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Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 15 (view)

What is going on? Posted: 8/3/2009 10:27:36 PM
Most men you will meet on the internet are cowards. That's the reason their on the internet dating to begin with. There's a number of reasons he is avoiding meeting you, none of which are good. a. He's chicken shit. b. He has a wife. c. He's not what he says he is. d. He's busy with other women. e. He isn't serious about. f. He just enjoys someone being nice to him over the phone. Best course of action to deal with spineless fools like that is to move on. You're only wasting your time talking to someone on the phone/internet that refuses to meet you. A stand up guy won't have much issue meeting in person after a few good phone conversations. Good luck.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 13 (view)

Is this cheating? Posted: 8/3/2009 10:22:13 PM
Well man, hate to break it you, but that's Slut Games 101, you should have seen it coming. She's wants you back once in a while because she's single at those moments and misses you because you're a good guy. She's using you. I know you're feeling upset and want any bit of attention she'll give you, but do yourself a favor and forget she ever existed. You'll feel better in the long run. Girls like that never change, they only care about themselves and their own little retarded worlds. It's best just to ignore them and use them for what their worth. Also, I'd advise you to [u]never[/u] marry again, it's for your own good. It will take time but you can learn to be self dependent without women in your life. Then, and only then, will you truely be happy.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 20 (view)

The hardest situation I have ever been in Posted: 8/1/2009 12:13:01 AM
Ouch. Dating people with young kids is always a challenge. I guess my advice would be to access if you truely think this guy would cheat on you / leave you. If you really think so, then just end it now and save yourself some pain later on. There's not alot you can do in this situation.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 10 (view)

Rules regarding waiting to reply or just being yourself..which is it? Posted: 7/31/2009 11:58:52 PM
Most of e-dating involves rejection and failure. You sound new to this, so I'll just make it simple for you. Almost all of the people you talk to are interested only in sex, and the minority of the others are socially defective in other ways. Don't get your hopes up.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Does this drive all men nuts? Posted: 7/30/2009 8:51:11 PM
Guys are more hands on with love opposed to women who are more vocal with feelings. You can't really change somebody other than asking him to be honest about his feelings. It all depends on the type of man you like. If you like a real "manly" guy than you probably arn't going to hear all the things you want to hear. If you date a more feminine guy than you're going to get more of that.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 18 (view)

What about the bed? Posted: 7/30/2009 8:47:26 PM
Most men hunting for women on the internet have not been laid in a very long time, if ever. It sounds like you have self-respect, which is the only thing that really matters in the end. I would not change a thing about how you are because a bunch of anxious guys want to get laid.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Have you ever changed your mind? Posted: 7/30/2009 7:59:11 PM
Sounds like whatever guy you are talking about turned you down because he thought he had other options. Nothing else worked, so he came crawling back to you claiming reasons he didn't want you before was because of your unhappiness or some other lies. Don't fall for weak tricks.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 5 (view)

Is it really too late? Posted: 7/29/2009 10:11:39 PM
It sounds like it is too late. When guys abrubtly end a realationship for no apparent reason it usually means they already did something with another woman and it is safe for them to let go of you. He cares about you as a friend but he doesn't want you as his girlfriend anymore. The most likely reason is he has a new girl to occupy his interest. Sorry, but you need to move on.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 5 (view)

why do guys like girls to call Posted: 7/27/2009 8:52:52 PM
Not sure, I would just exchange numbers and leave it up to whoever. I've never really heard of anything like this, I would suspect it's because they want to know if you're into them enough to want to call them or like you said they are trying to build up some persona of themselves. Either way it sounds weird.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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exes and on-line dating sites Posted: 7/27/2009 8:20:52 PM
Agreed with Cowboy. There's no reason for these topics unless you're honestly just looking for a self esteem boost from a bunch of random online guys that do not know you and likely do not care about you yelling "u deserv better - mov on!" You made this topic because you already know what he is doing is wrong. Grow a pair and break up with him.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 14 (view)

What should I do? Posted: 7/27/2009 11:41:24 AM
He took the time to read the message, saw your pictures, and didn't reply. The answer is obvious. He doesn't like the way you look. There's no realistic way to sugar coat that up. I would suggest not wasting your time messaging him anymore and moving on to other people.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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What ever happened to DATING different people, and perhaps later going steady? Posted: 7/24/2009 10:13:18 PM
What in the HELL ever happened to arranged marriages?! I mean, really now, the excitement of having your parents decide who you will spend the rest of your life with, how magical. While most American marriages are based on "love" and end in divorce, think of how interesting it would be to be forced to spend the rest of your life with somebody you don't want to and find out you really connect with and learn to love. How fun.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 6 (view)

why do i put up with being last on his list? Posted: 7/24/2009 9:55:41 PM
I don't see why you're asking us our opinion, based on what you've written here you already know there's a problem. If something isn't right for YOU in a relationship, you can either: A. Talk about it / fix it. B. Leave. Try talking to him and seeing if you can work things out, if not, you deserve better.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 10 (view)

Starting a family later in life. Posted: 7/24/2009 11:48:55 AM
I agree with you. Women shouldn't be parasites looking to get knocked up just so they can be "mommy's" before it's too late. There's plenty of adoption agencies, sperm banks, and other ways to raise children and not use a man to simply make babies with. But for all you guys out there, it's a good opportunity to lay out an older woman that's looking for sex and not pay for condoms. Cherryhoooooooooooooo!

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 9 (view)

Is a woman's body all that important? Posted: 7/24/2009 11:43:38 AM
I'd say it's more how you present yourself than how you actually look. You can have signs of childbirth and still look good. It's when you look that way and wear an old tank top and refuse to do your hair that you look like shit. But yeah it doesn't really matter, if the guy is desperate enough than he he won't care what you look like.

prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 20 (view)

sweetest thing anyone has ever done for you? Posted: 7/23/2009 8:56:04 PM
1. An ex had sewn me a vest she made herself. That's the only thing I can really think of. 2. Sent her a picture to her phone of a flower arrangement I made that spelled out her name /or/ made and sang a song I wrote about her.

prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 9 (view)

Should I ask him out From an English lady Posted: 7/23/2009 8:48:34 PM
70 miles? Jesus Christ. You made it sound as if he lived in the United States and you were in England. Stop being pansies and meet half way for a date. I don't care if you have to sell pop can bottles to get a few gallons of gas.

prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 2 (view)

Interesting new show depicting today's relationships... Posted: 7/23/2009 8:42:36 PM
People generally date within their own level of "beauty". Not all people, but most of them. How does an uglier person get to be with a prettier person? The uglier person usually has to do more in the relationship to keep the prettier person happy, a sort of balence for the match.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 13 (view)

do guys like it when...... Posted: 7/23/2009 5:03:22 PM
What is my opinion of tall women in high heels? Boobs in my face galore. Some men might be intimidated by it but I don't really mind. I guess it goes with whether you prefer short girls or tall girls.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 5 (view)

guilt or need? Posted: 7/22/2009 12:15:52 AM
You joined an online dating site so you obviously don't feel TOO guilty, pal. Get real for a moment. If you want to see some titties fly and get a hand job, check into your local strip club and do it. Whatever helps you to move on, because unfortunately that's the only thing you can do in this situation.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 6 (view)

somebody stop me! Posted: 7/22/2009 12:13:07 AM
Agreed with Landra. You need to log off of Plenty of Fish and log onto Plenty of Psychiatrists because you have some serious self-respect issues. Asking random people online to "stop you" from being a whore is probably the WORSE idea I've seen posted yet. Honestly, you're almost a lost cause from I can tell, but if you have any dignity left I would cancel anything to do with dating you have going on right now and take some time to get your shit straight before you end up cuddling with a convict.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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guilt or need? Posted: 7/22/2009 12:04:59 AM
Hormones are hormones, you shouldn't over-think it. It's natural to think about other women in any kind of situation you're in, as long as you act responsibly. My advice? Watch a porno and have some one on one time with yourself. If you rush into a physical relationship with women just because you're horny you're going to hurt them and even more so, yourself. Go out with girls and see where things go, just don't get too hastey.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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When will my time come? Posted: 7/22/2009 12:00:37 AM
It's not really dumb that you're here, you're simply broadening your view of guys you can meet. I don't really see there being a such thing as "too picky". If someone is not your type or does not hold up to your standards, why should you settle for them? Having standards means that you have good self confidence and respect yourself, it's not a bad thing. You won't likely find your "true love" online here or anyone else online; internet dating can have loads more problems than doing things the old fashioned way. I think you'll know the guy you want to be with when you find him, no need to rush things. I can relate to the feeling of being lonely on a weekend or seeing all of your friends hooked up, but hey, when you look at how many of them sit up until 3 a.m. arguing with their boyfriends than it isn't such a bad thing to be single. Not to mention you can focus more on school / your job / other things. You seem cool, just flow with life and you'll meet the right guy. Good luck.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 8 (view)

What is this guy thinking?! Posted: 7/21/2009 5:26:16 PM
Well. I hate to say it, but I sympathize with "R". He's good friends with your brother, he's not going to make things awkward with your brother unless you are really serious about him. That leads to what you had with "G", which would be the reason "R" is not taking you seriously or falling for you back. Your last hook up was likely a combination of his real feelings but also the awareness that you're not going to be his girlfriend so just go with the flow and enjoy the sex. Can you blame him? Honestly? No, you can't. Now what can you do now? You need to man up to what's going on. The only one truely "playing" somebody was you, if you really cared about "R" than you would NOT have been seeing anyone else. If you really care for "R" than you need to apologize for your selfish actions, and come up with a few things you're going to change about the way you do things that will allow him to share his feelings and give you a chance. It's time you get mature about a relationship. Good luck.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 9 (view)

Attracted to the same sex..... Posted: 7/21/2009 5:16:50 PM
It's more emotionally based than sexually. Guys that "sound gay" and women that look like "butches" are generally born that way, liking the same sex. What accounts for the women that later choose to like other women, however? You have to look at how the sexes act in situations of relationships. Men are more sexually driven, therefor straight men predominately look for women because their sexual interest is a key factor. Women, however, do not always have sex as top priority, they look for a caring and passionate person. As we all know the most caring and passionate of all beings are women, so you can see why a woman who holds that as the top thing they look for in a relationship could fall for another woman. Or they could just be bi and finally act on it. :)

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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He loves me but wants to be single? Posted: 7/20/2009 10:45:21 PM
You have to look at this from both perspectives. Male point of view: I only get to see this girl on the weekends, I don't really feel like being tied down in this kind of relationship. I love her and care about her, but I don't really see this getting serious, I should probably just cut things off. I'm kind of bored with my life and I want to meet/see new people. Female point of view: This guy wants to be single so he can screw around. Things seemed perfect, why would he just end things like this? I tried really hard to make him happy, it's not fair that he'd be ungrateful like this. Did I do something wrong? It's likely a combination of these points of view. My advice? It's over, guys don't **** around when they want to break up, there's not much you can do. He's likely sick of that kind of relationship. Forget about him and enjoy your life. You have too many possibilities in life to waste it all on one guy that isn't on the same level as you in your past relationship. Good luck.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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What do you miss about your best bud? Posted: 7/20/2009 10:35:32 PM
My best friend is on deployment for the Navy. I miss partying like a rockstar every weekend with him. That and our semi-close encounters with the law. He comes back, and I leave for basic training soon after. Fun shit.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 30 (view)

Time to end it? Posted: 7/20/2009 9:07:08 PM
Moving in after dating a month is a stupid idea, reguardless of any conditions. You guys rushed into a relationship and she wasn't ready to deal with the things in your life. You should have dated seperately so she could learn more about you and decide if she was prepared to deal with your panic attacks and so forth. Rushed relationship = Train wreck

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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The girl I like is 26, never had a BF and never kissed before Posted: 7/20/2009 9:04:03 PM
You're taking things 100 mph slower than most people on this website. I'm not religious, but if that makes you guys happy, go for it. Sounds like a good thing you have going but I wouldn't dump too much emotion into it until you're in an official relationship, otherwise you can end up pretty burnt. Good luck.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 44 (view)

Does honesty hurt more than just dissapearing? Posted: 7/17/2009 8:02:15 PM
At least when they dissappear you can tell yourself "oh, he might have been kidnapped." Lol.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 20 (view)

Dating or Just Sex? Posted: 7/17/2009 7:46:36 PM
You seemed like my soul mate until you said you're Canadian. Cruel world.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Older Guy Posted: 7/17/2009 7:38:53 PM
If he wasn't married I would approve this relationship. Love is limitless (as long the participants are over 18), no one here has the right to judge anybody elses' feelings.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 5 (view)

What makes you think you can pick better next time? Posted: 7/17/2009 7:36:11 PM
Everytime you date somebody you learn a little about yourself and a little about the type of person you want to share your life with.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Dating or Just Sex? Posted: 7/17/2009 7:30:20 PM
I've seen a number of smart / interesting guys that I doubt are just looking for sex. But yeah, most of the guys are, that's why they arn't dating in real life. I wouldn't lie saying "i dont want sex", if I cared about someone here I would want to. The fact is, I don't care about e-dating anyone, I've seen enough it and I'm leaving for basic training next month. I'm pretty much here to give everyone advice.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Wife leaving me Posted: 7/17/2009 6:51:34 PM
Sorry, bud. I can't imagine what you're going through. She's likely shopping around / found someone. Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do to get her back. Girls hardly ever change their minds in this situation. Advice? Keep yourself busy. Hang out with friends, focus on work, or try some sort of athletic activity. It will hurt for a long time, and you may never completely get over. The good news is, there's somebody out there that will love you and never want to leave you. Good luck man.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 19 (view)

What If.... Posted: 7/17/2009 6:46:14 PM
I'd get my tubes tied. Twice.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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My boyfriend had adultfriendfinder in his search tab on computer? Posted: 7/17/2009 6:44:14 PM
lol'd Thanks for elaborating on my statement, Kimbo.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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older women , new experiences Posted: 7/17/2009 6:39:30 PM
They are trying to do something "new" and "exciting". It helps them feel young again.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Mall good for a first date? Posted: 7/17/2009 6:38:14 PM
It's a fine place for a first date. It's not like you want to buy tickets to some sports game and find out she sent you fake pictures and you justed wasted your money. As for the rest of the date, just choose as you go along. Don't over think things.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 135 (view)

How important is money? Posted: 7/17/2009 6:30:07 PM
Guys should have jobs. Girls shouldn't be complete mooches.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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My boyfriend had adultfriendfinder in his search tab on computer? Posted: 7/17/2009 6:29:30 PM
Beginner: Check the history on his computer. Adept: Keylog his computer and find out what he does.

prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Do ya think? Posted: 7/17/2009 6:11:40 PM
I'm 20 years old, I worked all week so guess what I'm doing this friday night? Relaxing and watching televison/surfing the web. Nice attempt at "interpretting" my life. We all know you were just trying to check me out. But why are YOU home this friday night? It might have something to do with the fact that in your display pic your vagoo actually curves outwards (guys don't dig that, lol) Men have evolved, but your face hasn't. Get mad.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 208 (view)

Why is there so little dating between white men and black women? Posted: 7/17/2009 5:14:35 PM
I'm a bit south of Detroit. Northern Michigan is still very segregated, most of the racists just move north when Detroit / the suburbs became multi-cultural. As far as being a guy here in Michigan, I don't see many black chicks check out white guys. I see alot of black guys hook up with white girls, however. I find black girls attractive, but rarely try to hit on them because they rarely show any interest. I likely have more in common with black women than white women to be honest. I guess my answer to you would be that us white guys have the sterotype in our head that black girls are not interested in us at all, therefor we do not try.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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So he adds me to favs... Posted: 7/17/2009 5:03:18 PM
Agreed with nsaLAdude. He likely added a ton of women to his favorites and didn't bother to delete them.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Do ya think? Posted: 7/17/2009 4:52:01 PM
The hidious old troll (raxarsr) comes to save the day! Not really. I haven't mentioned any of the things this woman posted about. Way to not understand what either of us said. To further my point, she checked my profile out and I have no interest in clicking hers. Both of you are pathetic hypocrites. Nice try sucking up to the desperate mom, the whole "maybe we culd met up" line sums up your pathetic life. There's a reason you are 60+ years old and alone. My advice? Kill yourself.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 58 (view)

Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone. Posted: 7/17/2009 4:13:13 PM
Dude. Are you blind. She cheated on you. [if the picture of the penis was bigger than yours, don't bother asking why she cheated] My advice? Kick her teeth in and find a new girl.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 19 (view)

did my drunken text push my limit? Posted: 7/17/2009 4:01:00 PM
Drunk dialing / drunk texting is a horrible habit. Get rid of it or you will fail in every relationship you get in.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

Msg: 27 (view)

4x's going out with this girl-she goes out with me, but i hold her hand she shrugged it off -whyy Posted: 7/17/2009 3:57:17 PM
Your English is poor, but since you've stated you're Chinese I will forgive you - this time. She wants be your girlfriend. It's called playing hard to get. Girls do it when they want you to do something first.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 7/17/2009 3:53:47 PM
Fat girl shots are equivalent to the guys that lie about not being married. It's a common trick used to deceive the opposite gender. I'm not sure what's "immature" about me pointing that out. Try using your brain before using your fingers next time you type nonsense to me.

Prylo

Joined: 7/13/2009

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Do ya think? Posted: 7/17/2009 3:38:58 PM
You're bawwwing on the forums because guys don't care about your boring life and simply want to hook up with you. Dating site + forum rant = desperate Get mad.

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