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 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Still love her!
Posted: 10/18/2009 8:31:31 AM
Hi guys this is my last post on this thread...to ****ing pissed off now and just want some last advice!!

I just want to know....should I now just stop trying... and also asking to meet up and things...she knows how I feel towards her.

Is is best to just let her come to me now...if she really has feelings...she does contact me when I leave her alone and sends me messages saying sorry not been in touch and asking how iam... just finding this so hard.

Been pulling lots of other women on nights out but still cant get her out of my head even when having sex!!

We have talked and she wants to see her friends and concentrate on uni and visit her family who have mnoved away..ive said thats fine but she knows I want to see her at times...is it best for me to stop asking to see her and whatever happens will happen.
 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Still love her!
Posted: 10/15/2009 6:46:19 AM
UPDATE!
Went for a meal with her lastnite...I asked her if she would like to a couple fo days ago and she said yes which was good...evening went ok spoke about uni, friends and work etc etc...Dropped her off at her house, didnt go in but would have liked to have stopped over she said she was tired and had uni in the morning, she gave me a peck on the lips and said thankyou for taking me out...

I messaged her this morning saying----Morning babe, nice to see you lastnite...have a good day. X

Just not sure what to do now? Should I let her come to me, dont wnat to chase or look desperate? I want to see her again and more often last time I saw her was 4 weeks ago...when I ended up stopping over and having sex!..






 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Still love her!
Posted: 10/11/2009 7:13:11 AM
At the end of the day I still want her back and i am still thinking of her everyday...we are still in contact we didnt have a bad break up at all....I let her be for a while then started meeting up again...I asked her in a text last week if she wanted to come out with me for a meal for my birthday next week and she said she would do....so I hope she does do!

We do still have the odd txt throughout the week and talk and she asks how iam...I always show I care which I do so much....

Its just I seem to be doing most of the initiating and making all the contact....I do send her messages like - hey hows you, hope your doing ok thinking of you...x...its nit as if I contact her every single day!!
 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Do girls like to be chased?
Posted: 10/9/2009 9:31:53 AM
Just a quick question for you girls on here.....
Do women like to be pursued all the time and do you like pursuing men...
My feeling are that if both a man and woman like each othere then it will be mutual and both will try equally!
 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Still love her!
Posted: 10/7/2009 9:50:51 AM
Thanks everyone...im gonna stop acting like a **** and just accept it...iam broken hearted and it feels like shit, real shit... I have been very low and unhappy for month...and its affected my personality big time people have noticed jusy going to havr to try the best I can and have no contact and block her out of my life...

I know it will be hard but I havent got the mental or emotional energy anymore to put up with this!!

If she contacts me I will reply but im not chasing any longer...its up to her now!!

Thanks guys and gals!!

xxx
 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Still love her!
Posted: 10/6/2009 10:07:52 AM
I get what everyone is saying on here with the main theme being stop the contact and everything with her....I will admit I have been lending her money because I said I would help her out...ive said its only because of my feelings for her Iam like this otherwise I wouldnt be.... she is flat sharing and studying at uni so its difficult for her financially........if there is no contact how the hell am I ever going to be with her again...it is hard because there is still some hope in me..

She is distant at the moment and hardly ever talks to me anymore and I dont conatct her everyday or text her at all but I do reply to her messages if she texts me im not playing games....i mean she never initiates me meeting up with her anynore either and we did this afyter we fiorst broke up and still had sex together.

I tried the no contact in the beginning but would send a message like....hey hows things hope your doing ok, thinking of you x

Ppl say further yourself go the gym, study...I play soccer to a high level 3 times per week and im beginning to lose interest in this..a sport I love...and im also studying myself at the min and working full time...just find myselkf thinkin od her all day everyday waiting for ner to contact me!!!

Why will no contact bring her back??

Im sorry for going on but appreciate the opinions of everyone on here...even if you all think im a sad fck!
 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Still love her!
Posted: 10/6/2009 12:50:10 AM
Got a text lastnite from her saying....hey, sorry havent been in touch, yeh im ok..thanks for helping me with my rent. x
 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Still love her!
Posted: 10/5/2009 2:50:48 PM
I just hate thinking of her with someone else...makes me feel awful...I have thought about her nearly every second of the day since we met..its unreal !
 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 74 (view)
 
How do you stop missing your ex because it's so hard...
Posted: 10/5/2009 2:33:14 PM
letting someone go is probably the most difficult thing on earth.
 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Still love her!
Posted: 10/5/2009 2:30:47 PM
letting someone go is probably the most difficult thing on earth. xx
 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Still love her!
Posted: 10/5/2009 11:45:01 AM
I understand everything you gus have been saying and I realise it.....I just cannot get her out of my head and its been 2 months now....I just cant cope and imagine her being with another guy...I did everything for her told her I loved her and was just generally a good boyfriend....

I text her lastnite saying ..Hiya you had a good weekend, what you been upto...thinking of you. X....

But still have no reply it seems she just doesnt care about me or is even bothered...I just cant help thinking about her and its driving me mad...if I cut all contact how will I ever know if we can get back together?

She knows I want her back and have strong feelings..why the **** do women do this ...I can get other girls but want her!!
 scottnoon
Joined: 9/17/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Still love her!
Posted: 10/5/2009 6:06:05 AM
My ex girlfriend has recently ended our relationship....but I still love her so much...cant get her out of my head and its breaking my heart.
I still try and text and call her throughout the week but she remains distant....how can I get her back? Is it best for me to just leave her be and come to me or should I try to get her back..

Would be true saying if she wanted me she would come back or not?

xx
Cheers scott
 
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