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Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?...
Posted: 3/18/2006 1:03:50 PM | | I think if a man tells you he loves you within a month----run!Because i believe that is coming from below the belt instead of the heart.In my past experiences i have been told that someone loves me because of their intense desire, not because they wanted to grow old with me.SAD but that is why i am doing a dating site so it's not just physical/And i think i have been guilty of doing the blow off- each person has their own reasons for doing that..Mine in the past is because i thought the person was full of **** or they weren't what i thought,too needy, or even worse crazy.But this day and age you can never tell with guys-some believe if they play hard to get that makes us want them but that's my number one reason to vanish from a man when he tries to play games.So if a man says i love you question him directly about what does he love most about you, and what makes me so good for you?sounds rude but men will stumble over that answer if their trying to get some bootie, but if by chance they mean it they will say, because your kind,warm, i love the way you smell,walk, i love your communication style, i love the way you make me feel, i want to be a better man, blah, blah. Hope this helps because i have alot of honest advice.I have heard it all but vanishing after you say you love someone COME ON- i would not be available personally when he decides 4days from now that he loves you.I wish you the best and good luck because this dating thing sucks.You have to give someone the benefit of the doubt but listen to what a person says about how they feel about you and know when attraction is not love.I believe that women/men emotionally are on the same level so there is no excuse for i needed to think if i loved you after i told you so, it is simple.You care for someone enough to say i love you than that means you are their best friend and you will be able to talk about anything and eveything.Don't settle for wandering take action and find a man who is there and there are no doubts- that is the best feeling in the world.And you deserve nothing else. | | | |
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