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Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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What's your deal breaker? (re profiles first glance) Posted: 6/16/2009 4:51:14 AM
Gosh, no wonder you're single!

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 8/31/2008 7:54:43 AM
I did so recently. The woman claimed she was very attractive.......and boy was she ever correct! Moral of the story: sometimes, you just need a take a leap of faith.

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 8/31/2008 7:52:45 AM
That is a very narrow-minded attitude!

hugmeister

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Run from Sex? Posted: 6/21/2008 8:57:32 AM
Excellen post!

hugmeister

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ONE date and he won't stop calling....I've tried everything but the truth... Posted: 4/20/2008 5:23:27 PM
What is wrong with the truth? Why do you think he'll be hurt? Stop being so insecure by having to flatter yourself into thinking he'll be hurt. In 2 seconds he'll have forgotten you and be on to the next woman.

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Talking about sex before even meeting Posted: 4/15/2008 4:07:50 AM
Completely out of line! Time to say......"next"

Hugmeister

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Guy takes four days to respond? Posted: 1/29/2008 1:45:53 PM
He's not interested in you. But, you knew that, right?

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Dinner Date - Who Pays? Posted: 12/1/2007 7:44:41 AM
Absolutely let her pay what she offers! Don't let money become an issue here if you really like this lady. I'm not saying you should "spend to impress". On the other hand, if by date 3 she does not offer to pay anything, I'd be concerned she's a "sponge".

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Deleting profile after the first date.... Posted: 11/23/2007 6:25:58 AM
You need to take a deep breath and slow down! Nobody should be "heartbroken" after 1 date with someone. In the future, you might want to take the physical part a bit slower. He may have been scared it was moving too fast.

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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I don't do separated... Posted: 11/4/2007 9:48:53 AM
You're not wrong, you're simply more narrow-minded in this regard and so this will limit your possiilities of finding someone........

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 10/27/2007 9:04:59 AM
It always eventually comes down to money, as that one responder alluded to when she said taller guys make more dough! :(

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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45 men mailed me and still no date AAAHHHH!!!! Posted: 10/20/2007 7:57:31 AM
If you lose weight, you'll have better luck with men.

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Is It Wrong To Test Someone??? Posted: 9/22/2007 10:22:31 AM
Talk about playing games!! Your name might as well be Hasbro. I would've told you to talk to a bank.....

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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How many times have you heard this people? Posted: 8/13/2007 1:03:59 PM
I just read your profile. You sound VERY angry. You might want to look into that. It could be the root of why guys don't want to get too close.

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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why do man on here write you one email and stop writing you Posted: 8/13/2007 1:01:42 PM
Could be that they want someone who knows grammer!

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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She left me REVENGE TIME?????? Posted: 8/8/2007 9:47:17 AM
Do NOT send her a box of chocolates or any other type of gift!!!!!!!! Her apalling behavior, leaving her child behind, does not warrent a gift. I'd call the authorities for her child neglect.

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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How important is sex in a relationship? Posted: 8/2/2007 4:36:15 AM
Look, maybe he just didn't have his good stuff that night, using a baseball analogy. No way you should judge him on that one performance. Try again and then reassess.....

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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To call again, or not to call, that is the question? Posted: 7/25/2007 6:38:30 AM
A first "red flag" would be that it took her a week to return a phone call. That's very inconsiderate on her part. At the very least, she should've pinged you a quick note to thank you for the call shortly thereafter. I'd say no great loss and move on!

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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People who just write how are you Posted: 7/24/2007 8:19:57 AM
RELAX! Is that SO terrible? Maybe he was in a hurry and normally wouldn't have had time to write but had a second to say hi. Is it better to receive a quick note than none at all?? Sometimes, you ladies are SO petty, picky and tight-minded! Lighten up, and send the guy a quick "I'm great, thanks for asking, how about you?" and go from there. Open-mindedness can do wonders for increasing your dating options

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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I Found The Most Amazing Guy!! Posted: 7/23/2007 10:46:01 AM
Excellent! I wish you all the happiness. It gives the rest of us hope! :)

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Why are there so many crazy women in this world? Posted: 4/17/2007 2:27:08 PM
2 rules to live by: 1. Don't try to understand women. 2. See rule #1 This just happened to me. Got past the e-mail stage with this lady and she called me last Thursday night. Right off the bat, she tells me that she has a cold, is losing her voice, has talked all day and will need for us to speak another time. She says she called because she said that she would and wanted to keep her word. We were on the phone for maybe 2 minutes. So, I say that's fine and that we'll speak when she's feeling better. I don't hear from her so I ping her this morning. She writes back..."I didn't think we had any chemistry. I know that I wasn't feeling well but I have to trust my instincts" That's a crazy woman!

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Cell Phones On a Date,Do You Really Need It? Posted: 2/18/2007 1:14:05 PM
Cell phones for far too many people have become just another way to combat insecurity. We feel better when people "need us" by calling. I agree. Cell phones, whether on a date or otherwise, get far too much attention.

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Dating is all about income Posted: 2/2/2007 4:01:54 AM
Well, I think you just got stuck with 2 very materialistic dates. The woman who insisted on you buying her a steak dinner is a complete loser. As I always say, the key is to find a woman who can enjoy your company when there isn't a need to spend any or a lot of money. She'll want to go running or cycling or for a walk or hiking or to the beach or rent a DVD or go to the movies or play tennis or hit a bucket of golf balls or any number of other fun, low-cost activities.

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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A Few Extra Pounds Posted: 1/29/2007 12:59:46 PM
Here's what I've found.... Thin is really average. Average is really a few extra pounds. A few extra pounds is really Big. Big is a lineman playing in Miami on Sunday!

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Blue Tooth on a date, your thoughts? Posted: 1/25/2007 4:30:16 AM
My opinion: Rude. I'm really tired of people who feel that they are SO important to the continuation of mankind that they cannot go an hour or 2 without missing a phone call. I agree that unless she has children or is expecting a call that is urgent, take the damn thing off and focus on the date. Mike

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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why are men intimidated when a woman asks them out? Posted: 12/16/2006 7:13:40 AM
Women should "invite" a man to invite them out. What, you say? If a woman is attentive to a guy, looks at him during conversation, flirts, uses positive body language, kids around with him, takes an interest in him by asking questions, perhaps touches him lightly on the arm while laughing, he should get the hint. If none of that works, then he is definitely not interested. We men have radar for knowing when a woman is flirting with us.

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Can someone help me to understand men? Posted: 10/23/2006 12:36:35 PM
Oh, I love you women that use subtle sexuality to lure men to your profile (in your case it's your boobs hanging out in your photo) and then are SO surprised to find out that they attract these type of men! Come on, like you didn't know what you were doing?

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Will a non smoker date a smoker ? Posted: 10/10/2006 10:16:37 AM
I'm a non-smoker and my top dating rule is that I would never date a smoker. You may find the rare non-smoking woman who will date a smoker but I'd say you'd have better luck with smokers.

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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B4 or Only when married??? Posted: 10/5/2006 2:06:43 PM
Statistics show no more successful marriages between couples that lived together so it's a moot point!

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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please help im heartbroken Posted: 10/5/2006 8:04:22 AM
Why are you hurt?? I would think you'd be happy to be rid of this guy! You can do better. Go read "He's Just Not That Into You" 'cause this guy clearly wasn't!

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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How do i tell him I like him Posted: 10/5/2006 8:01:51 AM
Here's what you do! Say to him....."I like you". See, how easy!

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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why do men lie about their age? Posted: 8/31/2006 10:36:57 AM
Excellent point! I couldn't agree more!

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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why do men lie about their age? Posted: 8/31/2006 10:35:43 AM
Unfortunately, people lie, both online AND in the real world.....

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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does a gift improve your chances with a female???? Posted: 8/29/2006 2:26:07 PM
NO! Don't buy a gift to win affection. If that's what it takes to impress someone, they are not worth impressing. The right gal will love you for who you are....

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Brazillian wax? Posted: 8/29/2006 5:10:34 AM
Has anyone tried an electric razor? I actually use it on myself and I find, once you learn the trick, it works great. The key is to take advantage of the trimmer and get as close to the surface as is possible. Since we guys pubic area is VERY sensitive and I seem to be doing fine with it, give it a whirl ladies! I'm happy to help :)

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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How can I be in love with a man I’ve never met? Posted: 8/28/2006 4:25:45 AM
Tell me this is a novel or a made-for-TV movie! The big question you need to ask yourself is why you allow someone to mistreat you in such a callous way. Dr. Phil would have a field-day with you!

Hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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The 'F word Posted: 8/8/2006 4:43:53 AM
30 times in 10 minutes, let alone a full day, is disgusting. Using profanity in front of others who have either expressed a displeasure with it is just plain rude. I have to admit that the more a person uses profanity, the less I think of them....

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Not worth the time! Posted: 4/14/2006 4:48:16 AM
The problem with online dating is that the women who use it are FAR more picky than those who don't. It's not a great lake to go fishing in!

hugmeister

Joined: 3/17/2006

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met? Posted: 3/28/2006 1:39:56 PM
This is a very unsettling situation! There's a BIG world of difference between a telephone and being in person. My guess is that he doesn't live close by or you would meet. True? My advice is for you to throttle down your feelings. If you meet, you might be sadly disappointed. Mike

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