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highflyingadored

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Breast Size [Do guys ever notice the difference?] Posted: 10/8/2009 11:23:44 AM
Congratulations jdfy. You at least acknowledge that a woman is still a woman albeit she has had breast surgery. Pity some men dont have the same mentality as yourself. After all, there are men out there who have had testicles removed - would it bother me? Not in the least, but then i am not a shallow person!

highflyingadored

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After Intimacy why do guys usually back off? Posted: 10/8/2009 11:16:59 AM
Personally, i gave up wondering why men back off after intimacy a long time ago. This also applies to those men who tell you that you tick all their boxes, they have been looking for you for a long time and that you are the woman they want. Those types of guys are not worth bothering with and losing any sleep over whatsoever, pity you dont get to realise that beforehand!

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Repulsive penis ?? Posted: 9/5/2009 7:14:27 AM
Hmmmmmmm.........sure this was a guy you were with and not an orang utang?

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Double Urethra Posted: 9/2/2009 3:54:37 AM
Never experienced this although i did meet someone who had a sort of strange frilly edged one, i suppose no one is perfect. Who cares as long as it works.

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sex drive in women over 40 Posted: 9/1/2009 3:02:29 PM
^^^^^^^^ mtn.lover thanks for the laugh - you just made my day rotfl.

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How to forget someone that ...... Posted: 8/31/2009 4:08:32 PM
Hi there! I got over someone i really cared for by allowing myself to think of him for a week one hour each day, then 45 minutes the next, 30 minutes the next, 15 minutes the next and so on, and then erased his telephone number from my mobile - hey presto it worked! Life is far too short to think of what might have been, especially if the person is a liar.

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sex drive in women over 40 Posted: 8/30/2009 1:09:16 PM
^^^^^^^^^ you been looking in the mirror again lol!

highflyingadored

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sex drive in women over 40 Posted: 8/30/2009 5:34:57 AM
Well here we go again, assumptions about sex drives lol. I have aways had a high sex drive and if you look at my profile you will see i should be settling down by this time with some knitting instead of indulging, but not so. Me and my partner have the most satisfying sex life and he takes me to a higher and higher plane, or should that be planet! As for drying up secretions, never had that problem - just pass me another towel lol.

highflyingadored

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The Love of My Life ......married with incurable cancer Posted: 8/30/2009 3:54:48 AM
Hmmm......thats a very sad story. But i always remember someone i went out with who his wife divorced because of his affair before he met me, telling me that at the end of the day, the affair just was not worth it because of what he had lost. Yes, marriages are not perfect but you take the rough with the smooth if there are feelings there. What i fail to understand is why women like you enter into a relationship with a married man in the first place. Is it a challenge? Why cannot women like you find a single man to give love to and know you are not breaking up someone else's happy home. Reading what you have written, especially about the wife being a witch, smacks of jealousy. If she was such a witch do you really think he would have stayed for 30 years, do you really think that having children makes a marriage? A marriage takes a whole lot of hard work to keep it going and now that he is on his final days of his life, why dont you just fade out of the picture and leave his wife, the woman he chose to live with and love for over 30 years, rather than yourself, to comfort him. Sorry if this sounds harsh but you never really 'had' him in the first place if you are honest did you?

highflyingadored

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What's going on? Posted: 8/30/2009 3:38:49 AM
Well i think most guys will accept sex on a plate, and if you are willing to provide it, then you must bear the consequences of him seeing you as just that. Show some respect for yourself and next time he calls round, tell him not to take his coat off because he isnt stopping!

highflyingadored

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How to get her panties really wet while chatting on msn? Posted: 8/5/2009 3:40:51 PM
Hi Leeanne - missed your postings!!

highflyingadored

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How to get her panties really wet while chatting on msn? Posted: 8/5/2009 3:35:19 PM
I think she should mail those panties by first class recorded delivery before they stink to high heaven and the postman thinks someone just got murdered - yuk! If she is the hottest girl ever (in your opinion) you should not even have to ask how to get her panties wet - she should be able to do that all on her own - with a little imagination of course!

highflyingadored

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Sex forums, missing from main page? Posted: 8/4/2009 2:55:55 PM
Yeah totoman i have the same problem also. I have to go back to my profIle and choose one of the previous threads of my own and then - bingo - i am into the sex forums. I thought it was my pc playing up as i have just cancelled a o hell and gone to a new ISP.

highflyingadored

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How can BOB replace a man? Posted: 7/12/2009 1:01:33 PM
I dont think vibes can ever take the place of a man. I love to be held in a mans arms both before and afterwards, have him cuddle me and love the comfort of having him there. But everyone to their own i guess.

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Actual meetings with women Posted: 7/12/2009 12:51:56 PM
Well i do sympathise with your dilemma, but surely you initially knew your wife-to-be/wife had a low sex drive which may not be compatible with your own? However, not that i have been on sites where marrieds meet up, and have no need, or wish to, the internet is swarming with such sites. Put some in your browser and see how you get on. Failing that, talk to your wife and tell her how desperate you are becoming maybe it will be a wake up call, then again she might throw you out of the door!

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first date sex Posted: 6/29/2009 4:20:12 PM
Hmmmmm....and what about the GUY who was so hopeless in bed that he became embarrassed and did not call again? Or the guy who is just a player and while giving the impression he does like the girl and enjoyed the sex and then disappears into the blue yonder never to be heard of/ or seen again? To my mind guys like that are best forgotten anyway.

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casual sex or friends with benefits Posted: 6/27/2009 3:47:32 PM
If thats what people want then thats ok if both are agreed. Personally, i have never been into casual sex, i tend to want some sort of emotional attachment to a lover beforehand. I always think, judging from what friends have told me, that it just leads to heartbreak one way or another and life is stressful as it is without adding more.

highflyingadored

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Do you agree with this (A little offensive) Posted: 5/6/2009 10:14:09 AM
I dont think its offensive, i think its utter rubbish if i may say so. For starters if you look at my profile you will see i am a lady of a certain age and i can assure you that i am NEVER short of men of any age either getting in touch with me wanting to see me, nor am i afraid that getting older means i have to be 'picky' whatever that means. You cannot turn back the sands of time anyway, and i have never settled for second best whether when i was younger, or at my present age. So your associates need to get out more, and meet some of these older ladies they are casting aspersions on. This older lady has never had to ask for anything sexual lol and long may it continue. Just my take on it...............

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What's the deal with toes and feet!? Posted: 4/21/2009 3:48:46 PM
My man just loves to massage my feet which i find extremely relaxing, especially after a hard day walking around on them. He loves to massage me anyway but thats another story! There is nothing kinky about having your feet massaged, but then...........hang on......maybe here is, its sooooooo nice.

highflyingadored

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Do people think and compare past lovers while having sex ? Posted: 3/18/2009 4:19:58 PM
Well if you find your mind wandering to how it was with other people, then the person you are with is obviously not the one you want to be with. If its a first time encounter, i would imagine you would be concentrating on what the other person wants, tends to like etc etc. Thats if they are willing to show you. I personally had a strange encounter with someone i had lusted after for a long time, who lay there like a lump of lard after him giving me the impression he would be the worlds greatest lover, took all night to finish (i could have knitted a jumper), and then went to sleep - charming.

highflyingadored

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When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where? Posted: 3/9/2009 11:54:36 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^ precisely!! Its usually an involuntary happening when completely aroused - wonderful. Its actually from the skene glands - nothing to do with the bladder, therefore it isnt pee.

highflyingadored

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When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where? Posted: 3/8/2009 4:30:34 PM
It certainly isnt urine! Visit the loo before engaging in sexual activity and it will be found that the squirts definitely DO NOT contain urine, nor does it smell like urine. How do i know? well.................thats another story lol.

highflyingadored

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bi sexual men Posted: 2/28/2009 3:27:24 AM
I find it interesting that he suddenly decided he would like to try a relationship with a man soon after his daughter was born. Did you give him less sexual attention after she was born? Maybe its his way of gaining attention if you sidelined him while giving all your attention to your daughter, a sort of wake up call. I know its pretty extreme to come up with this suggestion, but there are some men out there who like being the sole centre of your world and cannot hack it when you give your attention to someone else/something else. Its a bit like a cry for help lol. Just a thought.

highflyingadored

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Any other guys out there who do this..... Posted: 2/27/2009 7:56:12 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^lol that really made me laugh - thanks!! That was to the guy who rests the Domino pizza box on her back...........

highflyingadored

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bi sexual men Posted: 2/27/2009 7:46:14 AM
So its taken him a 6 year relationship to wonder about his sexuality? And you are wondering whether you should let him explore his desires and then get back together, is this right? Sounds to me you would be better off letting him go for good, or buy him a dildo that you can use when together, if he likes it it may save your relationship. Personally i would feel uncomfortable with a guy who is hankering after trying a relationship with a man - just my take on it.

highflyingadored

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What's the point? Posted: 2/27/2009 7:39:22 AM
Maybe its because some ladies have morals and dont act like alley cats! It doesnt mean they dont like sex, its just that some, myself included, are more choosy about who they have it with. And no, sex is definitely NOT dead.

highflyingadored

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Love making and sex Posted: 2/25/2009 6:37:07 AM
Having sex with someone you love is much more exciting than with someone who may just be what i call a 'ship in the night', or someone passing through your life at the time you feel like having sex. There is a whole difference in connecting with someone who you love unconditionally, a someone who loves you and is willing to take the time and effort in making you feel loved and wanted rather than that person who sees you as a piece of meat to be pumped away at and who has no idea how to really satisfy a woman. One man i really liked and had lusted over for some time got me to do all the work on him when we got together, while he just lay there like a lump of lard, said 'night sweetheart' afterwards and then proceeded to say which part of the bed he usually occupied, turned over and went to sleep. I have a word for him, but dont think it ladylike to print it on here!!

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F*ckers vs. Lovers Posted: 2/20/2009 9:09:04 AM
Oiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii...................you is naughty you are rotfl.

highflyingadored

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F*ckers vs. Lovers Posted: 2/20/2009 7:28:43 AM
Errrrrr..........you have just described my wonderful man, he is all of the things you have mentioned and more mmmm.....

highflyingadored

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Not your physical type: Will you eventually miss it? Posted: 2/20/2009 7:25:14 AM
Just give me a genuine, ordinary, caring guy. A guy who takes the time and effort to look nice for you, has no airs and graces and one who definitely doesnt think he should be on the front cover of Vogue, and you have to fight him for the mirror each day. I mean it gets boring having Andy Garcia knocking on your door every day begging to come inside lol.

highflyingadored

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Why would a guy turn down a fuck buddy? Posted: 2/19/2009 3:54:25 PM
Hmmmmm..........maybe he will spin you that old line that he needs to lead an uncomplicated life lol. Plenty more fish in the sea girl, cast your net wider and have a little more self control.

highflyingadored

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He can't get hard long enough Posted: 2/17/2009 8:58:58 AM
Hi Leeanne, You hit the nail right on the head. I met someone who had trouble keeping it up also and he said it was because it was a 'new' relationship. Hmmmmm........i am more inclined to think it was because he is an internet predator judging by the amount of dating sites he appears on. I agree on the pursuit and capture aspect and the boosting of his ego, and the total women he could ensnare. Sad really but there you go. However, if there is really a medical problem anyone would feel sympathy for the guy, but you can usually suss out the situation fairly quickly.

highflyingadored

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Scars, do they scare you (guys) Posted: 1/2/2009 7:07:26 AM
Personally, i think if a man is 'put off' by any scars a female has he just isnt worth bothering with, after all scars can be a badge of courage for a person having gone through trauma., This also applies to a female being 'put off'' if a guy has scars also. Life happenings are just that and i would prefer to look at the whole picture and see the person inside rather than on the outside. There are many people scarred in the theater of war, road accidents, fires, by operations etc etc and they are all worth loving for who they are, not what the may look like. Your female friend should go forward - there is always someone for someone out there in the wide world and a someone who will love her for being just her and overlook the bodily imperfections. Sheesh even the Phantom of the Opera found someone who loved him lol.

highflyingadored

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Interesting fact about orgasms Posted: 10/15/2008 5:50:59 AM
lol i have never noticed this because my mouth is usually busy elsewhere at the time!

highflyingadored

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booty call Posted: 8/15/2008 10:21:50 AM
Hmmmmm..........it must be a strange arrangement. I have to have an emotional connection with someone before having sex, so no booty calls for me i am afraid. I doubt if anyone can really have that type of arrangement for very long and one person not become involved emotionally. Have some self respect and dont give yourself to just anyone. There is nothing nicer than making love with someone you really care for.

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Is it ok to use baby oil as a lube??? Posted: 8/7/2008 4:16:20 PM
Hmmmmm...........anything like baby oil may affect condom usage. I would advise caution. Are you really narrow, or just a little apprehensive of the event? Perhaps a lot of foreplay would be better than lube anyway - just a thought as i have never had that problem.

highflyingadored

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Multiples vs. One or None & Motivation Posted: 8/4/2008 3:13:35 PM
Well any kind of orgasm is a blessing, but the multiple squirting ones ,as well as something to see, completely blow your mind. Thank god there are men out there who know how to induce them.

highflyingadored

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Oral Sex on Uncircumsized Penis...? Posted: 6/26/2008 3:46:47 PM
Hmmm......sounds like he wasnt ready anyway, the foreskin usually retracts when he is!

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Is it Scary sometimes to be attractive sexually? Posted: 6/22/2008 1:37:56 PM
lol ...................... you just wouldnt believe the trouble i have fighting off all the men (and the odd woman come to think of it - oerrr) haha. What on earth is there to be scared of if someone finds you sexually atttractive? If you also find them sexually attractive i would imagine thats fantastic, so just go and 'get it on'.

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Why have so many women never had an orgasm? Posted: 6/18/2008 5:57:57 AM
lol are we talking never had an orgasm within 5 or 10 minutes? I cannot believe that there are 80% of the poor souls who have never experienced such a wonderful event. Mind you, i do have a few girlfriends who don't like things 'physical'!! What a complete waste.

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A little research on the subject Posted: 5/3/2008 8:06:44 AM
Interesting.............. Have to say though, the fingers of the man should be facing upwards, not palm downwards.................. They should move in such as a way they would when signalling someone to come towards you............. if you pardon the pun!

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guys, women who squirt.... Posted: 5/1/2008 12:52:54 PM
Well without going into too much detail here lol, i will say it definitely does not change whatever age you are!

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Are Fog Lights on becoming the new accessory? Posted: 3/11/2008 7:42:38 AM
I wonder what we are all going to do when/if a new European directive comes into force? Apparently they are trying to bring in a new law of driving with dipped headlights on all day in Britain!!! Yes, i know Volvo's do so now but this is aimed at all cars after 2011 as Brussels say that most of the other European countries drive with dipped headlights on during the day. Oh well, just another loony directive from our masters of Europe.

highflyingadored

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Are Fog Lights on becoming the new accessory? Posted: 3/4/2008 3:40:32 PM
Yeah i also find them annoying and yes again they probably think they are being cool, until they get pulled over. Mind you that could be a long time because the police dont seem to be in evidence much these days! The other things that annoy me, and which are also illegal i believe, are drivers who alter their number plates to look like names, and cars that are so covered in muck that the whole number plate is obscured!

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Do men think women women wearing glasses are sexy? Posted: 2/7/2008 2:53:25 AM
Yep men definitely like women who wear glasses, well i must say i have never had a problem. But you know, glasses do come off your face at night if thats a help lol.

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He only wants it from behind Posted: 12/24/2007 10:29:18 AM
Errrrrrr.......nothing wrong with being approached from behind. As a matter of fact its one of my favourite positions lol. Just enjoy!

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Sex with someone you are not attracted to Posted: 11/7/2007 9:15:06 AM
Nope not for me thanks. Before i end up having sex with a man i have to have some connection mentally or like them physically. I feel the best sex is with someone you are really fond of in the first place, otherwise sex is just sex, but having feelings for someone is definitely 'making love' which is a wonderful feeling, touches my very soul.

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he's just a sex partner..is that wrong? Posted: 10/22/2007 3:48:29 PM
Hmmmmm..........well its your life after all and, therefore, you are free to live it as you wish. The problem i would have with your sort of lifestyle though, is that i have to have an emotional attachment to a man before i engage in a sexual connection. It sounds like you have a FB, but i believe eventually it will lead to heartache. If neither of you is likely to become jealous of the other one, i would find the arrangement too clinical, or one which is just feeding a human need without any sort of feeling involved. It's your life as i said previously, but i dont know why you want to ask the question on here if what you are doing seems so right for you, or is it because you are not so sure?

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Sex in the afternoon Posted: 8/29/2007 3:41:09 PM
Hmmmm.......who was it sang that song 'Afternoon Delight'. Just about sums it all up really!

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Surgerical Hysterectomy Posted: 7/2/2007 2:11:10 AM
I havent had that type of surgery, but any surgery that is carried out on female sex parts is bound to effect a women mentally. You say your wife had two surgeries in a short space of time? Have you had surgery yourself? Having operations for whatever reason is a depressing time and both the body and mind need time to come to terms with it and heal. I dont blame your wife for not being interested in sex after having had her womb and ovaries removed, and it will probably take her time to come to terms with the operation. In the meantime, it would be nice if you supported her and used some self-control until such time she gets her self-esteem back on track. Advertising on an internet site for Intimate Encounters is not the way to be supportive, its just a selfish way of looking to fulfil your desires. Make a fuss of your wife, show her she is still a woman and you love her, then when she is ready you will both benefit. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>I happen to be a married guy whose wife has had a hysterectomy and is going through major hormone changes. She has lost her desire for sex intimacy. I Havent>>>>>>> This statement says it all really.............its all about YOU!

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