But not too long ago, there was an ad or a cover shot of a model who had, apparently, gained some weight, like two and a half ounces or something. Consequently, she looked really great ... and consequently, the wacky folks on Madison Avenue decided to digitally make her skinnier.

I just sneak upon em when they are least expecting it.... BAM.... hit em up side the head, and then drag them off to my woman cave. Much easier, and less work.

If you get over that crap you may very well find a great woman to help you get off the dry spell!

It’s my understanding porn could be a problem for men, who are compelled to masturbate while watching. So perhaps the question should be, “Is porn ruining our vision?”. lol

I'm going to say sorry for generalising but in my experience men dream of a woman that is sexualy liberated. Once they get one and a relationship develops the paranoia and accusations set in and they start to think that the woman will sleep with anyone.

btw- "bundling" is the new "packaging", HG. That platinum look is no excuse for sliding down the back side of the wave. Keep up!!

Giving ourselves up to allow others to lean on us, and allowing others to help us are two of the greatest gifts we can give. Always important to maintain a sense of one's self. I'm looking for the ultimate, a partnership where we are equally dependent and independent.

That was one of the hardest parts of being a parent for me, accepting my kids as sexual beings.

Sheesh, angst over sex, just doesn’t seem right...

I just find a woman I hate every seven years and buy her a house.

LMAO!! Yeah, at some point, the "stupid" moves from the behavior to its perpetrator, and then you need air. And space. Like Ron White keeps sayin', it "cain't" be fixed

Good "sex" isn't all that hard to find. It's a matter of physical compatibility mechanics and sometimes agility.

In a LTR I want intimacy, which ime is much harder to achieve. The combination of an exciting, mutually gratifying sexual relationship, combined with the intimacy shared by lovers who are best friends, is the winning ticket.

The truth comes out, we all know how horrible attorneys and Car Salesman are to have created a myth of someone not to be trusted; are prostitutes and strippers any more ethical than lawyers?

bathroom stall in CBGB's ..no door's, New Years Eve 1995, people walking in and out.

I think when a woman is on top some men feel intimidated

I think when a man goes soft while on top it is all psychological (with him)!

Aren't we the generation that had the slogan: Make Love, Not War?

I have never used "physical intimacy" as a bartering tool ...even if it is one of my many talented "resources"

Nothing teaches more effectively than actually "walking a mile in the shoes of another".

just wait until the police come, let them tell her

Personally, I like to think we are better than that, although most of the tidbits of knowledge I glean from these pages leads me to differing conclusions.

However, I do believe in society there is a"taboo" about a straight man that admits he's into anal sex.

How do you tell your lover they`re too loud in bed?

Our relationship lasted fifteen years, it was effortless, at least it seemed that way.
Optimistically I hope I can find someone special again!

I'm actually disappointed when I see how "elderly" much of my generation has become.

When I suggested a 4 mile hike he was horrified. His idea of enjoying nature was driving to a scenic spot, looking and driving home!

Stodgy isn't limited to men. I have women friends who are just content to be grandmas, and act accordingly. They rarely take risk, have become complacent some have lost their sense of humor.

..Yes, there are a few of us around who are not into the bar scene and not ready for the retirement home (although I am preparing for that if I don't meet anyone soon)