come on people . how many of you that bashed this poor girl for potentially smoking pot drink alcohol? according to MADD 17,602 people died in alcohol-related accidents in 2007 alone. why don't you hypocrites leave her alone.

On the other hand...Maybe He was Her supplier. Unless there is an honest response, we won't know will we? Sheesh

Another father gonna get screwed because he made a little money selling pot to his friends... If he was such a horrible person to begin with dangerous and all why were you screwing him in the first place...

No, There are no men that date women with kids.
In the wild it's about spreading your seed and living on,To raise some other mans kids would not be natural and would not happen in the wild.
So, any man that says he would date women with kids is just desperate.

Why not provide an incentive for people to stay together and make a relationshpi work even if it is just for thesake of the kids? Instead we let one or both parents walk away too esily.

thats bull shit women do the same as men ive got two kids n another one due in aug and when i've spoke to some women and said i've got kids the chat ends there. why is the blame all ways on us when women do the same????????

Isn't that thing Smuggler is speaking of a generator of some sort...Does it have extra outlets? LOL

I am sorry but he is not obligated to take the children when you are sick in my eyes. I mean that is your job as a parent, is to look after the children weather you are sick or not.

it gets me dates with the women I like: young, hot, SLIM(take notice), and not wanting a deep commitment.

i think guys who get serious with single moms have mental problems

Its cuz the men are smart. Women with kids with multiple men are high risk. And besides why should a Man that actually did something with his life, play a role in a childs life who's father is a human wasteland? Perhaps women should make better choices before they lay down with some of these guys. Oh wait, I guess thats just being young and stupid. My message to all the frustrated single mothers out there is this.

You made your bed, now sleep in it.

I feel a little left out (hehe) but I have to agree with Bob.

Bob why are you stalking me? I posted 2 bad experiences..get a life. Do you think a child should call their parents new boyfriend/girlfriend daddy or mommy? If you do I feel sorry for your kids.

I don't think I am better than anyone because I don't know anyone here. However, if the question comes up who did it right then yes I did. So you can think I am pretentious as you want but I just wanted to know why my choice is being disrespected yet you demand respect for yours. To me that isn't very fair now is it?

I said it. I have yet to have a male friend who didn't make a move on me eventually. I know women who are friends with men waiting for the right moment for the true love to happen. I don't believe men and woman can be friends, without one secretly or not so secretly harboring feels/lust for the other.

At least we can all sleep easier now that that's settled....

I think the whole point of that comment was to incite a riot. Well, I'll tell you. It certainly pissed me off!

some single mom's need to understand a few spoil it for others

1) If you get pregnant, you're going to keep it. You've already demonstrated that; your little bundle of joy is living proof that you're pro-life, and I will have no choice or say in the matter. Up to 1/3 of my gross pay will be automatically removed from my paycheck for 18 years. If I lose my job, or can't pay, then I get labeled a deadbeat dad, and the cops come and throw me in jail.

Why in the world would I ever want to date someone who places me second in line to another man's litter? I want my significant other to be available to me, and not have to schedule our time around some kid.

3) A woman's body changes after she gives birth which makes the intimacy less satisfying for men.

4) If you are a single mother, it shows that you are reckless and irresponsible.

Where is the father? How come you're not with him? If you have a child and the father isn't around, it projects that either you couldn't make the relationship work, or had poor judgment in choosing a mate. In either case, you were deliberately negligent about your contraception. Having a child now is a choice, one that you made. You could have exercised better judgment, a bit of restraint until you found a good, solid relationship but you didn't.

I don't want to be with someone who has poor judgment, is irresponsible, and/or can't make a relationship work. And I don't have to.

Helen::: can I ask you a question? Why do single mothers always lament about why some single childless men find reasons for not dating you.....when your profile clearly indicates that they will never be anything other than a second class peon?

Absolutely, single mums are not worth the hassle they bring...............

funny title for a thread, and of course.. reading through this, its become another haven for the single mother crowd.

If my child is very ill, I will be rescheduling our date.

If my child has a performance, Open house, etc. at school and I had a date scheduled for the same night, then the date will get rescheduled.

If it is my weekend with my child, and we have reached the point where introductions have been made, and you want to hang with us, then we are more than likely going to be doing something child friendly.

of couse. i think single mom knowns how to be better friend and intimacy than single girl because single mom do get to the point and no have no time to waist. mike

What makes me laugh is women here on POF with kids, they think the world revolves around them. They should realize the situation that they are in.

I get it but I do not agree with it. The women case the "bad boy" because he is alpha male that they want to change or "tame" When they can't do that and bad boy moves on because he does what he wants to do as he has found a prettier woman or he chooses his career instead of being a father the woman is left with children to care for...so her focus now being her kiddies she decides it is best for all of them to have a nice guy or "beta males" who can provide structure and a family unit. Nice guy, BETA Males basically then say...well now that said woman has had her fun relationship and it did not work out and she is alone she wants me to step in and provide for her. What do I get out of this? Not much really so beta male declines. Which themn has single mom complaining that beta males are shallow immature and insecure

Yes Johne, my dating pool maybe smaller, but Im happy with that. I wouldnt want men in my dating pool that wont accept me for who I am and what I am.

You may rule them out of your dating pool, but that doesnt mean you haveto be so rude to them.

I remember you saying that you would love to have kids one day. But most women your age already have kids and alot of them wont want anymore. So doesnt that mean that your dating pool gets smaller too?