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vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 81 (view)

I Caught You Looking: Is looking at a profile a green light to make contact? Posted: 5/3/2009 3:20:59 PM
Ever watch Wheel of Fortune or Deal or No Deal? Games of chance and you take one with every click. I am tired of this game . Time to find a better deal

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

I'm gonna express some free speech Posted: 4/11/2009 9:43:58 AM
Go to a photo studio in the mall and have a decent picture taken in a normal WHITE or BLACK shirt Geezus

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 198 (view)

How many women fantasize watching their man with another man? Posted: 4/11/2009 9:28:31 AM
Yawnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn! Been there... Did that ...Next!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 360 (view)

Pregnant girl threatening Posted: 4/11/2009 9:25:04 AM
This tired thread still here ..Did she give birth yet? Did he do what we told him to d0? Did everyone get their Easter outfit and Easter basket candy yet? Peeps now come in orange and green. Wonder how they got them to be that color? Btw did you know their factory is in the Allentown area of Pa ? So is the Crayola factory. They have a museum too!

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 38 (view)

Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus? Posted: 4/11/2009 9:17:28 AM
Nothing is new or different . It's just getting more play in the bedroom and everyone is jumping on the trend because too many straight men have this need to know what the other end of a female feels like . I wonder how they would respond if a female asked them to be the bottom to her top? Now that's where the adventure really begins

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 48 (view)

I Caught You Looking: Is looking at a profile a green light to make contact? Posted: 4/11/2009 9:07:24 AM
Sometimes we forget out glasses and we make an accidental click. if we click more than once in a 3 day period . We might be interested

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 19 (view)

too busy to date Posted: 4/11/2009 8:43:53 AM
Too busy to date ? Sounds like the same as too busy to eat I have a stock answer for those that offer up that lame excuse if you are to busy to eat , or date Then you don't deserve to do either one Free this man so he can find some deserving female who would enjoy his undivided and deserving attention

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 113 (view)

Being seperated but no divorce in sight Posted: 4/11/2009 8:16:42 AM
"Being separated but no divorce in sight" SEE YA ....WOULDN' T WANNA BE YA Freedom has such a nice clean outside sun dried freshness to it

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

I'm gonna express some free speech Posted: 4/11/2009 8:09:49 AM
Your picture needs to be changed fast quick and in a hurry You profile seems rushed and and not well thought out / Cailm down and do a re-write or get someone one here to write it for you Stop being so angry the chances of you meeting anyone on the net are slim to none at best . Try being more social in the real world . i think that's where big trouble lies

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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Is acceptance a thing of the past? Posted: 4/11/2009 5:21:54 AM
Accept what? That you can no longer perform and you want me to put up with it or accept that the fact that this man wanted to have a normal , happy , sex life ?

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

not being honest about impotency Posted: 4/11/2009 5:18:45 AM
mm472000 must be under 40 . His post reeks of stupidity. Due to the economic climate in this country stress is at an all time high and performance with some males is on the decline . Male enhancements are being sold like jelly beans at Easter time Guys what I would like you to stop doing is bragging about what you have and how good you are. I set the bar high because I give 100% if i am interested and I expect the same

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

Going for a movie on first date. Posted: 4/11/2009 5:08:19 AM
For 25.00 you can get dinner and a movie where I live. Please take me to the movie and make it a good one that way we something to look forward before or something to talk about after Besides by the time we get to the 1st date all that getting to know you talking crap should be over

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

How to cope with long term loneliness Posted: 4/10/2009 4:10:20 PM
Stop giving your hard earned money away to some head case jobber that went to school 6 more years than you did, Come here everyone has an opinion about what you need to do who you should do and why You know so people need to realize that they were never meant to be with someone ay all or long term and learn to live with themselves. I have Get a life ! One that keeps you busy. Travel , go to the movies , go to concerts , go to clubs ,sit home and sit alone . I was single for years , got hooked up, dumped him, stayed single , got hooked up ,got dumped. The circle of life so what! I have was on so many dates in 2008 they all became the same date with the same outcome .Me by myself. Now the minute I don't care about being hooked up the wolves are baying at the door. Guess what? I am being very very picky this time about sharing my time and me. I kinda enjoy my time with me and the friends I choose to see.

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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encouragement anyone Posted: 4/10/2009 3:52:30 PM
Dear OP why are sweating one inconsiderate 3 legged creature when you can probably get anyone you want without really trying that hard. Don't sweat whatever you had . You'll find someone else

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 37 (view)

Dont contact me anymore some advice on that Posted: 4/10/2009 3:47:28 PM
You offered your thoughts without thinking where your thoughts were not need nor were they required 1) you should have mailed her stuff 2) you should have kept your mouth shut You 've been dissed and dismissed ...NOW stay that way

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 95 (view)

Women licking a guy below his balls... Posted: 3/26/2009 5:23:37 AM
I love doing this as I stated before .HOWEVER guys ...please please please WASH that area !!

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 64 (view)

Light choking during sex....anyone? Posted: 3/26/2009 4:41:11 AM
Something I might want to explore if the partner I am with is a waste of time Now explain it again? Where do I wrap my hands again???

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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Being in a committed relationship before sex Posted: 3/26/2009 4:34:33 AM
I am going to jump start the way back machine to 1960 . Anyone that wants to take a ride .Hop in. I love the way Jean_Jacques thinks .

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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Questions for women on expected sexual etiquette Posted: 3/26/2009 4:25:42 AM
"I need some general advice about dating. I've not had many girlfriends. But it's cool, I dislike women for the most part. That's about it. However, I can't create this becaue the profile thing is being crappy." and you wonder WHY he is still a virgin???

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 111 (view)

Are all men only looking for Sex Posted: 3/25/2009 8:28:34 AM
that, a wide screen tv, and decent steak dinner

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 73 (view)

What do you want to do? I don't know, what about you? Posted: 3/25/2009 8:22:31 AM
Amen OP Amen . Which is why I wrote my profile to be flake proof

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

Why do fools fall in love? Posted: 3/25/2009 8:12:33 AM
Because they are foolish

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 42 (view)

Where do we stand? Posted: 3/25/2009 8:11:38 AM
I think you had that when he said he had strong feelings for you. Are you seeking marriage or nice healthy relationship with a man you can trust enough to be a friend and lover ? See other people .... ever hear the saying "when a dog smells another dog"?

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 578 (view)

Prenuptial Agreements and Maximum Child Support payment! Posted: 3/25/2009 7:55:00 AM
Pre nup should go as follows . You keep what you have before you got married. Split 50-50 what you gain in the marriage TOGETHER . If the marriage fails you split it 50-50. Who's kids the ones that were there before you were married or the ones you plan on having ? You have no legal obligation to care for anyone child but your own. If you adopt those kids they became your responsibility. Something I will NEVER have to worry about Marriage or Money

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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Why are so many in such a hurry to meet...? Posted: 3/25/2009 7:34:20 AM
I hate wasting time . If it happens it happen if not I did not waste my time typing and talking Notwow most of the men i am LTR with start out the same way yours did . Good Luck

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 77 (view)

Does the sexual double standard keep women from having casual sex? Posted: 3/23/2009 4:47:42 AM
"EMOTIONALLY CONNECTED SEX" Let a male over 40 think that's what you want and see how long he stays after you two are finished f***ing. Attach nothing to the act but the physical pleasure and you'll be a lot better off emotionally.

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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im so hurt will we ever get back together Posted: 3/22/2009 7:41:17 AM
Stick a fork in this one sweetie . She is done. In a nice way she let you know she probably has found someone else

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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Tormented by Love Posted: 3/22/2009 7:09:51 AM
You know I was going to write something profound but I'm going to leave this alone and let you wallow in the self pity of what I suspect is left over from last night's girls night out gathering. New flash ... there are no knights in shining armor and most are asses in tin foil You are the only one that can save yourself

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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It's all just a game, nothing more Posted: 3/22/2009 6:58:06 AM
4 months !!! and you decided to give up your living space ? Why? Why do people wanna rush and push a relationship into on going traffic ? Well I hope you got out of buying that house or if you reside in it now make this YOUR home . To be shared with someone that is COMMITTED to the relationship and you. People , People, People- Texting is such a cop out . Man up be a real woman and face the music

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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You deserve someone better than me.. Posted: 3/22/2009 6:50:37 AM
Code for She just is not that into you Gee that would make a great tittle for a book or a movie don't you think?

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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How would you feel?? Posted: 3/22/2009 6:35:05 AM
Yes and that would be their problem now. Not yours. If she is a smart woman once the abuse starts she'll leave Yes block him that way he can't keep track of you Believe me the woman who took the guy i was seeing in 2007 has no idea who he really is. He has two names Two driver's licences Two Social security numbers He has not paid his taxes on his business or himself in over 15 years He is under the federal government radar But I know and he knows I know It's good enough for me

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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Ex's clothing Posted: 3/22/2009 6:27:42 AM
Donate it to a homeless shelter . It would count as a tax deduction. You might as well get something back from that waste of time

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 14 (view)

Controling Boyfriend Posted: 3/20/2009 8:35:12 AM
So when are you leaving this ***hole? Boyfriend? ..nope he's your abuser and unless you have some sick twisted fetish and enjoy being treated less than zero LEAVE and DON'T take that back

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 48 (view)

Love really sucks and here's why... Posted: 3/20/2009 7:21:55 AM
eHarmony should be called EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW harmony. Do not give those people your hard earned money!! To the Op If you are that unhappy you should move . To a bigger more urban city where dating other races is more acceptable. Everyone on her thinks CHURCH is the solution. You have just as many dogs in CHURCH as you do on the outside . I think the biggest problem most of us can't face is that there may be periods of time when you are not with someone and you have to deal with yourself . Once you become a better you other people will find you more attractive

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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What makes someone needy? Posted: 3/20/2009 7:10:45 AM
needy-man lease is up meet a woman with an nice house and a pool needy- woman that allows him to move in after only knowing his less than 30 days clingy- woman after realizing he is just like that others she let into her life because she thought she can't live by or with herself. Low self esteem and kid to raise Realizes she should have heeded the warnings her friends gave her. needy- man needs her now because he has no where to live , not making the money he use to and the government is hot on his trail for not paying his taxes for years!!!. clinging -to his last hope Welcome to my ex's world

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 1295 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 3/16/2009 8:49:13 AM
OK who is a peron? Are they talking about Ava? The Don't Cry for Me? The one Madonna did so poorly portraying in the movies or the great one Pattie LaPone did on Broadway ? They really should bury topics that are more than a year old on here. It would cut down on the repeater topic. Pass on the commenting about suicide. Too many people I know have tried and succeeded. Funny the people they did it because of are still standing

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

I don't want a relationship with anyone right now Posted: 3/16/2009 8:18:14 AM
Clean up your act Op . Be the better woman! Show that loser that life goes on after him. take comfort in the fact that you no longer have to worry about him dumping you for a better deal. It's her problem now

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

how to cope with 18 years then divorce Posted: 3/16/2009 8:04:10 AM
To the OP .You can do bad all by yourself it just took you longer to find out . Since she wanted to be independent of you let her find her own way to the repair shop to fix her car . Yes keep the number and give it to your lawyer for future reference.

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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lost here trying to find this user boots28? Posted: 3/16/2009 7:23:24 AM
Please get use to the fact that 3/4 of the males on this site or any other site for that matter have no intention of hooking up with anyone . They like to TYPE. Typing all the correct answers that make people want to like them. You got sucked in . Your best bet . Sign up for the local events on this site and meet the males on here that are sincere enough to write a close to honest profile and willing to meet people.

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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Moving on after the Heart Break Posted: 3/16/2009 7:16:31 AM
Program? There is program, no formula no magic potion. Life goes on! Ride yours till the wheels fall off

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 15 (view)

dont want to come across as a bunny boiler please help x Posted: 3/12/2009 7:17:22 AM
you claim not to be a bunny boiler but why is the pot on the stove full of water on a low heat? Leave the man alone . Those tickets were bought BEFORE he met you. If he goes with a friend female.If your relationship is a s strong as you claim it is and he is as faithful as he claims he is then what is the harm? It's a concert !

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

So what works to get over broken heart syndrome Posted: 3/12/2009 6:58:27 AM
You know this advice is nice but let's be for real. Some of us may never find "The One " or be comfortable in a long term relationship Some of us may spend a great deal of our lives alone . It's not our fault as much as it just the way things are. How you deal with it is another issue. Not to say you should just shut down but be prepared for the possibility. Are you comfortable with living with yourself? by yourself ? Getting older and getting dumped for a better deal has made me take stock of the possibility

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

What is love Posted: 3/12/2009 6:44:59 AM
The Easter Bunny Santa Claus The Tooth Fairy The Great Pumpkin Love Things I don't believe in anymore

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

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Advice for a broken heart Posted: 3/12/2009 6:35:26 AM
Yes ....Move on. She was a cheater. She was cheating on you before you went on holiday . It's March09 now time for you to update your Facebook and get out there and meet people so someone can put on your page . "It's about time" Good Luck

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 15 (view)

Should we settle for 8 out of 10? Posted: 3/12/2009 6:31:09 AM
8 years is a long time to be with someone and not be married . Sharing assets and making major decisions about money and property in this day and age without some of it in writing is a scary deal For him to flake out . Even scarier

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 264 (view)

The worst breakup line ever Posted: 3/12/2009 6:26:54 AM
They did not have to say it .They just did it. Dumped me for a better deal. Most do don't they? But I got a good one from a guy who failed to keep in touch. He actually blamed it on the current state of the economy ! It was price less ! And to the woman who was told she was "just a woman" sorry to hear about your loss ,... but i am sure you know you are better than "just"

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 185 (view)

Anyone else feel like giving up because of being unsuccessful? Posted: 3/12/2009 6:08:11 AM
YES OMG YES .. I have been on the site for 5 years . Two long term relationships and some nice friendships have developed . Since 2008 I noticed a decline of quality people on the sites . The males in particular. What ever happened to manners? Follow up and Follow through? Those days of being stood up and put off are looking again. The assumption of sex upon meeting is just that assumed. I don't have time for games and if I want to be intimate with you you'll know it! You don't need to read between the lines as far as my profile is concerned it's all there in black and white

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 65 (view)

Light bulb moments and how to say them without causing a war Posted: 3/10/2009 7:46:48 AM
Make love to me like it was the 1st time and the last time . Cause you never know

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

Have you been CONTACTED by the SPOUSE of someone you've 'met'? Posted: 3/10/2009 7:27:43 AM
Why are you so shocked ? There are people on these sites that cheat lie and steal. I have met a few in my travels on the road of life . I have even been in long term relationships with a few . By the time it was over you kinda wonder who the heck you were going out with . Because their whole persona was a lie ! That happened to me 2 years ago. A few minutes ago I saw a male that I met a few years ago. He has resurfaced on this site as a widow with grown kids when in fact he is very much married and his children are still at home! I also saw a neighbor of a close relative on this site . His marriage failed because he was abusive. Please be careful listen to the voice in your head . Keep your eyes open . Listen to what you are being told and make sure the facts match before you start getting comfortable in that relationship. Take it from someone who knows a lot better now

vrb1955

Joined: 3/26/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

Ever see an ex on a dating site that you know you should have married? Posted: 3/10/2009 7:07:47 AM
No but i just saw a guy from another dating site on here that is married and now he is posing as a widow!! How Low! If anyone wants this ah*'s name let me know.

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