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sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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~What did you accomplish today?~ Posted: 8/20/2006 9:23:38 PM
I replaced the swaybar bushings on my car, I fixed the electric drivers seat, I checked the fluids, I had a flat fixed and put it on myself. I cleaned the kitchen and made breakfast, then spent several hours with my grandsons. Then went online and chatted with several friends. Showered and now I am writing this. I have become very independant in the last four years, I do for myself many things that my late husband used to do.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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After 4 dates he closed his account on here Posted: 8/9/2006 4:55:55 AM
I would hope that after the forst couple of dates that you would have an alternate way of contact, other than just on POF...just makes since to me.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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hard times Posted: 7/3/2006 12:28:35 AM
You should tell her that about 99 out of 100 guys repeat the hitting and the other 1 out of 100 is rare and very hard to find, also that each time he hits her and gets away with it is another time that it could get worse. It normaly does get worse as time moves on. Been there done that and got the t-shirt some where.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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Good Places to eat, and good places to take a date Posted: 7/2/2006 7:49:08 AM
Hey, I just found out recently about this really classy club in Rogers. It is called "Gators" It is a small club that does a lot of karaoke and they have live entertainment on Friday nights. The atmosphere there is really friendly and open.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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HAPPY FATHER DAY!! Posted: 6/18/2006 4:15:45 PM
Wishing all the dads and the moms who had to stand in as dads (like myself) HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!! I hope each and every one of you enjoyed the day and have had some fun with your children.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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Dating a guy with a Motorcycle? Posted: 6/7/2006 6:22:00 PM
I would date a guy with a motorcycle easily, they are so much fun. I enjoy the sense of freedom and everything. The power trip is fantastic for me. It also gives me a reason to hang on to the guy I am riding with.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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Older kids creating problems, deliberate or not? Posted: 6/5/2006 10:21:22 AM
I think that the mom may have been in a possition of showing the respect for the son. In the fact that she didn't address the problem in front of you. She may well have told the son off in private for leaving the house in such a mess. I raised my daughters to clean up after themselves, but at the age of about 16-17 it seems to have went out the window. I never address a problem with them in front of an audience, it is done in private. This teaches them respect for others. off topic, the name for this teething biscuit is biter biscuits in the USA.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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Good Places to eat, and good places to take a date Posted: 6/1/2006 5:00:49 PM
In Rogers there is a place called Restaraunt Row, there are about a dozen good places to eat here. you can choose from Chili's, Famous Daves, On The Border, Dixie cafe, O'Charlies, Copelands, Johnny Corino's, Colton's, Appleby's, Oscar's. These are all good places to go. The movie theater is right there close by. And if you are looking for something a bit more casual. In the same area you have IHOP, Village Inn, and Denny's as well as KFC and McDonalds.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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Re: body cramps and sex.......not a good combo.... Posted: 5/25/2006 11:17:54 AM
A good combination to cure the leg cramps or any muscle cramps is: potassium, magnesium, and calcium. quinine helps as well. I had a problem with cramps and this is what my doctor told me to use. good luck on finding a cure for you.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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Singles gathering in Ozarks/NW AR area? Posted: 5/16/2006 7:26:55 PM
I think this is an awesome Idea. I have heard a lot about other areas having get togethers and they rock. It would be great to have a reason to get out and meet others. I am game for most any type of get together. Make sure and let me know the results of this. I am looking forward to meeting all of you. I am from the Rogers area and know the Fayetteville and Springdale area well. Let's all keep in touch and see what we can come up with.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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how do you get over nervousness/shyness? Posted: 5/16/2006 1:11:28 PM
I used to be extremely shy, I lived that way for about 30 years. Then one day I decided that a lot of life was passing me by. From that point on I just forced myself to relax in the company of others. I put myself in the mind frame that, if they don't like me it is their loss. After a while it became easier and easier to talk to people, I am not an outgoing person. However I can meet people and talk to them more than I ever could in the past. It will become easier as time goes by. You just have to make up your mind and do it. Yes you will feel like a fool from time to time, as this is not your normal way of being. Just remember you are bettering yourself, for yourself and not for others. If you truly want to overcome being shy it will happen for you as it did for me. Good luck on your journey!

sexy_grandma_looking

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just a happy mothersday wish Posted: 5/14/2006 10:56:17 AM
Thank you for the great wishes, they are really appreciated.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Feeling butterflies Posted: 5/13/2006 10:02:44 PM
Yes, it has happened to me a time or two. It is amazing the feelings you can get, when you haven't even really met the other person.

sexy_grandma_looking

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For all the single mothers , My respect . Posted: 5/13/2006 9:57:53 PM
Thank you Jug, that is a very sweet thing to do a post like this. My girls are grown, but I have had a few years alone with them. To all the other moms, HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO YOU ALL!

sexy_grandma_looking

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happy mothers day Posted: 5/13/2006 9:48:48 PM
Thank you, even though my girls are grown I am still mom and still the one they turn to for advice and all. So hope I still qualify. lol

sexy_grandma_looking

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Blue, Brown, Green, ETC? Posted: 5/13/2006 4:13:34 PM
I don't have a preferance, yet i do tend to lean towards Blue or Green, my eyes are green most of the time, yet they do turn blue sometimes and a bit hazel once in a great while.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Domestic Violence-Were you a Victim Posted: 5/13/2006 1:51:12 PM
My late huband had a very violent temper, and he would go off at the drop of a hat for no apparent reason. He beat me repeatedly many times. I lived with this for almost 10 years, before I finally came to my senses and realized that my life did not have to be this way. I packed up all of my girls things and mine and left him with every thing else. We just simply disappeared. He was then served with a maximum restraining order and divorce papers. It was a shock to him when we first went to court. He actually did not remember a lot of the things he had done. When my lawyer and I started counting off the many things he had done, both him and his lawyer were speechless. We never did get a divorce though, I was very fortunate. He was so shocked that he decided right then to make the neccessary changes in order to get his family back. After a long period of time in which he proved to me that he had made these changes, we started seeing each other again and he courted me as he should have the first time. We finally got back together and had 10 wonderful years. I know that this is a rare thing to have happen. That is why I say that I was very lucky. I did tell him that if he ever raised his hand or fist to me again he had better kill me, because if he didn't I wouldn't just have him arrested- I would personally jack the jail up and put him under it! From that day on I have never felt fear again from another person and I refuse to do so. The main reason I even stayed in the first place is because I was foolish and afraid. We can all over come the problems developed from this type of thing and go on and live a normal life. It takes time and it takes determination on our part. Great job to all of you who have succeeded in this, and good luck to all of you who are beginning on this journey. I to am willing to help out in any way that I am able to. Please feel free to e-mail me if you wish to talk or ask questions or even just need a shoulder. Cheryl

sexy_grandma_looking

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He has been married 4 times.........a danger sign or what... Posted: 5/13/2006 6:11:05 AM
I just have one question: Does this guy live in Arkansas? He sounds a lot like a guy I have met on here and have even met in person.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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What makes a woman more of a woman Posted: 5/12/2006 8:10:22 AM
this is for mickey810, why go into a thread and then be a jerk? Just because you aren't attracted to us BBW's doesn't give you the right to attack us verbally in the threads. Next time just answer the question, and leave off the verbal mud slinging. I have a womanly shape even though I am BBW and have been told by many men that I have a wonderful shape. OT: I am a woman, but I believe that what makes a woman more of a woman,is the fact that she isn't out there trying to be one of the guys. She can dress the part and she can show her feminine side with out being fake. She is comfortable as herself and has confidence in herself as a woman.

sexy_grandma_looking

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What nationality [ethic background] are you? Posted: 5/9/2006 11:15:11 PM
I have never been asked this question, nor have I ever asked it. However sometimes the subject has come up in a convo and I am proud to say that I have: 1/8 black dutch, 1/4Irish, 1/8 french, 1/8 swedish, 1/4 cherokee, and 1/8 english. I have a temper to go with the mix, yet was taught to control it and never let it control me. I see no reason to be offended if a peson should ask the question. I have enjoyed many a convo about the mix and found that a lot of the people I have met have quite a mix as well.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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Your too nice Posted: 5/9/2006 3:15:20 PM
No wonder guys act funny when I tell them that I think they are nice. Seems like everyone believes that is a bad thing. To me when I tell a guy that he is nice it says that I like him and am interested in him. Guess I need to find another word to use instead of nice.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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Does the spring change your willingness ? Posted: 5/9/2006 11:45:38 AM
In reply to msg 37, if the manufacturers would make the nice looking clothing that is so cool and comfy for HOT weather, maybe we would wear looser clothing that isn't so tight, But when the tight clothing is all that can be found on the market, need I say more.

sexy_grandma_looking

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MOTHER'S DAY...........How will that day be for you? Posted: 5/9/2006 10:35:30 AM
My situation is similar, yet different. I will never be able to share this day with my Mom again, she passed away 6 years ago. I will be spending the day with my girls and some freinds as well as my grandsons. It is times like this that I truly miss my Mom. It doesn't matter what the betrayal was about,(yes, I realize that it hurts and possibly made you angry.) I believe you should try to heal the gap. You never know when she will be gone forever, and it will be to late then. JMO

sexy_grandma_looking

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How do you Date a Younger Man? Posted: 5/8/2006 4:33:47 AM
If you are that interested and attracted to him just tell him and see where it goes. I have actually dated some guys younger than myself. I felt like you do at first. My friends and my girls said that age shouldn't matter. They encouraged me to try it. I am not seriously dating anyone now, but it no longer bothers me about the age difference. If he is interested and so are you talk to him a little and see if you think it might work. Approach it the same way that you would with someone closer to your age.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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Dating more than one person!? Posted: 5/7/2006 7:54:55 PM
I believe that a lot of us date more than one person at a time, until we find a special someone. I am dating a few guys but am not sexual active with them all. I am looking to date and not looking for a LTR at this time. I am not anxious to get into another marriage or anything like that. I am very upfront about this in my profile and in my IM's. That way there is no room for hurt feelings or anything like that. We all know going in what to expect.

sexy_grandma_looking

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What is the most romantic thing your significant other could do for you? Posted: 5/3/2006 12:59:40 PM
well a weekend getaway, with all of the extras would be nice. extras: candle light, roses, scented bath, hot tub, massage and him, some wine with dinner in a little out of the way place.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Been asked out a few times but feel i cant offer anything! Posted: 4/27/2006 4:27:40 PM
I just wrote something last night and it would be great for you to read it. The main thing it says is: Life is to be lived not existed through. I have suffered many losses in the last 7 years and have realized that life can be snuffed out at a moments notice. You never know when this is going to happen. YOu need to do as I am and grab life by the horns. Get out there and enjoy the many things and people that are just waiting for you. No matter what this thing we call life throws at us, we need to pick ourselves up and go on. If you give up you are not living, if you pick yourself up dust the dirt off and go forward you will find joy,love,laughter, and so much more. Get up and be a man, go out and find the joys of life and start living again! sorry to come across so strongly, but I felt it needed to be said. It was said to me once upon a time, I am passing it on to you now. Good luck!

sexy_grandma_looking

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Where We First Met Posted: 4/27/2006 4:17:44 PM
That was beautiful! It touches my heart and my mind in so many ways. It also brings back a time for me with some precious memories. Thank you for sharing this.

sexy_grandma_looking

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!!!!! LET IT GO !!! Posted: 4/25/2006 5:44:28 AM
That was awesome! It really addresses a lot of different things that people have problems with in their lives. I t also reminds people that their is a God and he will be there for them. Please ignore any negative responses that you might get. Keep up the good work and continue to share your wonderful writing with others. Thank you for sharing this, it brightened up my morning.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Losing a loved one to death Posted: 4/16/2006 4:59:32 PM
If I can deal with the losses the lord has bestowed upon me in the last six and 1/2 years, I should be able to answer this question. Then again to each there own in the ways of dealing with loss and pain, All I can say is keep your chin up and pray for strength. I lost my mom in Dec.1999, my husband in Sept. 2002, my stepmom in Feb.2003 and my Dad in March 2004, I also lost several close cousins in this time. I surounded myself with friends and prayed my heart out for the strength to hang in there and contiue to live. I will pray for you, and if you ever just need someone to talk to contact me anytime.

sexy_grandma_looking

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for the ladies- (dep-povera) WARNINGS!!!! Posted: 4/13/2006 7:31:46 AM
I found out about this problem with my youngest daughter she took the shots for about 4 months and now she can not carry a baby to term because of the damage that has been done to her. I am glad that you started thi s thread, I wouldn't have thought of it myself. Ladies please beware if this. As was said always check things out before using.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Are good friends, only ever going to be friends Posted: 4/10/2006 9:08:55 AM
I am not sure that you can attempt this, but if you both are really good friends then, you should be able to sit down and just tell her how you feel. Make sure and explain that under no circumstances do you want to indanger your friendship, however you feel that you could develope very strong feelings for her and is she interested in giving it a go. If she says no again stress the fact that you do not want to lose her as a very dear friend. Just be honest and straight with her. If she is as good of a friend as you feel that she is, then she should be able to talk to you about it and appreciate your honesty. GOOD LUCK!!!

sexy_grandma_looking

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I am having a problem stopping this urge I have Posted: 4/9/2006 9:41:45 AM
HI there, I can relate with you very well, my late husband was in the Guards and he went overseas to the gulf war. He was gone for about 6 months. It was very rough on me in more ways than one. I missed him terribly and had a few urges myself. I just made myself get lost in a good book at night when all was quiet. I got very little sleep during this time and managed to exhaust myself daily in order to get any sleep. After my husband passed away 3 1/2 years ago, I started having the same problem, those urges again, I didn't go out much so I wasn't meeting any guys. I had a lot of problems dealing with these urges, I had tried a BOB when he was overseas and was not impressed. However they have come out with a lot of new stuff, and even though I was raised in a inviroment that did not agree with self gratification. I learned that it was the only way to handle my problems and not break the vows that I had made with my husband. I have learned to deal with certain methods of self satisfaction that work for me. You need to go out and explore the possabilities of these toys and find one that will work for you. Also does he not get leave of duty? If so then maybe you both could meet periodically and enjoy one another.

sexy_grandma_looking

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30+ advice needed Posted: 4/8/2006 1:56:24 PM
You need to find some activities that you both enjoy. Such as bowling, shooting pool, dancing etc. Plan your dates around these activities. Even just going out to eat and having a nice long quite conversation afterwards. Go on a picnic, or most anything that you both enjoy.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Generation X domestic skills Posted: 4/8/2006 1:16:13 PM
I have never had this problem. I love to cook and learned at a very early age. If we wanted to eat someone had to cook. My parents both worked all the time and my mom would lay some meat out to thaw and leave written directions on how to cook it. That is how I learned to cook. I have progressed greatly over the years and have worked in food service for about 30 years. Family and friends come over wanting me to cook for them a lot.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Tanning for men Posted: 4/8/2006 9:21:26 AM
I personaaly like a guy with a tan, I think that he looks more healthy and just more attractive. I like to get a good tan myself. I have always been very light complected and did not look healthy. In the last five years I have began to tan instead of burn. I like the look and it makes me feel better about myself. Just do what feel good to you and forget what everyone else says.

sexy_grandma_looking

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whats your Longest Relationship??? Posted: 4/6/2006 10:41:35 PM
20 years with my late husband, we had some wonderful years and had two beautiful daughters that are grown now.

sexy_grandma_looking

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massagge for fun Posted: 3/31/2006 1:33:36 PM
I have had non sexual massages many times, and the guys who gave them are terrific. I have a lot of tension in my neck and shoulders, they see this and go to work on them every time we see each other. They are platonic friends with no sexual interest at all. I really enjoy them, I have even gotten rid of migraines this way.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Does your weight affect your sex life?! Posted: 3/31/2006 7:56:57 AM
I am over weight and have beem for about 20 years. I have always had a weight problem. i am not extremely over weight just need to loose some. My sex life was very affected when I gained so much. My late husband always told me that I was beautiful anyways. He incouraged me to loose the weight due to health reasons and was very supportive. I no longer have a problem with the way I look. I feel very sexy and I know that there are men out there who would love to have sex with me. I am being appraoched constantly, I don't always go for it, but that is because I am not that promiscuis. I enjoy sex as much as the next person, and don't let my weight affect my sex life. I feel very sexy when I am with a guy that is interested in me. I know that I can please a man and get great enjoyment from the pleasure that we both experience.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Need Advice, Bigtime! (long) Posted: 3/31/2006 6:48:35 AM
Not sure this will help, but if she is role playing then she sounds like she isn't ready for a serious relationship. If you truly care so deeply for her, by all means go and meet her. If things don't work out you can always chalk it up to a nice vacation. It doesn't sound to me as if this relationship has the proper glue to hold it together. It is very unstable and there are a lot of negative feelings remaining in the air. In the end you are the one who has to make the final decision. I think during this 2 weeks you should sit down and really look deep into your heart and see what you find. Go somewhere to be completely alone and think it all through. Not sure that I helped any, but that is my thoughts on the matter.

sexy_grandma_looking

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can someone help me please Posted: 3/30/2006 6:31:24 AM
Hey girl, I can relate, when I was your age I was the same way. Now days I just jump in and say " here I am, like me or not your choice." MY dad always said that if they don't like what they see they can look the other way. You have to decide that you want to have a life and stop sitting on the side lines. Build up your self esteem, you are as good as anybody else out there. Never forget that!! Do some deep soul searching and decide just how you want to portray yourself to the world,(yourself as you truly are) not what you think they want to see.Don't let people run over you stand up and say hey I am human too. You have to look out for number one, nobody else is going to do it for you. I liked what was said about turning on the music and dance or what ever you enjoy.Life is to be lived, not endured. GOOD LUCK!! and hope that you succeed in all that you try to do.(you can if you want to.)

sexy_grandma_looking

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Shaving Private...? Posted: 3/27/2006 5:07:25 PM
something else you might try is to use a wahl beard trimmer and trim it down, then shave like you normally would any other area. This is the method that I use and have had very few problems. I have very sensitive skin and razorburn easily. Something else you can do, is after shaving apply a hair conditioner to the area. This works like a skin softening creme and helps a lot.

sexy_grandma_looking

Joined: 3/13/2006

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Strange dating fetishes? Posted: 3/26/2006 1:47:25 PM
A deep bass voice.(mmmmmmmmmmmmm) singing this really sexy love song. ya gotta love that girls

sexy_grandma_looking

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Whats wrong with... Posted: 3/25/2006 9:25:01 AM
I'M allergic!!!!

sexy_grandma_looking

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Need some advise - I've been cheated on Posted: 3/24/2006 12:17:43 PM
JUdgie. don't ever stay together for the child. My parents did this and me and my brother new it, we had issues over it. I always felt guilty because they stayed together when they would have been a lot more happy apart. Your child doesn't need to feel these emotions. Gather all the info you can on her and take it to court. Never give up on the child. Just the woman.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 3/24/2006 8:45:01 AM
Hello to all, I am from Rogers, AR. I would like to make some friends here. I am 42 years young and have raised two daughters, I now have several grandsons that keep me hopping.

sexy_grandma_looking

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Real women Posted: 3/24/2006 8:34:12 AM
Yes, I would have to say that there are some real women out here! Just that most of us who don't play games are older and more mature than your age group.

sexy_grandma_looking

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....how many of u came during foreplay only? Posted: 3/23/2006 8:01:11 PM
oh, does it have to be only during foreplay? I have a tendency to cum during forplay as well as penitration. That is if the guy is very skilled in the game.

sexy_grandma_looking

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does it matter what you drive Posted: 3/23/2006 5:37:57 PM
What you drive should not matter. As long as you have transportation that gets you from point "a" to point "b", that should be enough. I have had brand new vehicles and have also had old clunkers. They had four wheels and got me where I needed to go and back home. That is there purpose. Nothing more and nothing less. The old clunkers were just as dependable as the new ones, if not more so.

sexy_grandma_looking

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I NEED ADVICE PLEASE HELP Posted: 3/23/2006 7:10:09 AM
I know where you are coming from here. It can be a hard decision to make. but just about everyone in here has the right Idea. Don't make the same mistake twice. I have a friend that was in the same position as you are in. He let her come back and even remarried her. She is now making his life a living h*ll. She doesn't want to be with him, (she told him this),but she doesn't want him to have a life either. They have three children, she doesn't even consider what her actions are doing to them. He is very worried about them as well as himself. He just wants her out of his life!

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