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Joined: 3/21/2006

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 6/25/2009 9:52:08 AM
I'd have to say I am looking for someone who is an equal in most respects. I have posted what I prefer, but that's not saying I wont bend a little. I just want someone genuine, who can carry on a multi-faceted conversation that involves the many aspects of life, appreciates me for the person that I am.. etc., etc. I'm by NO means perfect, I'm just me - and I like me :) I seem to find on here- though, that a lot of the men I have spoken to say they want one thing or don't mind other things - but really don't mean it. They mostly seem to want trophies, or someone who wants to watch sports, hike, camp, fish, etc. That stuff is all great, but hey, I have my interests too... (I'm not much into sports, hiking hurts, my idea of camping is a Motel 6, fishing is ok as long as I dont have to gut it.. hehe.) But I'll try most anything. I'm just not super physically active (physical problems prevent this...) and thats what I run into alot on here... gym fanatics, or HWP- which I must say, I know very FEW women who are. I am totally put off by men who immediately start questioning my 'build', or venture into sexual conversation right away. Now - I'm not a prude by any means, but to me, that type of conversation is saved for once you get to know someone a little better, but inevitably it always comes up. Always. I saw someone in here say something about "Just because I don't want to have sex with you, does'nt mean I don't want to have sex" Thats very true. I'm just uncomfortable thinking that someone wants to talk about the bedroom before even knowing ME. When those bits start failing you in the years to come, what will you have to fall back on? A relationship is NOT based on it, at least not in my world. Sure, it's a part of it -- but let nature take it's course! Hmm.. wow.. ok I got a little off course for my first post.. sorry y'all! Just in case someone wants to flame me for grammar/spelling - please check yours before you do.. hehe. I've seen that alot in here since I've been forum lurking hehe

Joined: 3/21/2006

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broken heart after 2 days Posted: 4/19/2006 8:18:36 AM
Hearts.. very fragile... love is love, no matter how long it takes to develop. I seem to have a problem now myself having become attached to someone who I thoght, and was even told by him, felt the same way (Falling).. and now.. out of the blue.. silent treatment. I think Id rather almost have the distance, than to be ignored. (Yes, thats why my profile is down..) Anyhow, I hope things work out between you two... at least until you can decide whether its love or lust, and decide to do something about it aka move closer, or break it off to stop the heartache!

Joined: 3/21/2006

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Destined to be alone:))) Posted: 4/11/2006 11:13:02 PM
I don't enjoy being alone AT ALL... but at the same time, I dont like having my heart trampled on like it has in the last day or so. This last man has brought me to the point of actually removing my profile and throwing in the towel-- I just give up. Im pretty convinced that there are no sincere men out there... just when you think they are, they rip your still beating heart from your chest. Doesnt anyone just want to love and be loved.. be happy? I know I do... but right now, forecast is cloudy..

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