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Joined: 3/23/2006

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Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 3/28/2006 3:44:17 PM
My guess: the wife or big girlfriend came home

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I need help with this one??? Posted: 3/28/2006 3:12:29 PM
Living in a a relationshipwith a chronic drug user, waiting for the day you can't take it any longer, is the definition of codepenance. Why don't you think you deserve better, Cally?

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I need help with this one??? Posted: 3/27/2006 10:59:18 PM
It is not controlling to establish reasonable boudaries {ie. safe, healthy,sober,legal,etc.} in adult relations. Infact, the establishment of responsible boudaries and behaviors is the hall mark of adulthood. Your so has so little respect for your comfort and well being that he doesn't even find it necessary to lie and say he won't smoke the crack. Your so is an addict; he finds it necessary to chronically alter his mind and mood to live. Dope is his great love-uou are a distant second. Indicating that you would accept crack smoking in order to attend a concert calls your maturity into question. Quit lying to yourself; you are deep into a dangerous codependant relationship with a drug addict. I also suspect your so is involved with other drugs ubeknownst to you at least occassionally! Stop enabling your partner and attempt to think more of yourself. You cannot change your so; only your reactions and behavior. One last thing: there is no such thing as recreational crack use!

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