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outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

Msg: 644 (view)

guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 3/5/2007 5:13:22 PM
Yes, I dated 2 different guys that were not into blowjobs. The first one was into too many other weird shit, like suffication, being tortured, so that explains alot, lol. the other guy wasn't into them for other reasons, he was very self consious about the whole thing. I did manage to sneak it in a time or two, but he was very uncomfortable about it. However, he did enjoy it, but.....next time I tried, he wouldn't let me again. so........if u have other things in common, and enjoy the sex, just go with the flow, and he may change his mind eventually.

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

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Is What He Is Saying Real Posted: 3/2/2007 5:55:38 AM
watch out for players, lol, wasted a year of my life on one. Not sure how he can love you if u never even met. I fell for alot over the year, believed things and turned out to be all lies. He would tell me he loved me one day and then I wouldn't see him again for 3 weeks or more. found out he was still seeing other women. So just be careful.

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

Msg: 66 (view)

Sexless Dating Posted: 3/2/2007 5:41:34 AM
I don't think sexless relationships work too well, there is always the need, HOWEVER, if I was in love with the guy and something was to happen that we couldn't for some reason, then I would stand by him and go without, but if there is no medical reason, than whats the point of going without? Not sure why anyone would want to go without.

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

Msg: 39 (view)

Am I playing the fool? Posted: 2/28/2007 4:02:22 PM
Same thing happend to me. Wasted a year of my life waiting around for him. He would tell me he loved me on day and then I woudn't hear from him for 3 weeks. Took me a year to realize I had no future with him. You will reach that point, my advise is to move on. Easier said than done though. But everyone deserves to be happy, and sounds like he is just using you. RUN!!!

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

What's Going On Here? Posted: 2/28/2007 3:57:03 PM
RUN!!! Don't waste any more of your time. Life is too short. He probably has a wife somewhere. I know this from experience.

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

Msg: 92 (view)

which crossed the line?std or the lie? Posted: 2/28/2007 3:43:13 PM
I can see wrong on both parts. I was NOT acceptable for her to not tell you about the std before u had sex. however, if I was with someone and things were going great and I found out he was still talking to ppl on the site, I'm not so sure I would want to go any further in the relationship. But if u would have explained that u still talk to friends from before, before she found out from a friend, things may have been different. Just my opinion though

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

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confusen.. was i just used.. Posted: 2/28/2007 6:33:25 AM
sounds like he has issues, however, u spent the night on the first date???? that could be some of the problem. U have to make them work for it girl, lol. If he was looking for something serious, spending the night right away just showed him that perhaps u could spend the night with anyone. I don't know about anyone else, but.......sex is 1000 times better when its with someone u have feelings for. Wait it out and no more spending nights on the first date.

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

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Musicians- good guys or bad guys? Posted: 2/28/2007 6:26:05 AM
its hard to date a musician, simple reason is, that ppl tend to be attracted to them when they are up there playing, and we all like attention, so......u really have to have a major trust in the person. Very easy to be playing and drinking and loving the attention and ending up sleeping with a groupie, just cause it felt right at the moment.

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 2/28/2007 6:22:54 AM
well depends on how much older u are talking about. In my case, have had a young guy contact me, but.....seeing that my son was the same age as him, it just didn't seem right. Nothing personal at all, just sure my son would have had a few things to say about it, and none of it good, lol. But if its only like 5 years, then not sure what the problem is, except they probably have had a few bad experience with someone their own age or younger. Don't give up, there is someone out there for all of us.

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

Msg: 29 (view)

How long should I wait? Posted: 2/28/2007 6:17:44 AM
thanks everyone for the input, just to let u all know, I heard from him just a few hours after posting this. Keeping my fingers crossed that this is the guy for me! So far , so good!

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

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How long should I wait? Posted: 2/27/2007 5:56:17 AM
Hi, just met a nice guy from here. We talked a few weeks before meeting. Just met a week ago, went well. He asked if we could go out again. I was thrilled!! Now its been almost a week since I heard from him. Is it acceptable to call him just to shoot the breeze or should I just wait for him to call again? Really liked him alot, but I don't want to scare him off by calling? Does a guy like being persued or would he find it pushy to call him?

outburst969

Joined: 3/29/2006

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What is it about me that scares people? Posted: 2/27/2007 5:47:15 AM
Not sure, but.....too bad u live so far away, lol. Have been looking for a guy with a big heart and shows his feelings. Now days its super hard to find a guy like you. Most are just looking for a one night stand or are married. Hope everyone is having better luck than I am.

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