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james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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going on meet up`s Posted: 11/26/2009 6:54:57 AM
That's true. It's like a job interview and They sometimes ask you the same question over and over. I Dont what chemistry they're looking for.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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What went wrong Posted: 11/23/2009 11:31:52 AM
Women do that too. That happened to me before. Usually i dont ask or question myself about what happened i just move on. Remember online is not the same as real life. Just move on.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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Is it worthwhile to date here? Posted: 11/18/2009 6:07:33 PM
women online are looking for Mr Perfec. Thats why you always he's nice bu no chemistry. If i was you I will go over the real life.

james_ny

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just to gather opinions,would you date a guy who said this? Posted: 11/17/2009 6:29:28 PM
Sleep with him, have a relationship with him, expend emotions on him, care about him, hold him in high esteem, trust him or become involved with him in any meaningful way? I think women are you looking for honesty. So you prefer someone is lying about his real agenda and getting hurt later?

james_ny

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girl i`m seeing-need help in figuring things out Posted: 11/17/2009 2:41:17 AM
you might wasting your time, because most of time young women who are here to study are just looking for fun not relationship.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/16/2009 11:17:29 AM
All this means is that she had a nice time but there were no romantic sparks for her. can you give me an example?

james_ny

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The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/16/2009 11:04:53 AM
women always think they're the one who are always not interested when they go on date. They always call or texting first after a date to let you know if they like you or not. The case is men sometimes are not insterested too, By calling or texting first doesn't mean anything.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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Good things about Bad Dates ... Posted: 11/14/2009 5:15:10 PM
The problem Is they're looking for perfection and they person who's looking for that she' s not perfect at all. Sometimes it seems like you're passing an exam.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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Playing the Posted: 11/12/2009 5:00:21 AM
Sometimes It works Because Some women are you looking for chemistry based on your words. Being Fake is good sometimes.

james_ny

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She doesn't know about his other dating profile Posted: 11/10/2009 7:34:07 PM
but now I think he's being unfair to his girlfriend. Since he's obviously sneaking around on her and keeping me a secret from her It seems thats not the case here, You more concerned than his girlfriend. He's not interested in you.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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How much contact is too much? Posted: 11/7/2009 10:22:30 AM
It has to be both way. Dont do all the calling or texting . you might sometimes look desperate even do she seems interested.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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women who say i'm really busy or i have a finite amount of time... Posted: 11/6/2009 2:41:35 PM
people of both sexes make excuses because sometimes its too hard to tell someone honestly that you aren't interested in them Good point!

james_ny

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Creepy Posted: 11/6/2009 9:59:00 AM
women do that do. So it doesn't really matter

james_ny

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women who say i'm really busy or i have a finite amount of time... Posted: 11/6/2009 9:38:34 AM
Women on this site are full of excuses 1- Do you wanna my # sure. : But they never called and you saw them online everyday 2- Im Busy: but always online talking. 3- I met One person but he wasn't my type: she dated him, invited him to her place etc.. but she 's trying to come clean to the next online man 4-I want to get to know you first: But she always into texting, doesn't wanna talk over the phone. 5- He's nice guy but no chemistry: They're looking for Mr Perfect.

james_ny

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What's the point? Posted: 11/3/2009 4:03:03 PM
men are more focusing on looks, women always looking for something else i mean if they're looking for something serious. Thats why it looks like you're passing an exam when you go out in date with a women.

james_ny

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Gold Diggers, or someone of that ilk Posted: 11/3/2009 6:34:57 AM
Usually, They more focusing on your job, the kind of car you 're driving. How your house look like They always want you to pay for everything: dinner, shopping, travel They want to get married if they see you're very rich. Some men dont care specially older men if they're very rich.

james_ny

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Good on Paper..... Posted: 10/29/2009 1:33:38 PM
A few are, sure. Most just want to be attracted to the guy and enjoy getting to know him. How come he's nice but no chemistry? definite chemistry for me in that situation?

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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Good on Paper..... Posted: 10/29/2009 10:53:20 AM
But don't waste the gentlemans time and go sissy sister on him if he is not perfect: Good Point. you always Hear that Anthem" He's a nice guy but no "chemistry" Guess what they're looking for mr.perfect

james_ny

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Does exactly what it says on the tin? hmmm doubtful! Posted: 10/29/2009 10:38:55 AM
So men, please be honest about what you want from the start, you might just get it! (whatever IT is....) well women do it too. They should be honest dont meet up kiss, have sex, and come up later with no Chemistry as an excuse.

james_ny

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Good on Paper..... Posted: 10/29/2009 9:34:40 AM
If there is no chemistry, there in nothing you can do...no matter how good they look on paper. Is is an exam because it seems chemistry is based on what you're telling the other person.

james_ny

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Asking for a close up picture Posted: 10/29/2009 7:25:31 AM
women do it that specially if they're a big mama. they always back up when ask about a full body shot. you cannot go further with no physical attraction.

james_ny

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Did I do the right thing in telling... Posted: 10/28/2009 6:59:22 AM
women do that too. I was talking to my friend about this site and he told me he start talking to this girl on here, he showed me her pic i told him that i met her before and even go to her place twice etc.. . while talking back n forth my friend asked if she met anyone from this site she said yes but he wasn't his type. and she lied about bringing me to her place kissing me etc.. i can say she wasn't my type because i was the one who backed up from her.

james_ny

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Is different taste in music enough for you to kill the second date? Posted: 10/26/2009 4:35:24 PM
if she's is really looking for something serious or really into you, she wont care about that. when you meet someone in real life she doesn't really pay too much attention but if she's from a dating website you always has to be careful with what kind of sports or music you're into in fear of being rejected thats a B.S.

james_ny

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you just know Posted: 10/26/2009 1:50:35 PM
The same way when they 're looking for chemistry But sometimes the chemistry is fake because you're telling her what she wants to hear and in her mind she thinks she find the right one. Thats why when you're dating someone just enjoy the moment dont make any future plan you wont get hurt.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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Is this a date or a job interview? Posted: 10/25/2009 4:25:17 PM
It doesnt matter what you do.. women are always going to say " I dont even know you" "VERY TRUE" they're looking for Mr Perfect.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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Is this a date or a job interview? Posted: 10/25/2009 3:36:42 PM
The funny part you can lie about everything!

james_ny

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How was I so stupid??? Posted: 10/21/2009 6:43:59 AM
some women are looking for compatibility or chemistry. why complaining on here now?

james_ny

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What happen? Posted: 10/20/2009 3:21:21 PM
when you go on date specially with people you meet from a dating site she always expect you to like her but she always think she has the chemistry control like she has the yes or no answer after the date. Learn it today never called after the first date. Just let it go. Some people are fake they wont tell you anything. So move on man she's not into you.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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why waste your time with excuses? Posted: 10/18/2009 7:31:06 AM
it's a pure lotto game. keep playing guys.

james_ny

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Independence Posted: 10/13/2009 10:43:41 AM
But do you contribute, as an adult? Or do you live in the basement, play videogames all day, and have your parents do your laundry, cooking, chores around the house, etc.? Why is not a problem for woman to stay at her parents for some reason, because she lose her job or she moved back because of break up or divorced i heard that many times. why is different for a man even do he wont ask you to support him.

james_ny

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Independence Posted: 10/13/2009 10:19:04 AM
The problem is men they sometimes dont care if the women live with her parents or have to move back for some reasons. But some women wont date you because you still live at your parent's even do you're working and you wont ask them any form of support.

james_ny

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Am I being Paranoid Posted: 10/11/2009 7:38:56 PM
well at first they were compatible and now they start complaining .

james_ny

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Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after. Posted: 10/11/2009 6:38:13 PM
That happened to me before But i did not call or txt her, i just let it go. I talked to a girl on here we moved on to the phone and guess what happened "Phone Sex" next day she saw me online no hello nothing. Next I met another woman on here we meet in person went to her place twice , had sex no call no txt But i did not care. Remember most people online have a hidden agenda.

james_ny

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Broken Up With For The Strangest Reasons Posted: 10/9/2009 2:59:38 PM
when a woman doesn't want you anymore she'll find any kind of excuse to move on. You should expect that, the beginning always good, we're compatible, we have good chemisrtry etc.. those things are not for long so you should enjoy the moment not the future. Move on and dont ask why.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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implication of lack of interest? Posted: 10/9/2009 7:53:08 AM
do MEN look at it as a lack of interest if women back off? well for me when a woman is interested she'll make it clear. She'll txt, call, and be willing to meet in person. Usually i call or txt once if she doesn't respond after two days i will delete her #.

james_ny

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I never go for looks, should i? Posted: 10/8/2009 2:47:27 PM
if i was you i will go for look first. Because on here if they dont like your pics mean your looks they wont give you any chance.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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Dating outside of one's race Posted: 10/8/2009 10:55:54 AM
most women on here dont date certain races but they dont write on their profile. For example i wrote to some women on here in the past they wrote me back and even met me in person. my friend who's also on here wrote to the same women they read deleted or even block him. When he insisted they wrote back saying sorry im not attracted to your race. But sometimes it's about the area or states but when He write to some women from different states or countries they answer back and willing to meet.

james_ny

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Misrepresenting Posted: 10/7/2009 11:17:04 AM
they always said he's doesn't look like his pics but girls do you like exactly your pictures because if i meet a woman and she doesn't look like exactly as her pics i will be rude and tell her that upfront.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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guy/girls who were cheap on date Posted: 10/6/2009 12:49:18 PM
since nothing is guarantee, I wont mind spending no more 2o bucks. Because that dont make any sense to spend a lot of money on date for someone who'll say after He's nice but no chemistry. She should pay for her thing since nothing is guarantee if she gonna like me or not.

james_ny

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Ahhh Posted: 10/6/2009 9:14:50 AM
True. when you're real they say we're not compatible but when you come up with some good lies they end up meeting and sometimes date you based on your lies.

james_ny

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No connection, no chemistry, no passion...but....they're nice? Posted: 10/6/2009 7:32:19 AM
"he's a great guy, attractive, intelligent, etc...I just can't see us having anything more than a friendship" Well i still dont understand that part.

james_ny

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No connection, no chemistry, no passion...but....they're nice? Posted: 10/6/2009 7:05:00 AM
i heard that anthem many times on here. "He's a nice guy but no Chemistry" most of the time it's about your looks they dont like something about you physically. You dont need to go on a 2 or 3 date to see if she's acttracted to you. Unless she's looking for mr perfect.

james_ny

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Whats wrong with him? Posted: 10/3/2009 5:32:16 PM
that happened to me before, but i wasn't really care because i expected it but she thought i wasn't. But when she tried to call back i was upfront telling her dont contact me anymore.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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Overkill.... Posted: 10/1/2009 7:31:36 PM
well, if you're a ugly person you wont be that lucky online, Because they reality is they screen your pics and race first. I did that once and it worked , I putted a very good looking male model on here i was surprised to see many messages i received and they're willing to meet me. So when you good looking you have more chance to date they'll will care about your personality after. when you ugly you know the deal "READ DELETED OR WE 'RE NOT COMPATIBLE.

james_ny

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The Vanishing Act.... Posted: 10/1/2009 1:10:53 PM
women do that a lot specially on dating website. so I dont really care because Im 50% 50% She calls, i call, she doesn't i dont it's simple no one hurts.

james_ny

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Honesty Posted: 9/30/2009 1:01:48 PM
all depends on what you're looking for or she's looking for. Well if i think that person im dating she is not that serious i wont be honest with her. Sometimes people like your lies so you can be compatible with them.

james_ny

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Beware...kissing can make you fall. Posted: 9/30/2009 6:06:09 AM
its different from people to people all depend on his/her personality or what she/he is looking for. You can kiss or have sex with someone and still dont have any feelings that happened to me before.

james_ny

Joined: 8/12/2009

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Why do people actually come on here if they don't ever plan to meet anyone offline? Posted: 9/29/2009 3:59:18 PM
well. I heard that many times " we spent weeks, months , talking , emailing , texting but no chemistry when we meet. sometimes you can be very patient and you think he / she is the one or he/ she is compatible and find out later that he/she lied about everything. So meet someone in 3 days or weeks it still the same thing.

james_ny

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Why do people actually come on here if they don't ever plan to meet anyone offline? Posted: 9/29/2009 3:42:46 PM
some women dont get too much attention in real life so when they come on here they're flooded with emails and some of them starting acting like a queen looking for MR PERFECT based on your pics first and what you wrote in profile which sometimes are lies. thats why is faster to meet or initiate contact in real life than here.

james_ny

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What's so wrong with being honest? Posted: 9/29/2009 12:21:05 PM
sometimes you cant be honest because she'll will say we're not compatible. some women dont like real men, they prefer the player who can say what they want to hear so they can be compatible. most of them on here are serial dater so we cant really be serious.

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