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 Author Thread: Problems with the Past
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Problems with the Past
Posted: 11/19/2009 9:34:45 PM
New developement.

I contacted the Catholic Children's Aid Society of Toronto, regarding the abuses I underwent in their care. They emailed me back wanting to meet with me on the matter.
I told them I wasn't meeting with them, unless I had a lawyer. Well I found a lawyer and she's apparently a real good one, who specializes in historical sex assault cases and litigation of Children's Aid Societies. She was one of the Lawyers who handled the Toronto Maple Leafs Usher sex abuse scandal. Anyways she's going to call me Monday morning to discuss my case. I may finally get closure on this and hopefully come out of this with a large settlement.

Keeping my fingers crossed.

 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 93 (view)
 
H1N1 has mutated. We're screwed now!
Posted: 11/15/2009 6:13:04 AM
Well I have the flu, my chest feels congested, my back's sore and my head feel's a little funny and I have a dry cough. Other than that, it isn't really knocking me down much.

Over 20 years since I've had the flu, knock on wood.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 70 (view)
 
She said she dosen't need men for sex, because she has her toys
Posted: 11/10/2009 7:37:44 AM
I've met a few "ladies" who were off the cuff with strange comments and some with even stranger motives. My last GF was a real nutter.

I keep meeting the wrong women and not from a dating site either.

Maybe it's time I bought an inflatable sex doll !!!!

 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 92 (view)
 
H1N1 has mutated. We're screwed now!
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:59:29 PM
It's the flu, big deal, I haven't caught the flu since I was 11, or 12 years old, I'm 42 now.

I've never taken the flu shot, and I'm not taking it now.

Why, because I've never needed it and I'm not about to run in a panic to get the shot.

It's all government paranoia, the pharamcutical companies making billions and the press jumping right on the rhetoric bandwagon of govenment propaganda and misinformation.

It's funny to watch how the Canadian Government dropped the ball big time on this one. At least we didn't cause a panic by declaring a national emergency.

It's the flu for God's sake, not an airborne Ebola virus !
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Why women have more sexual prospects..
Posted: 11/2/2009 8:59:58 AM
So ladies, I'm single, I can cook, clean, do repairs, take care of ya when your sick, massage you when you're sore, laugh at your jokes, defend your honor and protect you.
I'll also kill myself trying to satisfy you in bed.


Question is, what do I get in return?

I made a move fishies, who's gonna bite ?
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Why women have more sexual prospects..
Posted: 11/1/2009 6:05:30 PM
Maybe the OP would get laid more if he started going out with pre-op man to woman transexual.

He might get laid more often, although his partner would have to come in the back door !

lol
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
HALLOWEEN HOWL October 31st~Eton House Tavern~Toronto 8pm
Posted: 10/24/2009 7:23:12 AM
Wow, lotsa peeps signed up, should be a blast. Already have my costume.

The costume includes a whip ! Just for the bad girls !!!!!! lol
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Problems with the Past
Posted: 10/22/2009 3:45:04 AM
^^^^^ Ignore that guys post.
You know what he's all about.

Trolling for trouble, that boy is !!!

 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Problems with the Past
Posted: 10/21/2009 10:33:14 PM
I haven't been out here much lately, been keeping pretty much to myself.
But I thought I'd post something, as I've posted here on this before.
I'm dealing with the last of the garbage left in my soul, from my past !

About a month ago I sent an email letter to the Catholic Children's Aid Society of Toronto about what I went through; while in group homes and foster homes administered by them. I didn't expect a reply, but I got one and they want to meet with me, to discuss the matter of the abuses I went through in their care. I have to admit that I'm treading through dangerous ground and I'm scared that all my anger, rage and hate will come out in an uncontrolled fashion. I'm scared to think of what I may be capable of if they aren't careful. I know I don't want to go to this meeting alone, but I don't know just yet who to trust. I sure do wish I could afford a lawyer to bring with me, but being on ODSP I can't afford one. I might ask a cop buddy of mine to go with me. Anyways I'm hoping for closure with this, some acknowledgment that they dropped the ball, maybe some restitution and an apology, but I'm not going to count on it. Anyways I can't write anymore here, starting to cry !
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 104 (view)
 
Men? We Like It Gentle
Posted: 10/19/2009 10:57:58 AM
I can go either way. I usually tend to do my thing gently. But if you're saying hurt me, you can bet the next morning somethings gonna be sore and it isn't going to be me baby.

Now I know why me ex, wouldn't let me go down on her like I like to do !!
Nothing I like better !!!!
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 233 (view)
 
Why aRe MORE Black Women Against Interracial RELATIONSHIPS?
Posted: 10/19/2009 10:37:02 AM
I've not been in a relationship with black woman, but have slept with 2 in my lifetime.

The second black woman, well I went to school with her sister, so one night I wound up going home with her. She was arguably the most attractive, sexy and alluring woman I'd been with before or since. If I had the chance, I'd go for a relationship with her.

Summing up, I think Black women are more attentive to the men they're with, than most of the white women I've either had relationships with, or slept with.

I'd date a sexy, Black woman over a white woman, any day of the week !!!!
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Do you believe in psychics and the paranormal, if so, why?
Posted: 10/19/2009 10:22:51 AM
I don't believe in psychics....

I do however believe in the Paranormal, I've seen 3 UFO's in the course of my lifetime.

The first one made the hair on the back of my neck, stand straight up. That was in the Early 1990's. Last year I saw and reported two ufo's.

I also used to be a UFO investigator for Durham Region.

Other things that have happened. Waking up suddenly, after physically feeling the wind rush at my back, it's happened more than once. Possible OBE, maybe, but I couldn't say for sure.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 25 (view)
 
HALLOWEEN HOWL October 31st~Eton House Tavern~Toronto 8pm
Posted: 10/19/2009 7:01:47 AM
If you guys are telling these lame jokes at the Party.

I'm going to show up as the Invisible Man !

 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 44 (view)
 
was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/6/2009 6:48:34 AM
Absolutely, considering I lost my job and had a breakdown because of my X. The games she played pulled me apart. Anyways several months after telling her to get lost, she tried to start an arguement on the street with me, near where she works at a Methadone clinic in Oshawa. I told her to leave me alone and went right to the Police, they marched into her work and spoke to her, telling her to leave me alone. I also found out the guy she was with after me dumped her as well !! Well this past Aug. she shows up at my bar, telling people she's looking for someone to take care of her, I look over and pipe up, " Good F-ing luck with that" ! Then I told her to take a hike, because I knew she was planning on getting me back! Now she's on PoF looking for victim # 3 !!

Very, very toxic woman ! I laughed about her when I saw her out here !!!!

Sorry guys can't tell you who she is !

But yep, I smile now when I see her these days, knowing what a big time looser she is !!!!
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
New Cell Phone /PDA's/GPS Laws!
Posted: 10/6/2009 6:03:41 AM
Well, I don't have a licence, let alone a vehicle, why, I have no desire to immurse myself into an area of society, where people think it's optional to be considerate, don't use turn signals, are overly aggressive and sometimes downright dangerous behind the wheel.

As a pedestrian, I applaude the law, why, because I can't count the number of times some idiot, (Sorry Ladies) usually a thoughtless woman, has almost ran me over, turning the corner, yaking on a cellphone. I'm still expecting to get hit by some idiot driver talking on the cell phone. That driver will be funding my retirement planning, when I sue him/her ! So anyway I applaud the law from a public safety point of view.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Problems with the Past
Posted: 10/5/2009 4:50:27 PM
Addendum:

I happen to have the ear of my Landlords wife, who's a Social Worker with Toronto Police Services, Victim Services unit and mentioned this post to her. She's is aware of my history and the troubles with my family as well. She and I both feel that the forums aren't the place to be discussing sensitive personal issues that deal with morality in this regard. She also recommends highly that you get counselling for this !!!!!
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Problems with the Past
Posted: 10/5/2009 3:33:03 PM
I’m just wondering. My relationships generally seem to start out okay. I hit it off with someone we talk go out on some dates. Then when you get to the part in the relationship were you start to talk about your past, your childhood and stuff like that guys seem to flack out on me, they stop calling and avoid me. I’ve got some pretty dark shit in my past, I was sexually abuse but its not like I’m bringing it up on the second date, I’m a month or two in the relationship before I even hint to any of it. Is a month, two months still too soon to bring up that kind of stuff.
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OP

I have never discussed this on the forums and only a very few close friends know about this. But you and I share similar experiences from the past, so for 1 I empathize with you. It's a hard past to deal with, BUT ultimately YOU are the one who has to make peace with it, you can let it run your life, or you can get counselling to deal with it and eventually put it where it shopuld be, in the past.

Two while it's very brave of you to point it out and speak about it, putting that out here was not a good decision on your part. I rarely speak about it and I certianly wouldn't have posted that fact out here in the forums.

Three, it takes time for people to build trust in a relationship, you I feel are revealing deep issues that should not be discussed until you're deep into a committed relationship, something like a year, or even two.

Four, you need to be consulting a professional regarding how, when, where and to whom you bring this up with.

I really feel for you and wish you the best, keep your chin up, be proud of who you are and don't hang on to the past !!!

Cheers
Paul
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Do I have grounds to hate my dad's wife?
Posted: 10/5/2009 3:13:37 PM
If someone did a background check on me, over a relationship issue, I'd go ballistic too ! OP I'm surprised your Dad didn't kick your azz and tell you to hit the road.
As for the relationship your Dad has with this new women. I'll put it to you bluntly, it's none of your fvcking business. Just shows the level of respect you have for him.

Bet you AREN'T in his will now !!!

 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Met a woman and I would like to know how much about me....
Posted: 10/4/2009 1:33:33 PM
That comment is part of the mindset of a sick society that needs to put you in one slot or another - you're either "disabled" or you're "abled" - no in-between.

Deerclan, probably knows this, but I'm sure most people don't.

It is incredibly taxing on your sense of self worth when you reveal that you are on a disability and the reason why, a lot of people judge you on it. They think that you're less of a human being , for being on it, it's a huge stereotype, people look down on you if they don't know you ! It is one of the reasons why I do eventually, in the near future want off of disability. Let me assure you kind people that it's not gonna be easy, nothing good ever is !!!!!!

Edit: I've eaten a lot of negative and toxic crap most of my life, I've paid my dues and then some, well I got tired of it, tired of reacting to it, so all the negatives in my life are all on their way out and I'm doing it quietly, without posturing and without anger anymore ! I want peace and harmony in my life.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
start as friends then more....
Posted: 10/4/2009 10:22:34 AM
Off Topic.

^^^ Geeze Savona:

I love it when you talk dirty ! Makes me blush !

How are ya sweetie ?
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Met a woman and I would like to know how much about me....
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:58:49 AM
The relationship with my mother was very negative/toxic. I've cut off all contact with her. I am however close with my Stepdad. Anyways the issue with me, ties into ethics and morals, as I believe in being honest and truthful and not having a lot of experience in the dating scene, is how much of myself should I be up front with right off the bat ?

Edit: I had to change my phone number, as my mother kept calling with BS drama, I wasn't answering her calls, but she wasn't getting the hint, to back off, so I changed my phone number. I had meant to give it to the lady I like, but didn't have it on me. I emailed her a nice short note with my number this morning.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
HALLOWEEN HOWL October 31st~Eton House Tavern~Toronto 8pm
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:41:10 AM
You just might meet that special someone that will bewitch you and put you under their spell!! oooooooo


Hope she's better than a witch casting some spell. She'd have to be a Jedi Knight and real skilled at using the Jedi mind trick !

 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Im at a loss of female mentality here any ideas?
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:26:40 AM
Sounds like the problem is with the women you're connecting with. They probably still party at bars, are materialistic and probably think there're too good for anyone. Maybe you might try dating someone who's a little older than you, has her head scewed on right and who will appreciate you, not your job, money, or car.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Met a woman and I would like to know how much about me....
Posted: 10/4/2009 8:42:24 AM
Well as to why I'm on a pension is I don't have a good track record dealing with stress, until recently. That'll be changing soon, just taking care of some personal details and I'll be returning to work, as a painter.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Met a woman and I would like to know how much about me....
Posted: 10/4/2009 8:26:11 AM
I met a woman yesterday while out shopping and I've spoken to her before, but yesterday was different. Her and I exchanged emails and Facebook contact details.
She's 38, gives me good vibes and has an awesome smile. She lives in the same town as me. So anyways my question to you all is......
How much of my personal details should I disclosing right off the bat. I'm on a disability pension, but work for myself part-time to earn extra cash. This is not a comfortable thing for me to talk about and I'm wondering if it'll be a dealbreaker. There are other complications that factor in as well, I'm not close with my family, especially my mother. So how can I bring these up with her without it seeming negative, or a major problem, which for me they aren't, but may be for her ?
I'm excited about this, but as apprehensive as hell too !!!!
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 25 (view)
 
start as friends then more....
Posted: 10/3/2009 1:38:23 PM
Jeeeezus, I quit the bars because of the level of backstabbing, wife swapping, 40 year old adolescent drama BS. And I'm finding the same thing here !

Do people not have a F---king clue, as to what's good for them ?

Sweetheart, go back to high school, that's about the level I'm having to look at with idotic topics like this !

Have some respect for yourself and drop the looser !
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
start as friends then more....
Posted: 10/3/2009 6:56:11 AM
Well I know about me and I'd be running from this situation. You're on the road to some major, drive me to my knees in tears disaster. Been there done that and it just sucks, because it feels like someone's sucking the heart out of you with a straw !
Run before you become a case study for some psychologist.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Halloween Downtown Toronto Bash CANCELATION
Posted: 10/3/2009 5:56:53 AM
You could always sign up for one of the other 2 Holloween events that'll be happening
in T.O. So all is not lost.





Cheers
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 290 (view)
 
WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY????????
Posted: 10/2/2009 9:33:52 PM
I've been with younger women and older women. At 42 I'm certianly not gonna sleep with anyone younger than 3o, I preferr women older than me !!!! Young women just play too many games, are too materialistic and generally don't want commitment. Commitment and the promise of a LTR are requirements for me to sleep with a woman to start with. There's not a single woman under 30 who could interest me here !!!!

We're sexy to most of you young women, because we're experienced, we've developed a sense of humour and we don't thrive on BS.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 329 (view)
 
Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:19:30 AM
I have dated both younger and older women, each has their merits, but I find that women who are older are less inclined to create drama. I also find that older women have a better sense of humour, don't get jealous easily and generally more fun to be with. Older women make great lovers, it would seem that they appreciate what their partners do for them intimately. The sole exception being my ex-girlfriend, who at 55, created more drama for me than anyone I was ever with period. I stayed angry at her for a long time, now when I see her I just laugh her off. Anyways I feel that older women are more inclined to appreciate a man who doesn't mind doing romantic things for them.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 181 (view)
 
What do you do when your EX-GF callls after 14 months?
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:43:46 PM
My Ex, ya know the fruitcake I mentioned a few posts back, is on PoF. She just showed up today on here.

Next thing you know she'll be contacting me, or showing up at the PoF holloween Party I'm going to.

That would be just swell.


 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 143 (view)
 
Are you afraid of love?
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:01:16 PM
Am I afraid of love ?

No.

What I'm afraid of are some of the things done in the name of love !

Most of my life experience with love has involved tears, confusion, conflict, lying, falling to my knees, begging God for comfort. Very little of it was of the tender, sensual,understanding, playful, affectionate, or passionate kind. The latter is something I still look for to this day !
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 202 (view)
 
How much money does a man need to make to keep you interested in him?
Posted: 10/1/2009 10:54:29 AM
Thought I'd chime in here.

I'm on Ontario Disability Support Program, so my income is fixed. I do manage to get just enough work on the side for extra's.

My friends don't judge me, because of this however. I'm well know and liked where I live. Many of my friends include women.

I have a small, but cosy 1 bedroom apartment, my bills and debts are covered and I'm eating good.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 125 (view)
 
Dating a Gemini
Posted: 10/1/2009 10:12:52 AM
I'd love to date a Gemini, then we could (all 4 of us) enjoy a polygamous relationship !


LMAO

 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 120 (view)
 
Dating a Gemini
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:52:49 AM
^^^^^ Well maybe us Gemini's wouldn't be Fvktards, if non Gemini's would quit giving us excuses to bring out the darkside. I'd rather be making love, than making war.

But as a Gemini, if you do something stupid and get me yelling at you, well you shouldn't have hurt me then !

Nuff said !
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 321 (view)
 
Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:40:38 AM
I'm not intimidated by a sexy older woman.

Grey hair ? If it's attached to a great smile = Hot.
Ample butt ? Love that, something to hold while I'm being bold.
Big Breasts? Yummie
Knowledge? Nothing beats an older women, when the deal's being closed.


I like older women, always have, always will, they have quality, a well developed sense of humour, are easy to talk to most of the time and are just damm great in bed !
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 236 (view)
 
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:08:58 AM
I'm 42 years, I have lots of young ladies, who are good friends nothing more.

Why ????

Because I happen to like and preferr older women, or women if younger, closer to my age. My last GF was 55 and I was 39 when so picked me up. So if any older, but definately sexier women out here happen to see me, I'm available for you !


Cheers
Paul
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
HALLOWEEN HOWL October 31st~Eton House Tavern~Toronto 8pm
Posted: 9/30/2009 9:43:16 PM
Singing Lady I know what you mean by warm. One year I dressed up as a flasher, Red men's bikini's and a trench coat and bare feet when it's sleeting outside isn't that warm !
The ladies at the bar had a hoot though.

Sorry not what I had in mind for this year !




 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 263 (view)
 
Strong opinions on pot smoking here and abouts; why?
Posted: 9/30/2009 9:19:34 PM
I'm 42 years old and have smoked pot since I was 16. I've pretty much smoked it since then, expect on 2 occassions. The first was when I was in the Army, the second was when I was with St.John Ambulance. Here's the sum of my experiences....

1. I found it works better than enzite and puts Smilin Bob to shame.
2. I'm not stupid, I've beaten University Majors in History with debating, some of these people spend 5 years majoring in history.
3. I've never done meth, acid, crack,E, or any other drug, so it doesn't lead to harder drug use.
4. I've never been violent when smoking it.
5. I have never used pot fot medicinal purposes !
6. I have 2 friends that are cops who know I smoke pot.
7. Smoking pot doesn't lower your morals, or ethics.

K.

Thanks for coming out !
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 1610 (view)
 
Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/30/2009 3:43:24 AM
Good morning people, I'm declaring this be nice to women day, approach her first, be nice and at the end of the night, she may take you home to hold your ballz !

Seriously Good Morning everyone !

Cheers
Paul

 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 111 (view)
 
open/dating/polyamory relationships
Posted: 9/29/2009 5:59:37 PM
If you need to ask.....maybe you're too dumb to date.
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Sorry for the off topic question, but...........
Was that really called for ?

Just when I'm beggining to enjoy seeing a forum post without seeing this ! People, exercising poor judgement and lack of vision, make a smart ass comment !

Cheers
Paul
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 1598 (view)
 
Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 5:09:27 PM
Savona:

Hold on while I go get my camcorder, shall I pose for ya too ? Take one, Paul's Balls' !



Who in the hell brought this up anyway ?
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 1595 (view)
 
Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 5:02:26 PM
Men have no hips.

aaamm, sorry yes we do have hips, just not as pronounced as women's !

Otherwise a nice lady, who's sister I worked with, wouldn't have told her that I have hip action ! lol

True Story too.

Cheers

Oh nevermind.

 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 1534 (view)
 
Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:52:14 AM
Gawd don't get me started !

I'll need stitches !

 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Dating a Gemini
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:25:56 AM
Ok well, I really don't know what else I, or anybody else out here can do for you.

Ultimately it's up to you and your level of comfort and security in the relationship.

If these are once in a blue moon events and the rest go's well, then it's a small price to pay, if you're both happy together, the rest is just details.

Good luck.

Paul
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 1529 (view)
 
Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:07:26 AM
Check under the skirt ! It's funny in a way, why because when I was younger a TS actually tried to pick me up ! Luckily I noticed the obviously male throat, so I avoided being traumatized that night !


 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Dating a Gemini
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:01:26 AM
^^^^ have you discussed, or made an attempt to discuss this with him ?
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 101 (view)
 
open/dating/polyamory relationships
Posted: 9/29/2009 8:33:44 AM
I do what works for me personally. I'm old skool when it comes to dating/relationships.
I don't have the inclination to be intimate with more than one woman, nor do I have the energy. It's a job in and of itself to keep a woman happy, satisfied and feel secure to begin with ! But the rewards are well worth it in the end.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 1521 (view)
 
Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 8:03:05 AM
One thing I do in bars is watch and listen, some people misinterprit this as me having a superiority complex, which is incorrect. I choose to socialize with people I would feel comfortable with and that includes women. I don't want to approach the biker chick, who's drunk, loud and wants to arm wrestle every man for a buck and a beer ! I will approach the woman who, carries herself well, is thoughtful, gracious, whitty, doesn't drink like a fish, or dance like a pogo stick and thanks you with a smile when you buy her a drink, or a rose. That is a woman I will approach. She doesn't have to be the prettiest woman there, nor have a model type body either, I actually preferr women who have a little more flesh on them. Skinny women I have dated, make me bruise to easy ! lol
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 1514 (view)
 
Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 7:14:24 AM
^^^^^ Well posted, not a buch a bashing bull, which had peod me yesterday.

You posted your views, explained a little bit WITHOUT the venom and actually earned a little respect from me this morning. Please next time try to be a little more thoughtful next time you post, men have feelings too.

Have a great day Savona.

Cheerz
Paul
 
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