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singleinlewistonidaho

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Can I collect unemployment if I get fired due to do poor job performance? Posted: 10/12/2009 6:50:09 PM
Never quit. It depends on your state. I was fired as a Central Processer trainee in a hospital because my computer skills were not up to par. I collected un employment on a former claim. 6 Months later I was re hired by same hospital but different department. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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Broken Up With For The Strangest Reasons Posted: 10/11/2009 12:18:27 PM
All excuses. While she has the right to end the relationship as others have pointed out, I think that making excuses that effect the self esteem of others is wrong to do if that's all the person is looking for, excuses. And excuses was all she gave you. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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We should ALL admire George Bush Posted: 10/7/2009 1:37:29 PM
Think about the term Neo Conservative. It's saying new conservative. An oxymoron. When the left runs up against a wall in any time period of history what it has done is re package itself. Tada! Neo conservatism was born. Send me a Private message and I'll send you a write up that exlaines everything. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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She threw my car into park... Posted: 10/7/2009 1:50:17 AM
Wow. Spoiled little girl alert!

singleinlewistonidaho

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We should ALL admire George Bush Posted: 10/5/2009 1:55:20 AM
Paleo conservatives don't like Bush. Bush was more like a leftist then a conservative. "War on terrorism" is about as worthless as War on drugs, poverty Etc. Why conservatives rally and defend the status quo of conservatism boggles the mind. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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Halloween.. Posted: 10/5/2009 1:05:59 AM
Dude! Get yourself a screen accurate Star Wars Stormtrooper Costume. They are chick magnets. Mine managed to piss my girlfriend at the time off with women I did not even know calling me baby, wanting photos Etc. I was in LA once walking down the street at a Star Wars Con. I was a mile from my room making my way back and walked wtih two black chicks. At the end of the rout before they took the fork I asked the hotter one of the two to have dinner with me. Sight un seen she said yes LOL Something about the armor that prjects mucsls that are not really there but the illusion makes a lot of women go ga ga like they are looking at a hot greek warrior The other up side is you will also take first prize at any contest. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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women and police officers Posted: 10/4/2009 2:06:11 AM
Offering sexual favors to get out of a DUI should be considered a Bribe. Are bribes an arrestable offense? Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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what is with camera phone pics of dcks / come on Posted: 10/4/2009 1:48:31 AM
Most guys are stupid. I find that women will be very interested in me by the third or forth email since I have not sent them a photo of my susage On the other hand I get a lot of requests for that kinda thing too. MIke

singleinlewistonidaho

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Can ugly women get studmuffins/?? Posted: 10/2/2009 6:55:37 PM
Plain Jane is great but they are not to be confused with ugly. Even an ugly woman can get my attention if she's got a great rack Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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She asked for money at the end of the date! Posted: 10/2/2009 6:52:40 PM
Wow must be a new business technique. I think you got a free sample LOL You should now sue her and say in court that by sleeping with a prostitute it's lessend your chances of dating a normal women LOL

singleinlewistonidaho

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are you in love with someone you can't have? Posted: 10/1/2009 8:46:40 PM
Yes. I still love two women. The last one who recently left and one that left me in 1995. Once I love someone it's going to be the case for at least 25 years. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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three months now Posted: 10/1/2009 2:05:05 PM
True love over comes all. I wonder about my ex the same. I guess she did not love me or she'd have been willing to do whatever it took. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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guns at home Posted: 9/30/2009 6:07:49 PM
Stats are skewed. Some of us have proper training with firearms. That is why police carry them. Police have shot themselves with their own guns, committed suicide with them, had accidental discharges and have used them while beating their wives. In those cases those police officers have been punished accordingly and the rest of the police departments continued to issue and use firearms Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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guns at home Posted: 9/30/2009 6:03:33 PM
How scarry would it be for some nut job to get into your house, cut your phone lines and do whatever they want to you and yours? The thought of that is so scarry to me I keep a firearm in my home. The Ammo was locked away till I heard about a home invasion in my area where by a man and his pregnate girlfriend were beatin before they were left alone by the invaders. I loaded my SKS and it sits in the closet. I live alone. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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How did you lose your first love? Posted: 9/30/2009 4:07:28 PM
She wanted to do meth so took off with out a word as to why. mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 9/30/2009 4:04:41 PM
It's simple at least in some parts of the nation like mine, younger women are availible. Ones my age are all married or so cynical they won't even give you a chance. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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is havinga little acne a big turn off? Posted: 9/29/2009 9:51:57 PM
Don't know how it is for women but I once saw a girl that had a bad complexion and it was like love at first sight for me. I looked right past her complexion and only saw her face. But I did not know her so that was that. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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AGE DIFFERENCE? Posted: 9/28/2009 1:33:03 PM
was 37 when I met a 21 year old gal. I just wanted some campany for a moive or two and she liked me a lot. We ended up engaged and moved in together then she left. I don't think she was ready. With the age gap I have more experience and I am a bit of a teacher with my love interests. So when I saw her making mistakes I'd try to coach her and she saw it all as critisim. SHe got very down and because she was not good with communications it all went to hell. She's undergone a personality change, smokes and goes to bars, taken up with a FWB's. None of it good for her or her daughter. And she wants nothing to do with me now. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/28/2009 1:21:14 PM
Just want to point out that just because you did not do anything wrong does not mean the kids come back home. CPS gets money for the kids they place in foster homes. That sets the stage for abuse right there. CPS is the best reason I can think of not to have kids. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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Stopped talking to me!! Posted: 9/28/2009 1:16:27 PM
IN the beginning it's all a game and a front till you really real in the fish. Guys unlike you girls have to have 20 lines in the water to catch one because only one or two out of 20 will stay in his boat. He also may be sabotaging things out of fear. All you can do is send an email expressing that you were interested and if he changes his mind he should do it soon and contact you. Start moving on right away however case he does not. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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How do you stop missing your ex because it's so hard... Posted: 9/27/2009 6:26:30 PM
I'm in the same darn boat. It sucks. I can go find aother woman but she won't be like the one I still love. Or what keeps me going is maybe she will be better. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 9/27/2009 6:22:56 PM
The outcome with CPS orgs can differ from state to state. I've heard a lot of horror stories and many were confirmed reports. They did not have proof? They don't need it. All they have to do is interview you and if you do not answer perfect to every question they got you. My ex who broke up with me is out to get me too. She causing me problems at work. We both work at a hospital. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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LOVE: Does it exist? Posted: 9/27/2009 12:57:44 PM
I have loved un conditionaly so I think it's possibe but not everyone can do it. I still love some of the women I've been with who I have not seen in years. I still love my ex even as I am pissed at her for ruing our relationship and trying to get me in trouble at work. While I still love her I'd not want to be with her. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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LOVE: Does it exist? Posted: 9/27/2009 8:32:38 AM
There is the catch! If it's conditional it's not really love. Someone mentioned true love. I don't think there is any other kind. And how offten does true love exist that cannot be explained by a psychiatrist? I just learned my father passed away in Colorado at 5 AM. I love and miss my dad. It's a time like this I wish I was not single. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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LOVE: Does it exist? Posted: 9/26/2009 1:44:42 AM
LOVE is it real? Does it exist? With exception of bood relations is there really a such thing as love in a relationship? I think the answer is no. When all love between men and women is based on Self interest how can love really exist? I've come to the conclusion there is no such thing. Anyone disagree? Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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receiving mixed signals Posted: 9/24/2009 1:23:55 AM
At the very least talk to other guys. mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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are some people non-datable? Posted: 9/24/2009 1:22:08 AM
I must not be datable. Never had a relationship last longer then 6 months till the last one. It was a year and a half but I suspect she was only with me because she was a head case. I read people well, I call it like I see it and I don't let people or women in my life snow me. I think that bothers everyone when you feel like you are being seen through. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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My ex fiance contact me again, why??? Posted: 9/23/2009 1:42:35 PM
Ya I think it's her guilt. My ex contacted me 14 years later to lay it all out on the table. So far every girl I've loved has tried to come back and I was busy with someone else. My Fiance just left me this past May. She moved out and got a new guy now. Soon as she did she became very nasty wo me and wanted me to stay away. I feel it in my gut that someday she's gonna contact me too. I am sick of being right, for nothing. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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Can you lose the ability to love and care for someone? Posted: 9/23/2009 1:31:41 PM
Sounds like my fiancee no my ex fiancee. She had depression issues. Told me a week or so before she found a new guy that she did not care about anything. She had no feelings. That I could have told her that her mother had died and she'd not feel a thing. When she left I felt all the pain for the both of us. I wonder if she will ever snap out of it. She seems to be very happy with her new guy. Won't even talk to me anymore. I think she's lying to herself again. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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Why are guys afraid to ask women out? Posted: 9/22/2009 1:38:17 PM
Don't ask them out. Like someone said they are brutal with a responce if they are not open to it. The old read my mind game at play. I guess this is why I stick to the net. If someone is interested in me they will let me know. Mike

singleinlewistonIdaho

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Spontaneous dates Posted: 9/21/2009 11:22:01 PM
Oh for crying out loud what I wrote was fine. And my reading comprehension was rated as excellent by my reading lab teachers but I understand not everyone is so gifted. Run into this on the net all the time. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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Spontaneous dates Posted: 9/20/2009 1:39:47 PM
If they get nasty cause you can't get a sitter then sounds like you don't want to go out with them anyway. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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Being Used... Posted: 9/20/2009 12:25:27 PM
My ex took off her ring and broke it off with me. She used me for company, movies, and such till she found a new guy then treated me like dirt just to encourage me to get away from her. Ya I've been used. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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Whats wrong with a single parent woman? Posted: 9/20/2009 12:15:37 PM
I should add that while my heart is crushed and I bent over backwards to accomidate my girl, even said fine we'll not do the things we discussed with the kid you can raise her however you want, not only do i miss my ex who's taken up with another guy and I have to see it on the way home where she parks her car but I also miss the child. She was my buddy.

singleinlewistonidaho

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Whats wrong with a single parent woman? Posted: 9/20/2009 12:05:04 PM
My relationship of a year and a have, hell we were engaged ended recently. She had a daughter who was calling me Da da. I was ready to be a dad. She said she wanted a father for her daughter. Kid was spoiled from living under grandma's roof and when we moved out we discussed how things would be different. Well when I actaully acted on those discussions, simple things like getting her to pick up her own toys. or giving her a time out when she was throwing a fit well then I was accused of being mean. She yanked the kid from my care. Soon as she could moved out and then led me on to believe we could reconcile. Found a new guy and I found out I was being lied to the night I found the guys car at her new place. The child was picking up her toys and was a lot better minded with me. I did not nor had no interest in spanking the kid. If your a guy I do not suggest you date a girl with kids. Not only must you please your woman you have to please the kid to the woman's satisfaction. Never again. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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My ex told someone I sucked in bed. Can it be true? Posted: 9/19/2009 1:56:26 PM
My ex who strung me along till she found a new guy then suddenly out of the blue after two weeks prior telling me she loved and missed me, told another gal I know I sucked in bed but she had had worse before. This of course really bothers me because she was telling me the complete opposit. And I know she was not faking the Big O that occured 99% of the time. So my question is, is it possible to suck in bed while your satisfying the girl at the same time? Mike Hope the question is not too racy!

singleinlewistonidaho

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What do Men really think? Posted: 9/17/2009 1:31:08 PM
You get no credit for waiting. We all know it's only a ploy. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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Do guys know what they really want? Posted: 9/17/2009 12:28:20 AM
Just a case of TMI. Don't go into detail, just say you met someone you want to look into more before meeting anyone else. Mike

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is she into me Posted: 9/16/2009 11:12:18 PM
You broke it off with her. If she does not press you to reconcile I'd say you fell for it. The old trick women use, treat him like dirt till he breaks up with me. And I'd say yes she was not into you. My last relationship ended when my girl removed her engagment ring and did not even tell me. Once I found out I pressed to reconcile. She never again put the ring back on save for the time she was away on vacation with her best friend and her family. Soon as she came back it was off again. We carried on a bit but when her friends were coming over she'd want me to leave. Since she told them she broke up with me she did not want me to be seen. She never came back as she led me to believe and ended all contact with me only when she found a new guy to hang with and have sex with. Anyone treats you like your ex did, it's a really big red flag. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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Girls message me, then lose interest? Posted: 9/16/2009 11:07:03 PM
Assume everyone you are talking to is talking to at least five other men. It's a fine line, you can't say too much and you cannot say too little. After a bit of conversation I'll ask about a meeting. Be agressive! For me women love me once they meet me. Or at least they want to take a closer look at me. Sometimes being a gentlemen too long results in some other guy taking the girl to bed. I know 99% of female profiles make it sound like they are not looking for NSA sex but in practice I've found over 60% will take up the offer if it's from the right guy. Mike

singleinlewistonidaho

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How much does the guys job matter? Posted: 9/16/2009 11:01:50 PM
Women will say your job does not matter but in the end it will.

Singleinlewistonidaho

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lost the love of my life... Posted: 9/14/2009 9:52:29 PM
I feel for you bro I am in the same boat with a girl of two years. Dunno your situation but I was led on till she found a few new guys then all a sudden I was a bother to her and she acts like I never knew her as I did. Since she's been sleeping around I can't and won't take her back so I have to accept it's over. Mike

Singleinlewistonidaho

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Why is it?????? Posted: 9/10/2009 6:18:46 PM
Sorry to hear that. I am not talking about you here but over two years ago after being single for 5 years and not even so much as holding a girls hand I went on a quest. I am single again and what I have noticed is some of the same faces on the dating sites now as two years ago. I call them serial daters and don't hold out much hope for meeting anyone here in my area. Mike

Singleinlewistonidaho

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Lewiston Idaho area??? Posted: 9/10/2009 6:16:00 PM
I am in the LC valley and recently was made single by my fiancee. It looks like a tough time for single my age here. I am 41. Mike

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 9/10/2009 6:11:57 PM
Hi, Name is Mike. Ex musician from CA moved to Kamiah Idaho in 1999 and worked at a Saw mill for 9 years and was laid off. Moved in with a girl I was dating and then we got our own place. After moving in she moved out and recently broke all contact after finding a new guy. I want to stress she led me to believe we'd reconcile till the new guy was in the picture. Now I am living alone in The Lewiston Clarkston Vally in my own place and not sure what I am going to do. If I thought I'd meet a nice girl I'd stay but fear I won't. Search my area and see not a lot of fish in this sea. I am thinking of moving back to Kamiah and staying with my folks who also moved to the area till I can function again. Having a pretty rough time of it. I work at a hospital as a house keeper. Mike

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My Broken Heart story Posted: 9/10/2009 5:55:54 PM
I posted this on Craigs list. It's the basics. Too much to re type so here it is. Mike LOVE: I met a girl we hit it off, had so much in common. Sought the same things. It was fairy tale stuff. I was her knight in shinning armor. She would do things I always wanted like come up behind me un expected and hug me. I'd pet her hair and tell her how much I loved her. I dried her eyes when she first told me she loved and and told her everything would be alright. Something she always wanted a guy to do. We got engaged and moved into our own place and I had to take a job on nights. Stress took over. We had some disagreements. They were mild. I never hit her nor called her any names. I missed her daughters B day party cause I felt I had to sleep for work. Looking back I should have called in sick and went. She never got over that. I was sorry, I told her it would never happen again and I'd quit a job before I let that happen again. I did not know what it meant to her. I was spending more then I was taking in on the new place. Much work to be done and I got no help from her but watched the kid and worked full time and spare time on our place. She worked 1 to 9:30 AM so she was short on time too. She got un happy and removed the ring and stayed out drunk at her ex's house. I don't know for sure if nothing happened or not, she said no. She got my attention and I tried to fix our issues. I caved on rules for the 3 year old. I gave in to everything. We agreed to work with her 3 year old on things like picking up toys and keeoing food in the kitchen but when I started to do that and gave the child a time out to get with the program I was told it was being mean. Never mind she was starting to pick up her toys and the time out was nothing more then mom and grandma had done. She said I gave in but that it still bothered me. I told her she was being impossible. No matter what I still loved her, She said I drove her crazy, whiskers in the sink. Three items I needed washed put in her washer. Other stuff. She movewd out telling me it would fix things. But slowly she drifted away from me. I tried so hard to be whatever she wanted. She said when I was nice she'd come back but I was nice. I almost begged her to come back. I cried in her arms and told her not to leave me alone in that place for the winter. She moved out and drifted away. Then met another guy. I only found out just over a week ago. When I found hin at her place I was calm and just gave her a letter trying to reconcile. It was obvious they were more then friends. Before that I'd ask her why she was avoiding me and not taking my calls all a sudden. She would not tell me about the new guy I had to find out by seeing it. I can't stop crying. I fled home and tried to hide it from my mother, she picked me off the floor in tears. I am a wreck. Emotionally un stable. Cry at the drop of a hat at the thought of our time together. Can't stop thinking about her. A girl came to visit me. I could not sleep with her even though my ex has moved on. I miss her so much. I screamed out at the night sky for her to come back even though at this point I cannot just take her back nor is she interested. I let myself love again. She had my ring on and told me all the time how she loved me. Would cry and beg me not to leave her even though I never considered it. An ex girlfriend someone I considered the love of my life tried to come back to me when I was engaged. I sent her away. ONe reason was I could not put anyone I loved through what I am going through and what she would have gone through if I left her. I let myself love and now I am paying for it. I won't get over her for years. I miss her and long for her. When I see her now she is no longer there as if I've never known her as more then a co worker. We work at the same place. She and her child were my life. I had no other purpose even if I was slow to adjust to family life. If I died tomorrow nothingt would matter anymore. She was on anti depressants when I met her. I told her she was probably not bipolar. Before she moved out she got on some other meds but they freaked her out and she had to stop. I don't know if she got anything else but she told me she was losing her mind. I am 41 and she is 24. I met her when I was 38 and she was 21. I was not looking for anything more then a movie date but she was nice and I loved her eyes. She latched onto me telling me I was the nicest guy she ever met. When we moved in she would become a bit of a brat and I had to tell her like it was. I mean that she's want to just throw in the towel on whatever we were working on. Started during the move. I needed a partner and she would try to give up. I would not allow it and I guess I was not so nice but she was being absurd. There is a lot more to tell but I can't recall it all at once. I am not sure how to get over this, I can't stop crying....

Singleinlewistonidaho

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DO YOU DREAM ABOUT YOUR EX? Posted: 9/10/2009 5:37:37 PM
I was dating a girl I fell in love with mid 90's and she loved me. She started to sabotage the relationship a little when she thought I wanted kids and she did not. Rather then talk to me she drifted away. She did not want to get married too soon and thought I was getting too intence. Well she left me and I could not get over it. I left her letters, showed up at her work did all the stuff you should not do. She accused me of stalking and I backed off. She moved with a guy to oregon when he asked her to come even though she was not interested in him but he was her. She got trapped and married him had two kids. But never forgot me. I could not stop having dreams about her. Ten years later I'd still go through spells of having gut wrenching dreams that she was looking for me but could not find me. I moved. In 2004 after having a few more dreams after not having them for a while I sent a CD to her parents house of my old band. We met while I was playing clubs. Her parents sent it to her and a few days later she posted on our guest book. I then had her email. I waited a week and had a friend approch her. She mailed me. I had a lot og guilt and issues. I told her I was sorry for some of the minor stuff. She told me to move on and that I deserved to be happy. She also told me about where she went and all that happened during the years. I met a girl and one day I wrote her months later to tell her I was ok now. I had met someone special. She did not answer. Still months later she wrote and a lot of her issues and guilt gushed out. SHe was not happey in her marriage and wanted to come back into my life. It was 13 years later but I was involved. I listend to her and then made a call. I stayed with my new girl. She was relived. We later got engaged. Recently she broke it off with me after we moved in together. I am still dealing with a crushed heart. But the dreams. As it turned out I was having dreams about my ex who was having dreams about me. She told me she'd have a dream about me and how happy we were and wake up and feel empty and void. She was guilty over the way she left me and felt scik to her stomache. She told me it was her punishment for doing what she did. We both said our apologies for many things and she is now happy again with her husband. I called her up to tell her I was single as I told her she'd be the first to know. It was not meant to be I suppose. But my dreams were spot on about what she was feeling. It's kinda freaky. I saved our emails. Mike

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