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 Author Thread: When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where?
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 431 (view)
 
When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where?
Posted: 11/23/2009 11:23:24 AM
TOTALLY agree that 'shamwow' should focus on bedding!!

I just started squirting a few weeks ago and i can say this for sure

It is not urine!
It is totally clear
It has very little odor or taste (yes i tried it)
It has a viscosity much like water
It has no lube properties like vaginal secretions do
It dries VERY quickly and leaves no stain what so ever

IT IS NOT URINE!!!!!! I literally soaked the bed with 5 g-spot orgasms in a matter of minutes, then got up to pee. It is not urine!

Unfortunately, for me, it's not as pleasurable as a clitoral orgasm either, but when the 2 are combined..........yummmmmmmmy....ummmmm yeah

swimming in the puddles
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Being committed to the relationship
Posted: 11/23/2009 10:39:05 AM
she's poly.

She will never commit to just one man.

It's not likely that she's left the other sites. I'd guess that she's changed her nic so you THINK she's left the other sites.

All of the above are fine, if she'd just admit it to herself, and the men in her life so it can be dealt with in a mature manner.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Question about HER orgasm...
Posted: 3/13/2009 9:14:22 PM
rhodyep says>>>>
she is faking, sorry. She wants to be sure you cum then wants you to think she has. Why women do this I do not know. I will never fake it. If you cum first then get up off it and do me till I do


lmaoooooooooo

well said chicky!!!!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Question about HER orgasm...
Posted: 3/13/2009 9:06:07 PM
MsMicki
You have any luck with that please let me know!!
I tried finding out any "scientific" explanation for it and couldn't find squat!
That is why I started the thread here about it!

and you will notice it yourself now.....if you can remember to think about it!


OK, i've searched google, and here's what i found>>>>>>

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts3252874.aspx

Ironically, it's a pof forum from 2006 asking exactly the same question (but not by you, i haven't seen yours yet)!! I only read the first of 4 pages of responses, but they weren't very open to the idea......lol the op was called 'stupid' more than a few times for believing such a thing could be true!

I'm still looking though!

But i'll be sure to ask my man to pay attention next time

Oh and i've really enjoyed this thread!! A lot of great serious, smart suggestions, and even more roflmao smart ass answers! Keep up the good work! You've restored my faith in this site today!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Question about HER orgasm...
Posted: 3/9/2009 7:54:42 PM
^^^^^^ wow i've never heard of that! I'll have to ask him next time..........or i'll google it. I'm kinda nerdy/curious/scientific, so now i wanna know WHY that happens lmao....

OT, i'm sorry but i agree that she's probably faking it. Although some women can be taught to cum 'on command'.........so i suppose it could be true that your orgasm makes her cum........But no muscle contractions or other signs? hmmmmmmmmm

I do think that you could benefit with some more communication and exploration.

It's true that an orgasm for a lot of women isn't the end-all-and-be-all, but a women that fakes it every time becomes pretty resentful pretty damn quick.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
extreme fetish
Posted: 2/8/2009 8:48:16 PM
and here i thought you couldn't pee with a woody??

and i don't really think this is the site to be discussing 'extreme' fetishes.

Even if the people here are 'into' them, they surely won't admit it on this site lmao.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Any advise on my little sexuality based issue?
Posted: 1/25/2009 5:14:13 PM
what the optimist said ^^^^^^^^^^^^^

you're 18 years old and full of the stuff.........let it out!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 580 (view)
 
How long should good sex last?
Posted: 7/18/2008 1:19:11 PM
If it's good, i don't want it to end.............if it's not good, are you done yet?
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Porn Addiction
Posted: 7/18/2008 12:16:49 PM
*most* men are VERY visually stimulated, proven by the entire porn industry. And I don't know the exact statistics on masturbation, but i've heard some men do it daily, if not more LOL. It's not surprising that the readily available porn is used by *most* men to satisfy their need for visual stimulation.

Given a choice, *most* men will chose a real woman, it's when he'd rather the porn over me that i'd have a problem.

If you are happy with him, if you are both satisfied with your sex life, then i don't think you have anything to worry about. But, talk to him about it.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Faithful before we meet????
Posted: 7/17/2008 9:34:49 PM

you hadn't even met?? Once you've been dating someone for awhile, *AND* you agree to be mutually exclusive, then yeah, you're expected to be faithful. Until then, what you do is your business


and


until it's exclusive, it isn't


some emails, some online chatting, and plans to meet do not make an exclusive relationship, unless of course you both agreed it did.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
wrong hole in doggy
Posted: 6/23/2008 7:20:56 AM
Yes it happened once.................HOLY HELL, that's some pain when it's unexpected!! I screamed, I pulled away, I cried, and he apologized profusely (in no way did he do it on purpose!!)

I could barely walk for about 3 days.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 6/19/2008 7:51:44 PM

I like a woman who makes her desires clear...then let's me dominate her. Cuz really, sexual submissives have a sneaky way of actually being in control.


BINGO!!!!!!!!!!! (although i don't consider it 'sneaky')


yet
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 59 (view)
 
15 year old daughter and condoms.
Posted: 6/18/2008 9:50:03 AM
How about stepping up your role as a parent and ensuring she is not given the opportunity or time to have sex at 15? How about educating her and encouraging other activities to increase her self-esteem so that she has a good foundation to say f off to the first little snot nosed punk who tries to get in her pants?? Where have the mothers gone who are to be there to protect their children and instill a sound moral base???? This thread is ridiculous and you should all be ashamed of yourselves for such low base thinking.


WOW, and exactly how do you suggest we 'not give the opportunity or time to have sex at 15'? Chain her up in the basement? But, i do totally agree with you about educating her and teaching her good self-esteem! But does this guarantee that she won't CHOOSE to have sex? Not likely. But at least she'll understand what she's doing, and maybe even enjoy it


A 15 year old isn't mature enough to deal with the emotional consequences that sex can have...... at least explain why she should wait until she's at least 18. She could get hurt easily by a guy just wanting to use her for sex.


LOL I'm 38 and I'm not sure that i'm always ready for the emotional consequences that sex can have It's not really an age thing, it's more of a circumstance thing IMO

Anyway, I'm not sure what i'd do in this situation. But i'd probably do exactly what my mother did when she was though LOL...............i'd put a note in her drawer telling her not to be stupid and to get on the pill! (mind you i was 18, not 15)...........but i'd also be proud of her for being safe.

**geez i'm not usually this winded, must be all the coffee lol, my apologies**
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Ladies, do you enjoy 'watching' your partner?
Posted: 6/18/2008 9:12:23 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^ exactly Seagee!!!

ahhhhhhh poor Lovabledork, he posts a sincere question, and can't get a serious answer after Country Girl hyjacks the thread by showing how much of a.........oh I should be nice!! But, where's the forum gods when you need them??

Anyway, to answer your question lovabledork, I'm sure you will soon realize that just because your ex didn't like something doesn't mean that ALL women won't like it........just like we won't all like something that your ex did love!! Diversity is a great thing!!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Men over 30, unmarried no children
Posted: 6/1/2008 12:23:22 AM

i'd rather have a man who has shown some sense and values himself enough to not rush into marriage or fatherhood blindly and carelessly.


So since i'm 'divorced' and have a child, i have no sense, i don't value myself and i rushed into my past relationship and motherhood blindly and carelessly???

Gimme a break, sometimes things just don't always work the way we'd hoped they would.

We all have our reasons for having or not having kids and getting married. Stop judging everyone people. This thread is frustrating LOL.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Men over 30, unmarried no children
Posted: 5/31/2008 11:40:10 PM
yes i'll admit that i wonder why people (men and women) my age have never been 'married' or at least in a serious, long term relationship, and have no kids. Of course there are many good reasons, i just wonder what theirs is.



I'm 38, no kids, never been married. It's that way by choice. I've yet to find a lady where I KNEW I'd be with her for the rest of my life.


If we all waited till we KNEW we'd be together for the rest of our lives, humans would be extinct very quick........... since when does life come with a guarantee?? There are many reasons why you may not be together forever, and many of them are beyond your control even. Sometimes ya just gotta hold your breath and go for it, and do your best to make it work.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Is it Scary sometimes to be attractive sexually?
Posted: 5/19/2008 11:14:22 PM
Scary how exactly?

Thankfully (lol) beauty is 'in the eye of the beholder'.....................and it takes alot more than physical beauty for me to find someone sexually attractive.

But sure, it's nice to look at
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Why did he sleep with me if he wasn't attracted to me?
Posted: 5/18/2008 10:40:56 PM

I wish both sexes would wake up and realize that anyone you sleep with on one or two dates, you're not going to have a relationship long term with.


that's not always true. Maybe it's not true for YOU, but you're not everyone here.

OP, sometimes the other person just wants sex.......and both men and women do it. Lesson learned i hope, better luck next time
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Do men really like Dominant Women?
Posted: 5/10/2008 9:29:29 PM

Don't want a weakling... and i don't want a spoiled b**ch


Yet again, i'm sitting here wondering why i frustrate myself by reading "Dom/sub" forums on PoF??

99% or the responses are from people that have absolutely no idea what it entails (and that's all fine except that they respond as if they know EVERYTHING about it)

BUT, the 1 % that do understand it, ohhhhh yeah, that's why I still read them

OT, yes some men reallllllllly like Dominant women, just like some women realllllllly like Dominant men
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
A tribute to the much underrated neck
Posted: 5/6/2008 8:00:40 PM
Von Erik, you rock

laughinglibra has me laughing yet again with
The entire body should be enjoyed... not just the obvious horny spots
.............but soooooooo very true!! I'll react more to neck attention than some other spots LOL.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/6/2008 7:06:44 PM
Do women have more sexual partners than men? I have no idea lol...........i'm pretty sure some do, but i'm also pretty sure that some don't. Probably pretty safe to say that even if i've only had 2 partners, i'd beat out some of the guys. But not all of them. If i've had 20, 30, 40 50+ partners, I still think I'd beat out some of the guys, but again, not all of them. (and by NO means am i admitting to my 'number' LMAO)


I think there's more equality and parity for guys and gals who are both a 9 or 10. At that level, the guys have enough confidence to sleep around with 70+ partners of the same looks scale.


In my experience, good looks do not equal high self esteem or self confidence. Confidence comes from within, and involves a lot more than appearance. And my desire to sleep with someone has very little to do with if they are a '7' or a '10'. I think that comes with age and/or experience though.


In bars, clubs, some women are even married/involved and just out with friends for the night
~~~~~ imagine that, lol, not every woman in a bar is looking for a one nighter!!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
just asking
Posted: 3/17/2008 10:00:58 AM

My suggestion is that you socialize and date older and unattractive women without seeking anything serious or long term. You will not fear losing them so you can relax and be yourself. Your success with them will remove your fear of losing someone and give you the confidence to then date women that appeal to you


I'm, sorry but that's the most rediculous bit of advice i've ever heard (well almost). How can you possibly succeed at something you don't want? Total waste of time and energy, not to mention totally unfair to the 'older and unattractive woman' involved!

OP, so sorry for your loss, and yes it's a scary pond LOL................put yourself out there, talk, and enjoy yourself!!! My advice, dont play the games though. Just be honest and yourself, what more can anyone ask? Good Luck!!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
hiding orgasms?
Posted: 3/14/2008 10:26:52 PM
I'm happy to say i got many many good belly laughs from this thread, but
Now if they would only hide orgasms like they do Easter Eggs. You're walking thru the backyard, "hey, what's thaAAAAAAAAAWOWWWWWOOOOOOOO
...............

As for trying to hide your O?? Sorry, i got nothing LOL. Why on earth would anyone want to do that? Unless you've specified a 1 O rule.................
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Do men really like submissive women?
Posted: 3/14/2008 9:48:09 PM

While I am sure some men do like submissive women. I'll take a confidant woman who knows what she wants and is prepared to ask for it anyday.


I think i'm about as submissive as they come...............and i'm very confident!! and i do ask for what i want...........ahead of time LOL.............there is alot of communication involved, and unbelievable trust involved. He will know what i want to both do and have done, what i need, and he will also understand that, at that moment, i CAN'T ask for it or initiate it on my own. That is why it is talked about ALOT outside of the bedroom.

And for everyone that thinks a submissive woman is a dead fish...........no, quite the opposite really, you've just found a dead fish LOL. And not all submissive women want to be beaten up, thrown around, abused. Sure, some do, but not all.

Until you've experienced it, how could you possibly understand it?
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
How Do you explain to a woman that you've never had sexy by age 36?
Posted: 3/11/2008 2:23:43 AM

How Do you explain to a woman that you've never had sexy by age 36?


first off, please stop calling it 'sexy'.............it's SEX. (i'm really hoping that was just a typo LOL)

2nd, you are a virgin because you haven't done anything to change that fact yet. Nobody is gonna do it for ya.

3rd, women like confident men. ^^^^^^^fishbill's advice is great!! get out there and practice talking, practice flirting, practice complimenting..............without expectations!

And, no, i wouldn't want your virginity. MAYBE, maybe if you were 'saving yourself for the right person'..............but just cuz you haven't gotten around to it yet? You sound pretty lazy and that's not much incentive to jump into bed with ya LOL. Who wants a lazy lover?

Good luck to you though!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Omen of true love? Shooting stars GALORE that night + UFO
Posted: 2/19/2008 12:32:10 PM
The UFO you saw was definately an omen of true love!!!! The only thing that could have made it more profound would have been Santa Clause, the Easter Bunny and the Toothfairy involved in a threesome a little further down the beach.

Because none of the above exist!

(I'm sorry, but i just had to!!)

And yes I do believe in true love.........not so sure about Santa anymore, I never did get my pony

It really does sound like you had a great thing going, explore it more
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Could this be the cause?
Posted: 2/13/2008 3:05:53 AM
well i suppose it could be the drugs, although i'm not sure how long side affects take to appear.

OR

It could be that you made such a big deal about it from the first time it happened that now he's terrified it'll happen again (which only makes it happen again, and again, and again)

I think the second is more likely the real problem.

Relax!!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
obsessive infatuation
Posted: 1/7/2008 8:16:53 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^ LMAOOOOO

Seriously now, there are SOME people out there that would rather be with the wrong person than be alone. If he is that type of person, he won't move on until he finds another person to be with. Maybe he needs you to help him find another woman.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 205 (view)
 
Being Choked while having
Posted: 1/7/2008 7:40:11 AM

I dont use a safe word only because I only tell the guys I trust about whether or not i like being choked.

OMG lol...............the safe word it sooooo much more important with a person that you trust enough to tell your deepest darkest secrets to...........because that is the person that knows you so well, knows your limits, and knows exactly how and when to push them................THAT is the purpose of a safe word. Even the thought of NEEDING a safe word with someone you don't trust is scary.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Conversation during sex
Posted: 12/29/2007 10:35:20 PM
as long as you aren't telling me we need to paint the ceiling, sure, talk away!!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Hair pulling during doggystyle
Posted: 12/29/2007 5:31:57 PM
Pulling hair is a MUST, but yes there is a technique to it...............and no 1 bby knows it!!


Run your open hand along the contour of the skull along the back... close your fist. At that point because you have a BROAD base of contact you have lots of control over their head, but aren't inflicting pain. Can pull it backwards towards you, push it down into the bed...

DO NOT just grasp and pull on the ends or mid-way on the length of the hair, or don't grab small sections. Those things cause pain and can rip hair out.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
getting a girl to let loose
Posted: 12/12/2007 6:43:34 PM
seduce the mind, the body will follow

all these guys that say she'll never change don't know what they're talking about. Put the time and effort into her, and your reward will come (this goes both ways too, i'm not just talking about men making the effort all the time)
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Stop Limiting Yourself
Posted: 12/6/2007 7:01:46 AM
I totally agree, stop limiting yourself. You never know what you may find by turning over that rock LOL.

So what if the person smokes, they could quit. So what if he has a moustache in his pic and you hate facial hair, maybe he's shaved since then. So what if he doesn't want kids and you want a huge family, he may change his mind with the right woman. So what if he lives 'too far' away, one of ya's could relocate. So what if she contacted someone looking for an IE, maybe she just wanted to know what kinda dog that was in his picture LOL.............you catch my drift. Stop closing the door before it's even open.

I don't have any restrictions on my profile. Even if someone just wants to know where one of my pics was taken, or directions on how to get to the casino near where i live lol, ask away.

And I always have the choice whether or not to answer.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Don't know what to expect
Posted: 12/3/2007 7:51:55 PM
They barely had time to exchange phone numbers the one time they met, yet he expects to be called 'hottie' and 'sexy' already?

It takes me a lot longer to call someone 'baby' or 'hun' even. Some throw it around like it means nothing. Give her some time. Some of us are a bit shy that way. Doesn't mean she isn't thinking it necessarily

Have him ask her out already, stop guessing if she's interested.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Don't know what to expect
Posted: 12/3/2007 7:32:49 PM
age has nothing to do with how much someone flirts!! It's just her comfort level.

As for her not commenting on his looks, as I get older, looks become less important to me. Could be that she's interested in dating him for reasons other than his looks. After all, she is interested in seeing him right? Tell him to relax and enjoy the 'older woman' experience LOL.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Stutter
Posted: 11/22/2007 10:22:33 PM
we all have something that makes us nervous meeting a new person. acne, a big nose, a small nose, moles, bad teeth, scars, frizzy hair, no hair, a nervous twitch, a lazy eye, big boobs, little boobs, chewed fingernails, extreme body hair, no body hair (i think you get the picture).

someone once said to me (when i revealed the thing that makes me nervous meeting a new person).............

it's a part of who you are, and it doesn't bother me at all. and the person that it does bother, isn't worthy of you.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Can sex keep you in a relationship?
Posted: 11/22/2007 9:29:33 PM
sex has kept me in a relationship, but not for long if that's all there is.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Cosmo: What message are trying to send?
Posted: 11/19/2007 9:53:29 AM
NOT TRUE

I've read maxim quite a few times LOL.............men telling men what women want, it's good for a laugh LOL
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Cosmo: What message are trying to send?
Posted: 11/19/2007 9:08:23 AM
Sex sells, always has, always will. Besides, what woman doesn't want to learn how to 'drive her man crazy in bed??? (isn't that the headline on every one of those magazines?)

I do agree about 1 point you made though.............why are the girls magazines covered in half naked women instead of men? Men have their equavalent magazines (FH, maxim etc) but they don't have half naked men on their covers LOL. I'm pretty sure that if maxim's cover was half naked men, they would sell maybe 3 copies....................on the other hand, maybe girls buy cosmo in the hopes of somehow transforming themselves to that seductive, sexy image on the cover. They do target teens after all................
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
He can't make me 'come'
Posted: 11/19/2007 7:50:03 AM
sweetontweety, do you really think that is 'your little secret' that no other woman knows about? LOL, just teasing...........
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
aging and sex drive
Posted: 11/18/2007 11:37:41 PM

I think that when you first meet someone, what they look like then is sort of how you picture them forever, in a way...you see them but you don't really see them change (or deteriorate if you will). And of course, if you truly care about them...none of that would matter.


That reminds me of something i heard years ago. 'I want to be with someone that looks at me and sees the same person I see in my mind' (or something like that)......basically, we all have a picture of ourself in our mind, and a lot of times it's quite different from what we see in the mirror. I for one still think I look like I did in high school, or my early 20's even. (a NATURAL blonde, smooth skin, wrinkle free, and a few pounds shy of where I am today). Seriously, try it with me, close your eyes and picture yourself in your mind. Now go look in the mirror................(i'll wait)..................a tad scarey eh LOL. BUT, as an old friend pointed out to me recently, i'm still that person, even with the wrinkles and extra pounds. And I will still be that person whether i'm 37, 50, or 90.

ummmm what was the question again? Oh yeah......


but I think sex (or good sex anyway) has a lot more to do with the mind and the mindset than just a "perfect" body.

 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
The need for Viagra or other stimulants to Make Love
Posted: 11/18/2007 10:17:19 PM

I don't actually believe you were at his place "cleaning" when you found the meds. Not after a relationship spanning 30 days. I think you went snooping. That to me is a far bigger issue than a guy trying to keep the fact he uses viagra because of ED quiet.


I'd say you're doomed OP. Sorry but you're just LOOKING to catch him in a lie, or at least a lie by omission LOL..............and if that doesn't end your relationship pdq, when the b/f finds out you were snooping around his place, he'll end it anyway. At least, I would if i were him. You've committed a much worse crime. Shame on you LOL.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
oral afterwards
Posted: 11/16/2007 8:58:43 PM
i can honestly say i've only had 1 guy do that, and, at the time i thought it was strange. I probably found it strange cuz it was the first (and only to date) time. I just didn't think guys did that LOL.............but after the creepies left, I found it HOT!! Seriously, how cool was he to go and 'finish me off'? Most guys wouldn't go near there with a 10 foot pole after they've cum there...............sad really, i mean, it is theirs after all LOL
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Underwear changes after time...
Posted: 10/22/2007 8:20:21 AM

Granny panties most likely also mean my legs aren't shaved. Those two signs mean BEWARE!


LOL, I intentionally don't wear my sexy undies and avoid shaving my legs as insurance................if i don't want to be a bag girl, those 2 things make sure of it!!!


It's when I step out of the bubble bath and into my sexy nightie, that's when you know you're about to get very, very lucky


amen to that sister!!!!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 68 (view)
 
empowered women and casual sex...
Posted: 10/22/2007 8:05:07 AM
If all these men have been having 'no strings attached, emotionless' sex for decades and women are just now beginning to become 'liberated, strong and/or empowered', what women were the men doing it with???
It takes 2, it's always taken 2, and it will always take 2 to have sex. You just hear about it more now. Women have found their voice, and the internet LOL.
Besides, sex feels good, someone please explain again why we shouldn't be doing it?
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Don't Know What You Got....Till It's Gone
Posted: 10/22/2007 12:06:50 AM

The definition of insanity, is doing the same thing over again and over again expecting a different result


That is so perfect for this thread (and the relationship i had with my ex LOL)

your ex is an ex for a reason, and people rarely change to make someone else happy. If the person is happy with themself, there's not much chance they will change for you!
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 145 (view)
 
I want to be married.....
Posted: 10/21/2007 11:05:47 PM

I want a partner who shares my old fashioned view of marriage, who wouldn't divorce unless extreme circumstances made it unavoidable. All these people who 'just fell out of love' make me so sick.


I'm sure I'm not the only person here that's wondering what 'extreme circumstance' now has you getting divorced too?? No, I don't really wanna know, i'm just making a point. I didn't read all the responses LOL so maybe someone already asked ya.

And yes, I miss everything you listed............and I don't want a pony, where would I keep a pony? LOL.
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
please have some patience, Rome wasn't built in a day ;)
Posted: 10/20/2007 11:37:56 PM
OK i feel I need to clarify......again............I was not at all upset that he blocked me, all the better actually, he didn't even deserve a reply if he couldn't wait more than 5 minutes for it. I was not at all upset by this experience, it made me laugh, and who wants to get involved with someone that controlling before a conversation has even begun? (yes controlling, he took away my freedom to reply) .

I totally agree with those that stated that a reply is not mandatory. Everyone has the right to choose whom they communicate with. This is the internet, and a free dating site. If i want to reply, i will, in my own time. That said, the better the email, the faster my response LOL. And if it only says 'hi, wanna chat', I probably won't even reply. All depends on my mood. Anyone that expects every email to be answered is just setting themselves up for upset and frustration.

I take all interactions on POF with a grain of salt. I know there are many different types of people, and emails, chatting and forums help you realize if you are even interested in persuing something with someone. I chose not to persue this gentleman, even without the block
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Don't Know What You Got....Till It's Gone
Posted: 10/18/2007 10:39:19 PM
I feel people give up too easily these days........we don't fight for what we want, we expect perfection, when perfection is impossible! My ex and i were always the 'on again/off again' type. I couldn't live with him when when we were 'on again', but I couldn't live without him when we were 'off again'. Do I regret our final break up 7 years ago? Yes, but only because we have a child together. Thankfully though, we have a great relationship now. But that doesn't mean i'll ever wanna be 'on again'
 ducky720
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
please have some patience, Rome wasn't built in a day ;)
Posted: 10/18/2007 9:39:03 PM
unattached31................not that your post even warrants a response, but i can honestly say i've never blocked a person here. I prefer to communicate, good or bad. I'm a big girl, I can take just about anything someone wants to say to me, as long as it's warranted

and really? revenge is him blocking me for not replying within the first 5 minutes of reading an email..............ohhhhhh the irony LOL...........obviously he's not the type that I would even want to chat with, so exactly how does that hurt me? Think about it
 
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