|Can you have male friends?|
Posted: 10/24/2006 3:12:36 AM
|Well here is my 2 cents on the issue.... Male friends.. well to be honest all men have a problem with that unless the male friend is gay. Why... because men know what men want.. sex. It's just that simple my case in point.|
My now x has a lot of male friends... which I met. Now there were some I approved of and others I didn't. The one's that I didn't approve of I let her know about, I figured I might as well be straight up and honest about it. Well needless to say she said I was just being jealous and possesive. Well when it came down to it I had to say "I don't want you around this guy.. it's either him or me". Well well well.... I come to find out that buddy had been hitting on her... she told me straight out. My response was ... see I told you..I'm not being paranoid. Well needless to say that after a few years we split up. Because she would not stop with the guy friends I didn't want her to be around with out me. Well the funny thing is that we are now really good friends. She confided in me one day and told me that each one of her guy friends that I had said I didn't want her around had all hit on her after I was out of the picture.
So the moral of the story is... guys aren't just being jealous all the time... we know what we are like and so we take precautions to safe guard our own relationships by not wanting other men in our ladies lives. That could possibly cause problems at some point down the road in the relationship.