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Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 39 (view)

Tired of being clueless. Posted: 10/10/2009 2:00:53 AM
#1 treated you like shit before, he will again. He's being "nice' to get you back. And if you're leading #2 on, he may be too good for you

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 91 (view)

Should I Be Able to Accept My Husband Smoking Pot? Posted: 10/10/2009 1:56:10 AM
It happens. And after you accept the pot, what will he expect you to accept next? I went through the same thing. It hurts to have someone choose an addiction over you, but you'd be better off without him

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 75 (view)

Would you date a women bigger and more muscular then you? Posted: 10/10/2009 1:52:46 AM
Why would someone be intimidated? It's not like you're there to fight with them.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 143 (view)

What's the reward for Chivalry? Posted: 10/10/2009 1:47:30 AM
In response to chiviliry? That they will dump you for the first jerk that treats them like garbage

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 75 (view)

why do woman see men as just friends Posted: 10/10/2009 1:39:26 AM
Great advice, not a nurse. Of course, the meeting for a cup of coffee is often what the women list in their profile as how they want the first date. Being a provernial "nice guy" who used to be a jerk I can honestly say I got a lot more women as a jerk. Only problem is, those kind aren't worth keeping

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 102 (view)

The true mindset of a woman.... Posted: 10/10/2009 1:28:19 AM
WHat I think is a laugh is the ones that post a lot of pictures, all with massive amounts of cleavage and then say they are tired of men commenting on their chests..

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 85 (view)

Why do people pester a person after dumping them? Posted: 10/10/2009 1:09:34 AM
Because they want to torture you

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 506 (view)

How important is chivalry in an relationship to you? Posted: 10/10/2009 1:06:44 AM
Yes, I do. I also believe thos of us that practice it will be dumped for "bad boys."

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 284 (view)

Men living with their parents: A social taboo? Posted: 10/10/2009 12:34:39 AM
I've moved in with my mother four times. Firt three times were right after divorced and my ex's got the houses. Fourth time was different. I moved in with my mother because she wasn't doing well physically. I owned the house across the street, but that was too far for some problems, when she needed help immediately. In less than a year she got so bad I had to put her in a nursing home, and she died shortly thereafter. Personally, I didn't care what women thought or said about it, she needed my help and she deserved it. I wasn't going to abandon her because some shallow woman thought I should live by myself and ignore the woman that bore me. I'm glad we had that last year together.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 138 (view)

Who would you pick ? Posted: 10/10/2009 12:25:48 AM
Lovely, wonderful, and a lot of class every time, IF I got along with her kids

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 100 (view)

Forgive and forget? Do you really mean it? Posted: 10/10/2009 12:24:38 AM
Most things, once, maybe I could forgive. But if you forget you're asking for it to happen again.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 132 (view)

Have relationships made you bitter? Posted: 10/10/2009 12:18:47 AM
Some have, but then you learn to move on. Being bitter is only hurting you. Doesn't matter to them one bit

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 148 (view)

....i do......but he doesnt Posted: 10/10/2009 12:16:59 AM
End it. If he were serious he'd want you to be together, not be a woman he puts up in a flat for fun and games. Would he leave money on the nightstand when he left?

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 1459 (view)

Cheating- can you forgive? Posted: 10/10/2009 12:14:23 AM
josie555 , My second wife was a cheater. Married her because she said "I've changed, and I really love you, I didn't love him." Sad to say, once a cheater, always a cheater.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 281 (view)

She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 10/10/2009 12:05:24 AM
Arabianangel, no one was speaking of a 16 year old CHILD, but a young woman of 18, which is legal age

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 280 (view)

She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 10/10/2009 12:01:56 AM
You have a good attitude. I don't disparage older women except when they try to act 18. If you're 50 and all you talk about is partying, you need to grow up

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 105 (view)

What does it mean when a woman says... Posted: 10/9/2009 11:33:39 PM
She thinks she found someone better and wants to move on, so d)

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 122 (view)

SHALL WE TELL THE TRUTH? Posted: 10/9/2009 11:32:03 PM
If someone asks you a direct question you should be truthful. HOWEVER, there is no need to volunteer information that is not needed or asked for. And, to be honest, some things are no one else's business, unless perhaps, you are in an LTR, and some things even then.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 31 (view)

What kind of guy do you want to marry? Posted: 10/9/2009 11:28:02 PM
Tell a guy he's a "friend" and you're telling him that's all you want and it's time to move on.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 77 (view)

Problems with the Past Posted: 10/9/2009 11:22:35 PM
If you're telling him this as a reason not to have sex, well, yeah, he'll probably bail. May sound shallow, but that's the way it is. I've had women tell me they had been sexually abused. Never to keep from sex, but to explain why some things upset them easily. I learned to work around it and deal with them. Now, if it's the major topic of conversation constantly, there's nothing to do but leave

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 28 (view)

Is it a good idea to date other women to keep your mind off of one specific woman? Posted: 10/9/2009 11:13:53 PM
You've been demoted to the "friend" bin. You'll never leave it. Move on

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 49 (view)

Please Help Me Posted: 10/9/2009 11:10:47 PM
If you think this is the first time she has done this in the last five years, could I interest you in the Eiffel Tower? I know it hurts, but if you keep on the way you're going you will never start to heal. It hurts to be cheated on, especially when things are going "perfect." She may come back and stay for a bit. Then she will be gone again. Kick her to the curb NOW. Move if you have to.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 18 (view)

Another ex girlfriend problem Posted: 10/9/2009 11:06:58 PM
She wants an emotional tampon. You really want that job?

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 31 (view)

Mixed signals !! Posted: 10/9/2009 11:05:22 PM
Do not walk, RUN. She isn't falling for you, she is manipulating you. Cut the strings, be a real boy instead of a puppet

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 77 (view)

Would you date a cheater Posted: 10/9/2009 11:01:42 PM
For a fling, probably. For an LTR? BTDT. Once a cheater...

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 32 (view)

Driving me nuts! Posted: 10/9/2009 10:59:23 PM
Sounds like you need to grow up. Does she not want the intimacy? Do you find her repulsive? A lot of guys want what they don't have. Don't screw what you present as a wonderful girl over. If you want someone else, get out of the relationship

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 51 (view)

How do men suddenly withdraw emotionally? Posted: 10/9/2009 10:55:01 PM
Don't know. I wonder the same thing about women

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 381 (view)

Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX? Posted: 10/9/2009 10:46:42 PM
My third ex is lovely, intelligent, funny, and talented in many ways. Had she been willing to stop drinking and take the meds she was supposed to take for being bipolar it may have worked out

inego montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 80 (view)

Have you ever risked it when the pic just didn't do it for you? Posted: 10/5/2009 11:20:11 AM
Not here, but on another site. Risked it for no picture. Didn't turn out well. The person I met was absolutely nothing like her emails

inego montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 58 (view)

He dumped me over the net. Not sure what happend. Posted: 10/5/2009 11:16:01 AM
He used you for sex. Next time don't be so eager. He's a jerk and you were willing. You should at least wait a few dates for sex.

inego montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 141 (view)

Are men that cook better for a relationship? Posted: 10/5/2009 11:08:19 AM
I think it's the gooey butter cake & cheesecakes that upset them. Couldn't be the fudge brownies.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 321 (view)

Why Do Men Overlook Good Women? Posted: 10/3/2009 7:57:35 AM
Define "good." I've dated "good" women who spend the entire time telling my how good they are and how much the world doesn't appreciate it. And then there's the "good" women who won't talk to you because you've been divorced, don't belong to their church, you might have said a "bad" word, or you don't agree with whatever loony cause it is they're involved in a particular week.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 120 (view)

Going back to the Ex!!!! Posted: 10/3/2009 7:51:34 AM
I've gone back with two ex's who had "changed." You can figure the new, sweet, wonderful person, will last 1-2 weeks max, then the knife will be inserted in the back yet again, you will be miserable, and they will have gotten their jollies by proving they still have a hold on you.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 58 (view)

MY EX SET ME UP Posted: 10/3/2009 7:48:58 AM
Not on accusations of child molestation. You need to change your nick. You have no clue about modern law

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 125 (view)

Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls? Posted: 10/3/2009 7:39:11 AM
Yes, depends on the mood! The important thing is hygiene! Cute, shy and timid makes men feel strong, protective, and worldy as well as horny. Naughty is more for just horny

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 30 (view)

Is it possible to like both very voluptuous women and super-skinny ones? Posted: 10/3/2009 7:31:04 AM
It's the person, not the body. I've dated all types, and it depends on the woman. One of the sexiest women I know has boobs so small you have to look twice to see them. Another would be rated as "a few extra pounds." They've both been given problems by men who want them to change. It only proves those men don't care about them, just a body.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 60 (view)

Just wondering how others feel about body art Posted: 10/3/2009 7:25:53 AM
Sure they tell you a lot about a person! Whether they will admit it or not, this is what they are thinking: 1. I have to be part of the crowd, and tats will get me accepted 2. I want to distract you because I don't think you will notice me otherwise 3. Doesn't this make me look daring? 4. LOOK AT ME, LOOK AT ME!!!!

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 867 (view)

Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 10/3/2009 7:14:40 AM
Bravo! A girl after my own heart. When a woman is willing to hop in the sack immediately I usually doubt it's my irresistable charm and figure she just does it a lot. Tends to make you doubt thier supposed long-term relationship plans

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 81 (view)

What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin? Posted: 10/1/2009 7:04:24 PM
Not a recent concern of mine. Usually get complaints I take too long. When I was a teenager it was different. Then I'd think about anything that wasn't sexual. If your BF all have that problem, try older men! (shameless plug!)

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 54 (view)

Just wondering how others feel about body art Posted: 10/1/2009 7:02:13 PM
Not my thing. A small tattoo or two is OK, but a lot just show that you want to be an "individual" by buying into the latest craze and looking like everyone else. Only unlike clothing and piercings, the tats are permanent.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 41 (view)

Guys must bother women who aren't interested? Posted: 10/1/2009 6:44:50 PM
Approach them, but not hat in hand. If they aren't interested. Like the forum says, plenty of fish out there. I wish some women would be polite and do the "Thanks, but I'm not interested." Many just ignore you or are rude. Those type are usually miserable people and you should be glad they didn't respond positively. Most men have a lot to offer, especially us "nice guys." Remember, you are NOT coming from an inferior position. If they are shallow enough to be rude, it's THEIR loss. If they are nice but show they aren't interested, leave them alone and move on. Some women will chase you if you try to move on. Just nature. They want what they can't have, just like men.

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 126 (view)

Breast Size [Do guys ever notice the difference?] Posted: 10/1/2009 6:28:57 PM
I dated a 38H for awhile. They were dangerous weapons!

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 451 (view)

Pregnant girl threatening Posted: 10/1/2009 6:21:01 PM
Got news for you, they can. It's called termination of parental rights. Available in most states, just not well known. I couldn't do that to my child, but some can

Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 266 (view)

For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute? Posted: 10/1/2009 6:18:30 PM
I understood her desire to help, but I am MONOGOMOUS. Even though it would have been just business to her, to me it would have been cheating. So it ended, because she wouln't stop suggesting it. She wouldn't consider a regular JOB. Those were for suckers, ugly women, and men

inego montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 49 (view)

When/if can you become friends with an ex? Posted: 9/30/2009 4:27:36 PM
When you no longer feel the "hook." As long as it's ther eyou will have problems

inego montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 78 (view)

Why do people pester a person after dumping them? Posted: 9/30/2009 4:26:43 PM
Your guess is as good as mine. And how about the ones that get mad and threaten your new GF, even though they are the ones that dumped you?

inego montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 44 (view)

Relationships and Pregnancy Posted: 9/30/2009 4:23:57 PM
You should take care of yourself and your baby and not worry about finding someone to sleep with right now. And if you wait until you find someone who really cares for you instead of a hook-up, it won't matter a bit

inego montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 168 (view)

Commit to a pot smoker? Posted: 9/30/2009 4:19:17 PM
Don't do it. Not worth the hassle.

inego montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 254 (view)

Strong opinions on pot smoking here and abouts; why? Posted: 9/30/2009 4:15:53 PM
It's illegal. Doesn't matter if it should be or not, it is. And if you smoke it every couple of hours you have a serious problem.

inego montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009

Msg: 22 (view)

Going back to the ex Posted: 9/30/2009 4:13:44 PM
At least 20 minutes.

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