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niamh

Joined: 3/19/2006

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Have you tried one of the other free online dating sites? Posted: 7/5/2008 6:18:10 AM
Well that is very misleading. Ive tried another site called Connecting Singles. It is free to join and free to message each other. Hope that helps.

niamh

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Strippers Posted: 10/13/2006 10:29:46 AM
Well i think it depends on wether you trust the guy or not.

niamh

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can he be for real ? Posted: 9/28/2006 6:58:32 PM
I think for all relationships we should start of with trust. Then if they lie or deceive you then the trust is gone.

NIAMH

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Would you just settle for someone who was interested in you? Posted: 9/28/2006 3:06:36 AM
Well no. I mean there has to be some attraction there. You should never just settle for someone that is there for the sake of it. Just because of bad relationships in the past. Thats whats stopping you from meeting someone you are attracted to. You have to move on from the bad relationships in the past to look forward to the future. Good luck

niamh

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friends...... Posted: 9/26/2006 4:30:14 PM
How many of your friends are single/ attached? Do you have some single friends , i know how hard it can be when your freinds meet someone.

niamh

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Which would you prefer? Posted: 9/26/2006 8:28:05 AM
Just a theory, but which would you prefer? Having a child on your own? or Having a child with someone?

niamh

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Would you tell? Posted: 9/22/2006 6:53:36 PM
Well I think it was very selfish of your brother to put you in that position. In answer to your question no I would not interfer in a marriage whether I knew them or not. Your brother needs to step up and take responsibilty for his actions. He had to of known that this would of happened and that his wife would of found out. He needs to grow up

niamh

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Long Distance Relationship?! Posted: 9/22/2006 6:40:35 PM
Well the thing is about this is that you can't go up to her all the time becauseof your son. I think you should take your time on this it's only been a few months. Can you both compromise (sorry I know I mis-spelt this)? Can she come to you some nights? Then when you don't have your son go down and see her. It's all about compromising. Don't rush things though because we will feel smothered.

niamh

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Asking guys out... Do or don't Posted: 9/22/2006 5:47:27 PM
Right if you want an honest answer, Yes for God sake ask the guy out (I have liked a guy for nearly a year). I mean come on a year and as far as you got was Hi. Your wasting precious time here. Or their could be another excuse for not asking you out (he is probably seeing someone) ASK HIM OUT THERE IS NOTHING TO LOSE,,,,,,, Good luck

niamh

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What would you do? Posted: 9/20/2006 5:49:03 AM
I know this is horrible but I've have always said if this relationship ends. I would make sure the new b/fs mother is dead. I know its horrible. Sorry if I offended anyone....

niamh

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What men expect of women Posted: 9/20/2006 5:46:26 AM
Wel if you are always looking for women like that. Im amazed your not a VIRGIN

niamh

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What would you do? Posted: 9/20/2006 5:40:38 AM
Some women just won't allow their little boys to grow up. This has really helped thanx for everyones advice

niamh

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To Call or not to call? Posted: 9/19/2006 7:54:05 PM
" if we all sat around waiting for someone to initiate contact with us it would be a mighty silent world methinks." I totally agree Just stop the will I won't I. If you like the girl just message her.

niamh

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What would you do? Posted: 9/19/2006 7:50:59 PM
We all cant stand people interfering Really when she isn't meddling she is a nice woman. Am I mad? Im not looking for self-pity on this one. Just looking for advice and past experiences with MIL

niamh

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To Call or not to call? Posted: 9/19/2006 7:46:54 PM
Maybe this girl is too shy to message you first. I think you will be doing the runnin here Good luck

niamh

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What would you do? Posted: 9/19/2006 7:40:06 PM
Thats the thing sometimes he picks up for me other times he doesnt. I think its because he stil has to live with her. Besides interfering she is a nice woman. When we talk without sniping we get on very well.

niamh

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What would you do? Posted: 9/19/2006 7:30:28 PM
Thank you heyitsdoug. It makes alot of sense but when he does stand up to her she still puts her 2cents worth in. She just cant stop interfering in all her sons lives. She doesn't do it to the eldest but she does to the other one. I do think he is the one. Do you ever get to the stage if you say something nasty to her and she would twist it around and tell your spouse the complete opposite and that starts a row between the two of you?

niamh

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What would you do? Posted: 9/19/2006 7:23:55 PM
The other option is for you to stand up to her yourself. But that may make it worse (esp. if she wishes her son wasn't with you at all), and really, shouldn't he be willing to protect you? How will you feel in a long term relationship, with someone who didn't love you enough to protect you from his family? I understand this and i have spoken to her about it but she says he's my younger son. All her other sons moved out he is the only one left in the house with her and his father. She did this to one of his brothers girlfriend to. They are together for about 7yrs have a child and is interfering with his up-bringing.

niamh

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What would you do? Posted: 9/19/2006 7:12:17 PM
Believe me if I wouldn't get caught I would hire a hit-man.

niamh

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What would you do? Posted: 9/19/2006 7:10:58 PM
This sounds good please continue. Ill level with ya. Ive been seein this guy for 3years every now and then when he isnt in the room she snipes or critises me. Then I tell him he says " please don't put me in the middle" now I understand that to a scale but is it wrong for a bit of leverage from him. Also what I don't understand is why she waits until he has left the room its not as if he would say anything to her anyway. Another thing I dont want to break up over this as I do really love him. But I cant take is mother's interference anymore. Please anyone including guys advise. Desperate seeking advise

niamh

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What do you think of this? Posted: 9/19/2006 7:00:55 PM
I have to say I would never mistake you for a gal

niamh

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What would you do? Posted: 9/19/2006 6:58:32 PM
What would you do if you were seeing this guy and his mother has an input on most things even if he tells her to stop she doesnt. Please give experiences as I would like to know if this has happened to you?

niamh

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What do you think of this? Posted: 9/19/2006 6:55:40 PM
Well put thanx guys

niamh

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What do you think of this? Posted: 9/19/2006 6:43:27 PM
A few months ago I got chatting to this guy I liked I read the profile it stated: Man looking for dating. So I read his profile liked him alot was ready to meet up with him and boom he tells me something. He is actually a she. I mean he/she isn't a transexual but was posing as a woman. I was completly fazed as I really liked him. He/she convinced me so much that I was talking to a guy. Please share insights WAs she wrong to do that?

niamh

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 9/19/2006 6:21:29 PM
Sometimes I read the whole profile but if it way to long like 2/3 a4 pages I give up.

niamh

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What's the Double Base? Posted: 9/19/2006 5:47:45 PM
trust me guys/ gals this one works very, very good for the girl ;) Are you sure the girl only told you that she liked it. Dont mean to be cheeky but it sounds awkward...

niamh

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Preventing shaving irritation... Posted: 9/19/2006 5:43:48 PM
use nair or veet......they pretty well remove all the stuble and the insuing irritation... Do not use aby of these as it irrates it more. Believe me its very irrating and can go on throughout the day....

niamh

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Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 9/19/2006 5:22:11 PM
Thank you Mark, Well I have moved on and I learned from the relationship. I dont apply it into the next relationship because if you did it wrong in the past it means your probaly not good at it at all. Do you know what I mean?

niamh

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Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 9/19/2006 5:00:36 PM
Thanks for the advice but I want to make 1 thing clear I dont talk about my ex in front of the b/f.

niamh

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Are some people meant to be alone forever ? Posted: 9/19/2006 3:22:04 PM
I have had three back to back relationships all the same started wonderfull ended badly, when i said this to someone recently he said that maybe i am just meant to be aloed dowe. Im oldest in my family and sisters are settled down with the first guys they met and im alone again .... So am i just meant to be alone ? even though i would love to meet someone and be happy I would just like to say thank you to everyone for the advice and kind words..

niamh

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What makes a guy not want to see you again Posted: 9/19/2006 3:15:58 PM
Dont be ****y , your tooo handsome I always email my photos to who ever im talking too

niamh

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its hard to forget Posted: 9/18/2006 7:51:01 PM
I see what you mean thats what I meant, some people don't get. You don't want to get back wit the ex your just reminsing

niamh

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Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 9/18/2006 7:40:16 PM
Its not that im pining, its more what is he up to, how is he getting on.

niamh

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Pregnant women Posted: 9/18/2006 7:37:27 PM
Guys would you date a pregnant woman?

niamh

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Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 9/18/2006 7:28:38 PM
No he did nothing I did nothing it's just one of those things.

niamh

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Profile importance... Posted: 9/18/2006 7:00:22 PM
What we want is, a nice cheeky guy that can hold a conversation other than the weather.

niamh

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Will she call me? Posted: 9/18/2006 6:58:48 PM
My advice don't stay beside the phone: You will be their for eternity

niamh

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Living together Posted: 9/18/2006 6:51:08 PM
The main question here is, is that the house was bought and built by you before you meet a girl. Just because u built it and furnished it yourself does not mean that a girl would go mad because she had no imput. Us girls are not shallow like that.

niamh

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Is it me, or her Posted: 9/18/2006 6:46:40 PM
Right here's the thing She got out of a abusive marriage. She says its not you so move on. She is on her own, the first time in 6years so leave her be. Its nice that she could move on after an abusive marriage, fair play to her. Just leave her to it. Let her find her-self

niamh

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Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 9/18/2006 6:39:40 PM
Thanks for everyone's advice.

niamh

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Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 9/18/2006 6:28:03 PM
Yeah I suppose I would be insecure. I don't want to get bk with the ex just wondering how he's getting on in life. I suppose I shud give to thinkin about him then

niamh

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Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 9/18/2006 6:07:50 PM
Well I have changed my number so of course he cant contact me

niamh

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Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 9/18/2006 6:00:51 PM
I have to say its true my current b/f, I wouldnt say he'd mind as he trusts me im not saying if i contact this guy that i will get back with him or cheat on my b/f. I never would. It would be nice to see how he is thats all

niamh

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Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 9/18/2006 5:40:38 PM
Well what I really meant was wondering how he's doing and how he is getting on. I love the guy im with truly it's not what im not getting from this relationship its what happened in the last one. I dont even have his number to ask how he is. Am i making sense.

niamh

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So you walk into a bar........ Posted: 9/18/2006 5:21:35 PM
Just because a girl wears a revealing top does not mean she wants you to look at her boobs. For instance it just goes to show you going ever went over to her because she was wearing the revealing top. She was responding in the conversation but as soon as you kept gawking at her chest she wasn't interested in a peeping tom.

niamh

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Do you still think about your ex? Posted: 9/18/2006 5:15:58 PM
Heres my situation, I used to go out with a guy 3years ago. It didn't end badly, we just fizzled out. We were friends before but have lost contact along the line somewhere. My question is is it wrong to pine over an ex if your with someone new. I just wonder if the relationship could of been fought for. The guy im seeing now is lovely but its getting to the point where I still think about my ex. I mean stuff we did in the relationship, going out etc.... Things you think back on from the relationship. Please advise

niamh

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difficult break up just gets worse Posted: 9/18/2006 5:09:05 PM
Hi, I think you should stop worrying over this girl it's doing you any good. Here's my advice: Send her an email and tell her that you will be there for her in the future and you can no longer wait on how she feels about you. That you have to move on. Tell her your stills friends but that the relationship has to work on both sides (friendship I mean). I wish you happiness in the future. It will be awhile before you get over this girl. But in time you will move on. Try the dating scene again. Or maybe you just need more time. If you want to talk more you know my name email me and I will advise more. Take care hun

niamh

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What makes a guy not want to see you again Posted: 9/18/2006 11:03:19 AM
Wow you get the blonde moment award..as in stupid How dare you come in here and call some one stupid , i mean really i was looking for advice from someone by own age group not my mothers.

niamh

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What makes a guy not want to see you again Posted: 9/16/2006 3:18:45 PM
He called guys thanks for the advice , he said i did'nt put him off he said that he was really nervous about asking a pretty girl out thanks guys

niamh

Joined: 3/19/2006

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What makes a guy not want to see you again Posted: 9/16/2006 3:14:04 PM
Ah come on , seriously the post was'nt about pictures fake or not.

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