I have to be boss at work, and at home being a single parent. A take-charge kind of man in the bedroom really, really gets me going. Love it even more when he is a gentleman in public.

Ditto that of a manly man.. but how to find that?
How to convey that's what you seek on a profile?

I will have to suck it up
and try to walk like it doesn't itch like crazy down there

I've noticed that very few people actually try to gain an understanding from the authors perspective

I assume that men do the same

yours is way to long of a profile for someone who is only on here for the forums only. And you say your not single but then says in your profile looking for long term change it to talk email would make more sense

Caveman - I think me and you need to lie about our ages... whatcha think?

I'll be 33 and you can be 35 from now on.

Men are looking for barbie dolls. Give me a break. Even the overweight ones want fit slim sexy women

I can keep up with any of these athletic muscular guys. I have two homes, a lake front property, and 100 acres of land to look after. Im far busier and more active than alot of men my age. I ride horses, breed stallions, fish for muskie, pike, [pickerel, large and small mouth bass, dont owe a dime to anyone - not even a mortgage on any of my properties, have my own company, do all my own landscaping, yard work, snow removal, ive been zip lining, cave exploring, scooba diving, driven motorcycles, 18 wheeler trucks, tractors, 4 wheelers, driven off road dune buggies, do all my own car maintenance on 3 cars plus my kids cars, do my own taxes, and can even change my oil, and filter. Get off your high horse before you or someone else breaks your fricken neck.

Confident and self assured is not the same as steam-roller abusive confidence. One is artificial and used as a mask. There are two types of alpha, the fear based drill sergeant type and the self assured doesn’t care what the rest of the world deems as acceptable type, one is sure of himself and needs no others to verify it, the other needs subservient people surrounding him.

There is nothing like being dominant while being dominated, think “Cool hand Luke” nothing pisses off false alpha’s more! A true alpha can stand alone, he doesn’t need the pack, the pack follows only because it doesn’t know where else to go.

1KindMan4U, you don’t got it. You’re blaming others (women/feminism) for what you don’t have. Iconoclast is correct, A true alpha doesn’t need to be chosen.

However, if another woman was doing the same thing, yet you found her incredibly hot, you might view it as "affection" instead.

Inside information eh? lol

I like the outdoors, all kinds of animals, music, art(mostly abstract), bowling, reading, muscle cars, nice restaurants, & racing or just grilling out with friends. Movies are nice too. I have a great sense of humor, laughter is good for the soul. I like variety in anything I do. Looking for someone who is versatile as well. Someone who takes care of himself, physically, mentally, & spiritually. I enjoy working out, although I prefer yoga when time allows. My career interests are directed toward the medical field. I would also like to play tennis...if someone would teach me. If you're interested , just say hey to me.

Affectionate is when you give freely of yourself because you truly want to.

Clingy is when you give with a motive of calming your own insecurities.

One is done with no need for reciprocation, the other is done for validation.

I believe there is someone out there for everyone - hoping to prove myself right and find the one that will be by my side as we grow old together.

I've had the opportunity to see and do some amazing things so far.

Hoping to find that special somebody with whom I can share these experiences and many more as they present themselves down the road.

Self-professed goofball that enjoys nothing more than making others laugh, yet smart enough to be a serious grown up when necessary.

Friends & family are VERY important to me.

To say my taste in movies/music is eclectic would be a serious understatement.

I spend my free time in the summer trying to teach myself golf, sitting around campfires w/friends, & driving my racecar (trust me, I do NOT fit the typical redneck stereotype associated w/the sport). Winters are focused on SU hoops & staying warm.

To be continued...

I also enjoy small home projects - which is great, since I have a small home. :)
I have painted all three of my bedrooms. I planted a tree, but it died. I do NOT have a green thumb.

In nice weather you can find me sitting on the deck. Maybe with a beverage, or a full meal. I find it quiet and peaceful.

I am always learning. I read non-fiction books (mostly the Bible), and I am currently take an American Sign Language class.

but there was an unintended result ..I learned what my ex had been wanting to hear from me .. and I learned that I had rather use my new found sensitivity on her than on new women from POF ...so now Im back with her and here just for the forums

Cooking is a passion Im possibly happiest in the kitchen. The perfect day would be preparing food for friends, then having a good old shin-dig with free flowing wine, chin wagging, and lots of laughs.

Apparently the more I say here the more views I will get?

I'am open minded ... I believe in working hard and playing just as hard ... I'am looking for someone who ... wants to enjoy life.

with a great sense of humor and love to laugh

honestly, I think they do it sometimes just to get a rise out of me.

With that attitude I don't think you're gonna have any problem lassoing yourself a cowboy. What does a man over 45 look for?....why a cowgirl of course.

Wow, I'd hate to be a man on a date with somw of you women. Grow up people, esp. women. I hate this about my gender. Look if the feeling and chemistry is right why not? 1st date, 2nd date or even 16th date, does it really matter??? Sex is not a bad thing in fact it's really, really good! As long as it's consentual and both people are on the same page wht does it hurt? Damn people not every ejaculation deserves a name! lol

Well I am just finishing up my BA in History. I am currently making an application to do my masters in History here in Victoria. I also plan to apply for teaching program and maybe for law school as well.

As far as my non-academic life goes I love to watch movies. My favorite genre is comedy. I love to laugh and laugh often because it is a great workout! My favorite television show has to be The Big Bang Theory and you can't go wrong with the classical humor of the Simpson's.

I am big into politics both local, federally and international.

I love to read. I use to be a big fantasy reader but now that I am studying history I can't stop reading and learning about the world we live in.

I also love sports. I play just about anything because it is a great way to get out and meet people and to get some exercise. I try my best to workout and stay in shape because it is important to have a healthy body. I would love to go traveling one day and check out this beautiful world we live but I am waiting until I have a steady career before I do that and hopefully someone I can tour the world with.

I am a very easy going person but yet motivated if I set my mind on something I don't stop until I have completed my task.

I can't think of what else to write in this box so if you want to know more or have a question drop me a line.

I have no idea my guess would be anything that can provide a good environment to sit and chat so that two people can get to know one another.

Are you an interesting man who likes to laugh and has a desire for adventure?

I have played golf, I like to keep it in the short grass, have hit it out of the rough and been buried in the woods but I don’t like to play it on pavement, it would do a number on my favorite 5 iron and I like the feel of the short grass on my face when I bend down line up a long putt.