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 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
question
Posted: 2/24/2013 12:42:14 PM
Your friends were right.You found out the guy was a jerk fairly quick...Move on and learn from it.Never believe a man when its just typing.You found his true colors when you met in person...AT least you didnt waist alot of time with the creep...Better luck next time!
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 806 (view)
 
Have you ever dated someone with Borderline Personality?
Posted: 2/23/2013 1:43:33 PM
I dont get you ladies here..You have to ask what to do when a situation is weird? How bout leave? WOW...The first sign the situation is weird you ladies should leave.Yet you always use the i loveeeeeee him quote.lol..Good lord.
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Guys especially: is he having an emotional affair with me?
Posted: 2/23/2013 1:34:25 PM
You have a stalker on your hands.Why invite him over and do things when you know he has a gf.Would you want your bf going over to another girls house all the time? Put yourself in his gfs shoes.No wonder you girls get hurt all the time.You deserve to get hurt as long as you allow all the bs to happen..TELL him to leave.Your messing up your chances to find a decent guy as long as let this guy to stay in your life.
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Cheating...forgive?
Posted: 2/14/2013 2:12:10 PM
I agree with bloom44...And why forgive? Forgiving is for people with low self esteem who dont think they can do better.
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Cheating...forgive?
Posted: 2/14/2013 2:08:42 PM
Keep moving...You should have left when he said he was a alcoholic then started drinking again...WISE up and move on.
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 139 (view)
 
is a deadbeat dad better then no dad at all?
Posted: 3/3/2012 12:59:06 PM
My question would be why have sex with a guy like that? ALOT of you women make bad choices in men then wonder why something happens...WHY would a child want a dead beat dad? GO to court and file for child support and get full custody of your child and move on. GOOD LUCK!
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
What to do?
Posted: 3/3/2012 12:42:39 PM
2 words...MOVE ON! IT ALL sounds like a soap opera to me...GET a hold of your self and stay single and have fun with friends..Single will keep you sane..You dont seem like the relationship type of guy right now...Good LUCK!
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
So what am I doing wrong?
Posted: 3/3/2012 12:35:27 PM
I have been on this site a while now and i noticed the ones who respond are not sounding desperate so you shouldnt either..HAVE fun when responding to people..ADD things to make the person laugh..Humor goes along way on this site...2 OUT OF 10 REPLYS isnt bad...Oh YA..NEVER mention the x.ha ha~ good luck!
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Sent quite a few messages to women with no replies, is it my profile?
Posted: 3/3/2012 12:09:43 PM
HEY..ONE thing you have to know is that the girls dont like boring...DONT sound like your a bump on a log.SAY something stupid even..MAKE THEM think a bit..WOMEN dont want a nice guy 24 7..Say something that stands out.Peek their interest a bit....Good luck!
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 252 (view)
 
Prison dating
Posted: 11/4/2008 2:08:12 PM
Your the type of girl that makes the statement nice guys finish last lol...To BE with a guy or GIRL for that matter whoS in jail = one thing..YOu LIKE creeps and u have veryyyy veryyyy low self esteem..good luck tho..You will need it sister....seeya..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 245 (view)
 
all guys wants from me is sex.. but not a relationship... why is that?
Posted: 9/28/2008 3:41:11 PM
hmmm...I can tell u this ..READING your story here tells me u r very easy...A guy would be a freaking fool to have a relationship with u when u have all these guys around...Say NO some time....Try being alone awhile and do things with your gfs or child...Why DO u need a man so bad?? ..Trust me..a women with x after x is bad news....good luck tho..seeya..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
in love with someone, has a bf but still talks?
Posted: 9/28/2008 9:08:03 AM
VERY simple solution..MOVE ON..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
How do I win back my perfect partner & soulmate ?
Posted: 7/30/2008 1:06:17 PM
THIS IS VERY SIMPLE..MOVE ON...NEXT TIME GO OUT WITH WOMEN WHO DONT HAVE KIDS AND R NOT HUNG UP ON THE X..GOOD LUCK
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 191 (view)
 
How old is too old?
Posted: 7/22/2008 1:59:20 PM
HII..TALKING IS ONE THING.CHATTING IS ANOTHER AND MEETING IS ANOTHER..JUST REMEMBER TO PLAY IT SAFE AND ASK MANY QUESTIONS...IF HE GETS MAD AT THE QUESTIONS..THEN ITS A RED FLAG...AND IF SOME POINT DOWN THE ROAD HE WANTS TO MEET..ALWAYS BRING A FRIEND>:) GOOD LUCK..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 238 (view)
 
Calling Kids baggage
Posted: 7/20/2008 10:20:29 AM
HEY..I AGREE WITH U...IF YOUR A single guy and u dont want to raise other womens kids it is baggage....It is what it is...Women get so mad at guys not wanting to raise there kids .I say..quit SLEEPING WITH LOOSRS..yOUR SO RIGHT..AMEN MY FRIEND..GOOD LUCK..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
I am Confused- HELP
Posted: 7/19/2008 7:37:31 PM
HIII...AS WE ALL KNOW MEN AND WOMEN DO THINGS WE DONT UNDERSTAND..JUST MOVE ON..ITS ALWAYS THE BEST..FORGET AND MOVE ON TO SOMETHING BETTER..GOOD LUCK~~
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Someone please give me some advice!
Posted: 7/17/2008 2:37:40 PM
OK..HERE goes...You r a lucky man..SHE DOESNT want a relationship,but wants sex?? Thats a good thing...STOP trying to have a RELATIONSHIP with her...Just have sex if thats what she wants...Bugging a girl about how u were in bed is the worse thing u can do...Just DONT bother her for awhile..AND if she just wants sex,count your blessings lol...good luck..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 319 (view)
 
Guys asking to meet with you immediately
Posted: 6/14/2008 12:25:15 PM
ha ha..Your pic shows a attractive girl..SO WHY r guys wanting to meet u?? ummm ..bingo..your first thought of reason is right..TO GET u in the sheets lol...If thats what u want go for it..IF NOT..mOVE ON...NORMAL guys dont want a hot girl for just friends if they could have more..Just becareful..good luck..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 151 (view)
 
do I cheat after almost 20 years?
Posted: 4/8/2008 7:54:58 AM
WOWW... U BEEN SPENDING HIS MONEY FOR 19 YRS NOW U WANT TO CHEAT?? LOL...I SAY MOVE OUT GET A JOB AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE..ITS NOT THAT HARD OF A CHOICE..U R USING HIM FOR HIS MONEY.....YOUR THE REASON WHY GOOD MEN DONT GET MARRIED...
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 126 (view)
 
Plans to meet 6 different times- and 6 times does not show up!
Posted: 12/11/2007 8:37:52 AM
HELLO..THIS STUFF HERE IS SO FUNNY LOL...AFTER THE FIRST TIME HE DIDNT SHOW WHY IN THE HELL DID U CONTACT HIM AT ALL? THEN IT HAPPENED 6 TIMES??????? MAYBE U HAVE MORE ISSUES THEN HE DOES..MOVE ONNN... LADIES..GET SMART HERE..GOOD LUCK!
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
IS THIS GUY PLAYING ME OR IS HE JUST WEIRD?
Posted: 7/22/2007 5:22:33 PM
THIS GUY EMAILED U SEVERAL TIMES AND U DIDNT DO NE THING LOL..BUT U MET HIM..NOW HES PLAYING HARD TO GET LIKE U DID LOL..TO FUNNY...IF IM A FEMALE I WOULD LEAVE..BUT SINCE IM A GUY I GUESS U R ON YOUR OWN>:) GOOD LUCK
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
What to do if person you are starting a relationship with still frequents POF
Posted: 6/6/2007 1:04:07 PM
I agree with matching socks...on line relationships are weird really..Maybe she only wanted sex from ya ha ha...But serious..talk to her and see what she wants...I would never get involved in a serious relationship on line just for that matter...Its to hard and u never know what the other person is doing any way..Communication is a must tho...If her still on pof after meeting u is a prob..I say then move on..Just how i see it..Takecare and good luck..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
what should i do
Posted: 12/13/2006 2:32:15 PM
Sounds like to many issues to many problems to much everything...Button up your pants...and move on..A guy or women for that matter doesnt need issues like that from any one..say..adiosssss...good luck..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
How do I decide between 2 great guys????????? :-(
Posted: 12/10/2006 2:59:59 PM
HIIII..VERY EASY QUESTION REALLY..U MENTIONED ONE GUYS CLINGY AND THE OTHER GUY U DONT SEE LIKE THE FORVER THNG..WHATS YOUR RUSH?? FROM THE SOUNDS OF IT THOSE 2 IM SURE R NOT EVEN THE ONE FOR YA..GO OUT AND HAVE FUN WITH OTHERS EVEN...WHY WOULD U WANT A CLINGY GUY NE WAY?? THAT MAKES SO SENCE.. TELL THEM BOTH U WILL SEE THEM BUT ALSO SEE OTHERS AND THATS IT..IF THEY DONT LIKE IT TOUGH...GOOD LUCK.. PS..DONT SETTLE JUST BECAUSE..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Please help!!!!
Posted: 11/30/2006 2:18:53 PM
UMMMM.....HAVE U HEARD OF NIKES BEFORE?? THEY R SHOES..RUNNING SHOES I MIGHT ADD..PUT SOME ON AND RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN LIKE HELL...YOU SILLY WOMEN CAN NOT CHANGE A MAN..THATS WHO HE IS..IF DONT WANT THAT TYPE OF GUY IN YOUR LIFE LEAVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE NOWWW...IF NOT..STAY BUT DONT COMPLAIN CAUSE THATS WHO U PICKED TO BE YOUR BF...TO MANY OTHER NORMAL GUYS OUT THERE TO CHOOSE FROM..GOOD LUCK..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
control freak!!! help me
Posted: 11/28/2006 1:46:04 PM
HELLO..U SEEM LIKE 80 PERCENT OF THE WOMEN HERE...WHYYY IN HELL WOULD U LOVE A GUY WHO CONTROLS U??? HAVE U HEARD OF THE WORD LEAVEEEEE B4?? GET A GRIP AND MOVE ON..U WOMEN CRACK ME UP..LOL..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
When somebody you work with is interested but...
Posted: 11/19/2006 8:48:58 AM
HELLO....FOR ONE THING U MADE A BIGGGGGG MISTAKE BY GOING OUT WITH HIM...NEVER NEVER NEVER DATE NE ONE FROM WORK IF U LIKE YOUR JOB..IF UDONT MIND HAVING PROBS AT WORK AND IF U HATE YOUR JOB AND U DONT CARE IF U LOOSE IT THEN GO AHEAD..To MANY PROBS WHEN U DATE A CO WORKER...RUN FOR THE HILLS.....GOOD LUCK!
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Please Somebody Help Me Deal With This
Posted: 9/21/2006 11:02:39 PM
HEY..WAS THAT LETTER JUST A JOKE TO GET A RESPONCE?? IF NOT U NEED THERAPY BAD..IM SORRY...BUT TO DO WHAT U DID?? COME ONE..PULL YOUR BOOTS UP AND GET ON WITH LIFE OK...WHY IN BLOODY HELL WOULD U MOVE IN A PREGNANT GIRL ..WHEN IT WASNT YOURS FOR ONE THING HA HA...THEN HAVE SEX WITH HER AFTER THE BABY WAS BORN?? HOW LONG U WAIT?? OMG.TOO FUNY..IM SURE ITS A LETTER TO GET A CHUCKLE..U GOT ME LOL..GOOD JOB..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 72 (view)
 
why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/8/2006 3:41:47 PM
cobra....ALLLLL MEN R LOOKING TO GET LAID EVEN U...When opportunity comes around u take it..If u dont u might want to check whats inside your jeans lol..You guys kill me lol..laterrrrr..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 71 (view)
 
why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/8/2006 3:38:18 PM
WELL..LET me just say this..Alot of men and women think a person is who he is by how he types...Why not meet the person first before u get all giddy...How a person types and what he says on his profile means squat...Meet first..see his friends and family and ask lots of questions..This goes for men as well...GOOD luck..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 48 (view)
 
He has bad health - do I stay or leave???
Posted: 8/17/2006 7:32:35 AM
well..TO BE HONEST..ID GO TO THE NEAREST SPORTING GOOD STORE..BUY SOME NKES AND RUNNNNN LIKE HELLLLLLLLL...Im always baffled why some women and men would get in a situation with someone then after its to late then have a prob with it later..hmmmmmm....If he stoped breathing and u didnt call 911 and u say u loved this guy then im wondering if this letter wasnt a hoax...LIKE the others..just my 2 cents....
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Psycho Ex-BF
Posted: 7/30/2006 9:12:25 AM
WHY do women always have kids with weirdos?? Um..I would say dumped the new bf and raise your child.IF A GUY is with u knowing u have a psycho bf still bugging u then maybe hes a bit out there too...Stay away from guys and raise your daughter..If the loon bugs ya call police and run like hell..awwwwwwww..good luck..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
is a deadbeat dad better then no dad at all?
Posted: 7/28/2006 8:00:44 AM
UMMMM..ALOT of women and men make bad choices then put the blame on someone...How bout not being with someone whos on drugs or whos not a heavy drinker..ANDDDDD hOW BOUT not having kids with that type of guy?? Some of u women crack me up here lol....Dont have kids with a looser and u wont have these probs.... ( PULLS hair out now)
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Can someone help me to understand men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 12:50:26 PM
ALL men r after sex...Some r more honest about it then others tho.....I think tho the sex part wouldnt come up if the guys really interested in you...If i found a girl to my liking and we have some common interest then i will just go with the flow and see where it leads....Alot of guys i think use the sex part with women they are really not interestedingood luck>:)
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 48 (view)
 
How much Time Before You Meet
Posted: 6/24/2006 3:01:29 PM
I think u should only meet if you are comfortable with the persons actions and ways.....You might only have a pic and a few phone calls...Meeting on line is scary any way....I would freak out if the person wanted to meet so soon...Go with your gut feeling...Move on if it doesnt feel right..Take care..
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Multiple dates from here?
Posted: 4/24/2006 12:29:58 PM
I say just be honest..TELL the other guys u date others..Let them decide then if they still want coffee or dinner..If its not serious then u should go out with others...Dating is to get to know someone..If u put all your eggs in one basket then maybe the good one might be there and uwill never know>:)
 madman4u
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 46 (view)
 
help me with my relationship and sex life
Posted: 4/17/2006 2:39:49 PM
HELLO.....IF U SAY YOU USE TO HAVE SEX ALOT NOW U DONT ITS LKE THIS.. HE SAID ALL THE RIGHT THNGS IN THE BEGINNING TO GET U IN THE SACK....NOW HE DOESNT WANT SEX??....DOES HE HAVE A JOB NOW THAT KEEPS HIM UP LATE ALOT..MAYBE HES TIRED..OR DOESNT FIND U ATTRACTIVE..OR HAS A GF...YOUR CUTE..SO I SAY..IF HE DOESNT GIVE U WHAT U WANT..ITS TIME TO MOVE ON..DONT SUFFER WHAT U NEED WHEN U CAN HAVE IT ELSE WHERE...AND NEVER MOVE IN..THATS NOT GOOD FOR U OR HIM....TIME TO MOVE ON..GOOD LUCK
 
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