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Joined: 3/5/2006

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Has anyone ever been dumped via email? Posted: 9/7/2006 7:54:48 AM
Not only did he break up with an e-mail. He told me how painful it was for him. But, I did try and talk him and see what was up. Because a few days before we broke up he told me he was falling in love with me. He was looking at houses and wanted to know what I thought about them. He was leading me down the garden path. He used his kids as an excuse, and then had the nerve to say that maybe we could get back together later. But, then I found his profile back on line. It is his loss, not mine. He wasn't honest with me or himself.

Joined: 3/5/2006

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When do you believe him, or is it all a line? Posted: 8/31/2006 2:22:35 PM
No, his ex wife gave the son the keys. If it was my son, I would have taken the keys. I never told him to take the keys from his ex-wife or son. The only thing I told him was I didn't understand his ex-wife giving him the keys when he didn't even have a tempory license. But, if you take all the car keys then he has no way to take a car, that he shouldn't be driving without a license in the first place.

Joined: 3/5/2006

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When do you believe him, or is it all a line? Posted: 8/31/2006 1:41:23 PM
His kids are 13 and 16. I have two myself 17 & 22. The 16 year old boy lives with him, the 13 year old daughter lives with his Ex-wife. One issue is minor in my mind. The ex let his son take the car that is going to be his when he gets his drivers license. You take all of the sets of keys. Case closed. His son told his Dad he wanted to meet me and get to know me. But, he has had Dad's total attention for 4 years. And I don't think the son liked the idea of sharing Dad's time. He told his son he was not choosing between the two of us. Just that he needed to see where things would go. That is when the son decided to start pulling all kinds of things. Like I said I never gave him a hard time about the kids. There was no sex the night he called me to just be with him. That was the night he told me he was falling in love with me. I fell in love with this man completely. I found out that it was truly over, because his profile is back on POF. He had told me that he had hoped that when things settled down that we could pick up where we left off. And of all things he saved my profile to his favorites, and won't even talk to me. I'm a very trusting & honest person, and I guess I hope others are the same. I can't change that. So, I guess I'll just have to keep doing what I'm doing and hope the next guy is really in the same place I am.

Joined: 3/5/2006

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When do you believe him, or is it all a line? Posted: 8/31/2006 11:17:47 AM
I was dating someone who lead me to believe we really had a future together. After meeting he pulled his profile off of POF, and then had me check to see if I could find him. He was looking at houses on the inter-net. He talked about us working together in dealing with issues that he was having with his kids. He told me he was falling in love with me. He said he felt guilty, because he was not spending the time with me that I deserved. He told his kids that I would be around because he really wanted to see where the relationship would go. He told me that I was exciting to him on so many levels. He made a comment or two about going and ordering rings, etc, etc. Being a single Mom for years, I understood about having to deal with family issues. I never gave him a hard time about spending the time he needed with his kids. Now, here is the part I don't understand at all. He suddenly couldn't see me any longer. He said that he had to get his kids straightened out. And that was it. He wouldn't answer my phone calls. Which I only made 2. I tried to e-mail him and ask him to explain what happened. I had always told him family issues would not scare me off, and that I would be there to support him in any way he needed me. One night an issue came up, before he sent me the e-mail about not seeing me, and he said I need you here. I went to his house, no questions asked. He just held me for emotional support, I left him to his thoughts until he was ready to talk, and we did. Was it all a line? And do men just feel that they don't need to be up front and honest enough to tell you they don't want to see you any more. I don't know anymore when a guy is being honest or not. Guys can you help me out, so I don't fall into this again.

Joined: 3/5/2006

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need help here with some issues Posted: 3/16/2006 10:43:18 AM
You were both wrong. Stay off the personal chat lines. But, to set you up was very wrong on her part. Hopefully, you just answered back, "I'm not interested and that you are very much in love with your girlfriend." And never answered again. If you love her this much, ask her to marry you. She plays games. That is not a good thing. You need to think about the fact that she may always play head games with you. Is that how you want to go through the rest of your relationship.

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