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 Author Thread: How soon is too soon to exchange phone numbers?
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
How soon is too soon to exchange phone numbers?
Posted: 1/9/2007 7:12:02 PM
u definately were NOT wrong, give it time...i find ppl who try get my number on here so quickly to be highly suspect. I question how fast they will move in other areas of a relationship. Then again I wouldn't wait too long either cuz that can be just as bad. But yeah I agree with u 100% I'd say give out ur number when u feel it's been long enough and ur comfortable enough. There's no real rule of thumb limit.
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
any suggestions?
Posted: 11/7/2006 11:23:27 AM
I like to do an activity that lets me know how fun my date can be...u know let loose with some type of physical activity in the park...at least that way if she acts like a wet blanket I know she's not the one for me...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Ever been influenced by TV in your dating style?
Posted: 11/7/2006 11:18:36 AM
The lessons I have learned from tv have molded me into the smooth romantic gentleman I am today...god bless u television!!!
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Why do some guys think we can't handle it...Double Standards
Posted: 10/24/2006 8:29:37 PM
If a girl wants to bend or break the rules she better consult me first...if I agree to her proposals then all is fine and well...if I disagree, I reserve the right to take my balls and go home...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Do the comments you post in forums help your search?
Posted: 10/24/2006 8:24:08 PM
I guess it really depends...anyone who combs through my comments will find a plethora of different opinions I have given...they can range from being sweet n witty, to being weird and goofy to being aggitated n moody to being almost cruel n uncaring...some ppl need a pat on the back and some ppl need a swift kick to the butt...if anyone only wants to consider the good things I have said that's their problem...it's also their problem if they only consider the negative things I have said...I'm not a one dimensional goody two shoes nor am I a heartless prick so if any prospective females live their life in black n white I'm better off without them
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
At peace
Posted: 10/23/2006 5:33:18 PM
I can see the merit of what everyone on here is saying...person A may be saying that they aren't going to worry and be down n out over being single for an extended amount of time...while person B may be saying that everyone wants to find and be with that special someone....I know many people have to find reasons to be single and therefore fall in and out of new relationships with the changing of the tides...I've always been the type of guy to want reasons to be in a relationship and therefore find I'm single for very extended periods of time...I am happy and content to be single but that doesn't mean I don't want to find some awesome woman to be involved with it just means I'm not gonna live my days worrying and being sad about it...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Still single? I can help!
Posted: 10/23/2006 5:14:10 PM
Your thread has struck a few cords with me...first I totally agree with u...for the guys who post the whiny "oh no body likes me cuz i'm not thin or tall or good looking...waaaa waa waa", at first I use to post them some positive advice on how to improve their situation but the next couple days they're right back at it, they're whiny pathetic attention whores and i am also sick of it.

As for the rest of your comments....u say that u have some "baby fat" but that you look "damn sexy"...okay here's the first problem, although it's great to have positive self image u are NOT damn sexy...the first thing ppl on here need to realize is that they aren't going to be sexy to everyone on here (okay some of the really georgouse ppl are going to be but they are few and far between...). So let's take off the rose coloured glasses...

Another thing u state is that u get "maybe 10-12 emails per week"...am I missing something here??? u get that many emails a week and u can't get a date??? it sounds like maybe YOUR the one who needs to be taking your own advice (u know on the how not to be so picky looking for the calvin klein chisseled abs type of guys)...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Poll: How do you want your rejection guys? A.Just delete me B.Lie to me C.Be blunt D.Kill me softly?
Posted: 10/8/2006 4:47:09 PM
Ladies just be blunt...I'm a big boy I can take whatever u can dish out...I think people are their most real when they don't care and just want to be blunt when turning me down...hell I can't hold that against u now can I???
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
So Is Dating Fun For You? Why Even Date At All?
Posted: 10/4/2006 8:50:02 PM
^^^^^^@ spacemanmoron

Yeah he asked for personal experience but he also turned this thread into an ATTENTION/PITTY seeking one as well...if he doesn't want advice or to face the facts then he shouldn't act like such a whiny dork over it...loosen your waders their cutting off circulation to your brain country boy;)
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
So Is Dating Fun For You? Why Even Date At All?
Posted: 10/4/2006 7:27:33 PM
Listen warrior, pretty much every other guy on here is experiencing the frustrations ur talking about..hell even a handful of the ladies are experiencing this...it doesn't matter how good looking or rich u are, it doesn't matter that u'r the coolest most awesome person ever many ppl on here will always be callouse and choosy...always be scared of meeting in real life...always be playing a fantasy game where they hold the cards until someone calls them out on their B.S...just get better at weeding ppl out...theres good women on here but they are always gonna be outnumbered and pushed into a corner by the undesireables...don't place ANY high expectations on dating sites, get better at weeding ppl out and you might actually gain something from it...good luck
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/4/2006 7:18:49 PM
Hmmmmmm now I may be younger then u sir but if that same situation happened to me I would deduce that she's either a b****, a SNOB or perhaps a paranoid schitzophrenic who needs her meds refilled, then again she could just be trying to give u the good ole read between the lines blow off
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 65 (view)
 
What makes you feel the WARMEST?
Posted: 10/4/2006 7:01:53 PM
Gazing at each other...near a fire...that does the trick
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
It's Just Lunch
Posted: 10/4/2006 6:58:05 PM
Yeah and if you think that is pretty sketchy wait till u find out 90% of your "lunch dates" actually get paid by the company as models/actors...schemes schemes schemes!!!
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
when its over.....
Posted: 10/4/2006 4:11:11 PM
I think every one male or female has had at least one of these happen to them...I think stupid shit like this occurs when 1) ur ex was always like this with lies and vindictive personalities but they chose to keep it under wraps and only let u notice it in constrained doses ...2) the person who dumped them did it under really stupid circumstances or dumped them in such a harsh. uncaring way that due revenge (as stupid a level it drops to may be)is called for...

The best advice is to cut ur direct ties with her and ignore her...easier said then done I know but it's the only way really...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
I am not sure if it's wrong, Please help me
Posted: 10/1/2006 7:15:52 PM
I don't want to put all men in a box so I'll just say for me personally when both ME and MY LADY stop seeing other ppl (as in trying to find a love/sex interest) is when it becomes exclusive...period end of story

btw: ppl make sure ur "playing the field" and not "playing yourself"
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
taking the plunge
Posted: 9/30/2006 7:24:25 PM
Here's a pointer grow a spine...ur almost 30 freakin years old lady
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
He sent me pictures of his baby.
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:09:54 PM
I think u should ask HIM what the heck he was trying to do not a bunch of pof members who could give a rat's ass...DELETE
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
feeling awkward
Posted: 9/29/2006 7:02:29 PM
How this didn't get deleted as being a pitty seeking thread is beyond me...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Am I Wrong For Replying To Women I'm Not Interested In?
Posted: 9/29/2006 6:03:37 PM
I think the answer really depends on the circumstances...I always chit chat with a woman who send me an IM even if it is just short n boring cuz I have no interst in knowing them...MANY of the girls on here dont send men IM's so I appreciate the women who do send me IM's...then again if a woman sends me a really CRAPPY email (i think we all know what im talking about) and I'm not interested I just delete it (no responce is still a responce)...then again if a woman sends me an email which they obviously put some thought into I ALWAYS rspond even if it's to let them know I'm not interested...

I say u should put in effort where effort was put in originally :)
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Meeting people OFFLINE, in the REAL world...What do you do?
Posted: 9/23/2006 6:05:46 PM
Post #7 is actually onto something...honestly a hell of alot more ppl would be out and about striking up conversation with attractive complete strangers if only they knew they were freakin single!!! Sure a wedding ring means they aren't married but that's only 1/2 the story...

In the future I'm sure there's gonna be a piece of technology that will eliminate this predicament...I'm gonna buy stocks in the company when they do
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Has the telephone become obsolete??
Posted: 9/23/2006 5:37:14 PM
Personally I don't like talking on the phone if we can just do it on msn...sure the occasional phone call is always nice too but I'm talking for the most part here...msn isn't intrusive like a phone call is, it's more convenient and i like convieniency I find...

If u feel strongly about wanting to talk to him on the phone TELL him this...chances are he won't make a big deal about it...a woman wants what a woman wants sometimes...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Confidence vs lack of confidence
Posted: 9/23/2006 5:22:27 PM
I don't know how men in their thirties and up still suffer from this syndrome...the thing about confidence is u have to grow and mold your personality to fit a suitable level of it...if grown men STILL don't have it I wonder how much freakin hope there is for them...

I dunno...food for thought I suppose
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
How do you cope with rejection?
Posted: 9/23/2006 5:11:43 PM
Gallon of chocolate ice cream and the playboy channel does the trick for me...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
40 faves and no testamonial...is something amuck? [CLOSED - Discussed in Help Forum]
Posted: 9/21/2006 3:44:52 PM
So u'r browsing the profiles and spot an interesting one that catches ur imagination...ok everything sounds (looks?) good enough, nothing giving u any major red flags...then u have a look-see at the bottom and notice this person has been added to many LOCAL (or close to local) favorites lists ("many" being whatever U consider to be in ur books i dont care)...and yet this person has NO testamonials (they have also been an ACTIVE member of this site for a considerable amount of time)...what gives? surely they've talked with enough ppl that someone can vouche for them on here??

So what do u ppl think does that arouse any suspicion about their character or motives on this dating site...do u give them the benefit of the doubt??
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Several Questions
Posted: 9/21/2006 3:31:16 PM
Take into account that there are MANY MANY men and women on here that are already in a commited relationship using this site...wether it be for a "fling" on the side or they're just stuck in a hatefull, loveless relationship and want to play "house" with someone online.

Then there are the FAKIES we have to deal with...u know, fake pics, men pretending to be women and vice versa just looking for some type of "kick" on here.

Then there are the NUT BARS as I affectionately call them...stalkers, child rapers, sociopaths...what have u that are thrown into the frey.

Then us fellas have to deal with the ppl who think they're miss "god's gift to hot men" which seem to want to settle for nothing less then a Brad Pitt look-alike (even tho she's mediocre looking at best)...

So there u have it ur answer in a nut shell...the only reason I stay is because I find it entertaining and there really are some awesome women to meet on here U just have to seperate the CLASS from the TRASH :)
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Doesn't anyone have a social life anymore?
Posted: 9/18/2006 7:48:57 PM
Get OFF my dating site u damn kids!!!!...LOL
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Do I call? What would you do?
Posted: 9/18/2006 6:03:29 PM
Coming from the mans' point of view...if I tell a person I've been corresponding with not to call me, she better damn well NOT call me...I hate that and it really sends red flags my way about her...is she clingy? too needy? doesn't trust me worth a damn? does she start getting panicky and worry about me over nothing? Ladies I'm an ADULT ur an ADULT if i choose not to get in touch with u for a while leave it at that (it's my choice)...if u aren't cool with that find a guy that will...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Men paying for the sitter ?
Posted: 9/15/2006 9:32:42 PM
Just when u think u have read it all...this is the most retarded question a mother with kids can ask of her date...what next? do u want me to reimburse u for the wear and tear ur high heels will endure on the date? LOL get a life...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Whats it mean when she says You scared me
Posted: 9/15/2006 8:42:20 PM
The fact of the matter is u did NOTHING to scare this girl. Congratualtions u just met one of the many NUT BARS me , u and every other guy has to weed through and deal with in order to find someone who has their stuff together. Don't dwell on it, trying to make sense of the crazies will only make u confused...i wish u better luck next time
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Strike, strike, STRIKE!
Posted: 9/15/2006 8:03:42 PM
U see all those things as negative attributes...what are your positive attributes :)
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
False hope? or masterplan?
Posted: 9/15/2006 7:33:37 PM
This reminds me of one of those french erotic cinema movies where the girl will screw a guy in a freakin cornfield and as soon as its done she slaps him in the face and spits on him...very weird indeed...this girl is a LOSER move on dude...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
cruelness
Posted: 9/14/2006 10:46:59 PM
Some ppl suck..okay MANY ppl suck...your 28 years old just shrug it off cuz it has happened (in one form or other) to EVERYONE
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Do emotions mean anything anymore?
Posted: 9/13/2006 8:01:03 PM
Big bird has feelings coooooooooooooooool
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
He fell of the face of the earth!
Posted: 9/12/2006 10:02:19 PM
He was a ghost and some priest performed an ex-communicatus on his ass...case closed NEXT!!!!
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Lies, Lies, Lies ......
Posted: 9/12/2006 9:31:28 PM
Bad boys are ZERO'S get your self a HERO...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What are some pick lines in other languages?
Posted: 9/11/2006 9:33:53 PM
Why bother, we would just get shot down in a different language LOL
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Should we write negative testemonials?
Posted: 9/10/2006 8:58:16 PM
A member on here sent me a msg, which led to msn convos and eventually one heck of a blow up (not my fault i swear lol) where she admitted that she wasn't even single, that her "bf is an ***hole but he gives me money and F***'S me good"...ummmm lol okay...

Obviously I ended ALL correspondance with her...but I truly think there should be some type of warning system for all members. Kind of like on ebay (for those who ever use it) where ppl are given positive feedback, neutral feedback, and in some small cases negative feedback. I'm sure there's no fool proof way to impliment a non-revenge type of scenario but it's better then nothing right?

Just because a member has 5 positive fb and 7 negative fb doesn't mean I won't converse with them, but it will sure as hell make me be more on guard for their potential b.s games...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
How many EGGS do you have in your basket??????
Posted: 8/29/2006 10:29:53 PM
don't put all ur aggs in one basket ppl!!!!!!!carry multiple baskets lol
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Some tips for the fellas who can't get any responses (used to be me.)
Posted: 8/29/2006 9:06:48 PM
OP very good advice dude!!!! And I'll throw my own 2 cents into the advice pool...guys don't just message every pretty face on this site...send i'm's and messages to ppl ONLY after u have read their profiles and u truly feel some type of common ground, send messages to ppl without pics as well,,,i'm a fairly attractive guy and i do not want to post my pic I feel many ppl withour a pic also have a good chance of being attractive.

Of course some ppl say u have to play the numbers game send to everyone and everyone I just think thats a waste of time n effort...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Drinks, Snacks and Karaoke - Regina Sept 2nd
Posted: 8/22/2006 6:42:47 PM
Seeing as how many lovely ladies are suppose to be attending I'll jump off my lilly pad and mingle for a night!!!!!!!!
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Ever Feel Invisible?
Posted: 8/10/2006 11:34:47 PM
Is this a "cry for help" scenerio??? it sounds like u are very sad and depressed OP...I hope u get some help
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
alienation
Posted: 8/10/2006 11:31:35 PM

What do you guys think?


Stop dating aliens and stop eating the ganja mon...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
meeting women at the gym?
Posted: 8/8/2006 6:34:24 PM
U ppl are communicating with a butt...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Am I toast?? What should I do?
Posted: 8/6/2006 7:06:42 PM
What is she still in highschool????? If she has no intention of getting involved with him again what is the big problem that is affecting her to be more distant from u???is she wallowing or something...sounds like shes trying to play u for a sucker be careful dude, be very careful with this one.
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
People NOT To Hit On
Posted: 8/4/2006 1:45:24 PM
I never approach women who look like they are angry or agitated, it's kind of hard to describe but if she looks like she really doesnt want to be there let alone be approached I don't bother. I guess if ppl want to be approached they should look like they're reasonably happy!!!1 I also don't approach women who look like they are in a rush or are flustered :)
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Usery? What nerve! (LONG)
Posted: 8/4/2006 1:39:30 PM
Way to go dude!!!!!!!!!!!!!! U give us fellas a good name not lending her the cash. First of all who the hell cancels a meet with short notice AND requests to borrow money from u wtf??? My natural curiosity would have made me question 1) what the emergency really was and 2)How much money she needed...then I would have told her to piss off...congratulations
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Some advice, but preferably not the cliche stuff I can think of myself.
Posted: 8/1/2006 6:55:14 PM
If you don't want cliche advice don't post a cliche problem ;)...

Why is it ppl come online and expect the rules of engagement (in a dating sense)to go out the window???

Would u really want some lady jerking u around if u met her from offline? okay then why would u let her jerk u around just because u met her from online?
I'm younger then u but your still a rookie here and this was your first rejection experience.

Lesson 1) Don't trust no one on here, period!!!! by all means u can give someone the benefit of the doubt if their excuse is good enuff but don't let them play u like a fiddle.

Lesson 2) Never be afraid to get to the bottom of a problem, if something just doesn't seem right to you call the person out and see what comes of it...be DIRECT.

Lesson 3) Don't post long ass threads on here. Wait until u have a clear and concise mind...

And I know all u really want is something called "closure"...well buddy she doesn't like u enough to answer ur calls or emails I'd say lick your wounds and move on. In the end you'll be that much smarter that much quicker that much stronger and possibly that much jaded lol welcome to online dating !!!!!!
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Have we really become so jaded that its now ok to do this?
Posted: 7/30/2006 8:42:19 PM
Hey OP how the heck did u deal with that situation when she showed up at your front door??? sheeeeeeesh scarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry...
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
When you told the guy your not interested, and then you regret it.
Posted: 7/30/2006 7:18:39 PM
sounds like you don't know what u really want in a guy...take some time to find out
 99regina_stunner
Joined: 3/28/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
What is up with THIS girl???
Posted: 7/30/2006 7:15:36 PM
Well after reading this post 2 things come to mind. Seems like u are more then well versed at "playing games" that other ppl start. Good for u not many guys can do that. However the more mature route is to just sit her down face to face with u and express how u feel about the situation, lay down ur rules and expectations to make it clear as day to her. If she crosses u again...like u said just be friends with her. If however u both wanna keep up the drama and the games...hey it's ur life dude.


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