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Thread: Seeing her name everywhere...Do you believe in signs?
SIMPLY*ENCHANTED
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Seeing her name everywhere...Do you believe in signs?
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9/23/2008 8:04:23 AM
I definetely believe in signs. Sometimes we're too blind to see what's right there, so we get little clues if we pay attention, guiding us the right way, some are more subtle clues than others. But, Signs, indeed.
SIMPLY*ENCHANTED
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What do you NOT like about sex?
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9/22/2008 11:48:06 PM
yea, i agree not being able to give and recieve oral is almost a deal breaker for me
SIMPLY*ENCHANTED
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Good looking women and sex
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9/18/2008 3:36:41 PM
LOOKS DON'T MATTER IN THIS AREA. IF A WOMAN ISNT INTO SEX, FIND ONE THAT IS OR SHUT UP. IM INTO IT, BUT OTHERS ARENT. TO EACH THEIR OWN.
SIMPLY*ENCHANTED
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How to be unforgettable and irresistable in bed..?
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9/16/2008 9:32:50 PM
Wear lingerie, be sexy & inviting, always tease as you please, know a few "head" tricks, and ride him hard. And if he's hitting it from the back, put ur hands on the head board/wall and thrown urself back into him. (They love that)
haha crazyness. lol
SIMPLY*ENCHANTED
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What do you NOT like about sex?
Posted:
9/16/2008 9:28:45 PM
Hate one night stands & I'm not into tag-teaming. haha
SIMPLY*ENCHANTED
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Do women enjoy masterbation and being watched?
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9/16/2008 9:26:49 PM
While I enjoy a good masterbating session on a rainy afternoon, I don't dig being watched. Maybe if I was "with" the person and they got off on it, but even then, i'd be a little uncomfortable... Like why use myself, when I have a ready, able, willing man right there? lol
SIMPLY*ENCHANTED
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Good looking women and sex
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9/16/2008 9:22:26 PM
I consider myself attractive and I'm far from a prude in bed, lol. I am a very loyal person, but wow, when I am with someone, just consider me a nympho. haha
I think if a woman is "prude" there's an underlying reason why, maybe she's mad at you and with holding, maybe she doesn't really like sex much (yikes, ouch!), maybe she has been mis-treated in the past and doesnt really like men right now, who knows. Ask her.
Simply*Enchanted
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Tattoos on women turn on or turn off? just curious
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1/29/2008 10:59:53 PM
Turn on, on both sexes, I have 2 on my back, one on the back of my neck.
I think tattoos are sexy.... they really turn me on.. lol
Simply*Enchanted
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
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12/18/2007 5:36:06 AM
Kissing is very important. Its such a great rush when you are totally n'sync with someones lips, and your hands are rubbing all over eachother, and you can feel the passion building up by the second... umm... yea, I wouldn't give up that feeling for anything.. bet that.
Not to mention the other obvious plus's of a talented tounge and mouth... I'd say it is, in fact, extreemely important if all parties are to be 100% satisfied.
Simply*Enchanted
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Is love worth it
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12/10/2007 3:05:07 PM
He's a commitment phobe. May come around, may not. I think in any relationship you should do whats best for you and your kids, if you have any, and pets, and all important factors of your life that are constant and more important that men.
Wotk out what it is that you want, and don't settle for a man running from you, or yo-yo'ing you back n forth "i LOVE you" NO, WAIT "im too scared to love you". THAT IS CRAP. People know what they want, even if they are too much of a pu$$y to say it outloud and to your face.
Actions indeed, do speak louder than words, and listening to words while ingnoring actions is a recipe for heartache.
-Ashley
Simply*Enchanted
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best ways to get even with your ex
Posted:
12/3/2007 7:40:25 PM
No wonder he cheated, ur evil! Move on! Stop the petty-ness. I cannot believe you seriously want us to give you tips ON HOW TO HURT SOMEONE!
IS THAT NOT WHY YOU WANT TO GET EVEN, BECAUSE YOU WERE HURT?
SO, YOUR DECISION IS TO SPREAD THE PAIN AROUND SOME MORE?
WHEN DOES IT STOP?
It stops with MATURE, loving people who realize things don't always go as you planned, but it is noones place to punish anyone.
The most fruitful people in life, are those who can let go of the past, and have the strength to create a new future in which all things are possible.
Simply*Enchanted
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Does a guy mean it when he says he doesn't mind waiting?
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10/2/2007 7:55:05 AM
means "YOU CAN WAIT, IM ALREADY GETTING SOME ELSEWHERE" ha ha Just kidding, maybe there is NO hidden meaning, maybe he is simply respecting your wishes.
Leanne is right, too.. he surely will non-stop be after the poo-nany.. lol..
Simply*Enchanted
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threesomes: do they ruin relationships?
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10/2/2007 7:47:57 AM
I think it inevitably will. But some people dont have that deep "loyalty" that I do.. I would beat myself up, feeling horrible, afterward, and I would feel uncomfortbale all through it, and like a bad person for not being faithful. Would make me not want to do it at all... if it was MY relationship..
Now, I have been the third more than a few times, and that I can do, it is not ME being unloyal, so i dont feel guilty.... I think 3 somes are for casual things, not serious things..
Simply*Enchanted
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I can't look at him!
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6/11/2007 4:02:23 PM
Sounds like he is being rather unreasonable. BUT, u must consider how that must make him feel, also... NOT GOOD! for real... but if he acts like if you don't take it further, he will never talk to u again... I don't like that.. Any man who gives ultimatums that soon is no perfect man of mine....
and if your not feeling it, your not feeling it, maybe it's your gut instict , just letting you know it's not right?
and also, I sure would hate to be with someone who couldn't look at me... that's an awful thing to say.... did you ever consider what if he read this????? Then your decision would be made, unless he is insane... noone wants to be with someone who is repulsed by them.... wow
Simply*Enchanted
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Why Don't You Call Us!?
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6/11/2007 3:45:59 PM
This is simple: if he WANTED to talk to you, HE WOULD CALL. and if someone REALLY likes you, they'll call often..... if someone doesnt show you what you feel is sufficient affection, or attention... tell them... if they don't make an effort after that... replace them with someone who will and quit wasting your time... I mean, if your unhappy now in the beginning... the future doesnt look so good... no sense in going down a bad road for no reason.
enchanted_vixen
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted:
3/19/2007 11:11:49 PM
Nope, I like to give it, and I like to get it... THATS WHAT I CALL A DEAL BREAKER!
enchanted_vixen
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How Much Are You Willing To Change/Give For A New Mate?
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3/14/2007 7:27:55 AM
Change FOR someone, thats ludacris, you change IF you want to, to be a better person, not for someone else.
IF YOU DO "CHANGE" FOR SOMEONE ELSE, IT WONT LAST, "YOU" WILL RETURN.....
They will still be THEMSELVES at the end of the day, and if you dont like THEM.... WHY THE HELL ARE YOU WASTING YOUR TIME ???
And if They dont like, or want to be with you, as you are... Why would you want to be with them???
Man, I may stay single in between, but the relationships i do have are golden, and drama free.... BECAUSE NOONE EXPECTS THE IMPOSSIBLE, AND ACCEPTS PEOPLE, FLAWS AND ALL......
IN FACT FLAWS ARE BEAUTIFUL AND QUIRKY......
Who you are...... YOU CANT CHANGE..... Bad habits, maybe..... HOW YOU THINK, AND PROCCESS INFORMATION.. THAT WILL NEVER CHANGE.....
Your just kidding yourself when you say things like "oh he has changed, ill take him back" OR "oh, i dont like this about him, but hes working on it"
BLAH BLAH...
LOVE IT OR HATE IT, TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT, BUT UNDERSTAND.... YOUR NOT CHANGING A DAMN THING ABOUT SOMEONE UNLESS THEY TRULY IN THEIR HEART WANT TO CHANGE IT... ***FOR THEMSELVES**
Also, never lower your standards just to avoid being single... be strong, havbe a back bone, there are much worse things than being alone... and if you arent comfortable enough with YOU to be ALONE.... Then your not fit to be with others anyway, not for the long haul.....
For if you dont even truly know yourself... who are you to be trying to "mold" others....
absolutely ludacris!!!!!!
enchanted_vixen
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Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
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3/10/2007 4:58:18 AM
ive never gotten the impression it was shuned... more like encouraged... lol i do it, hell, we all do, dont know exactly how much, just whenever I feel like it, I am never embarrased or anything either, why would you be???
enchanted_vixen
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Check out the guys you meet!
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3/4/2007 7:46:58 AM
Maybe if you'd have showed him he could trust you before you went "sneaky" he would have told you in his own time.
enchanted_vixen
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hillary clinton for president.
Posted:
3/1/2007 10:54:25 AM
Id vote for her just cause shes a woman, and id like to see the difference, if any, in how the country could be run by a woman.
Plus, you gotta admit, its a sorry selection of men (man) lol that have gotten in the last few years, I think Bill did the best job, all he did wrong was get some, and who knows, maybe some of that was Hilary's influence....
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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What do Women really want???
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3/1/2007 6:17:16 AM
Personally, Im a hopeless romantic....Im sure not every woman will agree with me, but i want someone to love me and talk to me and be there for me when he can, be sweet to me but still strong and sexy, even if only in my eyes. and thats it.
^^^^lxlgothicdragonlxl
what you seem to percieve as "smother" is actually "being close and letting someone in" theres nothing wrong with being open with someone, so long as you know you can trust them first. YOU BEING DISTANT WOULD DRIVE ME AWAY FAST!!!
ALSO, only WHORES would leave you if they were bored. IF YOUR THAT BORED, LADIES, DO SOMETHING TO CREATE EXCITEMENT, DONT SEARCH FOR EXCITEMENT ELSEWHERE thats just petty, slutty, and stupid
ps if someone is afraid of "being trapped" they shouldnt BE in a relationship, not with anyone
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Women licking a guy below his balls...
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2/27/2007 7:38:46 AM
The couple of guys i did that to loved it, its another "g" spt for yall....so no, its not odd at all...
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
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2/27/2007 7:30:15 AM
Why would you fake it? let him know where it feels good vocally, so he knows where to go, and what you like, go crazy when it feels fantastic, and be silent, and give instruction when it "could be better"
when you fake it, your only cheating yourself, he still gets his, believe that!
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
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2/27/2007 7:26:25 AM
If you can't.... SHE AIN'T DOIN' IT RIGHT! lmao.. im for real, ive heard that alot, it just sounds like a challenge to me, lol...... and believe me it never holds true when I do get a crack at it, lol.....
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Demanding oral sex
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2/27/2007 7:24:15 AM
I think that i love oral, so id always be happy to give/recieve it.....but the other thing, id be like "sorry, dude, its not gonna happen" BECAUSE IF IT ISNT, LET HIM KNOW... SO IF THATS A SEXUAL NEED HE HAS *HAS* TO HAVE, HE WILL KNOW YOUR NOT FOR HIM....
you have to tell him what you want.need. and are willing to try, and also inform him of boundaries..... just be straight up.. otherwise.. how will he know?
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Do you do or condone marijuana?
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2/19/2007 8:02:42 PM
I smoke, and prefer people who either have, or still do, they are more mellow and less judgemental, because they realize it is just like smoking tobacco, except the high lasts longer......
i wouldnt date someone who wouldnt date someone for something as petty as pot smoking every once in a while.... some things you just take with a grain of salt, and look at the person inside......not solely their actions..... I think thats very closed minded..... Its not like Acid or something......
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Sexual Enuendos and Excess Baggage
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2/17/2007 6:36:03 PM
I think a "sexual preference" question is normal... i mean its 2007, and they are asking what you like, NOT asking permission to try it RIGHT THEN....
Why are you so uncomfortable to vocalize your desires?????
Dont be so sensitive, this is not 1920 anymore, most people in my generation asked and got asked those qustions in high school....... So it is what we were brought up in, its normal.....
In fact, the few times i have found a virgin guy OR a more-prude guy, I have been amazed that they even existed....
You cant expect the "DATING TIMES" to be the same now as they were in the 80's.....
JUST AS IN THE 80'S THEY WERE MUCH DIFFERENT FROM THE 60'S.....
I am not saying this is good, in fact I realize its not, Im just saying, THATS HOW IT IS!
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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how do you make the hurt stop?
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2/16/2007 12:29:31 PM
Talk about it, express your feelings in a healthy manor, for me, writing helps, or i drive in my car n listen to music real loud and dance around.... it depends on the person.. do things that make you smile... smiles will eventually make up for frowns if you really try to work through the pain.
But if you just hold onto it, yes, it will seemingly never go away....
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Is the grass always greener somewhere else?
Posted:
2/12/2007 5:29:21 AM
ILL PROBABLY ALWAYS LIVE IN TEXAS, I LOVE IT HERE~!
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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A question for the Guys...Ever been TOO BUSY TO CALL?
Posted:
2/9/2007 8:27:02 AM
If someone REALLY WANTS TO talk to you, There is ALWAYS time...They will make time. I would!
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Is kissing cheating...?
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2/9/2007 8:24:48 AM
Of course it is!!! I cant believe everyone's so UNCLEAR about right from wrong....Does your concience not tell you?
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Anyone else quitting smoking after the $1/pack increase?
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2/8/2007 6:16:55 PM
nope! whats a dollar to relieve mty stress?? nothing! ill quite when im ready. not because of a damm dollar, lol....
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Texas 10 Commandments
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2/2/2007 5:05:53 PM
^Yes,ive met few Texans that speak such as this,I myself,tend to converse properly..... loved the post, though!!!
Allthough, Texas being almost a country in of itsself, we should be proud of our intellegence as well as our heritage......
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Marriage...
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1/30/2007 5:58:51 PM
A man's gotta believe in something....I believe I have another beer!
Short n sweet, lol
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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What do you do when youre friend is sneaky and seeing you ex ~ husband ? :
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1/30/2007 1:37:41 PM
Sh!t, that is NO friend of mine, her loss, too... losing a good friend.....bump both of them!
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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You got to be kidding me..?
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1/27/2007 7:40:02 PM
WOW! THE LEVEL OF SUPERFICIAL IN HERE MAKES ME WANNA PUKE.
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
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1/27/2007 7:28:31 PM
MMMM THEY ARE MISSING SOME FANTASTIC CLIMAX'S, LET ME TELL YOU! HA HA HA
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Virginity scares men
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1/27/2007 7:26:32 PM
Scares me, too, I wouldnt date a virgin probably..... He wouldnt understand my sexual past, and that could create problems real fast......
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Oral Sex or Penetration?
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1/27/2007 7:24:16 PM
Some men are better at oral, and some knock your socks off the old fashioned way....... I love when they can do both.......
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Instant Messenger problems?
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1/27/2007 7:23:10 PM
I CANT SIGN INTO MY YAHOO EVER, LOL NO PROBLEMS HERE THOUGH...
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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raped or not ?
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1/27/2007 7:16:44 PM
IT DOES MATTER. THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN
1. ATTACKING SOMEONE AND FORCING YOURSELF ON THEM, ****WHILE THEY SCREAM BEGGING YOU TO STOP OR WHATEVER******
2. FROM THEM INVITING YOU TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM, MOANING AND BEGGING YOU *NOT* TO STOP......
IF YOU DONT SEE THAT, YOUR VERY CLOSED MINDED..
ONE TAKES A CRUEL MONSTER TO DO IT, THE OTHER JUST A HORNEY GUY AND SEXUALLY PROMISCUOS GIRL....
BIG HUGE DIFFERENCE....
RE: THE POST BELOW THIS:
I know the law, but everything is not always SO black and white.....
I dont believe This was a vicious attack, and should NOT be treated as though it was.
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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raped or not ?
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1/27/2007 5:10:19 PM
okay DONT JUDGE ME! but, i lost my viginity at almost 14.... and the guy was 22, i did look much older, AND we had been together for like 2 years......lol (ALLTHOUGH I WAS NOT SMART THEN LIKE I AM NOW, AND IT SOUNDS STUPID AS I SAY IT, LOL) but he did not force me AT ALL.... The way it sounds.... she was scared when you confronted her, maybe ashamed as well.... and maybe she thought she'd be in trouble if she told you the truth ESPECIALLY IF YOU WERE YELLING AT HER WHEN YOU ASKED ABOUT IT, WHY WOULD SHE OPEN UP TO YOU???????? NO, SHE WOULD SHUT DOWN AND CRY.... LIKE SHE DID....
and her sister, whom she told on her own, does not intimidate her like a parental figure.... so it makes sense she would tell her the truth....
Dont you think if she had been raped, shed have come home very distraught and crying and hysterical AND CONFUSED???????????
I dont think a man should go to jail if the girl not only wanted to, but enticed it, and since you dont know what happened, maybe you should get her counseling and leave it alone........
HOPE THIS HELPS, SORRY IF IT DOESNT....
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Native, or implant
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1/27/2007 4:59:56 PM
Born and Raised in the Dallas Area........
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Women and their pets?
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1/27/2007 4:55:09 PM
I think it's a glimse into their life "I LOVE ANIMALS!!" is what it says to me..... and to some people, including me, it is good for people to know whats important to you......
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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So is online dating safe? What is your take?
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1/26/2007 12:44:54 AM
HAS BEEN FOR ME...But make sure to bring a re-inforcement such as mace or something, dont be UN-prepared for the worst but dont be paranoid..either, you know?
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Why do professional athletes always have hot wifes.
Posted:
1/23/2007 1:22:19 AM
I'll take "because they're rich and athletic" for $500.00, Bob!
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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The things you miss most about being in a relationship...
Posted:
1/23/2007 1:21:13 AM
Cuddling on the couch on a rain day, rainy sexy days....mmmmm.....
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Anyone here regret having oral sex too early in a relationship?
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1/23/2007 1:20:02 AM
Umm if your having sex, you should include oral, In my world anyway.....
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Would you kiss the first time you meet?
Posted:
1/23/2007 1:19:05 AM
I agree "If theres chemistry, don't fight it!"
ENCHANTED_VIXEN
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Cleavage, wonderful beautiful cleavage
Posted:
1/22/2007 11:01:03 AM
WHEN YOUR BOOBS ARE REAL BIG, YOU HAVE CLEAVAGE IN ALL SHIRTS, UNLESS THEYRE TURTLE NECKS, NOT REALLY OUR FAULT...LOL..... AND THANK YOU! ;)
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