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lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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What have you asked an ex to return to you following a break-up? Posted: 1/14/2009 5:52:28 AM
I have had a ex ask for stuff in the house that wasn't even paid for yet... he wanted it even though I would be paying for it on my credit cards. (We are talking household things not personal items). All I have ever asked for from a ex.... is "innapropriate" pictures. And I wouldn't normally ask for them unless the ex was a wing nut that I could see doing something "stupid" with them. Normally. For me I would give the guy pretty much everything cause I wanna wash my hands of them and would rather start off with a clean slate. (though my house is mine!)

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Military. Posted: 10/19/2008 11:34:46 PM
I am currently dating someone in the Navy and we have a strong relationship for the 9 months we have been together.... but in all honesty this is his second time away and the first damn near killed us.... because we were new and didn't know exactly where each other stood. This go round... (left 5 days ago) I am not gonna lie....is tough. But, not for the same reasons . The first go round was not knowing the person well enough to trust them. Hard to build a solid relationship when you are gone. My 2 cents. Not saying it can't work cause we are doing awesome and are very much in love!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Do men fall harder, faster? Posted: 7/29/2008 12:07:05 AM
I do believe men fall harder faster in most cases... excluding players. Women don't expect this behaviour and it usually scares them if it comes out to soon. Love shouldn't be thrown around, people who fall fast are usually desperately looking for something and not content being single. They need to be with someone, anyone to feel complete. I have had people tell me they love me before ever meeting (just chatting) and in relationships my last 3 partners (excluding the one I am with) all told me within 3 months, which for me was too fast. Only because of circumstances! You can't put a time period on feelings they just happen. But be sure you know what you are truly feeling before sharing your feelings (question could it be lust? Am I just happy? ect) If, I feel for someone and they didn't share the same feelings within a resonable amount of time I may get discouraged. But the L word is not something I use unless I mean it. Me and my boyfriend are going on 8 months and just now is that coming into play.

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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getting over number or type of ex partners Posted: 7/5/2008 2:15:03 AM
I myself have similar issue's.... I have a heard time with how many partners one has been with, and sometimes the type and I think it's a reasonable thought. I look at it this way.... for me I did start having intercourse young but I have also watched that I haven't slept with just every Tom,**** and Harry out there and I want the same value's in a partner. My numbers are much much lower then most of my girlfriends and guy friends and I don't think it has anything to do with the way we were raised. I blame alot on society. I have many friends who tell me they are just numbers and the past is the past, but I don't see it the same way. I believe I deserve better then someone who has been all over the map. That being said... I am no angel and I have had what I like to call the random brain fart moment where I do something way outta character for me, usually because of anger or hurt, and I struggle with that as well. I also struggle with people who ave dated tonnes and have had many short term relationships because I generally myself wouldn't date someone (even short term) that I didn't think was worth the effort and work it takes to make a lasting relationship work. I have had 3 long term relationships and very few short term. I don't see much of a point, and I think most people can see within a short period if someone clicks or clashes with them. (All you have to do is be open and ask the questions you need answers to.... it's that simple) I don't think there is much advice to give on how NOT to let it bother you, because reguardless of what people post or say your feelings will not change. Feelings can not be put in place....they just happen.... it's how we respond that matters most. I say... there is other people out there with the same feelings as you and one day you will find them!!! Keep looking, and happy fishing!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 7/5/2008 1:43:46 AM
I think a 40 year old man who wants to be with a 18 year old girl.... needs to GROW THE F*CK UP!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Do girls like to date bi men? Posted: 6/6/2008 3:22:59 AM
Personally, I wouldn't go there..... I am not sure exactly why as I have no issues with anal sex now and again.... but I also wouldn't be with a girl or get caught in a 3 some with either sex.

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Need Advice on what to do, or say Posted: 6/6/2008 3:02:10 AM
I do not agree with ngat73 at all.... 2 wrongs do not make a right! I believe let sleeping dogs lie but common' this just happened and involves other parties. Have you never been cheated on? Can you just forget it and move on? Things like that are never forgotten.... and why pretend it never happened if it did? Would you give the same advice to a rape victim? I think the both need to own up to there end of it and be honest with themselves in why it happened and make some decisions from there.

lilangel77

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Need Advice on what to do, or say Posted: 6/6/2008 2:34:11 AM
Personally it sounds like he took advantage of the state you were in.... (even though for you... I don't think being drunk is an excuse for anything.... you knew at the time as well and didn't care enough to stop it). I have a hard time giving advice to someone who can fool around with anyone knowing they are in another relationship! It's called home-wrecking DRUNK OR NOT! Now that being said; Not only do I feel you should bring it up to him I also think it is something that his other half needs to know before tie-ing the knot with this guy. I realize YOU feel this is his first time cheating and that maybe.... he may have been doubting marriage himself and testing to see if he was capable of being faithful or seeing if he was over his feelings for you or whatever the case may be..... But reguardless it happened and you can't pretend it never happened. Don't you have any guilt for the other woman involved? What if that was your boyfriend? I think you need to just tell him as it is.... or ask him why he did it? or if he has guilt or regrets? however you do it .....just get it out in the table! Can it really be much worse then the awkward silence your shared driving him home? I believe strongly in what goes around comes around.... and always put yourself in the other parties shoes!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Understanding and Dealing with Women Posted: 6/6/2008 2:12:55 AM
9 WORDS WOMEN USE 1. Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up. 2. Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house. 3. Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine. 4. Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It! 5. Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but it's a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you a bout nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.) 6. That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake. Sleep lightly hide the kitchen utensils. 7. Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome. 8. Whatever: Is a women's way of saying 'F**K YOU!!' 9. Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking, What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Saying your sorry Posted: 6/6/2008 1:57:58 AM
I have a hard time saying I am "Sorry" . And I am teaching myself right now that an apology givin means nothing when followed with justification which I tend to do as I feel the need to have my side of the story heard. Saying this is hard enough for me to admit but I also know I am not the only one out there like this. I think as the OP mentioned above keeping it simple can mean more then hours spent attempting to say 2 words "I'm Sorry". Thanks for the reading.... I am sure I will use some of it....!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Boyfriend or Not? Posted: 6/6/2008 1:40:55 AM
I have a close story to this as in seeing a guy for months without the label of Girlfriend/ Boyfriend..... we did this by choice though. I know for me personally the only difference between seeing each other and dating was JUST the title. I did not treat him any differently, nor would I act any different then I would in a relationship but for me adding the title meant no more denying feelings. And I wasn't ready to let walls down yet and was content having a relationship with out labeling it. We have now decided to take it a step further and are dating and though nothing has changed but the title. But IF AT ANY POINT he would have said to me... I don't feel that way and we are better off as friends it would have set off the red lights to the seeing each other....and I would have walked away! Seeing someone is something people do until they come to a point where they know they want to be with that person or decide to move on and sounds like he is ready to move on and see other people. I AM THE FIRST GIRL HE HAS EVEN TAKEN A LIKING TOO...... who are we kiddin, is he still in grade school??? That sounds like a line and a half if I ever heard one. I wish you the best in whatever you decide but my advice.... walk on eggshells!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Waiting for Ms. Right. Posted: 6/6/2008 12:27:27 AM
I also don't have a lot of patience when it comes to the dating game as I don't care to put myself out there for every Tom,**** and Harry only to find out it's not going anywhere. I have come to the conclusion for myself to stop looking all together. I think that sometimes when we want something bad enough we overlook many things, or we are so conscious to the things we aren't looking for that we find flaws in everyone. I think that meeting people casually or as friends is much less stressful because there isn't as many expectations, and if you end up clicking or sparks fly you can step forward from there. Waiting for Mr. or Ms. Right is only going to be what you make of it. If you spend your time concentrating on being lonely and alone, chances are you will remain there longer. As, self pitty is not attractive.

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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NANAIMO SINGLES OUTDOOR CLUB....? any interest? Posted: 6/4/2008 12:31:37 AM
I am not currently single but am always looking for new friends in the area... would you have to be single to join this function or club???

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Lovin' Y'all Valentines Dance - February 9th, 2008 - Coombs, BC Posted: 2/9/2008 6:34:51 PM
Wishing I would have checked the forums before tonight, maybe the next event close to home.....

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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MARCH HARE MISSION AT THE BIG B SALOON SAT FEB 23rd 2008 Posted: 2/9/2008 6:33:10 PM
Would love to attend but being on the Island, not gonna happen.... someday hopefully!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Abortion Posted: 1/2/2008 3:27:16 AM
This is a tough convo to have as everyone has there right to their own opinion. So, I am only here to post my own opinion on the subject.... I think that abortions are wrong in most cases. What I mean by that is.... I do believe if someone has been molested or raped and ended up pregnant that they should have the right to abort being someone who has encountered such a horrible thing, may already have enough mental issue's to deal with, and carrying a child to term may lengthen or distroy the healing process. However, I believe if at the time of conception it was a choice to be involved (protection or not) then you should also know what you are getting into. There is always a chance of failure of birthcontrol methods. But if you are old enough to do the deed then you should be old enough to be aware of the possibilities it may encounter. If, your protection failed against a untreatable STD you would have to deal with it.....right? So, why should a child be any different? There is so many people out there who want children they can't have and here we have people who can have them....killin them. I STRONGLY disagree with Abortion and think anyone who could go through one has some serious issue's. And wonder how they can live with themselves. (Yes, I know people who have had them and till this day it kills me being a mother) And my opinion on everyone saying it should be the woman's choice.....! I strongly disagree there too.... it takes two!!! And two people should make that decision. Why just cause we carry the child should that be a deciding factor for a potential father???

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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HATE Posted: 9/26/2007 7:12:44 PM
I hate the word...... c*nt..... And I HATE being LIED too

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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The things you miss most about being in a relationship... Posted: 9/26/2007 7:09:24 PM
After my last few experiences it's hard to believe there is still things I miss.....lol But, I do miss the giggles exchanged, a warm body next to you, the habbits you build together.

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Cheaters aren't necessarily evil? Posted: 9/26/2007 7:00:01 PM
I have never ever cheated on anyone....EVER! But sadly I have had the thoughts about it when I know it's happening to me.... Just so that person could feel what I am feeling.... I don't understand how a person can cheat on someone I mean if you are already far enough gone to be with someone else why not just end it! I just got cheated on this weekend, thank god I wasn't in love so didn't hurt so bad, more just dissapointed me as I had high hopes! And in saying I have never cheated I should also say that I have been twice.... the girl that someone used to cheat on there partners and I feel it's almost the same thing. I had so much guilt for the other girl.... (knowing what it feels like myself)

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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How far would you go to please your partner sexually??? Posted: 8/20/2007 4:33:45 AM
Depends on how comfortable I am with my partner... how long we have been together ect.... I will stretch out side my confort zones in steps....lol Sometimes just getting the idea into your head and accepting that then actually following through. I will make more then one attempt as sometimes we are jaded by first experiences.... Can't really judge something that is new without trying it enough to now for sure that isn't you....you would be surprized the amount of things that grow on you! But, again going out of your comfort zone is generally easier when you have confort with your partner. Just think to most first sexual encounter's.... Not the best (Well not always) the one's that lack the first time can be the best you ever had in a few months time!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Sex after meeting...When? Posted: 8/20/2007 4:24:42 AM
My experience is.....If a guy enjoy's himself and is really interested in you and furthering the relationship even if just on a sexual level....They call almost immediatley didn't even know you were gone....lol If they haven't called or made plans within 24 hours... OOOPS my bad, NEXT Don't get me wrong I have not had many partners but this is what I see between personal experience and girlfriends..... Men who are in fact interested let you know before hey loose there place!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Foreplay.....rough or soft? Posted: 8/20/2007 4:19:37 AM
For day to day foreplay rougher is better for me....But not overly rough! The only time I care for the soft gentle stuff is in a intense LOVE moment....otherwise doesn't do much for me!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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One Night Stand - Kinky Sex Posted: 8/20/2007 4:15:59 AM
I have met someone once that was stictly meeting for sex....let me tell you AMAZING! But, you have to be safe and take as many procautions as you can. I wouldn't go to there house or have them at mine! I did this for the wrong reason's being anger got the better of me but I won't complain It was great sex and still chat with the guy now! But, you are an adult.... You can do what you please when you please without anyone else telling you and different. I had my head telling me what the F*CK are you doing the whole way there....almost turned around a million times....Probably the one thing I ever did that was so out of character for me and so against my own morals but that aside.... The experience was awesome! GOD HELP ME....LMAO.....I think as long as you are ok with it and can forgive yourself....go at er

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Men who are slow to the pitch Posted: 8/20/2007 4:07:33 AM
I don't chase men! If, a man is interted enough trust me....you will know it! Sounds to me like they don't care also, or don't know whatthey want and in that case why would you want them? It spells out NO GOOD!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Do Muscles Matter ? Posted: 8/1/2007 5:00:53 AM
Sure muscles can look hot if not over done.... But often the muscle goes to a man's head! I myself am not a fan of thin men (though not there fault) or really buff men.... but I do prefer someone with some meat on them.

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Will she ever love me? Posted: 8/1/2007 4:53:21 AM
Doesn't sound to me like she ever really cared for you in the first place, maybe just enjoying the attention! And you played her game. I mean if you guys have been having these convo's and texting I love you's back and forth and she had a partner up till recently... what does that say in itself? She obviously isn't ready for comitment! Sorry, you are hurt but you should have seen the signs...... She wants her cake and to eat it to!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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How do we get a woman answer an Email? Posted: 8/1/2007 4:43:47 AM
I don't know what to tell you as I believe you are doing the right thing! If, you aren't getting any responces you probably don't want that type of woman in your life anyways.... cause they are judging! I belive it only takes 2 seconds of anyone's time to reply to an email.... and those thoughtful enough will....the other's aren't worth your time! Just my 2 cents

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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for guys and gals........... Posted: 7/14/2007 6:19:12 AM
OMFG! I have not been in forums for months now and I couldn't sleep and thought what the heck......Glad I did! This whole thread had me chuckling from start to finish! Thanks everyone! I will leave my input out as I think a lot has already been said!

lilangel77

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Do you RENT or do you OWN your own home? Posted: 6/14/2007 10:10:20 PM
I own my place.....which I am very excited about being a single parents and all! I have owned now for 3 years (I could never imagine now trying to buy into the market) To me the connection is what matters most....Most people I know and hang out with rent! No biggie! I know how tough it can be....I just lucked out!

lilangel77

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Nanaimo TRIVIA night PIC's......May 16!!! Posted: 5/18/2007 12:23:47 AM
I am so glad you got talked into coming......we are a good group!

lilangel77

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Nanaimo TRIVIA night PIC's......May 16!!! Posted: 5/17/2007 3:18:18 PM
Well Duggie....I think I would catch crap for posting those.....which I may add were half the pic's....... SO I had to leave them out! :(

lilangel77

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Nanaimo TRIVIA night PIC's......May 16!!! Posted: 5/17/2007 2:01:31 AM
Here you go boyz and girls..... Yes, I am plastering more photo's of your faces over the net! You love it! Geez, even these posts have to be long.....DARN IT. Well I hope you all have fun, I KNOW I SURE DID....was a great great crowd tonight!

lilangel77

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NANAIMO....MUSIC TRIVIA....HAREWOOD ARMS....MAY 16....COME JOIN! Posted: 5/14/2007 10:47:32 PM
Thanks for your speedy help blindjim....I appreciate it.....and yes hopefully it works! Gonna miss ya those who have had to cancel due to work and other things......Maybe next time! I am starting my summer camping trips this weekend so may not host another for summer....but again we will see how things go!

lilangel77

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Come Join Music Trivia....May 16! Harewood Arms Pub, Nanaimo Posted: 5/13/2007 2:40:43 PM
Well only 3 and half days more to go! And sign - up looks good. Still missing a few people I would love to have join us! But I will keep working on that! Cheers, everyone and see you soon! I have another table on friends (most fellow fishies) who will be joining trivia but in the smoking room....so us smokers will have a table to smoke with too.

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Penis Pride Posted: 5/10/2007 11:26:31 PM
Maybe who bost.....are lacking something! Theory men should live by: Don't lie about your penis if I am gonna see it later! Otherwise carry on.....

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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VANCOUVER ISLAND MONTHLY DINNER CLUB, (Saturday, May 13th in Qualicum) Posted: 5/10/2007 11:20:31 PM
Well we all know around here options for dancing is the gun or the front......woohoo! Guess beggers can't be chooser's...... I don't know if I can make it as my girlfriend is being induced on Sat....may be at the hospital, waiting for that new arrival. But hopefully can meet up with you guys at some point in the evening! I know someone's cell I could call! Cheers, and have fun everyone!

lilangel77

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Come Join Music Trivia....May 16! Harewood Arms Pub, Nanaimo Posted: 5/10/2007 9:24:22 AM
Nicci.....Scott......Where did you go??? You were both signed up I seen it with my own two eye's....... And Doug....GOOD BOY??? ( going alottle far no?....lol ) Anyway's come on people and sign up this is always a fun event! And those signed up tell people about it! DO IT, DO IT....... NOW.....

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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do you find it being.... Posted: 5/9/2007 1:24:53 AM
I, myself wouldn't call it racist.....but might however stear me away from messaging that person based on their preferences....... We all have prefrences....weither it is race, hair color, height, weight, interests......but if we posted those you could be possibly stearing away a great person! For me, as I am looking for friendship and possible dating I would not post my preferences (as I am not picky what my friends look like, don't need that sexual attraction) and personalities tend to change people's looks anyways! But, if you are on the site (in all seriousness) and wanting to find the one....then I don't think posting preferences would be a bad idea.....would start the weening process on it own!

lilangel77

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POF Parties and Forum people Posted: 5/9/2007 1:16:50 AM
What about the one's who don't attend?.......That is their issue (only they can change it) I only attend events in my area....which has been a wonderful casual way to meet the POF folk! I would assume that still many people on POF don't even know events exist....many I have talked to don't! But I have to agree with all the above posters!

lilangel77

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Come Join Music Trivia....May 16! Harewood Arms Pub, Nanaimo Posted: 5/8/2007 4:01:50 PM
HEE HEE, we are off to a great start! Luv it! Still waiting for some of the regulars.....ahem....Darrin and Anthony to sign up! Hopefully we get more newbi's join us too! Cheers all......

lilangel77

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NANAIMO....MUSIC TRIVIA....HAREWOOD ARMS....MAY 16....COME JOIN! Posted: 5/7/2007 4:50:35 PM
Let's Get This Going..... THIS IS A MONTHLY EVENT.......THE THIRD WED OF EACH MONTH (NOTE: For all newbie's.....I decided to bring a bunch of sunflower's for the table so you can find where we are at! This makes it easier for everyone! So, LOOK for them and you know that is the POF group!......Don't be shy, there is always new people and the regulars were newbie's once too......CHEERS) Well I have been asked by a few peep's to re-post cause they would like to attend again or would like a chance to join.....So here it is! SIGN-UP! Com'on people Join the Fun!!! WHO: Hopefully the regulars and newbie's too! WHAT: Well Music Trivia.....of course WHEN: May 16, 2007 (Third Wed of every month) WHERE: Harewood Arms Pub (Nanaimo) WHY: To have fun and meet new people TIME: - Trivia starts at 8:30- 9 pm and ends at 11:00 - 11:30 pm (So can be an early night but also can stay later if you choose) Available at Harewood Arms is also 2 for 1 Appy's till 10:00 and a burger and fry's special on Wed nights for $3.99 , there's also 2 pool tables (cost $ 1 per/ game) Also this is a casual thing...bring your friends let's have some fun!!!

lilangel77

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Making friends Posted: 4/28/2007 2:59:19 PM
I find it harder to make friends being out of school for so long.....And yes most friends are men (but I think they have other intensions, even if I don't) But since joining POF I have meet alot of new girlfriends and am quite enjoying that....and the guys too... And I think opposite sex's attract because (well for girls) because we are nit picky with a girlfriends and not so much men. We are competative by nature that way. And woman generally gossip more then men so we watch who we wanna share are personal information (wanna know your not telling the whole world, when you only open your mouth to only one or two). And female friends for me are much harder to replace....because I seem to depend and and rely on them for emotional support more then a man. (I think they understand it better) Though it's always nice to hear both sides (from both sex's).

lilangel77

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tick tock.. tick tock.... Posted: 4/27/2007 3:31:03 AM
Nope......Nadda But finally found all my paper work for it.....can't say I am all that excited to go get it done! But, I have what like 3 days........ Plenty of time still Ugh.....to the taxes.....

lilangel77

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Trivia Pic's from Harewood Arms! Posted: 4/21/2007 4:02:58 PM
Ok so, I was uplaoding photo's and had to leave to pick up my bro and came back to finish... it let me upload 2 more the shut my post.....SO SORRY FOR THE ONE'S LEFT OUT!!! Didn't realise I had a time line, always see posts in pic threads where people are adding more later..... Ok so , I post this go back and now I can add more....STRANGE...oh well back to uploading!

lilangel77

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Trivia Pic's from Harewood Arms! Posted: 4/21/2007 3:15:55 PM
So, sorry it took so long to post....couldn't figure out for the life of me how to do it...So, a big thanks to BnT and scorpiosweetiepie for endless emails explaining it....lol YES, I have my blonde moments! Thanks again everyone who joined....had a way better show then expected! Was awesome!!! Let me know if there is still people interested in going again and then maybe I will host another before summer...... Oh and added pic's of my friends who are not POF just cause they joined us! Cheers all

lilangel77

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references Posted: 4/20/2007 1:43:04 AM
I have asked previous employer's for a letter of reference when leaving that company....then you have them on hand! Then if they contact an old employer they have the letter in their hands as to what they thought about you when you worked there and when leaving. Sometimes employer's go through many employee's and forget how they felt at the time! Good luck!

lilangel77

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TRIVIA !!! @ HAREWOOD ARMS PUB in NANAIMO....COME JOIN US April 18 !!! Posted: 4/18/2007 6:56:39 PM
Hey all....only have a half hour to get ready so gonna post quick! LOL sorry to those who can't make it, maybe next time! Anyone who see's this before 10 come down and join....we will all be there. Cheers (just checking the sign up lat minute before heading out when ready...lol)

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

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Cell plans Posted: 4/16/2007 10:05:09 AM
I was with rogers for years and never had any complaints....I only changed to telus cause of a promotion they had.....bad idea! I have horrible service and the phones (been through 3) on a three year contact (with a year remaining) have been in the shop almost as much as not.....All brand new telus phones too (not the cheap end one's either). Actually me and three other people signed up the same day .....we have all had problems since. But, my sister is a cell phone whre and cell plan whre.....and has decided after years of use of many company's that BELL is the best. So, when my contract is up....guess who I am contacting?

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

Street signs that make you wonder Posted: 4/15/2007 11:30:33 PM
I have one I didn't experience for myself but my mom couldn't stop babbling about it when she got back from her vacation (can't even think of where at the moment)....anyways, she was in a very high class resturant (somewhere) on a buisness trip and went to the ladies room.... Not ever being there before she had to watch for the restroom signs and follow....she did this till she got to the ladie's room and went and did her business....after washing her hands she proceded to leave where she then read on the door MEN'S room. Made her stop and think my god did I just go in the wrong room. She was embarassed and didn't want to walk out in fear she was in the wrong one and everyone would see. She couldn't stop saying why would they do that? And in such an expensive place? Ok, so not that funny but if you knew my mom you would have to laugh!

lilangel77

Joined: 3/8/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

TRIVIA !!! @ HAREWOOD ARMS PUB in NANAIMO....COME JOIN US April 18 !!! Posted: 4/14/2007 12:41:11 PM
Hopefully you can make it Uriel1984.....the more the merrier! And welcome back wheels45.....glad to see you signed up! Only a few more days to go....countdown is on!!!

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