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Impune

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Concerning My Matches help needed. Posted: 1/28/2012 10:04:58 AM
Aaaaaa got you, Thanks "Mr.TIGER It's appreciated, thank you for your time. Therefor some I only have one Intreast while others I have 3 ect.,

Impune

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Where did I go wrong.... Posted: 1/28/2012 9:58:50 AM
OP you Assumed, and thats the problem Ici. Was there an offer and acceptance like a Poster pointed out??? Like the say if you assume you usually wind-up making an arse of yourself. A well better luck next time around.

Impune

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Concerning "My Matches" help needed. Posted: 1/28/2012 9:46:25 AM
Hi on my main page when I click on My Matches I see all these pictures of Women. at the Bottom of each Picture I see On Line or Chat then next to that you have Numbers ( 1 ) or ( 2 ) or ( 3 ). What does the Numbers mean???? Thank U FR YR TME

Impune

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I'm lost/stunned/confused.. Posted: 12/2/2011 6:18:11 PM
Op wow yuepe paragraphs would of helped, Lmaoooooo. Op even though you missed the boat, you might just get onboard. You got to take the Bull by the horns, stop all that what ifssssssssss and ask her directly, you'll get your answer instead of all this aggravation and irritation.

Impune

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Anyone seen a key laying around? Posted: 12/2/2011 6:07:05 PM
OP we all need time to reflect, an assess the damage, in certain cases carnage, Lol, some relationships can emotionally and physically drain you. Think posative and clear your mind of all negativity, however there's no guaranties that the next relationship won't wind-up going of the rails again even if you take years before you move on to Mr. Next. As the British state, " One has to develop a stiff upper lip and move on in live". OP your not weird just being a typical woman, best of luck.

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

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Has anyone had a happy succsessful long term relationship where.... Posted: 11/30/2011 8:54:47 AM
Op Has anyone had a happy successful long term relationship where Yes Op they all lived happily ever after 6++ years back on POF again and again, in hindsight it's, probably the longest stable relationship many have had, Indeed. OP your question is on this site or many others, many do meet, windup having sex. some want commitment others don't. Some fined great Sex, however according to confirmed sources many are one hit wonders only lasting a few minutes, Yes I know dreadful and frustrating.

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

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I have a question... Posted: 11/28/2011 4:19:48 PM
Op your getting all irritated for Nada, sheeeeeeeeee so they stop talking to you, consider it a blessing. It takes Two to Tango and if their not interested, suck it up like a big boy and move on instead of all that Crying in your Chowder.

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

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Apparently, I'm psycho Posted: 11/28/2011 4:11:58 PM
From your profile: "act like a man. If I wanted a questionable fag, I'd date a girl. They smell better, anyway. " Any man that wants to date you after reading your profile gets exactly what he deserves. I say go ahead and keep acting bat s**t crazy. You should meet my sister gets very psycho anal. Op stop the Prozac,

Impune

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Why doesn't he initiate dates or physical contact? Posted: 11/26/2011 10:58:03 AM
Op, This happened to me, she was so beautiful and foolhardily thought what the heck would she want from a bum like Me. I strongly felt she could fined some better and felt intimidated by her. She even asked if I was Gay after the 4th date. I tend to take it slow get my feet wet before I muddy the water. However on our first date I did ask if she would like to go out again at her desecration. The relationship lasted 6 years, however It could also be His not interested and your not turning on his crank!

Impune

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So, do you think she's lying? Posted: 11/26/2011 10:42:15 AM
OP I think you have a serious malfunction Ici, and need to address this problem that will surely affect you in other relationships. What's good for the Gander also applies to the Goose. I Think you have trust Issues, and I agree with many that have posted. Therefore OP your SOL!

Impune

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Getting Off POF Posted: 11/25/2011 8:27:58 PM
are you serious? you cant see how wrong it is for a married woman to be on a dating site? Like i earlier said " your in or your out". Make a committment. The poor man is asking about what your talking about because he is too nice to tell you to get the hell off here and is concerned about what or who your talking about/with on here. Give the man a break and give him the attention he deserves. DELETE as you are already in a relationship! Hmmmm your logic, does hold some water however my lovely bundle of joy this is not only a dating site. The forums are for open exchange of what ever between individuals. Per-say you got Married and U have Male friends u established a relationship through many moons, that means your going to Stop talking to them just because your in a relationship? If I ever got married, {great Scots I'll probably need a shot gun wedding, lol.} I would never ask her to stop contact with nobody or even ask her to close her accounts on any site or open forums it would be considered bad form indeed on my part. If her profiles states shes still looking

Impune

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Need advice Posted: 11/25/2011 5:38:30 PM
People can be so mean.i ask advice told get a grip.i know how women can be as well as men.There is no stupid question or answer. For all I know the woman is saying that because she feels that is all men want. First to POF community way wasn't this removed, a double post same thing as ask a Girl????? Now OP, two women on POF which to choose, decision, decision first I hope both don't fined out or you'll be whistling dixie solo. as for people can be mean just because U ask for advice. what can't take criticism or you can't handle the truth? Mean this is nothing now go in your chowder.

Impune

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How to get my ex girl friend back and where i went wrong. Posted: 11/25/2011 5:24:45 PM
6 pack OP U ever heard the expression you can lead a horse to water, however that doesn't mean its going to drink it. In your case just get a big club hit her over the head and drag her to your cave. I'm sure shell want you back after she wakes-up with a big bump on her head. I'm sure the 6 pack young buck will get it sooner or much later.

Impune

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girldfriend goes backstage with band Posted: 11/25/2011 11:29:35 AM
Cocksucker Blues Drugs, Sex, Drugs & Rock 'n' Roll (and drugs & more sex) I'm Bored. How About Some Sex & Drugs? Filmmaker Jim Jarmusch, commenting on****ucker Blues, called it "definitely one of the best movies about rock and roll I've ever seen. . . . It makes you think being a rock and roll star is one of the last things you'd ever want to do." Amen to that. One has the feeling these guys are soldiers, waiting for the next battle, the next opportunity to feel alive. In the meantime, there's the tedium, confusion, boredom, and good old angst & ennui of being locked into a big money, big stadium, big everything rock tour. Director Frank unblinkingly reveals these patterns of unrest behind the Stone's bulletproof window of fame, showing us the ever-present drugs and groupies, Keith Richards' addiction to heroin, Mick Jagger's problems with the high-maintenance Bianca (who looks like Sade at a Nirvana concert) and, most interestingly, just how adroit the Glimmer Twins are at concocting and manipulating their outlaw reputations. http://www.culturecourt.com/Ajo/media/CBlues.htm

Impune

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girldfriend goes backstage with band Posted: 11/25/2011 11:11:32 AM
It has everything to do with trust? When I was in my twenties I was married and had a job that required me to travel a lot, my wife at the time went out with friends to parties, bars etc... while I was away, it would have been very easy for her to have had "affairs" if she had wanted to. In all honesty I never once thought to question her on it, she would tell me about the things she did, men she danced with people (both men and women) she met etc etc.... See I trusted her, has nothing to do with her and what she did or didn't do, it has everything to do with me, I trusted her, so the thought of questioning her on her fidelity never entered my head. Still to this very day after 20+ yrs of marriage and divorce for 10+yrs, I still have never thought to question her fidelity while we were together. There is no such thing as "I trust you but....." Ok U can trust all U want, like they say S happens, and I seen it happened many times. "Trudeau" was married for many years with kids and his wife cheated on him with the Rolling Stones, even when he trusted Her and according to confirm sources ect this has happened to Millions of individuals in North America this year alone. I will not except any women to go out and Party with a man if she's with ME. Like I said it's not about Trust is about respecting the person your with. Like I stated No Women, I know which is thousands would except her man to go out with a women and party all night and comeback at 0.600hrs the next day. And nothing U say will change my mined, therefore my last post since this is Not my problem. It has nothing to do with trust as far as I'm concern, it has to do more with respect towards the person your with. So its ok if a man makes passes at your women, touch her, since U trust her however your not around to see and she's in that room for hours, now she's drunk or what ever and impressed by there statues or what ever. Yes thats why theres so many on POF, and the forums on men or women that cheated on them even though they trusted them. Guess your still in wounder land. C.U. Ok make a thread on ask a girl as see how many women would except that especially after their last boyfriend or Husband cheated on them, Lmaoooooo

Impune

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girldfriend goes backstage with band Posted: 11/25/2011 9:59:09 AM
And all that just adds up to not trusting her! You can either handle the relationship or you can't... If someone's going to cheat, no amount of control will stop them but too much will probably encourage them to...or leave. No if any women would of pulled that, I would of dumped her very fast. It has nothing to do with trust, its more about respect for the individual your with. Like lets put the shoe on the other Foot. Sweetie I know your working however I have been invited by A Girls Band to party back stage in the VIP, A yes your not invited sweetheart, however U can trust me. I'm sure the majority of women wouldn't have a problem with that, more Like Get a reality check. Your right, and your comment Holds water. No amount of control will Stop the individual from cheating. Treat others as U would want to be treated. Yes I'm sure all women Ici if they were in a serious relationship, would except Her man to go out with a group of women or just one and party for hours or till the Cows came home, Utter Nonsence. Lets get real Ici. However then U get the same excuse I was drunk they slipped something into my drinks, it wasn't love when he Tripped through the door and landed between my legs it was just sex and it meant nothing. You know what the next words out of my mouth would be ADBYOYO! Lmaoooo P.S. I seen more SEX, Drugs ect and lets not forget the passing around women in those VIP parties. Even drove many to the Hotel rooms. I have many close friends that are in bands or Promoters which I worked for them as Security in the VIP Rooms in those times!

Impune

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Girls in the Military Posted: 11/25/2011 9:26:35 AM
I was In the Army ect., and have also dated women that were in the Forces and even a Police women but that creeped me out so I dumped her. I get turned and motivated seeing women in Uniform especially if she's holding a rifle and shooting in my Direction. I would date a woman in the Military with no Issue, especially if I loved her and would understand if she had to be "Incountry". In Hindsight I can get a contract with any Security Force, or with all my Civilian Professional certification, therefore I would be able to be next to her, Its called unconditional love. That pic on My profile is me with a M-16 No airsoft Nonsence Lol

Impune

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girldfriend goes backstage with band Posted: 11/25/2011 9:10:33 AM
Many of U who responded have No Clue. I had VIP to backstage many times and U bet they Party hardy, ect. ect. Well OP you'll never know, however getting attention is one thing, partying in VIP with a Band is a complete different story, that's why They have Groupies to loosen the Load, Lol. Remember what happened with Pierre Trudeau's wife backstage with the Rolling Stones she got Banged by? and disappeared for a few days Lmaoooo. And No, certain workers aren't allowed in the VIP area unless U have a pass. U should of looked at her face when she came out of the Room and smelled her since when we have SEX there's a smell we realise that's very distinctive and our faces are???? I'll let U all think about that.

Impune

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Why do men disappear and then reappear and its a cycle? Posted: 11/24/2011 12:18:44 PM
Op its very simple, they get bored ect., wind-up fineding something new to play with once the novelty wears off or it doesn't work they go back to see if they can get some, until the next one comes around. This is the problem OP when men think with the wrong head.

Impune

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Getting Off POF Posted: 11/24/2011 11:34:54 AM
It would be considered good form and mutual respect towards your partner. However if your profile states your not looking and Ici for the Forums and friends that U made along the many moons ici, that should not be a problem. However many develop insecurities ect., like one woman I dated went ballistic just because she caught me talking to a Woman I new and thought I was cruising her. I dumped her Arse in no time, can't deal with all that nonsense. Age has no factor, just the individuals lack of trust and maturity ect.

Impune

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I dont understand Posted: 11/8/2011 8:15:38 AM
OP looks like your boy has a few screws loose, or was dropped on his head a few times. That sounds like split personality to Moi. I will suggest you erase him from your life completely, no need for trivial games. Time to move on OP and fined someone new.

Impune

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Do men wank? Posted: 7/28/2011 9:06:26 AM
Do Men wank? Or are we all Wankers? that's the real question Ici. In North America=USA CDN we call it masturbation or do you play with yourself ect. According to decades of research has concluded, It's perfectly Normal to wank male or female. In Hindsight your considered Not Normal if you don't. Therefore if no ones wanking your chain self indulgence is Optional and recommended. Future more any individual who claims they never wank is full of Hog Wash.

Impune

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How to get an ex back? Posted: 5/10/2011 8:16:09 AM
Long story but basically i was with my girlfriend for 2 years. We actually moved in and lived together for the past 4 months. Honestly everything was great and i saw no problems. OP You saw no problems however she did. After 4 months of living with you, she wanted someone else. Was it a sexual problem she left you, as you know the average man only lasts 5 minutes and a average size of 5.5". If a woman tells you OP that size doesn't count, shes lying through her teeth. One day she says we need to talk, which never is good news. She says she doesn't have feelings for me and loves me like a friend. I actually found out she was trying to get with a guy from her work and it didn't work out. She told me this. So this was a month ago. She had no feelings for you, however had feelings for someone else. That didn't workout I C and now you see an opportunity to get her back. We talk now and then but its simple talk. Would there be any chance of us getting back together? What should I do or how should I act to her if i really do want her back? Tell her you Love Her, can't stop thinking of feeling her genteel stroked caresses, that your maid for each other, yada yada, yada.

Impune

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You saw a light, I saw a freight train coming Posted: 4/22/2011 6:18:36 PM
I only posted this out of concern for a friend. There are no hidden intentions in this. I just needed some confirmation if I was doing the right thing. OP this all sounds fishy to Moi, and foolhardily think you wanted to do the Tango with her. However your SOL and the community confirmed that! You think 3 pages is allot, yes of wasted time.

Impune

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You saw a light, I saw a freight train coming Posted: 4/21/2011 3:44:35 PM
Any advice on this one besides me keeping my nose out of this and my mouth shut. I don't want to see her get burnt. Op we all get burnt in life, part of the game. Why go through all that aggravation unless you have ulterior motives in hand aka thinking with the wrong head. Yes the male in all species tend to have that behavioral pattern, indeed! You gave yourself the best advice, let lying dogs sleep. To the """Community"""" with all these threads we can write a book, guaranteed best seller! Call It,, """""""Relationship Issues That Need POF Tissues!"""""""""

Impune

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Which is worse Posted: 4/20/2011 2:17:26 PM
I love human stupidity It keeps me from having to spend $80 a month to get premium cable. Just come here and presto! You got that right

Impune

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Which is worse Posted: 4/20/2011 12:19:33 PM
OP, OP, OP,,,,,,, your friend tried to cut your grass I see, and in a childish rage of drunken jealousy you through her out on the street, guess you tough her a lesson she soon won't forget. Your both in the wrong! however if any women I'm dating excepts a number from a man and it's not business related then that means she's interested in him. It has nothing to do with jealousy or a possessive nature, like most woman would claim. It's all about respecting the other individual your with, and taking a persons number you just meet is not right. Yes I'm sure all the women in relationships if your man would receive a number from a Gorgeous looking women so they can just talk as friends and hag out ect., it's okay ! What bunch of Horse Waddell. The majority of women would snap and happened to me a few times and it was for work since I'm a Plumber. I would of told her It's over have no time for this immature nonsense and hope you both have a great time, Ici $20.00 for a Cab and good Bye.

Impune

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The Advertising Mindset Fails vs. Meeting IRL Socially for more Success Posted: 4/20/2011 11:17:13 AM
The mindset we bring when seeking love on dating websites seems to most always set us up for failure.. Blatantly advertising ourselves to love-seekers, most of whom we won't be compatible with, usually leads to hurt for one or the other, whoever feels rejected. Op even though you made some valid points I will disagree in general, online or IRL all the same. case and point look how many divorced individuals on POF. If you have Millions just on POF looking for relationships and the majority meet IRL their X's. How can that seemingly perfect-for-me person advertising for love with all those nice pics not see that I am perfect for them too? Who are they looking for if not me? Op since your part of the community on POF, I'll be nice in my response to you. We have a tendency as Humans to judge individuals to quickly or assume incorrectly and some have very high expectations of themselves. They look like a big impala yet they want to drive a Ferrari. Experience has taught that best results come from meeting people IRL at regular local social group meetups, where the mindset we bring is just to have some fun meeting some others with similar special interests. Nobody is advertising themselves as desperately seeking love, so we don't go with any expectation of finding a soulmate, or being theirs. My experience OP, IRL or Online we all try to advertise ourselves in order to attract a potential date or mate, or to have other individuals have a posative image of you. When we make friends over time in person, we are relaxed and more open to their differences, and seem to be much more accepting of them as friends or even potential relationships despite however many differences. That's not true and holds no water, case and Point MEeeeeeeeeeeeee! I'm relaxed and open all the time in other individuals differences, and will be same first time we meet or in years from now. What if I stated I'm a Gentleman, a very nice person, caring, understanding++++ ect. The majority Ici will say, you're full of $h!te Impune. Ok I'll prove it, I meet just online a Beautiful lady Ici and we hit it off the first time we chatted, I asked her if she read my profile? She did and saw through all my bull. I can start dating JC today if I wanted, however I believe she deserves better then me. Can you believe I would say that???? Don't believe go read her profile """""""zTenshi"""""" I left a MSG at the bottom read, Yes women that good looking and with a great body are attracted to Me. And thats just one of many, therefore don't assume to quickly, since sooner or later you'll wind-up make an arse of yourselves back on POF looking for Next.

Impune

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playing-VS-boredom Posted: 4/19/2011 7:55:47 PM
However, the truth is, according to statistics, married men live longer than single ones. So, the 'joke' is kind of a lead balloon. That's what I read also studies have shown that Married men live Longer, however my neighbor she's 83 and married 3 times and all 3 husbands died. I asked her if they're buried in her back yard. She smokes two packs a day and still shovels snow in the winter.

Impune

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She said, he said. Posted: 4/19/2011 11:42:07 AM
WOWwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, Op I have no comment, this seems to Wacko Jacko to Moi! Op your thread has a bigger hole then the Titanic, and looks like you sunk hard as the ship. I don't believe your story or your profile. however if it's trueeeeeeeeeee, You keep believing what other individuals tell you without Proof or sufficient evidence, you'll do all right in life.

Impune

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playing-VS-boredom Posted: 4/19/2011 10:27:45 AM
I seem to be meeting men that fit into 2 categories. OP. goes to show how poorly your informed, Stop Assuming. There are those who are charming, fun, great conversationalist, classy, intelligent and attentive. Sounds great, right? I am very attracted to this kind of man, the problem is that they are not looking for the one and only. The one and Only? Op you need a serious reality check! Seems your watching to many Girly movies or reading to many Romance Novels ect. It's more Like they're not attracted to you is more like it. They are players and want to keep on being players. The men that want commitment are the type that do not have anything to say if you take talking about their work or sports away from the choices of conversation. They are weak of personality, charm and imagination. They do not know how to keep a woman interested or possibly to not want to put the effort. They are couch potatoes and are not living, they simply exist. This sounds like a bunch of ??????? to moi, what utter nonsense! Looks like your a figment of your own imagination OP. I know I am making ‘generalities’. I am looking for the exception and will gladly eat my words if someone can proof me wrong. Where in Louisville, KY are the men that are interesting and also want a committed relationship? Op. I think your trying to bite on more that you can chew, or you just have very high unrealistic standards of yourself. However if you com across a man that interests you grab a Club hit him in the head and drag him to your Cave.

Impune

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Is it possible to be to perfect? Posted: 4/18/2011 6:58:27 PM
OP I laughed so hard reading your thread. Wow you must be joking, your to perfect utter nonsense, however i've heard many women claim their perfect. Op if your so perfect why do women you've been dating after awhile of being with you, make some of the oldest excuses just to get away from You? Look at all the Women's profiles Ici on POF, looking for a nice Guy, the perfect man, ect! And in hindsight no woman would ever stop a relationship because the Guy is to nice or Perfect, lets get real Ici.

Impune

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Need ideas on how to deal with this situation involving a girl Posted: 4/18/2011 6:40:26 PM
OP women in general are hot water, Cold water! You have done nothing wrong she's playing both sides of the fence assuming the Grass is greener and taller on his side, until she steps in $h!te and starts running in your direction. Just stop contact and stressing out over spilled milk, time to move On. Yes FB I heard more relationships get started on that site then POF.

Impune

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How to date an American man?? European woman needs help Posted: 4/18/2011 6:24:48 PM
On another note, I don't know which Eastern European country you come from, but Easter European young women DO have a reputation for being authentic thrill seekers and a lot of fun when it comes to intimate relationships. That sound about right to Moi, someone that's properly informed. On POF on the men's side we constantly get bombarded with adds, fined your Eastern Europe, Russian, Asian, Filipino ect. Mail order brides and they come in all shapes and sizes and by the Billions. I've been to Eastern Europe, Germany ect. and the Majority of women I crossed paths had no problems getting my whistle wet. Case and point of the thousand of sites that are available. Eastern European Women vs. Russian Women This article is a brief overview to finding an Eastern European bride. Increasing numbers of Western men from the USA, Canada, Western Europe and Australia are interested in finding foreign brides. Eastern Europe is a particularly popular destination for men seeking so-called mail order brides. Men looking for brides from Eastern Europe tend to head to either Russia or the Ukraine. There are thousands of women from Odessa, Kiev and other cities who are seeking Western husbands. In their rush to meet Russian or Ukrainian women online, many men completely overlook many other countries in Eastern Europe. Good countries for finding an East European bride include: •Latvia •Lithuania •Romania •Poland •Bulgaria •Romania •Czech Republic http://www.russiandatingsitesguide.com/eastern-european-brides.aspx OP forget the Gringo and move on to Mr. Next, like all North American women do. Just because you Kissed doesn't mean your exclusive, not even when your dating or Married.

Impune

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When is it considered cheating? Posted: 4/6/2011 8:35:39 AM
don't blame him for hating you. He was acting like any man that met a new woman and has NO IDEA where it will go. Nor was he in any way obligated to her after a few dates or phone calls. Then her 'friend' gets involved, the game is called baiting or setting up a sting which is exactly what you did. My exact sentiments, this sounds like childish poseved obsessive, behavior. I think It's time to Grow Up.

Impune

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Another Chance or too weird? Posted: 4/6/2011 7:23:29 AM
Met a guy online, seemed really cool. Met him for lunch, he was nice looking, polite, a gentleman, charming, etc. Op we tend as individuals in the process of first encounter tend to be more reserved or project a more posative outlook of our true selves. We tend to judge a book by it's cover before reading through the first chapter, and to quick to assume and cast judgement on others. You have to understand The majority of men when we're attracted to a woman, our first though, is to have sex with her. getting to know her is part of it. However there's a code of proper conduct if you want to get your muffin, sending 14 MSG and Pic's ect., in a short period of time, looks like your presence made him loose control of his senses, he got goofy, gogo gaga on you. Looks like a possessive, obsessive, control wacko, if that's your style of man go out and have a great time.

Impune

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How are you trying to improve yourself as a partner? Posted: 4/5/2011 12:31:03 PM
Humm 1-I learnt to stayaway from women's Issues. 2-Never tell them they look like they got Chunky. 3-I always tell them they look great when in fact they look like C. 4-Always let women get in the last word, no matter how much it hurts. 5-In an Argument always let her win, and tell her she's right dearrrrrrrrrr. 6-When we're out never look or glance at an other woman, wear blinders if needed. 7-Never give compliments on what other women are wearing. 8-Even thou she's always Late, never keep her waiting on a date. 9-When it's that time of the month, run for the hills. 10-If all fails remember there's many women in the pond, and she can be exchanged for a newer model.

Impune

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Male Gay Relationships On Dating Websites - Myth or Reality? Posted: 4/5/2011 12:15:33 PM
Male Gay Relationships On Dating Websites all kinds and it's Free for men Why not your sexual preference won't determine if you fail or suicide. I have Gay friends and there finding relationships or one night stands on a regular bases on Gay sites. You might even fined your soulmate, your Knight in shining Armour. your prince charming.

Impune

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How to date an American man?? European woman needs help Posted: 4/5/2011 12:07:50 PM
Impune, what the hell does that question have to do with this thread??? Friggen stew pit. She said nothing about meeting the guy and her family being paid a wad of cash to be a wife. Stop acting like the Americans she is describing. OP ~ This is not an American issue I wanted to undestand why she wanted to know how to date an American Man? Millions of Eastern Block women are male order brides, Care to see a few hundred sites???? That's why I asked the question to make sure, now Stop taking all those male Steroids It horrifically shows. OP American, Canadian, or any other type of Male or female that participates in sexual activity with multiple partners wouldn't be someone you take seriously, it's all same. Fined someone that's only interested in one person at the Time.

Impune

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How to date an American man?? European woman needs help Posted: 4/5/2011 7:56:27 AM
OP are you one of those Eastern block, Russian order Brides??? American you mean US or Canadian or Just US? Or are you looking for a green Card?

Impune

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Msg: 35 (view)

How to help a friend when she's stressed? Posted: 4/1/2011 7:40:59 AM
The rest of your post is making me laugh I know plenty of girls that once duped use a guy for sex until finding a decent guy... It takes one to know one.. Sounds like you`re an expert on this subject.. Have a great weekend... Let Moi be the Devils advocate Ici. Not only sex but financial security ect., studies have shown. They wait for something better Unless the guy is a Real Psycho and some do stick around for more abuse, we all read It in women's Mags, on those Whacked I got serious Issues morning shows, On Oprah ect. It's Like this, When things don't workout we have a short term leases with options to exchange for a different Model when the opportunity arises.

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

Msg: 103 (view)

interesting demand on profile Posted: 3/31/2011 6:31:52 PM
I'm Surprised at some of the Posts, News Flash it's Normal for individuals to people watch especially when there's an attraction, men and women do it alike since it's part of our natural behavior as a human species, have we forgetting ourselves. When we see something Human or ect. , Automatically non verbal thoughts linger in our minds in expression of the moment. The person is stating he Likes to express his thoughts Outloud with out having Griff and aggravation. And that automatically means you can do same with out having the Jealousy trip thrown at you. Now If he's drooling over them in an obsessive Nature then he's got Sexual issue especially if he ask you to join him at a female strip club, however known of many couples that have gone. So Women don't Look at men's Derrieres, Or men with nice sculpted bodies and get their knickers all in a bun, Rubbish! In España we have a tradition of mutual respect when we see a Beautiful woman we exclaim Guapa!

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

Msg: 175 (view)

Is he a racist or just sarcastic and rude? Posted: 3/31/2011 4:43:22 PM
I recently started communicating with this man from POF. I find him very attractive and funny. We have spoke a few times on the telephone. In a recent conversation, he referred to black men as animals, called them illiterate,ill dressed and he said, he really didn't like the species. That shocked the heck out of me. Since, clearly I am black... Well this sounds mighty White to moi! Or your story is very confusing to properly comprehend. He could have a split personality, however knowing your Black why would someone exclaimed this words?? The Old Boy has gone Mad, he's definitely of his rocker or he forgot to take his medication. No normal individual would clearly with conviction utter such words. I would stop all communication with this Red Neck Wacko.

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

Msg: 35 (view)

dating different cultures and its clashes!! Posted: 3/31/2011 4:20:21 PM
Friction will always happen in Families with certain backgrounds! Like Mormons, she told Moi I had to convert to her religion, ran faster then the wind. The word Soulmate is so missed used, hear women and men at 40-55 still looking for their Soul Mates. We're meant to have many partners in Life not just one, yes there are the rules to the exception. Many try to maintaining some ancient traditions and culture. It's part of our heritage, however as a whole the amount must have a balance in life. You can't force your religious beliefs on others just to maintain a Relationship. They always lead to issue and needless aggravation. In Many cases if your a Nice person your excepted you turn your back and heart ect., your partner their family will turn on you in the majority of all cases unless the other has done you something terribly wrong. Just my thought.

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

Msg: 57 (view)

Does she have the right to be mad? Posted: 3/31/2011 4:01:59 PM
Holly_Golightly1 on 3/31/2011 204 PM Subject: Does she have the right to be mad? Message: ^^^It was a joke.....talk about over reacting..... Yes I can be such a drama queen and Your post was confrontational, You did add your War Face, assumed I ruffled your knickers. My Apologies if this has caused you a bad rash.

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

Msg: 20 (view)

conversations between couples Posted: 3/31/2011 12:16:41 PM
^^Sorry, Impune, but there are men out there that are chatter boxes! I met one on here and he talked and talked and talked me to "death"!!! I wanted to "bang my head against the wall", and this is coming from someone who enjoys having a dialogue with a potential suitor/ppl in general. However, if he's like the "Energizer Bunny" on steroids; that's just a whole another ball of wax........... Señora Sabrosura or Sabrosa, for those that don't know what her user name means=== delicious, or tasty in my country we say Guapa! Your 110% right I also know men that are "Chatter Boxes" make no mistake about that. OP you need to fined a woman that talks allot just like you do, that would solve the problem.

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

Msg: 2 (view)

conversations between couples Posted: 3/31/2011 11:10:11 AM
OP you must be joking? are you trying to pull a fast one on the Community? Sorry Ladies for this comment and for generalizing. It's been my understanding women talk more then men do? She even dreamt that I was talking to her in a dream while she was trying to sleep and I wouldn't stop Have you been watching the Flintstones?

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

Msg: 24 (view)

How to help a friend when she's stressed? Posted: 3/31/2011 10:39:46 AM
Okay something you said just made me go" wait a sec bud?" you posted," she's overwhelmed with emails from people including YOU at times" Did you meet this woman live? or is this just a online thing ? clarify please.... Yeaupeeee thought about that also, to me sound like an Online thing. OP are you trying to cut some grass??

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

Msg: 53 (view)

Online dating sites becoming counter productive? Posted: 3/31/2011 10:32:58 AM
OP believe it or not I know 3 women from Montreal that found someone on POF and have been together now for over a year. There's even a Beautiful lady Ici that wants to meet me we've been exchanging MSG on and off for over a year, can you believe that, guess my profile didn't scare her off, and she saw right through my Bull, Lol. One never knows therefore be Optimistic and think posative.

Impune

Joined: 9/12/2009

Msg: 54 (view)

Does she have the right to be mad? Posted: 3/31/2011 10:23:35 AM
Holly molly this sounds like a Soap tv show, to Moi. It's "Holy Moley!" Please don't take my name in vain!! First your in violation of posting rules! Direct your childish comments to the OP not to me, whats your malfunction?? I know the expression is "Holy Moly, or alternate spelling with an E, I used "ll" now go blow that hot air in an other direction Holly Mollllly.

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