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boyzni3

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Most unique ploys to get sex? Posted: 5/29/2008 7:47:55 PM
OK one I had used on me....Lets just get this first time out of the way and then after that we can do that kinky fantasy you have..........

boyzni3

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The procedure 11 years after Posted: 5/29/2008 7:44:02 PM
Ok a little off topic, but can there be a had vasectomy has not had a vasectomy option on profiles. Would be nice for those of us who are still open to the idea of having another munchkin.

boyzni3

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kissing is as old as motherhood Posted: 5/28/2008 4:13:58 PM
Am I the only chica who dont like the whole tongue thing. At certain times it is fine, btu the last thing i want is some guys smelly slober all over my face, messing up my makeup while I am at the grocery store.

boyzni3

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Would you shave your partner's privates?? Posted: 5/28/2008 4:02:31 PM
I would love for a man to shave me...and i would shave him, although its not my preferred. I like the hair, sorry if its old fashioned, but i want to know i am boinging a man not some pimply high school kid.

boyzni3

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homophobic someone define this for me Posted: 5/16/2008 4:39:08 PM
63 Blues, No honestly it wouldnt bother me, I am heterosexual so why would I care that someone called me that. While I generally believe labels are a negative item in our society, we have to have some terms to clairfy who and what we are.

boyzni3

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Tennessee man accidentally killed via kinky bondage/cuckold fetish Posted: 5/16/2008 3:08:43 PM
Ok Ed...I'll spill, I love slight choking, and it doesnt come from rape or abuse....Its the helpless feeling and then the intense orgasm that does it for me...I am a sub by nature, and this is very submissive, point I said slight though. Yea this case seems like a homicide not just kink play. I sense another Stephen King novel from this, maybe a sequel to Gerald's Game.

boyzni3

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homophobic someone define this for me Posted: 5/16/2008 3:00:07 PM
I think you just need more education about the matter....If you only know how many people were having erotic thoughts about you, not just gay guys, you might be surprised. Afterall your pic is on the net, so it is someones fantasy now. Ok i dont understand how using the term homosexuals implies homophobia...Is it only ok to use it as an adjective? I understand the dif between the terms sexual preference and sexual orientation, but this i dont get.

boyzni3

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Textured Condoms? Posted: 5/16/2008 2:54:51 PM
I personally think they are a joke, and do absolutely nothing for me. I can get all the stimulation i want during foreplay, fingers and toys and such, before the condom even goes on.

boyzni3

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woman stabs boyfriend in the heart during rough sex Posted: 5/16/2008 2:53:43 PM
Loveonfire...If you think a virgin could teach someone how to better have sex than this, I think you need to talk to the virgin...I am getting such a vanilla reading from you!! Ok so I can see where this is a little extreme, but in my opinion, even probation for a dangerous yet consensual act is one step away from dictatorship..... While this maybe something I never do, I still say to each their own. Ok yea drunk while doing it is unsafe, but they wanted it. We are talking adults who were supposedly of sound mind to make a decision.

boyzni3

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woman stabs boyfriend in the heart during rough sex Posted: 5/15/2008 8:11:24 PM
Why if both say this was an accident, and that they were consenting when they done it, did she go to prison for it? Next thing you know it will be prison for drawing to much blood with my fingernails.

boyzni3

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Moral (not oral) sex. What's your definition? Do you do it? Posted: 5/15/2008 6:36:48 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Nope. And the bible was translated how many years ago, do we need protection from the same things now? Havent we as humans evolved? If not physically, then in other social, emotional ways.

boyzni3

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Cum volume enhancers.... huh? Posted: 5/15/2008 5:49:57 PM
My question would be can you control it once you shoot it....OK ass/**** fine, but you trying to hit my mouth or chest or something from a distance and there might be a problem, I dont want cum in my curls, and I dont want it in my eye again!! Would it be like teaching toddlers to make it in the toilet, "try to sink the fruit loop honey" "Aim for the red one"

boyzni3

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Moral (not oral) sex. What's your definition? Do you do it? Posted: 5/14/2008 1:51:50 PM
Gen Xers are not making up new positions, they have been around forever....Look at the Kamua Sutra (ok I dont think spelled right) media is just more willing to show those now than in the past where if you saw any sex it was missionary, or that was all you ever heard of. I am not religious in any sense of the conventional word, so in my world anything goes for anybody who is consenting, and then I have my own personal limits. In my mind I picture religious people as having a dull sex life that is not frequent. yet religious people (aside from the mormons in Utah) have the lowest divorce rate, so apparantly if they do have a less than what I consider adequate sex life it must work for them. Someone religious please respond to this thread, so me like others know at least some posters opinion on the ideas/questions.

boyzni3

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anatomy/physiology - not sure how to catagorize this topic ?!? Posted: 5/12/2008 4:06:30 PM
I dont think her vagina size was the problem, as i am envisioning a problem he claims is due to not being able to get close to her vagina, which he says is due to fatty thighs. That has nothing to do with vagina size, but him being to short.

boyzni3

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You Only Live Once - or are some things better not to try? Posted: 5/12/2008 2:23:12 PM
I think wether or not you should fulfill your fantasies depends on how much you would regret not having done them later in life. I have a few fantasies I know I need to do before I die, and others that can just stay fantasies unless an oportune time comes up. And this goes for both sexual fantasies (i feel like I keep spelling that wrong) and just everyday day dreams. We only get one trip around the ball, but we want the trip to be a good one.

boyzni3

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anatomy/physiology - not sure how to catagorize this topic ?!? Posted: 5/8/2008 4:21:14 PM
It is possible, but I have never experienced as being the fault of the womans, and I have true thunder thighs. I have however had men to small to pleasure me in certain positions, like the spooning position. This definitely had nothing to do with my size in that position but all their size.... Tell your friend to tell him to grow a****so that they can fit.

boyzni3

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Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree? Posted: 5/7/2008 8:02:10 AM
I thought the formula depended on who the man was talking too...If talking to the wife/gf he cheated on take the number he told you he slept with and times by three, If you are his male buddy, divide by four. I think women are more honest about how many they slept with though, but like an above said, the number is low cause it is fwbs and stuff.

boyzni3

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what to expect when coming out as bi??? Posted: 5/6/2008 3:58:19 PM
I am nto bisexual but bicurious,,,its due to my shy factor. Anyway whenever i brought this up to a SO there first response is always threesome, which urkes me as not what i would want as my first experience....I think you will not get as much grief as you expect but beware of the pervs.

boyzni3

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Allergic? Posted: 5/6/2008 3:55:31 PM
I heard about this happening with the wives of soldiers that came back from the first Iragi conflict due to chemicals there.

boyzni3

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A tribute to the much underrated neck Posted: 5/6/2008 3:54:12 PM
I have a short, stubby neck.....This is a bad thread lol

boyzni3

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The first time you realize that you're sexy Posted: 5/6/2008 3:52:20 PM
The first time I remember feeling like I was sexy was when a guy told me how much better I was than so and so, who was the same so and so my ex cheated on me with. i know sounds like jealousy, but given my ex had never said one nice thing about the way I looked or "performed" this was what I needed to move on.

boyzni3

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Morels schrooming in high gear! Posted: 5/5/2008 4:32:04 PM
My mushroom secrets this year....dig under leaves in spots we usually dont find any around jack in the pulpits.....My friend said southwest side of thehill where he was but not on my place.

boyzni3

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Morels schrooming in high gear! Posted: 5/5/2008 12:57:18 PM
I dont know about where you are at Glass, but down here they tell us the only safe ones growing in our woods is the morels, they come in both yellow and gray and both are fine. I dont know how to describe themexcept they look like a waffle on the head. All I can say is bring on the fungus..>Hey OP Chicago isnt that far away you should share.

boyzni3

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Morels schrooming in high gear! Posted: 5/5/2008 11:50:23 AM
I live down here in south central Illinois where it is all about the morels....I dont do anything fancy with mine though, just flour and egg in oil fried crispy.

boyzni3

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why assume its a relationship because your dating? Posted: 5/2/2008 2:42:35 PM
Op I agree with you , I wouldnt think it was a relationship either, and I have had communication problems with guys before because they thought it was a relationship, or when it had been longer I thought it was and they didn't. Once I posted a thread about how long before you consider things a relationship, and people basically called me immature cause i ddint want to ask, to me asking if you are in a relationship with someone, or doing that whole official thing, makes it sound so much like high school, unless its been a long time. I wouldnt care what your family and friends think, but this maybe a funny little ice breaker to steer the conversation that way if you are curious.

boyzni3

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Girl on Girl Love - Is it normal Posted: 5/1/2008 3:51:29 PM
I think another issue with this is how much more sensitive and connected women are. Generally women are more open, loving, affectionate, touchy, closer, etc to our friends...I do think a lot of women do it for the aw factor, and I know I have myself for free drinks at the bar....There are women that think it is gross though.

boyzni3

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Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men? Posted: 4/29/2008 4:36:53 PM
If men want women to believe they have better orgasms than women, they need to be more expressive during their orgasms. I knw some men are vocal, but many arent or you get like a grunt when they cum. A woman knows how to call the cows home though.

boyzni3

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Smarter ladies have worse sex Posted: 4/29/2008 12:25:40 PM
Maybe the more intelligent a woman is the more open she is to other routes of pleasure, thus making vanilla sex not orgasmic...Thats the way i am.

boyzni3

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what kind of porn Posted: 4/25/2008 6:15:46 PM
I like watching porn about stuff I never seem to get, the stuff I fantasize about............ Love watchign with a partner and reenacting, and is usually what gets me worked up for anal the best.

boyzni3

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Grinding: Do Women/Men Find This a Turn-On? Posted: 4/23/2008 9:11:58 PM
Grinding is the only kind of dancing my uncordinated self can do....I think it is major turn on!!

boyzni3

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BBQ Chicken Marinate Posted: 4/23/2008 3:47:59 PM
I have marinated chicken breasts in the seven seas raspberry vinergarette before and then just browned in the skillet....Makes the chicken pink so the kids like it.

boyzni3

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males who like to act like slaves for women Posted: 4/23/2008 3:38:12 PM
James....its not a question of trying to be good....its being good or else.

boyzni3

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Cuddling with your FWB? Posted: 4/22/2008 4:16:15 PM
I dont think it is rules as much as it is what each person is comfortable with and varies situation to situation.

boyzni3

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Cuddling with your FWB? Posted: 4/22/2008 3:39:54 PM
I agree with one of the above, its the difference between a **** buddy and a FWB....I personally let both stay the night, and yea they sleep with me, but I have non sexual friends that do the same....Kissing yep do it, but not the slow emotional kind, and cuddling usually happens as well....I need the cuddling even if it is just a friend..

boyzni3

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Is Safe Sex Really Safe? Posted: 4/22/2008 3:35:49 PM
To compare AIDS and other STI's is a little of a stretch though....I would have no problems if they had a different STI, provided it was one the comdoms could actually protect from, but AIDS is a life or death thing, I know treatment is getting better, but not complete yet.

boyzni3

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Friends Posted: 4/22/2008 3:33:36 PM
I cant make the transition from friends to lover....so for me i have to have the initial chemistry. For me though, part of that chemistry is personality, so its a basic friendship to begin with , just not the best buds type.

boyzni3

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The things you DON'T miss about a relationship Posted: 4/21/2008 6:30:36 PM
I do not miss waking up in the morning with my shoulder smelling like BO cause he had his smelly arm pit on it all night long. I dont miss the cheating, although the sex was much better when he was (although much better is not saying a lot) I dont miss being told no we cant have sex for like the 30th night in a row (so much more sex now that single, different guy in case you wondered) I dont miss having to apoligize for my kids being kids and comfortable in their own house, he wants to watch sci fi do it at his house. I dont miss not getting a vday present, at least now i have a reason for not getting one. I dont miss the ex mother in law, or the at one time future ex mother in law.

boyzni3

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Swinging i don't get it! Posted: 4/21/2008 6:13:02 PM
First off....a lot of women dont do it because they are afraid of losing their partner.....Thats a false statement by people who want to support monogamy..... Second, I would say understanding why someone likes swinging is paramount to understanding why someone is heterosexual or homosexual when you are the opposite, if you are not attracted that way you will not understand and all you will do is try to force your beliefs on others.

boyzni3

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Just One Question? Posted: 4/21/2008 6:05:07 PM
What color did you paint it? I would say go for it.

boyzni3

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Old family recipes and health Posted: 4/20/2008 5:50:24 PM
I think food might have something to do with it, but I think a lot of it has to do with how much we sanitize everything. We use bleach on everything, hand sanatizer, etc....and we are not allowed to build up immunities to basic illness....My granma always said a little dirt never hurt.

boyzni3

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My girlfriend looks at gayporn!! Posted: 4/18/2008 10:14:53 PM
Sex is sex, and if it doesnt violate your moral boundaries, it doesnt matter what kind it can be erotic.... And I am so sick and tired of people saying porn patronizes women....It is fantasy, and the women get paid and go into the industry with a pretty good idea of what they are getting into. men like you patronize women....by deeming their sexuality as dirty and immoral instead of embracing it....back to the Victorian era we go.

boyzni3

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So its OK for men to go to a stripclub/watch porn but what about women? Posted: 4/18/2008 10:08:57 PM
ok so I dont know what men you are talking about, but I have never had a man get mad at me watching porn or going to strip clubs....In fact it seems to turn them on more, they know what man the woman is coming home too, just like the woman knows who the man is coming home too...It all just spices up the sex life. P.S. Before you list your interests as informing others you are right, you need to make sure you are right, or list your personality as shallow, close minded, and conceited.

boyzni3

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what is the reason behind having sex to have a kid so early in life? Posted: 4/18/2008 2:50:08 PM
Not every young parent is not financially nor emotionally able to handle having a child, but unfortunately most of the ones who get pregnant are because they are doing it to have a baby so they either trap a man or have a baby to love them. Dont kid yourself, teens know more about sex than people want to let on. Most know about birth control, and most know about the risks....well the ones around here, we dont have absitinence only sex ed programs.... In a lot of areas there is not a lot to do after high school, and having a child makes people think they are an adult. I had my children young, 19 and 21, but was married before I ever got pregnant with the first one. Definitely was emotionally stable, probably more so then than now, and financial wise, we may not have had a lot, but we didnt get welfare either. In fact my finances were the same as they are now, cause now I am divorced...I wanted to have kids and I did, to me the benefits of having them younger out weighed the costs of having them older. I know people do not want to think about the costs of having children at an older age, but there are legitimate costs....if you are talking way older, there are birth defects to consider, plus paying college tuition at the same time you are trying to seriously plan for retirement. There is the energy factor as well, plus the potential for generation gap due to the age difference. Plus, older age when you become a grandparent. Now I understand there are significant costs to having children at a young age as well, and in many situations they outweigh the costs for the other side, but had to add my two cents since most of the comments were leaning towards the latter.

boyzni3

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Is it wrong? Posted: 4/16/2008 5:36:37 PM
My answer is no to all of the above...anything between consenting adults without deception is not wrong IMO...and as far as why some people are against all the above, it is what they believe...There is nothing wrong with believing one way or another as long as you are respectful of others opinions and do not try to use false claims to sway a person to your side.

boyzni3

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Polygamy Posted: 4/16/2008 8:48:32 AM
The divorce and remarriage cycle here in the US is serial monogamy, cause you are only married to one person at a time, and as far as residing in the same household after a divorce, How does that benefit the kids? Sure in some situations, but not in all as this could be very confusing for the children and cause them resentment towards a step parent. As far as polygamy being legal, I am all for it as long as young girls, under 18, are not forced to be in a polygamist relationship, which is usually what happens. If there was a way to ensure that the wives were not brainwashed and were told open mindedly about other cultures and monogamy, then to each their own. The problem with most religions though is that they teach their children that only their way is right, and do not offer any unbiased information about other religions. And while were at it, I want homosexual marriage to be legal to.

boyzni3

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Sensory deprivation Posted: 4/15/2008 4:33:24 PM
Thanks to an ex lending me the book Geralds Game to read, the whole being tied up with something i couldnt break if had to, has gotten me scared unless I am with a very trusting partner....If I can ever get past the book and into a trusting relationship, and I take a long time for trust, this sounds cool....But I want a clean bill of health from his/her doctor so I know that the chances of heart attack or anurism (sp) or small, lol.

boyzni3

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Kraft dinner and Canadian culture? Posted: 4/15/2008 4:02:39 PM
Thanks....but i dont think I want all the spices, mac and cheese is comfort food, best simple for me anyway. Thanks though.

boyzni3

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Kraft dinner and Canadian culture? Posted: 4/14/2008 6:05:51 PM
I dont think there is enough noodles in the character ones...but the spiral ones rock, and the cheese seems oranger in them...i dont know maybe my perception... I know its not real cheese, but i like the velvetta shells and cheese so much more... Everyone that is talking about homemade mac and cheese...what do you do, just melt cheese over or do you mix the cheese with cream or milk or something...I dont think I have ever had homemade except for melted velvetta over.

boyzni3

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boasex Posted: 4/14/2008 4:24:29 PM
as long as mine is either black or fuschia i am good.

boyzni3

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How much will u put up with for good sex? Posted: 4/14/2008 4:21:13 PM
Since the purchase of my Hitachic wand, I aint putting up with no shiv for sex....its the whole deal or back to the outlet I go.

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