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Joined: 3/12/2006

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When he says he doesn't want a relationship... could you at least still place some hopes? Posted: 7/20/2009 6:50:03 PM
"Anything I could do?", well it doesn't sound like you know where you stand Babydoll. When a man likes you, he lets you know it. He calls, he wants to see you, he wants to meet your friends and perhaps even your family, he can't keep his eyes or his hands off of you. Men are really not that complicated, they're cowards , who would rather do anything than tell you that "you're not the one". He may not be saying it to you , but his behavior is showing it all the time. Stop making excuses for him , he's not interested in a serious relationship with you. Don't waste anymore of your time ...you're fantastic and there's someone out there that wants to be your boyfriend, now go find him.

Joined: 3/12/2006

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When he says he doesn't want a relationship... could you at least still place some hopes? Posted: 7/19/2009 3:23:54 PM
"He said he didn't want a relationship right now" means "I don't want to be in a relationship with you" or "I'm not sure you're the one, " Sorry, that's just what men tell women they're not really interested in. He's telling you exactly how he feels, but you're refusing to listen or believe him. And, please remember that no one can use you , unless you give him permission to use you.

Joined: 3/12/2006

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One minute he is all over me and the next does not want us to be an item Posted: 10/16/2007 6:00:27 PM
J, It's really very simple , he already told you "I am not really that into you". What more do you need to hear? Please stop wasting your time on a man who is treating you horribily.Why are you doing this to yourself? Can you imagine....a loser like that rejecting you?

Joined: 3/12/2006

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I am totally in to this guy, but.... Posted: 10/9/2007 3:28:51 PM
The most important quality a man must have first and foremost is that he is interested in us. I think we tend to forget this , and we hang on to hope and denial (not a river in Egypt). Why are you doing this to yourself ? Don't analyze the relationship! What is the point of dating someone who isn't making you feel wonderful. Take the "you can't fire me because I quit" approach with this man. Raise your standards!

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Too many red flags or am I just being too critical? Posted: 8/28/2007 6:02:56 PM
Now let's see, he is a very sweet affectionate guy with a great heart of gold but... 1-does not seem he has grown up 2-no car 3-lives with roommates 4-financial issues 5-low wage job 6-no aspiration Wow what a catch! Sorry, but you deserve better than Mr. Red Flags

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Powerful relationship statements (may be a repost) Posted: 11/13/2006 3:34:25 PM
1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.. I love all of them , however this one reveals a secret few know, and that is..........people fall in love with the way you make them feel!

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Why do men not call? Posted: 11/13/2006 10:53:32 AM
Sorry to tell you that I think your friends are right, he's just not that into you. Even President Bush would take time out of his busy schedule to call you for 5 minutes. Men who like us call us, it's that simple.Too busy, too important to call you ...what a catch!

Joined: 3/12/2006

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Why do some guys do this? Posted: 11/13/2006 10:32:35 AM
When a relationship works, it's easy. He/she wants to see you. You want to see him/her, there are no doubts, fears, excuses, maybes, or buts. You don't have to analyze the relationship or ask for advice. There are no games. I believe that the most important quality a person must have, first and foremost, is that they're interested in us. People who care about us look for ways to make it clear in their actions every day that our happiness is important to them. Don't forget to thank all these guys/gals for letting you know , in no uncertain terms , to cross them off your list. What is the point of dating someone who is not making you feel truly wonderful? Don't lower your standards, don't settle for less than you deserve. Take the "you can't fire me because I quit" approach. You picked a lemon, now throw it away. Choose more wisely in the future.

Joined: 3/12/2006

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Why do guys take your number and never call? Posted: 3/25/2006 6:44:27 PM
They never call because they're just not that into you. They're cowards and can't tell up front. And, ladies please don't fall for men who give you their numbers and ask you to call them sometime. That's an old trick: It seems like he gives you control and he likes you , but now when you call he gets to decide if he wants to go out with you, or even return your call. Don't let him trick you into asking him out.

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He's just not that into you Posted: 3/25/2006 6:17:31 PM
The authors names are Greg Brehrendt & Liz Luccillo( a writer and a consultant of Sex and the CIty). And, yes the reason why he's not calling is because "HE"S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU". And, be honest "You're Not That Into Him Either" written by Ian Kerner, Ph.d If you really think about it we're getting hung up on men that we never really wanted in the first place. We've lowered our standards without even being aware of it. If you keep ending up with men who can't be relied upon to do what they say they will do ....then you're not being discriminating enough.When he wants to be with you , you want to be with. There are no doubts, no excuses, no waiting for the phone. You don't have to analyze the relationship or ask friends for advice. There are no games. It's that simple!

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