible, it is amazing!!! So, I say if the 'shoe fits, wear it!' ....k?

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