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 Author Thread: Wait another year for Kindergarten?
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Wait another year for Kindergarten?
Posted: 6/10/2008 4:22:46 PM
how can he be one of the youngest if his birthday is in early MAY????


I think if you make him wait, it will make him LATE in schools
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Single Parents
Posted: 6/10/2008 9:54:59 AM
first thing to do , is once the babies are born is to get DNA test, then go from there, until then you are in NO obligation to nothing.

And if you are the father thwn yes you will have to support those children
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
does the amount of children..
Posted: 6/1/2008 5:34:49 AM
i dont hink the amount of children makes any diffrence as much as

how many diffrent fathers there are, or mothers( for single guys with more kids)
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Soon to be ex moved out and is Pregnant with our baby
Posted: 6/1/2008 5:32:49 AM
DNA testing will still come in handy, You said that yes she will say you are the father, But what if when the baby is born, and she dont want you to see the baby???

She will say you are not the father,

It happens ALL THE TIME.

I think you should get a lawyer, and start talking with CPS....ASAP

Good luck, i wish you the best
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Whose choice? Parents or governement?
Posted: 5/13/2008 6:59:48 AM
I just saw this on the CTV web site, and acording th what CTV is saying it's the KID himdelf who dosnt want to have treatments.
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Giving Up work...
Posted: 5/8/2008 3:33:13 AM
gril, get ready to get bashed, cause people are gonna asume you will go on welfare......
And if that is the case, you are doing the WRONG thing....
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Rheumatic Fever
Posted: 4/29/2008 9:37:16 AM
Im am so sorry to hear about this girl. You know for sure i will keep you guys in my thought.
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
NIGHTCLUBS FOR SINGLE PARENTS
Posted: 4/21/2008 3:38:35 AM
thats a joke right????

1- how would you stop non-parents from going there????
2- single parents have EVERYrigth to go out where ever they want.
3- if you don't want to date a single parents, MOVE ON when you meet one, cause we DONT need someone like you.
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
How do you stop the kids from hurting when a parent abandones them
Posted: 4/19/2008 4:04:50 AM
i suggest conceling.(sp)
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
need some help here!
Posted: 4/17/2008 12:38:03 PM
your child is not a thing, so stop saying "it"
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Access? Who terms should it be under??
Posted: 4/15/2008 7:02:50 AM
if you dont have a court order for visitation, then it should be on BOTH temrs, not only himand not only you.

If you both cant get along for visitation, then court is the only option
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
when A child doesnt want to be there?
Posted: 3/29/2008 6:28:59 AM
Ok, I dont want you o get mad at me, BUT, maybe it's just that she misses you, dont forget, she spends 2 weeks with you before she goes and spends 2 nigths with her father. it's hard for a 2 yrs old to adjust with things like that. Also, maybe when you call at J's house or when he calls you, she thinks it because it's time for her to go back hime. Also at her fathers house, yes she has her own things But it's still Not her home KWIM?

i know you worry a lot when she is there, and by what you have posted in the past, i understand.But she might also be only doing that to see if she can win. I know its hard, specialy at that tender age when they cant fully tell what happens at her dad.

I really dont know why she acts like that, but i hope for you and her you find something soon
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
do I have a say????
Posted: 2/1/2008 7:17:08 AM

sorry to be off topic...but what does 'actureally' mean?


She means Actually
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Name Changes... How fair is THAT??
Posted: 1/27/2008 10:22:47 AM
this is what i found for New-Brunswick


What consent is required when applying to change the registered name of a child?
If you want to change the registered name of any person under the age of 19, the application must be accompanied by the written consent of the child's parents, using the prescribed form.

An application that seeks to change the registered name of a child 12 years of age or older must also be accompanied by the written consent of the child using the prescribed form and witnessed by a lawyer practicing in New Brunswick or by a person who is authorized under the Marriage Act to solemnize marriages.

A person under 19 who is, or has been, married or who has lawful custody of a child does not need the written consent of any parent to apply for a name change for her/himself.

http://www.snb.ca/e/1000/1000-01/e/change-e.asp


Now back on topic. I think that its unfair. specialy if the child had his fathers names, the father should have had to give his permission.
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
what my 4 year old learned at school
Posted: 1/23/2008 7:03:22 AM
I would be more worried about the drawing part. I would talk with the school pricipal or someone a head of the teacher of this class.
But there is nothing worng with learning body parts.
But like i said the drawing part is kinda sick
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Any Docs on here? Advice please....
Posted: 1/21/2008 6:56:46 AM
jello juice is also good for them. and a lot cheaper than pedialyte
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
how many of you are home with kids tonight on NYE
Posted: 12/31/2007 10:57:56 PM
i am home with both my kids. at 3am, i am up with my 5 yrs old who is sick!!!
what a fun way to start the year!!!

but even if he wasnt sick, i still would be home!

happy new year!!!

btw...people who go out on NYE, doesnt mean they are not true parents....
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
would dating be okay you think??
Posted: 12/23/2007 4:10:35 AM
you can date yeah, but it dont mean you have to inrtoduce the man to your kids. Wait for a LONG while before you introduce him to the kids
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
ODSP and Child Support please reply
Posted: 12/22/2007 11:46:05 AM
does the mom of the child WANTS the father to be part of the childs life?
or is she only wanting his money?
If its only for money, and she dont want the father to be part of the childs life, than she should forget it.
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
ODSP and Child Support please reply
Posted: 12/22/2007 11:43:26 AM
well if he denies the child, i assume he will want DNA to prove his the father
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
ODSP and Child Support please reply
Posted: 12/22/2007 11:01:22 AM
DNA test and go from there
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Jamie Lynn Spears pregnant
Posted: 12/19/2007 8:16:21 AM

http://www.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVNews/20071218/spears_pregnant_071218/20071218?hub=Entertainment

Jamie Lynn Spears, 16, says she's pregnant
Updated Tue. Dec. 18 2007 10:44 PM ET

The Associated Press

NEW YORK -- Another Spears baby is reportedly on the way -- and it's not Britney's. Jamie Lynn Spears, the 16-year-old "Zoey 101" star and sister of Britney, told OK! magazine that she's pregnant and that the father is her boyfriend, Casey Aldridge.


"It was a shock for both of us, so unexpected," she said. "I was in complete and total shock and so was he."


Spears is 12 weeks along and initially kept the news to herself when she learned of the pregnancy from an at-home test and subsequent doctor visit, she told the celebrity magazine, which hits stands in New York on Wednesday and the rest of the country by Friday.


What message does she want to send to other teens about premarital sex? "I definitely don't think it's something you should do; it's better to wait," she told the magazine. "But I can't be judgmental because it's a position I put myself in."


After she found out from a doctor that she was pregnant, she said, "I took two weeks to myself where I didn't tell anybody."


"Only one of my friends knew because I needed to work out what I would do for myself before I let anyone's opinion affect my decision. Then I told my parents and my friends. I was scared, but I had to do what was right for me," she said.


Spears broke the news to her mother, Lynne, just before Thanksgiving, the magazine reported.


"She was very upset because it wasn't what she expected at all," Spears said. "A week after, she had time to cope with it and became very supportive."


Lynne Spears, already grandmother to Britney's young sons, told the magazine: "I didn't believe it because Jamie Lynn's always been so conscientious. She's never late for her curfew. I was in shock. I mean, this is my 16-year-old baby."


She said her actress daughter, the telegenic heroine of her popular Nickelodeon series, has known Aldridge for years and began dating him in high school.


But in a recent interview with The Associated Press, Spears said she had no steady boyfriend. "I kind of just keep my options open," she said. "I have a bunch of friends that I always hang out with, a bunch of guy friends." She declined to talk about her older sister.


Spears spoke to the AP shortly before Thanksgiving, the day she told OK! she informed her mother about the pregnancy.


Jamie Lynn plans to raise the baby in her home state of Louisiana -- "so it can have a normal family life."


Nickelodeon released a statement: "We respect Jamie Lynn's decision to take responsibility in this sensitive and personal situation. We know this is a very difficult time for her and her family, and our primary concern right now is for Jamie Lynn's well being."


A publicist for the network did not immediately respond to phone and email requests for additional comment.


"Zoey 101" is scheduled to conclude its third season Jan. 4 with a cliffhanger episode in which Spears' character must decide whether to leave her fictional Pacific Coast Academy boarding school in California to join her parents in London.


The show is scheduled to resume in February, and its producer, Dan Schneider, has said filming on the fourth season has already been completed.



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 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
smoking
Posted: 12/18/2007 7:36:52 AM
I think it's just stupid for people to smoke around kids, EVEN MORE WITH HOLDING A BABY WHILE SMOKING.


My step-dad was at the Dr's office a few years back and a DR came out just with RAGE screaming to NEVER smoke with a baby in your arms, I guess the patien he was seeing was a 6 months old baby who had cigarette ash that fell in the babys EYE....

STUPID STUPID STUPID...to even think about smoking around kids
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 71 (view)
 
the ex is knocked up
Posted: 12/17/2007 1:56:02 PM
Ok here is a question for you

Do you both have a courst agreement??
If so, what are the visitation are like?
If you dont have court agrements, why not go for 50/50 shared custody, one week with her and one week with you, wouldnt that be better for both of you
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Unaccompanied Minor on flight screw-up.
Posted: 12/16/2007 2:37:37 PM
*IF* I ever let my kids fly, it will not be before 16( wich is around the age the school does a school trip to europe) But other than that *I* dont even fly on airplanes so why should i let my kids
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Unaccompanied Minor on flight screw-up.
Posted: 12/16/2007 1:36:38 PM
that is why i'll never let my kids fly alone...
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 58 (view)
 
the ex is knocked up
Posted: 12/16/2007 1:16:59 PM
rickthefishe


YES fathers DO have custody of there kids, BUT there are REASON WHY they have it, They HAVE to PROVE the mother is unfit, OR the MOM as givin up on there kids.

And i AM very proud to see that fathers DO step up and take responsibilities, BUT as long as the mother IS a fit mother, the judge will more than likely NOT give the dad custody. The judge will more than likely give 50/50 custody
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
the ex is knocked up
Posted: 12/16/2007 1:12:26 PM
OP

YOU CANT NOT HAVE CUSTODY BECAUSE YOU HAVE MORE MONEY THE THE MOM.

all that counts is that she has a place to stay with the child, wich she does, and has food and clothes for her, wich she does. it doesnt matter were she gets the money from, as long as it's legal of course.
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
the ex is knocked up
Posted: 12/16/2007 11:54:46 AM
well give her a chance to get back on her feet. Is she looking for work? Im sure if she find some work, she can get rides with someone who would be working with her.
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
the ex is knocked up
Posted: 12/16/2007 11:49:06 AM
well, I had to worry about going into labor too when i was pregant with my youngest one, Where will my older son go?? If she makes a plan, she will be good. If she lives with her aunt, she will be fine. I Agree that bot having anu income is not good, but it's not like if she is living on the street if she lives with her aunt.
May i ask WHY is she not working???
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
the ex is knocked up
Posted: 12/16/2007 11:42:57 AM
Well I think your full of sh!t to think she can not handle raising a toddler and being pregnant at the same time. You know, she is NOT the first one to go thru that and she will survive.

If she is a good mother like you said, well, there is NO reason for her not to have custody. Why not have 50/50 custody
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
the ex is knocked up
Posted: 12/16/2007 11:36:19 AM

what happens when my ex is in one of her moods women get in when preganut, or she is sick, who will look after my daughter?"


She will take care of her like she allready is.

When i was pregnant with my youngest, i was single and had a 3 yrs old to run after, i was doing it ALONE, sick or not, preggo mood or not.

What will YOU do if you have your daughter and YOU get sick????

same thing goes both ways
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
***WARNING*** Santa Claus Letters may contain obscenities
Posted: 12/14/2007 11:35:00 AM
i saw this on the news today, it's a shame how people are these days
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Court, dating pretty much a little of everything....
Posted: 12/12/2007 12:36:04 PM
in your profile it says stay at home mommy, are you on assisstance???

if so that is why they are doing that
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Handling family that doesn't want you to date post-divorce?
Posted: 12/10/2007 6:51:45 AM
just tell them, it's your life, YOU are ready to date, and to my there own business. But that you appreciate there concerns
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Funniest email you have received
Posted: 11/30/2007 6:37:11 AM
Dear Tech Support,

Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a distinct slow down in overall system performance -- particularly in the flower and jewelry applications, which operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0.

In addition, Husband 1.0 uninstalled many other valuable programs, such as
Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5 and then installed undesirable programs such as NFL 5.0, NBA 3.0, and Golf Clubs 4.1.

Conversation 8.0 no longer runs, and Housecleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system. I've tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix these problems, but to no avail.

What can I do?

Signed,
Desperate
-------------------------------------

Dear Desperate:

First keep in mind, Boyfriend 5.0 is an Entertainment Package, while Husband 1.0 is an Operating System. Please enter the command: "I Thought You Loved Me.exe" and try to download Tears 6.2 and don't forget to install the Guilt 3.0 update. If that application works as
designed, Husband 1.0 should then automatically run the applications Jewelry 2.0 and Flowers 3.5.

But remember, overuse of the above application can cause Husband 1.0 to default to Grumpy Silence 2.5, Happy Hour 7.0 or Beer 6.1. Beer 6.1 is a very bad program that will download the Snoring Loudly Beta.

Whatever you do, DO NOT install Mother-in-law 1.0 (it runs a virus in the background that will eventually seize control of all your system resources).

Also, do not attempt to reinstall the Boyfriend 5.0 program. These are unsupported applications and will crash Husband 1.0

In summary, Husband 1.0 is a great program, but it does have limited
memory and cannot learn new applications quickly. You might consider buying additional software to improve memory and performance. We recommend Food 3.0 and Hot Lingerie 7.7.

Good Luck,

Tech Support
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Skip Christmas this year?
Posted: 11/30/2007 6:18:02 AM
To OP

I do not think its selfish at all, Christmas can get expensive, all your kids are grown up, and are old enough to understand. Maybe get a little something for your 6 yrs old grand daughter. She wont care how much you paid for it,
ANd like someone else said, maybe you can DO something, like baking something for the family Xmas dinner or something....

Send out Christmas card saying your thinking about them for xmas...
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Skip Christmas this year?
Posted: 11/30/2007 6:15:19 AM

Lets face it, divorce can ruin a man financially, especially if his ex does not work.



Oh COme on....as if Men do NOT ruin women either in divorces...

How about those men who REFUSE to work just so they wont have to pay child support???
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
little feet vs BIG baby
Posted: 11/29/2007 3:53:53 PM
To the poster above me: 17 months is not good at all. He should be walking unassisted by now. Maybe a checkup is a good idea?



His doctor his not too worried about it right now, but he his going to physio next week.
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
little feet vs BIG baby
Posted: 11/29/2007 1:44:54 PM
Dont worry.

my little guy is 17 months old , and still not walking all by himself, He does walk along furniture, but that's all
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Christmas Decorating!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/13/2007 5:16:40 PM
*I* personaly think that its a bit too early to put decoration now, But i will not go and tell people when is the right time for them...If they put them today...i let them put it today....


I usually put me tree up first week of December, along with the rest of the decorations
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Death of Child at school
Posted: 11/13/2007 4:14:09 PM
this was NOT an act of bulling, it was just a simple kids arguing(sp).....
AND the boy had a hearth condition. The girl pushed him right where his hearth was and his hearth took the hit wich cause him to die....


BUT to answer your question, no i will not talk about this with my son, he is too young to understand about THIS incident, BUT i do teach him about bulling and that its wrong.
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
is it okay for kids to see you naked?
Posted: 11/10/2007 10:19:52 AM

Also why would you have your gf get in and share a shower with you with the children around? I am sorry but that there is asking for a lot of problems as well. I think that the couple shower thing should be saved for when the children are in bed. NOT for when the children are up.


I agree
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
i said i would do it on my own...
Posted: 11/6/2007 12:11:51 PM
Im with you OP


I respected my babies dad decison. Like you we were not in a relationship, and *I* decided to keep my baby,

I am PROUD to raise my kids ALL BY MY SELF!!!!



to you
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Kids and Christmas, what's best for them
Posted: 11/5/2007 4:23:29 AM
i should add to my post that, what i have written is what we will do every year. W have NO court order whats so ever. We never had to go thru courts...
So we came out with our own arrangements
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Kids and Christmas, what's best for them
Posted: 11/5/2007 3:26:34 AM
this is what we are doing...

I have my 5 yrs old son on christmas eve, till Chirstmas day at noon, then his father comes and get him on christmas day at noon till boxing day in the evening...Like that we both have him on christmas day....

And we are gonna do the same thing with easter...
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Guns...how young is too young?
Posted: 11/3/2007 4:18:10 PM
As long as my kids are under MY roof, they will NOT be aloud to shoot guns....
I am HAPPY that us canadians have strick gun laws!!!!!
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Why do women prefer not to say when it comes to kids on POF?
Posted: 10/27/2007 4:39:33 AM
Why did you put Women?

Men also put that into their profiles


But anyway, if you have kids, just say so
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Halloween Costumes
Posted: 10/14/2007 6:20:18 AM
youngest son will be a dinosaur, and oldest son will be a cow
 sweet sweet girl
Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
hairstyles for your kids... for fun ..
Posted: 10/12/2007 4:10:44 PM
my oldest son who is 5 yrs old wants blue hight ligths in his hair, he will get them for christmas!!!
 
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