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Joined: 3/21/2006

Msg: 104 (view)

OKC get together????? Posted: 3/18/2008 8:45:55 AM
well i plan on being at russells in okc thi s weekend, i live in southern okla on the okla tex border.Ive been here for about 6 yrs. OKC is my home and i do miss it. Hope to see you all there. Oh and thanks to whoever put it together. donna

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Fibromyalgia Posted: 4/3/2006 7:49:41 PM
FIBRO CAN BE BROUGHT ON BY TRAMA TO THE BODY, LIKE WHIP LASH. ANYTHING TRAMATIZING TO THE NERVES OF THE SPINAL CORD LIKE YOUR NECK AND BACK. CAN ALSO BE CAUSED BY SURGERIES. ANITHESIA TUBES THAT GO DOWN THE THROAT CAN DAMAGE NERVES IF NOT DONE EXACTLY RIGHT. THIS IS WHAT MY DR TOLD ME. I WAS BORN WITH HEART DEFECT AND HAVE HAD NUMEROUS SURGERIES. I HAVE ALSO HAD CANCER AND HAD SURGERY FOR THAT AND MY GALL BLADDER. BUT I WAS ALSO IN A VERY BAD AUTO ACCIDENT SOME YEARS AGO SO I REALLY DONT K NOW WHAT CAUSED MINE . THE DR SAID COULD BE ANY OF THESE.

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Fibromyalgia Posted: 4/3/2006 7:46:23 PM
HELLO, I HAVE FIBRO. HAVE HAD IT FOR SEVERAL YEARS. I WAS DIAGNOSED AS HAVING MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS BECAUSE IT HAS MOST OF THE SAME SYMPTOMS. BUT WITH M.S YOU CAN GET SOME RELIEF. MOST DRS.WILL TELL U IT IS ALL IN YOUR HEAD. WELL IT IS IN YOUR HEAD.LOL NOT FUNNY BUT IS A NEUROLOGICAL THING. THE BRAIN CONTROLS EVERY PART OUR BODY. IT IS EXCRUCIATING. LOSE VISION. LOSE MOBILITY. SEVERE HEADACHES. LEGS JERK UNCONTROLABLY, SEVERE PAIN FROM HEAD TO TOE. CANT BEND, WHENU DO BEND CANT STRAIGHTEN BACK UP. BASICALLY TAKES YOUR LIFE AWAY. VERY DEPRESSING. IF YOU DONT HAVE INSURANCE YOU ARE SCREWED. YOU NEED TO SEE A DR THAT STUDIES FIBRO AND HAS SOME IDEA OF HOW TO TREAT IT. MOST PPL WHO HAVE IT ARE ON NUMEROUS PAIN MEDS. AND ANTIDEPRESSANTS. I TAKE AMYTRIPTILYN FOR THE PAIN IN MY LEGS. IT IS SUPPOSED TO HELP WITH THE JERKING. MY KIDS SAY THEY STILL JERK, BUT IT MAKES ME SLEEP SO I DONT KNOW. I ONLY TAKE IT BEFORE I GO TO BED BECAUSE IT MAKES ME SLEEP FOR AT LEAST 10 -12 HOURS. SOME TIMES I STILL CANT SLEEP EVEN WHEN I TAKE IT THE PAIN IS SO BAD YOU CANT GET COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO SLEEP. I ALSO TAKE DEPAKOTE WHICH IS A SEIZURE MEDICINE, I DONT HAVE SEIZURES BUT IT HELPS THE HEADACHES. I TAKE IT TWICE A DAY AND IF I MISS ONE DOSE. I WILL HAVE A HEADACHE FOR AT LEAST 3 DAYS . I HAVE ONE EVERY DAY BUT THE MEDICINE TAKES THE EDGE OFF SO I CAN AT LEAST HOLD MY HEAD UP . USUALLY SO WEAK CANT STAND OR GRIP ANYTHING. SOME PEOPLE USE VOICE ACTIVATED PROGRAMS THAT TYPE FOR THEM. I DONT HAVE ONE, IF MY HANDS HURT THAT BAD, THEN I DONT USE THEM ON THOSE DAYS. MOST OF MY PAIN IS IN BACK , NECK KNEES AND ANKLES. THIGHS . I HAD KNEE SURGERY TO TRY TO HELP IT. IT HELPED FOR MAYBE ONE MONTH THATS IT. ANYWAY JUST TRY TO BE SUPPORTIVE OF YOUR FRIEND WHO HAS IT AND TRY TO LEARN AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. THERE IS A DR IN LAKE TAHOE CALI. WHO TREATS IT AND YOU CAN GO ONLINE AND HE WILL SEND YOU FREE INFORMATION AND DVDS ON IT. GOOD LUCK. DONNA

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Msg: 31 (view)

Why do I feel like this?? Posted: 4/1/2006 1:51:50 PM
THIS IS GREAT ADVICE.THANKS FOR SENDING IT . IT WILL PROBABLY HELP ALOT OF OTHERS. [please refrain from posting your replies in ALL CAPS/Forum Moderator]

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Msg: 30 (view)

Why do I feel like this?? Posted: 4/1/2006 1:47:11 PM
WELL IT IS THE ONE WHO IS IN LOVE THAT ALWAYS FEELS THE PAIN. SO YOU ARE THAT ONE. I AM SORRY FOR YOUR PAIN BUT I AM HAPPY TO HEAR THAT YOU ARE WISE ENOUGH TO REALIZE HE ISNT THE ONE FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN. THAT ISNT THE WAY A LOVING RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE AND YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. JUST DONT LET YOUR HEART BE TAKEN OR GIVEN SO EASILY. I WAS MARRIED 18 YRS AND MY HUSBAND CHEATED ALL THOSE YEARS I TRIED SO HARD TO MAKE IT WORK AND WOULD ALWAYS FORGIVE HIM, BUT ONE DAY I JUST SAID ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. I HAD TO GET MY LIFE TOGETHER SO I WAS HAPPY FOR A CHANGE AND ALSO FOR THE HAPPINESS OF MY CHILDREN. YES IT IS HARD. I WAS DEVASTATED AND I CRIED EVERY DAY FOR 3 YEARS. EVERY WHERE I WENT I WOULD SEE THINGS OR HEAR SONGS THAT REMINDED ME OF HIM. BUT TIME DOES HEAL ALL WOUNDS. I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR 9 YEARS NOW AND I AM THE HAPPIEST I HAVE EVER BEEN. HOWEVER THE KIDS ARE FINALLY GROWN AND I AM MISSING A COMPANION. I HAVE DATED OFF AND ON FOR THESE NINE YEARS AND HAVE MET A LOT OF JERKS AND I LIVED WITH ONE WHO WANTED TO HIT ME AND THEN WITH ONE WHO HATED MY KIDS. SO NEVE AGAIN WILL LIVE WITH A MAN UNTIL I AM SURE HE LOVES ME BEYOND A DOUBT AND I LOVE HIM THE SAME. ONLY THEN WILL I COMMIT TO HIM AND WONT LIVE WITH HIM WITHOUT MARRIAGE SO THAT USUALLY SCARES THEM AWAY UNLESS THEY ARE THE RIGHT ONE. GOOD LUCK AND DONT GIVE UP. THERE SOME GREAT GUYS OUT THERE. I HAVE LOTS OF MALE FRIENDS AND THEY ARE GREAT. JUST HAVENT MET MR. RIGHT YET.

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Msg: 78 (view)

Losing faith in women... Posted: 4/1/2006 1:36:20 PM
I AM A WOMAN AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHY ANY WOMAN WOULD DO THIS. I CERTAINLY WOULDNT. IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE. WAS THIS A ONE NIGHT STAND? MAYBE SHE WAS INTO YOU FOR THAT NIGHT IF IT WAS. PERSONALLY I DONT DO ONE NIGHT STANDS ANYMORE. THEY CAN BE PAINFUL. I THINK DATING AND REALLY GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE SEX IS INVOLVED IS CRUCIAL. IF ANYONE MALE OR FEMALE JUST WANTS SEX, THEN JUST SAY SO . NO NEED TO LIE ABOUT IT. AT LEAST EVERYONE WOULD KNOW WHERE THEY STAND. I AM HONEST, SOMETIMES BRUTALLY HONEST. SOME PEOPLE CANT HANDLE THAT. BUT I AM SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO YOU. BECAUSE IT MAKES SOME MEN THINK ALL WOMEN ARE ALIKE. BUT WE ARE NOT. JUST LIKE NOT ALL MEN ARE IDIOTS, ALTHOUGH SOMETIMES I WONDER WHERE THE GOOD ONES ARE. WE HAVE THE SAME PROBLEMS WITH MEN THAT U MEN HAVE WITH WOMEN. DONT LOSE FAITH THERE IS A RIGHT ONE FOR YOU OUT THERE SOMEWHERE, ITS JUST FINDING HER. REMEMBER WE HAVE TO MEET A LOT OF IDIOTS BEFORE WE MEET THE RIGHT ONE TO MAKE US APPRECIATE THE RIGHT ONE WHEN THEY COME ALONG. TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK DONNA

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What is your Make Up song? Posted: 4/1/2006 1:29:08 PM
WELL I WOULD BE TOO BUSY MAKING UP AND WOULDNT HEAR ANY SONGS ANYWAY, SO I DONT HAVE ONE. LOL I MEAN WHO REALLY CARES ABOUT THE SONG WHEN THERE IS MAKING UP TO DO. BUT I DO LIKE YOUR CHOICE. IT MADE ME LAUGH. LOL

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Msg: 266 (view)

Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 4/1/2006 1:10:59 PM
GIRLFRIEND MOVE ON. I HAVE HAD THIS HAPPEN SO MANY TIMES IT ISNT FUNNY. IT IS VERY PAINFUL. I THINK THE MEN WHO SAY THEY LOVE US, THEN LEAVE LIKE THAT JUST DONT KNOW WHAT LOVE IS AND HAVE NEVER FELT IT OR THEY COULDNT BE SO COLD AS TO DO THIS. I THINK THEY HAVE LUST CONFUSED WITH LOVE. THEY LUST YOU TIL THE NEXT WOMAN WALKS IN THEN THEY TOTALLY FORGET YOU. JUST TRY TO MOVE ON AND NOT LET YOUR HEART BE GIVEN SO FREELY SO FAST. NEXT TIME JUST TAKE IT SLOW . ENJOY THEIR COMPANY AND TRY TO REALLY GET TO KNOW THEM FIRST. WE ALL HAVE A WALL WE CAN PUT UP NOT TO LET OUR HEARTS GET TOO CLOSE TO SOMEONE, USE IT. UNTIL U ARE SURE ANYWAY . IF THEY LOVE YOU, THEY WILL NOT DO THIS. IM SORRY FOR YOUR PAIN. BUT TIME TRUELY DOES HEAL ALL. DONNA

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Msg: 25 (view)

Is it ok for men to have female friends when they are married? Posted: 4/1/2006 12:57:20 PM
sorry to hear about your husband. however i have many male friends that are just that who would do anything for me and i for them, not in a sexual way, but just friends. i do think that if they are just friends and he loves you then he will only want you to meet those friends and share their friendship as well. I agree if he has friendships behind your back then you need to worry, unless you are a jealous person then may be that is why he kept it from you. none the less if it is just friends you should know. For the record no one will ever keep me from my friends we all need friends no matter if they are male or female. Jealousy has no place in any relationship and only honesty will make it work. good luck donna

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