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deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Dating a Muslim while being totally unreligious. Posted: 7/30/2010 5:02:24 PM
it seems that my previous post HURT someone's feelings. again, as the old saying goes : if its too hot in the Kitchen then get out ! if you want to see racist /prejudice comments please view previous POF / topixnet. forums ! back to the original poster : i saw something on abc nightline last week where a woman (white) was in a Harem in saudi arabia or basically in Prostitution and has gotten married, adopted a black child and wrote a bestseller about that LIFEstyle/Muslims in Saudi. some women get with these men Muslims thinking that they will be living in the Lap of Luxury/ money. this is very Dangerous, especially when kids are involved since these men kidnap the kids and take them to a Horrible Muslim lifestyle in Saudi arabia or India . my mom taught us to work for what we want and not live or depend on a man. i met a very racist muslim indian man on this SITE a few months ago who was extremely Arrogant, rude, obnoxious and bragged about how many businesses he Owned.....He was BUttt ugly alone with the BAD attitude. i hung up on him in less than 5 minutes , this guy still comes on my page to look at me .

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Dating a Muslim while being totally unreligious. Posted: 7/30/2010 7:04:35 AM
to the poster you need to listen to the following folks because they are right on target : afashionlady, pixiedust, and whatalady !!!!!!!! the only thing i can add here is STAY AWAY from this dude. you are a Booty call, plain and simple or he might need you as a Smoke screen for his Alqueda terroristic duties !!!

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Do white Americans have low-paying jobs by choice or necessity? Posted: 7/30/2010 6:45:38 AM
i have been seeing this post for a while but didn't know if i should post (i'm not white) because it seem kind of DUMB ! my cousin is working part-time at a place where the employees consist of half blacks/whites and few hispanics (4) out of 50 employees on the night shift. several of the older white employees (3 married couples) are in their late 40s with 2 other jobs. one handicap white lady who uses a walker to get around. make a long story short with this economy EVERYBODy is working low-paying jobs or minimum wage including people who have SEVERAL degrees !!! if you want to eat, pay your car note/rent then you will have to work a job that you probably wouldn't worked in the Past ! i would rather work at Walmart or Target than run around Robbing folks, scamming old folks or trying to swing from a pole at a Strip joint (not, i'm a little thick).

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Billionaire Pedophile Goes Free Posted: 7/21/2010 12:37:57 PM
do you guys see what is going on in this country and the world ? the perbs are out to corrupt the innocent babes with the help of lawyers and judges who are Perbs themselves half the time. a few months ago, a jewish lawyer was supposed to be helping a family member with a problem but ended up dropping my family member's case by being late for hearings, etc, etc. the reason this lawyer was chosen was because he said he was a Christian and loved Joel osteen's ministry and visited the church regularly. what he liked about pastor joel is that he didn't spend or waste time always preaching out of the Bible and giving folks a tons of scriptures to read. Well, relative should have knew right there to RUN when this so -called Christian Jew said he likes a minister because he does not use scriptures or the Bible. when we called another lawyer about this matter, the new lawyer laughed in our faces because he said that he knew that lawyer and as Christians we should have known that this Jewish lawyer would say anything or even SELL his own momma to make a Dollar ! Christian sham lawyer takes 3 (THREE) CHILD MOLESTOR cases because they paid him a lot of money to represent them......one of the perbs was a banker and another one was some kind of engineer. of course, my relative had a simple case and never been in trouble but worked as a custodian. do you know that this good lawyer LOST /DROPed my relative's case to DEFEND and WIN the child rapists cases who were not Black guys ! see this is the kind of CRAP that make NICE or USED to be Good folks turn WICKED ! someone who steals a TV or writes a few hot checks ( $2,000) get more time than a person who RAPES/Sodomizes a CHILD or Embezzles $100,000 from their job get a TAP on the WRiST !!! this is why i cannot stand lindsay lohan and paris hilton . polanski always was a Perb even when he was with sharon tate.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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unemployment extension has been approved ! Posted: 7/21/2010 8:25:24 AM
i will note waste a lot of time to this because i have too much on my plate today. someone said get 2 part-time jobs , move in with relatives, and etc. thank you ! i have done some of those things since over a year ago and tell people this everywhere i go. 2nd- a few days ago , i went to a Ethnic beauty supply store where most of them are owned by Koreans who sometimes have one or two black women working there to answer questions from the predominantly black clientele . Most of these shops have all hispanic and sometimes illegal mexican aliens working there with black customers shopping only in black neighborhoods or in areas with a good population of blacks. so i gave this woman her products back because i told her i didn't feel comfortable buying since owner does not RESPect customers enough to have someone employed from the community who knows something about the products we are using. i know for a fact that a lot of these women are unemployed or on UIB but using the little money to shop in her store or ( with boyfriends/husands money). last this korean business owner never even addressed me when i entered the store because i know she knew someone walked in because there's a bell and cameras all over the place. i didn't buy anything and have been posting on facebook, calling firends, etc that they need to STOP spending money or the little they have with Stores, shop owners and even Walmart with places that do not RESPect /support/ you . i was tempted to buy some JUNK the other day at Walmart until i looked at the labels which were all from VIETNAM ?? why am i giving money to somone who is helping to keep me /friends/boyfriends/neighbors UNEMPLOYed or having to work TWO JOBS to make ends meet. back to uib- here in my town a republican woman (mayor of coppell,tx) killed herself and daughter after it was found she had been using city credit cards to buy foods, pay utilities, and she was behind on her $ 400,000 mortgage ! i listened to C-Span the other morning with several Republicans calling in crying that they are losing everything, cannot find jobs and will not vote REPUBlican but for the DEMS ! some of these folks have two and three degrees. to the folks who are MAD about the UIB extension, when you are unemployed or sick on your back then you will see what it feels like ? everybody does not have a relative to live with. in some places the bus does not go by if a person have to give up their car. we have people who are your friends while things are good but when it turns SOUR these folks disappear ....will not offer to buy a piece of chicken or pay a portion of your light bill. two good friends fell sick and their boyfriends just disappeared because they couldn't deal with it !

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Possible Food Crisis? Posted: 7/20/2010 4:11:57 PM
this sounds like something from the Scify channel. someone is trying to do a Doom and Gloom epic making some gullible /scary folks do stupid , suicidal stuff. all a family needs to do is raise some chickens, pigs, goats and vegetable garden or even a catfish pond. i got me some Jesus and he takes good care of me !

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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british nigerian family have blonde baby girl...not albino ? Posted: 7/20/2010 2:25:36 PM
i'm an incredible news junkie. someone sent this story to me which i knew didn't sound right. the couple and doctors KNOW that the woman did not cheat on her nigerian husband, there is no history of mixed race or whites in their nigerian bloodline and the baby is not an ALBINO ! the doctors are amaze how blonde the baby hair is and the thickness because white kids ( according to the doctors, not me !) do not have this kind of wavy , thick blonde hair at birth ?? somewhere i read that actor wentworth miller (from prison break movie) grandfather was a mulato (looked hispanic) and his mom is jewish. this guy is very handsome but when i first saw him in mariah carey's video he looked mixed to me. http://bossip.com/268491/nigerian-couple-stuns-genetic-experts-give-birth-to-white-baby-girl/

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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unemployment extension has been approved ! Posted: 7/20/2010 2:20:53 PM
i have been glued to all stations from C-Span to Msnbc. a friend who UIB ran out in June just called me to tell me that she will now be able to pay her house note/car until the new job she found last week calls her to start. which it takes sometimes 3 weeks before you get a check when starting a new job and she will not have health insurance. why are the 99ers not getting anything ( folks who have been unemployed since early 09/late 08) ??

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Justice Dept vs. Ariz. -- Fed'l Lawsuit Posted: 7/7/2010 11:06:19 AM
i started a part-time job recently at a call center to talk to folks about politics, pres. obama, healthcare, etc. the only reason i got this job is because i can speak english and pronounce my words clearly. i have applied at hundreds of call centers/customer svc where they wanted bi-lingual or spanish speaking reps with a few jobs for english speakers. at the location where i'm located there's only about 3 hispanics out of about 50 to 60 folks (mixed group- white, blacks). so , i assume these folks also had the same problem ( 3 school teachers are working). with that said , yes, i support what the folks are doing in arizona 5000 percent !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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foreign brides.. your thoughts Posted: 7/6/2010 8:23:22 AM
i saw something last week on Currents (cable tv) talking about Foreign mail order brides being trafficked- thailand. what i found interesting when the reporter interviewed a thai man who does the matching was the requirements for the women : 18 to 40, women cannot work in bars and some other stuff, the matchmaker investigates the women backgrounds. when the white female reporter asked the thai matchmaker about investigating these white men the matchmaker said he Cannot investigate because these men comes from not just america but germany, etc and he has no way of investigating. THIs is Bullcorn !! the reporter says this is how women can be lured into a Trafficking/prostitution ring or abused. i don't see what or why a woman would take a chance coming to a foreign land with no relatives or friends to Marry/hook-up with a man you know nothing about. this is extremely scarey and dangerous to me. i can see how these american/european men are taking advantage/using these poor women.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Boyfriend Cheated, Denied It, Gave me an STD Posted: 7/6/2010 7:34:43 AM
i will comment on Preciouspurple from 7/2010 statement regarding STDs since the original OP post is from almost 2 years ago. Prescious, why did you have to mention that you are white which is kinda obvious and that your boyfriend is black and 54 ??? i don't think that is IMPORTANT or needed to be mention. Again, that's why i signed up with another website which this KINDA thing (race issue/race card) does not come up. and, NO, we don't spend the day talking about white folks or anybody nonblack. but there are a lot of white girls on this site trying to HOOK up with black men. Precious if your story is TRUE this man has put you in some serious health concern. this is a reason why so many women are coming down with Cervix/uterine cancers from these STDs they are getting from UNFAITHful , cheating, Nasty Men. i would say to Stay the Heck away from this dude, tell and spread the news to any women you see him with and if he works or goes to church to SPREAD the news there. Personally , i don't think i could show my face on this site or tell anyone other than my sister or best friend that i CAUGHt a STD from a man. this is too embarassing !! why are people, especially women still SEXIng men without condoms ? don't you know you should be getting examinations before SEXIng , especially when its a new relationship ? Are you guys that Hard up or Desperate for a Man ? i guess you have learned a Valuable lesson.....keep your legs closed until you have a Clear Health record on your Lover, Boo, or John !!!

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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I like her personality but I am not physically attracted to her at all Posted: 7/6/2010 7:21:21 AM
i hope this chick goes PSYCHO on you ( original poster) since you are playing games. YES, you are !!!! i read the firs few lines which sounds like OP is very self-absorbed with himself. OH, by the way you are NOT all THAT ! normally, i don't get upset or lash out at the OP but something you /OP is not telling us because NO woman will continue in this CIRCUS seeing it is hopeless.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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What's wrong with settling? Posted: 6/30/2010 10:16:20 AM
SETTling ??? are you crazy ? no woman or man should settle for anything. my attitude its all or nothing. but, i come from a family of hard-workers , strong conservative values and good-looking men and women. Settling is not an option. i'd rather be alone than be with someone who is not my taste of tea. i love Reba Mcentire's songs on this : Still , Lonely Alone, Till You Love Me, Once You Learned To Be Lonely.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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how do you handle first long distance dates? Posted: 6/30/2010 9:21:02 AM
this will be my Final comment to this post. OGRE of POF-- is a TOTAL gentleman/Man (last of the mohicans). no, i'm not trying to hook-up with you but this man is the only person who has made TRUE Sense. but , again, i don't think people or women should do those out of country or hundreds of miles dating. too dangerous !!

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Is marriage a burden or a blessing? Posted: 6/30/2010 7:54:03 AM
i think that marriage is a Blessing or could be one but it depends if you are with a person who is good to you, respectful, loving, and complements you. it is a Curse if you are with a fool, dummy, unfaithful, drug-user, alcholic or cheater or even a person who is unclean/does not provide for household ( especially when the man does not or refuses to Work). questions OP asked are the same ones we talked/discussed in my Marriage & Family sociology class and another class where my Nigerian professor had a lot of good opinions. my nigerian professor said that according to what we do here in the states and back home : here in the STATES single and some married women go out alone to Clubs, meet/pick-up men they don't know and bring them back home or sleep with them, family /relatives input is not respected or allowed to say Yes or NO to the relationship, unwed babies/relationships are still frowned on in Nigeria and some Asian countries. my american christian female professor (marriage/family class) says that : in the old days when folks got married they stayed together no matter what ( if spouse was a cheater, woman-beater, lazy or wife got fat); there wasn't any Ho-Houses or clubs for men to find other women to cheat or they were Far away ; society looked down on you if you were not married before 21 and even if you DIVorced ; when people did have Sex outside of Marriage, most likely they would end up Marrying (even if no pregnancy existed) . i guess that's why we have so many OLD MAiDS and Old Goats in the USA !!

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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how do you handle first long distance dates? Posted: 6/30/2010 7:39:27 AM
to the original poster: i hate to sound negative but DON'T do it . do you watch the Nancy Grace show ? its so much going on in the news with women going missing, getting into accidents or running into Stalkers, etc. after i had some trouble a few weeks ago, i cannot get involved with a Man 'long distance' i need my MAN here where i can get on the phone and call him to be at my house or whatever in 15 Minutes or less !!!! there's so much stuff women need done : grass cut, car detailed, house painted, furniture moved that YOUR MAN needs to be near by. No, i cannot do that long distance stuff ever again. we could be Talking/Chatting email friends but that's the end of it.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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I think I am about to be fired. What should I do? Posted: 6/29/2010 12:42:56 PM
i agree 1000 percent with the above poster. dude, do a slip and fall routine . get your workers comp, go back to school and chill.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Dating within' your League Posted: 6/29/2010 10:07:16 AM
i will not write a book or essay like some folks here because i dont have the time, got stuff to do before going to class/work. when it comes to dating in or out your league it depends what you or a person consider their "league? " there's a gizzillion folks doing this and don't have a problem. ex. katie holmes and tom cruise , elin nordgern and tiger woods, stedman and oprah, k fed and britney spears, debbie rowe and michael jackson. what's wrong to be a size a and want to be a size D ? if i want to date or move up a notch to date men like Denzel washington or bill gates as long as these men are single. what's wrong with that ? the focus should be do these people have things in common such as religion, interests, family ties and not so much income or even education.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Dating while pregnant?? Posted: 6/29/2010 9:46:43 AM
you guys are really GRreat ! i was feeling in the dumps with a heavy college/work schedule coming home at 12 midnight. i read this post and the replies , now i'm just laughing crazy. i never thought a pregnant woman could pick up on a man since its hard for some single women to. yes, there are Some men who date and even marry a pregnant woman who is not carrying their baby ??? its sounds NASYTy to me, but that's me. i have always been a square and strong conservative eventhough i vote straight DeM. how can you ( pregnant woman ) have SEX with a man who is not your unborn's baby daddy or have another man feeling on your body ???? to the poster, if you are a REAL friend get your sisterfriend some counseling, therapy, or see a pastor. maybe, even talk to her estranged husband or parents.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/29/2010 9:37:58 AM
i have missed a lot of the games with these new college classes i've started. at this moment, i'm trying to enjoy watching japan and paraguy do a ' toss of the coin' nearing the end of the game. i've been watching The View , wendy williams and judge mathis along with switching to see these guys. i'm surprised the japanese guys have lasted as long...beating all the other teams. i just saw a guy score for paraguy and now the japanese guy is trying to score. Wow ! he got it for japan. i hate that US didn't win but was really happy for Ghana and gyan ( he is so Handsome).

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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how do you handle first long distance dates? Posted: 6/29/2010 9:24:44 AM
this guy who is in my class at night told us that he will be meeting a woman in Canada in a couple of weeks . he has been chatting with her online for almost a year. this guy does not have a car, rides the bus to college and work, and will take a amtrak or something to canada to see 'olde' girl. i wonder if this woman know this guy does not have a CAR ?? i could not be online with someone a YEAR without having met them.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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He has young children Posted: 6/29/2010 9:06:02 AM
sorry but i didn't have time to read all the boat load of replies. i went back to the original poster which i'm glad i did because i would have been incorrect in my answer. Original Poster: you cannot tell your man that for july and august you don't won't to be around his kids but you don't mind being around your kids and grandkids . i think you need to END this relationship because NO man want a woman who will be SELFISH and UNLOving towards his Flesh and Blood !!! you don't have the right attitude. if this guy was my uncle , i would tell him to DROP you like a Hot Potato. the christian talk show i listen to on the radio every morning , always have two men a day that call in with the same problem. the new woman he is with does not act or treat his kids Right from a previous relationship but the ' new ' woman always want him to TREAT her kids a Special way or give money for her kids or grandkids needs.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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E-Harmony Posted: 6/27/2010 9:33:50 PM
stealth, you gave a good story that should help people, especially women to be more careful about these MEN on here or anywhere else. i watch all the crimes hows like Forensic or I.D, etc. this man had to been a STRaight uP Lunatic to go on a date with a woman who is a Corrections Officer knowing he had that criminal record ? ? this is about the 2nd story i heard of a woman running into a Sexual pervert (convicted or being beat-up).

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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When the guy decides to not go on another date Posted: 6/27/2010 9:23:15 PM
the only men i can see myself getting upset over because they will not go on a 2nd date with me: Prince, Denzel washington, Brad Pitt, rob lowe, chris brown, trey songz, usher, alex rodriguez. i think you guys get the picture.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/23/2010 10:37:38 PM
our usa team Rocked today! that was really amazing how donovan made that score right after clint missed. i hate i missed ghana play. why hasn't ghana fired their serbian coach who was upset that ghana beat the serbs last week ?

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/17/2010 9:37:13 AM
after reading the history or last teams to win the Fifa, i think it might be Brazil or Italy. the top winning team in order: brazil, germany, italy, uraguay, argentina--- this is from fifa site/wikipedia, not me. i checked out the brazilian team which have a good mixture of guys in different sizes/backgrounds.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/17/2010 6:56:20 AM
i'm glued to the tv now with greece and nigeria about to battle it out. i just love those greek and nigerian names...it has substance. why couldn't the koreans come back against the argentians ? i am always for the underdog. the little kids are so cute that are escorting the players out.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/16/2010 5:37:55 PM
hate to disappoint you guys, but i chose my team by who has the cutest guys !

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/16/2010 3:33:12 PM
what happened with spain losing ? i will have to see the highlights ( was in school)>

deltadallas

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You have 30 Minutes To Impress Me! Posted: 6/15/2010 5:59:36 PM
No, you have 30 minutes to impresss me ( to the original poster). can you imagine someone telling you that if YOU are not interesting/funny/cute enough that they will leave You in 30 Minutes ?

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/15/2010 5:49:53 PM
from what i did get to see ( saw the last 30 minutes) it was a very good game. i was glad that the koreans did get a chance to make one point. it seems like the asian teams and paraguay had the shortest players. the serbs had some tall guys.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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50% of women don't want children? Posted: 6/15/2010 2:20:39 PM
i had to go back to the original poster who seems to be a man. okay, i'm running into a lot of men who are in their 30-40ish that do not want kids or maybe had kids in another relationship. so its not fair to say its just women who don't want kids. most of these men are not doing what they should be doing with the kids they have already like taking the kids: bowling, out to eat, doctor appointments, giving them lunch money or clothes, meeting for PTA or school functions, teaching the boys how to be men ( cut grass, carpentry, car repair/maintenance, bbq, how to treat a lady/chivalry and basic hygiene .

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/14/2010 6:47:10 AM
robin roberts of good morning america reported from s . africa today that the french and serbs complained about the HORns but the Officials decided to keep the Horns. the netherlands are the first team to get 2 points ! all other teams, i've been watching only could get 1 (one ) point. tim howard, usa goalie got his rib hurt and will probably not play this friday. i can't wait to see cameroon vs japan today !

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/13/2010 11:59:16 AM
can someone tell me why KLXN a mexican station commentators are very loud and overly excited about this Soccer between germany and australia. i noticed that Espn is showing baseball , i did get to see Ghana beat Serbia ( very good game) but the commentators wasn't loud/anxious....the Fans with their bull horns were extremely excited like the Mexicans. why are those guys not wearing the short shorts like back in the day? what is the purpose of those white tights under the long shorts ? i feel sorry for that english goalie (green) because the newspapers are Bashing him big -time ( he probably will get fired).

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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He/she still watches cartoons... Posted: 6/12/2010 5:02:23 PM
OP, you are worried about the wrong thing. what women need to be concerned with is when your Man is watching PORN ! i watch cartoons alone and sometimes with my nieces/nephews. No, i'm not childish or immature. this is why a lot of women can't get good men, we are worried about the Wrong thing.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Weird third date and mixed signals Posted: 6/12/2010 12:32:36 PM
most of the folks on this board gave some very good advice. if the OP girl didn't have good chemistry on the 2nd date, why in the heck would you go out on a 3rd date??? then get upset because the dude wants to go half ? what i used to do is pop out my $100.00 dollar bill to let a man know from the JUmp Street that i'm not here for a free meal !!

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/12/2010 9:21:56 AM
good morning to the board, i just missed argentina and nigeria. they played about 2 hours but it was close since argentina 1 and nigeria 0 (zero). the espn commentators said nigeria had several chances. (i dont know what that means). i can't wait to see USA...again, i'm not a sports person. never cared for soccer but i'm excited by the energy of the fans out there and the players. where did soccer originally started? who are supposed to be the best/greatest players ? are kids offered soccer scholarships in the states to attend college? if not, that might be a BIg reason why its not that popular.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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What defines A Serious Relationship? Posted: 6/11/2010 1:02:22 PM
serious relationship is as follows: woman can go threw beau's mail, cell phone, answering machine, medicine cabinet, car, computer (Pof account); woman has access to bank account- can take money out like when shopping at Ross, Macy, Luby's, and Dillards ; woman is automatically invited to family functions like weddings, baby showers, reunions, company/family picnics or banquets. you get my drift ? if man or woman don't have access to half of these above things i mentioned, then you dont have a serious relationship! kudos

deltadallas

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World Cup finals 2010 Posted: 6/11/2010 11:00:36 AM
i do not really care for soccer but have caught the fever . this morning a spanish program and Espn showed mexico /s. africa...this was really good. i missed my morning breakfast at whataburger because i couldn't pull myself from the TV. i'm really impressed with giovani dos santos and the s. african player with the dreadlocks that got that last point in. how much are the tickets/flight/other entertainment going far? i see where anita baker messed up the anthem and r kelly was invited to sing (he did a good job).

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Anyone who is separated because they have an out at anytime.. Posted: 6/9/2010 5:14:06 PM
my answer is NO, NO, NO ! unless its bill gates, denzel washington, george clooney, johnny depp, mr big from sex in the city. i think you get my drip. if i said how i really felt about people who are separated, especially men, who are trying to date it would HURT some folks feelings. i will go ahead since we should all be grown up or have your big Boy fruit of loom on: cheap, trifling, emotional and financial problems, procrastinator, LYING, playing both side of the fence. oh, one more thing, sounds like a LOSER !!!!!

deltadallas

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Is living at home with parents such a turn off for dating someone? Posted: 6/5/2010 1:43:49 PM
the original poster asked this question in 06' and he was living in his parents house, paying his own bills, 26 yrs old. i think to each his own. what is scandalous are the men/women who live with parents making babies, not working, and do not help parents with bills or household duties. folks over the age of 30 should be in their own place. years ago people did not move out of the family home until it was time to get married. in some cultures like asian indians, hispanics, vietnamese they live with several different family members in one house that might have one or two bedroom...and wouldn't want it any other way.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 41 (view)

Relationship advice, need an unbiased opinion Posted: 6/4/2010 1:10:09 PM
the OP has really scared me . that was one of the reasons i set my profile to 'messageboards only' a few months ago, yet i still get some messages . i got a crazy last week who turned around and Blocked me when i told him that i was not into "freaks". he admitted he was a Freak that knew how to behave ??? OP this man needs to be dumped . when a woman or woman has kids at home, you need to date appropriately with kids in mind. OP this guy is not into you and wants FUN with other women and no strings attached. i would be very scared/concerned having this dude around my kids ( if i had some), especially a girl !

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 29 (view)

How do I delete this site from my favorites? Posted: 6/4/2010 10:53:59 AM
no, i have a life ! i enjoy watching the news/cable shows and judge brown. sometimes, i will cancel an appointment to watch my program.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 100 (view)

How Easily Can You Detect Red Flags Posted: 6/4/2010 10:50:28 AM
my thing is kids. a man tells me he has 8 kids with 5 mommas and no history of paying child support, never married any of the women, have a history of living with women and suddenly in love with me /wants to hook -up because he is a Changed man.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 135 (view)

Have you ever decided against messaging someone because of uncertainty about racial requirements? Posted: 6/4/2010 10:45:10 AM
there is a mixture of answers to the original poster question / a poster said he does not believe it has to do with Race when people select their mates? well how come i have never seen The Bachelor pick a black/asian/hispanic woman? or the same for the Bachelorette ? what this site should do is let people pick their racial preference in profile instead of a person having to write it out in their BIO . i dont see anything wrong with someone having a preference for their own race or another race. that's their Business and choice.. that;s why we live in America . i signed up with another site which is predominantly Black, it is so interesting because i see a lot of white women and some asians on this site trying to HOOK up with Black men !!!! i even had a few white guys and hispanic to send me messages . yes , i did reply because i am a Southern Charmer but we were not a match. in fact, i get about 7 to 10 responses a day from this site compared to this site (i'm only on for the messageboards here) . but i will reply to someone if the message me. what i'm not understanding from the folks on this site as well as the other site that i'm on is why are people in these groups after 2 to 5 years without meeting a Match? this says a lot about a person who is on a dating/relationship site ....the person obviously has Issues/difficult/playing games or wasting folks time!

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 197 (view)

Proper Blocking etiquette Posted: 6/1/2010 4:27:36 PM
this is a good topic. last week a guy on this site sent me some messages, i replied eventhough my profile says 'here for the messageboards' and i took my picture down in jan. this man tells me that he is a FREAK but knows how to behave. well i send him a message back that he will not be a good match , not even for friendship. when i send him a message to take care and not to contact me, he has Blocked me ??? well thanks CUP**** (will not give his full screen name) because he did me a favor. i have been lucky to not run into Psychos or Crybabies on this site up until last week !! it seems like the men are having a hard time dealing with women not responding or wanting to HOOK up in a second. we are so supposed to be mature, intelligent and courteous to each other since we are no longer in JUNIor High. it only takes a second to respond to someone , just to say hi or thanks for stopping to check out your profile/or let your admirer know they are not a match.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 508 (view)

The real reasons behind Arizona's Immigration Law? Posted: 6/1/2010 10:43:17 AM
pres obama is just coming on the scene. illegals been coming here at alarming numbers with bills to protect them starting with daddy bush who signed into law that govt forms have to be in Spanish. W bush went all over the place speaking Spanish when he was 'sugaring' the illegal mexicans/hispanic communities. that's why sen mccain is in trouble now and will not be voted back in. the conservatives/gop is to blame for this illegal alien problem and everything else that goes with it.

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 42 (view)

The downside to working away from home two weeks at a time..... Posted: 6/1/2010 10:35:05 AM
i agree 1000 percent with Danadaze ! this guy sounds like a great catch and is 'nt bad looking. too young and not tan enough for me. most the women i know are looking for a Man with that schedule so he want be all over her and in her business when she has go to the casino or shopping. the OP did not say what happened with the older woman on POF he hooked up with for a year. i wonder did he Cheat or is the drama queen???

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 364 (view)

WHY DO MEN WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU, BUT NOT DATE YOU? Posted: 6/1/2010 10:28:37 AM
i gather by the question the author is a woman. half of the responses seem to be correct. the ball is in the woman's court. the owner of the court is in CONTROL !!

deltadallas

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 515 (view)

What do you think about people who have psychics' readings? Posted: 6/1/2010 10:24:59 AM
i dont see anything wrong with it as long as you do not do it on a regular basis -can be expensive. someone sent me a message for a free reading from another site i joined a few months ago. i have met people (mainly women) who will not or cannot make decisions (some basic) without consulting a psychic. why not consult your Bible or pastor which will be a lot cheaper and more accurate reading.

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